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What does it mean when a guy tells his friend "She Was Ripe And I Didn’t Have To Exploit Her"?
What did he mean by that?
I am a virgin,what is he talking about? (link)
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He is saying that because he thought a girl was ready and willing to have sex, he did nothing wrong in having sex with her - he didn't take advantage of her or exploit her.
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I know most people might say no, men shouldn't hit a woman back. But I think that if a woman thinks shes big enough to hit a man she should be hit back. I think that a man should only hit a woman in self defense. There are women out there that hit men when they get mad over something stupid and expect not to get hit back and sometimes they try to fight the man, while they expect him to do nothing but walk away. Im a woman and I think that if a woman hits a man she should be hit back. Just like if a man hits a woman for no reason she should hit him back. Im not saying that a woman should be beaten by a man though. Ive seen women hit men, bite scratch,threaten with a knife and chunk stuff at them. The man is supposed to sit there and take that? Most women arent as weak as people think they are.
Just wondering to see people's opinions...
If a man doesnt hit a woman back after she hits him, the next time they argue, she will try to fight and hit him, some women are vicious catty fighters..Im not saying she she get beaten
If a woman doesnt want to get hit by a man like Mike tyson, then she shouldnt hit him because shes mad, or over something stupid.
I'm a woman lol, just asking.
My cousin used to hit her ex. and he would never hit her back. the one time he did though, she never hit him again after that. Shes Grown up since then. If I was a man, I would treat her the same way as I would treat a man who comes up to me and hits me, I do not practice gender discrimination. but the point is everyone deserves to learn that lesson if theyre askin for it. Im not saying men should beat women, Im just saying she should get hit back.everyone who believes in genuine equality and responsibility should agree..
Men: if she comes up to you and hits you multiple times are you going to hit her back? cause that would be self-defense right? for someone strong like her
Women: Do you think if that woman attacked a man he has the right to hit her back? (link)
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No one has a right to hit anyone. Ever.
If someone hits you, that alone should end the relationship. Period. Women should not hit men and men should not hit women.
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I'm a dance teacher. There are three of us that teach at the studio. Two of us do not yet have our dance degrees and the other does, so she holds all the power. We have all become very good friends working together over the last six years and we very often socialize outside of dance. We also all work at the same restuarant during the summer and holidays when we don't have as many dance classes.
I feel indebted to our studio owner because I've always wanted to teach dance and she gave me that opportunity. Over the past four years she has been splitting her time between her boyfriend in Florida and the studio in Virgina. She has let the business slip and the teachers have taken on a lot of the business aspects that she should be taking care of without much appreciation from the owner.
The teacher with the dance degree has decided to open her own studio and wants me and the other teacher to go with her beginning next year. The owner decided to move to florida full-time without this knowledge. Since the move last month she has decided to ask us to sign a non-compete contract for two years past the ending date of the contract (May 2011). I understand her concern now that she's away but that's exactly the problem...she's away.
I feel guilty for not telling her what's going on and just letting her move to Florida without "warning" her of what's going on but it's not my place to tell her. I can't sign the contract because then I will not be able to work at the new studio. We are sure that over 90% of the students will follow us to the new studio but I will be making less money because she will be hiring an extra teacher. If I do sign the contract I'll be making far less money because the enrollment at the current studio will be almost non-existant. I feel like the other teacher is asking too much of me to not tell the owner and just expect me to go with her but that's what I have to do if I want to make any money (which I of course need to do to sustain food, clothing and shleter). I am feeling incredibly guitly and the owner is starting to ask questions about why we haven't signed the contacts yet. Help! What should I do. I'm stressing over this far too much. It's consuming my every thought and I have to talk to the owner soon. What do I say?
Thanks for your help! (link)
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I can well imagine the stress you are under!
I tend to resist things like "no compete" contracts on general principals, to begin with.
The owner wants to demand a loyalty that is not there because she is not there and she has been expecting extra work from people with no extra compensation. She wants to continue to receive a lot of money from this business while putting in even less time than she does now. She should sell the business, but she's trying to wring every dollar out of it that she can.
I think you should express your great appreciation for her giving you a chance, but explain that no, you will not sign this contract because you want to have all options available to you. The thing is, you have to be willing to live with her choosing to fire you if you don't sign.
Good luck.
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Well my girlfriend and i play with each other. but my dick did not enter. is it possible she get pregnant.a was just playing (link)
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Sperm outside of the vagina can enter the vagina and become fertilized, plus that sperm can live inside a woman for up to seven days.
If you are touching your penis and then her vagina and have pre-ejaculatory fluid on your fingers, it contains sperm cells and she could become pregnant.
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when i poop their is blood (link)
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Get thee to an MD.
Blood in the stool could be minor, but it also could be a sign of major problems. You need to see a doctor.
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so about a month and a hlaf ago my mom caught me on a couple of porn sites and took away my laptop i really need it since school is starting up again...does anyone know how i can ask for it back nice enough so that she will give it to me?? (link)
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Ask for it back.
Be prepared to agree to not looking at porn or having a "Net Nanny" installed.
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well, go out with this boy as yall know. tommorow is our first month anniversary. we talk on the phone but its allways at night time. && he is hardly ever texting me! && every time i bring it up he gets an attitude. i really like him a whole lot. imm falling in love with him. but im not used to talking to any of my boyfriend this less. && he thinks im cheating on him. its really not that bad but sometimess it iss. how can i tell him That i am not cheating on him and we should talk more and to trust him when he says he isnt cheating on me ? (link)
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If he is unable believe you when you say that you are not cheating, there is no trust, and there is no hope for the relationship. Break it off.
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Is it okay for a guy to finger a girl while she has a yeast infection? Has anyone done this? Would the guy know the girl had the yeast infection??
Anything you can tell me about this will help! :) (link)
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I am of the opinion that it is not OK for a guy to "finger" a girl unless he is married to her.
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me=15 boy=16 friend=15
My best friend was talking to me and suddenly she told me about my ex boyfriend texted her and they met while they were in the same store. My friend had thought he just wanted to say hi and ask how summer was going but instead he kissed her, grabbed her butt, grabbed her chest then licked it. She told him to stop after the kissing but instead he went on to finger her. she pulled his hand away and said stop but he just smiled and asked if she liked it. She said yes so he would go away. I told her she could file sexual assault, is this true? She told me not to tell anyone but I immediately felt like telling his strict mother who I am friends with. What do I do? I broke up with him while we were together because after 6 months I got bad vibes. How do I protect my friend from this creep? Thanks in advance! (link)
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That this happened is not your friend's fault. But if she continues to meet with him, and this kind of thing continues to happen, than she is partly at fault for meeting him.
Tell her that she should break up with him. Tell her that you want nothing to do with him if she continues to see him.
Don't tell his mother. As crazy as it sounds, they will accuse you of being jealous.
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My old crush wants to come to my high school. I have no problem with that but my best friends do. My crush and I had massive drama, like arguements, her making me jealous, she just played games but we never went out. so her and I are just friends now. Well I tell my best friends everything so they know about our drama, and they don't want her to come. They tellng me I would spend all my time with her and get hurt again. That's not what I'm looking to do though. And I have a feeling they will make me choose nd I don't want to choose. I want them to give her a chance because they're judging and they don't even know her. I'm not saying be her bestie but don't hate her just because you heard all bad sides. I don't know what to do or say when we get back to school. I'm sick of all the stress...please help! (link)
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Anyone who is going to try and threaten you to do what they want you to do, is not your friend.
Take it as it comes - she may not even be in your school.
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This girl wont leave me alone. She makes fun of me because Im mixed, my mom is Puerto
Ricans and my dad is black and mixed with chinese, she makes all these jokes calling me being poor and talking about how the UK is better and that shes all glamorous up there. shes keeps saying that I live in texas so I have to catch what I eat and etc, and she keeps saying she has a life but she wont leave me alone .All these insults telling people that I eat dog and saying that my eyes are too far apart and all of this is NOT true. She keeps getting on my nerves and no one likes her because shes racist, but she bothers me mostly because she knows it really bothers. Ive tried ignoring her but shes still doing the same thing. How do I get her to leave me alone? (link)
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Where are you inter-acting with her?
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I feel like my vagina is ugly.
when my legs are together my inner labia sticks out of my vagina lips, is that abnormal ? why does it do that ? how do i make it go away ? (link)
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It's just like belly buttons, some are "innies" and some our "outies". You are perfectly normal and it is not ugly at all.
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a guy i liked since the beginning of high school recently got a girlfriend. i used to think he was the cutest thing and now i just dont see it anymore. like i look at his pictures and i don't see the cutness i once saw. does this mean i'm getting over him even though i feel like i might fall for him again after i see him when school starts? (link)
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The more we like someone, the more attractive we think they are. You have had a crush on him and it may rear it's ugly head again when you get back in school, but it's just a painful emotional crush.
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My daughter is 9 years old and just came to me about having her first period. We have never had "the talk" about periods or sex and I'm not really sure how to explain this to her, especially since she's my only child. I didn't expect to have to deal with this with her being so young still. I helped her clean up and quickly ran over how to put on a menstrual pad but I am clueless as to what I should tell her about what periods are. Obviously she's curious why this is happening all of a sudden. What should I say to her? How do I explain periods to my daughter? I told her that we would talk about this tomorrow but I have absolutely no idea what I should say. Thank you. (link)
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I know - girl's are starting so much earlier these days!
Sometime, just the two of you sit down and have a talk.
"There is a special place in a woman's body where babies live and grow before they are born. That place is called the uterus - sometimes people call it "the womb." You were once in my uterus. Every month, your body gets ready for a baby to grow there. The lining of the uterus gets thicker with blood cells to nourish the baby, but if there no baby that month, the thickened liner thins out, and all those extra cells are released and come pout through your vagina, and you have a "menstrual period", but most people justs say "period".
"This is all part of your body getting ready to be a woman, which is very exciting! Everybody starts at different times, I didn't get my first period until I was a teenager but some girls are younger than you and others will start later."
You will probably want to insert some info about other changes, breasts, body hair, body order, but you have to read your daughter. She may be in overload and you need to discuss things later on.
Make sure that you follow up with her in a few days giving her an opportunity to ask questions or just go over the information again.
Use correct terminology, but also let her know some common terms your family might use.
A discussion on how a baby gets there can wait, but will becoming soon.
Be as matter of fact as possible. Keep this light and happy - you are largely setting her initial attitude about womanhood and her body image.
You'll do great! Attitude and love matter far more than facts.
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Does getting your period speed up the process of ridding marijuana from your system? Just curious... (link)
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No.
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I'm a 19 year old female, and I should be over this sort of thing. I'm very shy, and super sensitive about everything that happens to me. I probably read too much into things like little comments, but I can't help it. I instantly think that everyone hates me (even though I know they have no reason to). I can't take criticism. When I don't see my boyfriend for a day or 2 or if he doesn't call me, I feel sad and I cry because I feel like he doesn't love me since he hasn't called. If hes talking to someone else I feel like hes talking and whispering something about me, then I get sad and ignore him. If he yells at me because he says I want too much attention. I will cry, If he talks to me about it later then Im happy. I don't want him to leave me. There's been times when I think hes ignoring me because I just want to spend time with him. I have tendencies to become jealous very, very quickly; I get cry over everything; I push away my friend because I over react to everything. I get jealous when he talks to other people and ignores me. I dint want him all to myself, but I want him to spend more time with me. I get emotional over the most ridiculous things. I have now hurt my relationship with him, and I am at a loss for what to do. I need help. I get sad when he looks at other women or when I see one from his job, because I think he might like them. I just keep thinking he might wanna be with them, because they are pretty and have acne and scars. I don't bother him 24/7 and Im not always knocking on his door.
I dont get mad about things and throw tanturms, Im just mostly sad.
Then there are examples like today at the store, it was packed to the brim with people and screaming kids. It was all I could do to get out of there without losing it completely, and when I was at the register I asked the cashier if I could have 20 quarters for my 5 dollar bill and she refused saying that only place I can do that is to go to a casino. As a result, as soon as I got in my car I burst into tears. I don't even know why! She wouldn't give me quarters, big deal?
AM I really emotionally immature? (link)
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Based upon what you've had to say about yourself, yes, you are emotionally immature.
A little time in counseling might help you figure out why and what you can do about it. It also sounds like you have a fairly low opinion of yourself and your worth.
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I have problem with my older brother. He is 18, lives at home, and goes to community college. "Steve" also has a part time job where he earns little money. My problem is that he is lazy, rude, selfish, and inconsiderate to name a few things. He does almost no chores, leaves messes everywhere, and uses and steals my things without my permission. He gets defensive when ever I or my parents mention these things. He won't even look for his own place or a better job. Is there anything I can do? He is getting on everyone's nerves and I would really appreciate some advice.
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Get a lock for your door. Try and avoid him as much as possible.
It's clear you brother has some problems, but it is not your responsibility to solve them. It's clear he is not happy with his life, and he's taking it out on the rest of you.
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What does a guy mean when he says your too emotionally immature for relationships?
My boyfriend broke up with me because he said Im too emotionally immature. I don't get how he says im emotionally immature when Im more serious than he is. Hes the one that acts immature, he parties instead of worrying about college work and I don't do that. What did he mean Im emotionally immature? (link)
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When a guy says something like that it really means, "I want out of the relationship."
You are better off without him.
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I am a 24 year old female. About two and a half years ago my ex and I split. He was the only guy I really love, and it's still a day that goes by that I don't think about him.
And recently I just found out he got married. And I know that his family are totally against the wedding, they don't like his wife.
We haven't talked since we broke up but I still think about him. For some crazy reason, I can't get him out of my mind. I feel like theirs still could be hope. I know this really sound like a fairy tale, but I think it can happen
Am I wrong? Should I just forget about him? Or should I continue to have hope? (link)
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You need to move on with your life.
Meet other guys. Make a list of things you liked about this guy, and turn it into a shopping list to help you find guys with the same charastics.
Enter a new world. Volunteer, you willl meet a whole new group of people. Take a class, collge level or pottery or photpgraphy. Throw a big party - every guest is to bring a food item and an unattached person they think other people should get to know.
DOn't make him the center of you life and focus, you'll only get your heart broken.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half... I love him. I know I love him. We've been dating for a long time and we were friends for yeeeears before that. I know him inside and out, all his flaws and chips. The only problem is, he gets really really mad when I party. Which... okay. I know. I'm sixteen, I shouldn't be partying and drinking but still! I don't know... it's hard for me to argue it when he gets mad at me but I don't think he should control me. Ugh I just don't know what to do... My friends all party and drink so they'll say "foreget it, he'll get mad for a day and then get over it". Which is true but I hate disappointing him and making him mad when I know he only cares about me... I mean, I'm a teenager! He doesn't want to drink because he's working to get a football scholarship and can't afford getting caught. He doesnt' want me to do it because he's scared I'll get drunk and stupid and that he won't be there to protect me. Also he says its wrong... which it is. Gosh I don't know what to do!! (I'm sixteen/girl; gonna be junior, he's seventeen/boy; gonna be senior.) (link)
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let's make sure we have this right....
Your boyfriend does not like it when you do X.
When you do X he gets mad and dissapointed.
You agree that doing X is wrong.
So you both think that doing X is wrong.
But you want to keep doing X so that you aren't being controled by him.
...Which sounds like you are being controled by X.
Make up your mind. Very soon it will be "me or the parties".
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