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im not trying to choose! help me please
My old crush wants to come to my high school. I have no problem with that but my best friends do. My crush and I had massive drama, like arguements, her making me jealous, she just played games but we never went out. so her and I are just friends now. Well I tell my best friends everything so they know about our drama, and they don't want her to come. They tellng me I would spend all my time with her and get hurt again. That's not what I'm looking to do though. And I have a feeling they will make me choose nd I don't want to choose. I want them to give her a chance because they're judging and they don't even know her. I'm not saying be her bestie but don't hate her just because you heard all bad sides. I don't know what to do or say when we get back to school. I'm sick of all the stress...please help!
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Anyone who is going to try and threaten you to do what they want you to do, is not your friend.
Take it as it comes - she may not even be in your school.
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Hey there,
What I would recommend, is trusting your heart. You should not just dump this girl because your "friends" think that she is unworthy. If you feel that she deserves you as a friend, then be her friend. Everyone needs a friend and if your "friends" do not support your decision.. they may not be the friends you are looking for.
She could be the only person you need as a friend, if you can work things out. You seem to know who she really is, so when you go back to school tell your "friends" that you are going to hang out with this girl for a few weeks or more. Then do it. They may not like your decision at first, but eventually if they are friends, they will support you and include not just you, but both of you. Do what you know is right and once "they" realize what they have been doing... they will be likely to change themselves to accept others <3
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