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my two friends, "ally" and "laurie" are in a fight. i am REALLY good friends with both, and so i get together with each and equal amount. the only problem is that whenever i'm doing something with ally, she disses laurie, and whenever i'm doing something with laurie she disses ally. i obviously don't talk about either of them behind there backs, but i don't know what to do to get them to stop. plz help. (link)
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Whateevr you do DON'T pick sides. That could make everything go wrong.
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* i've been going to the same school and i have alot of friends.. but im moving and going to a complete diff. school for high school~ so i dont know anybody there! and most of the people that are going to be a freshman at the high school im going to have gone from a middle school to the high school so they like know everybody.. I dont know how should i approach people i know when school starts up... and i deffinatly wana have friends to hang out with for lunch or something but i deffinatly want to get into the right group- im a preppy kinda grl~ not geeky * * sorry if that affends ne one.. so please help me on this~ thanks! (link)
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I know what you mean, about getting into the right crowd. But can't you be freinds with everyone? That's what my cousin said, and she's going to be a Senior next year. I'm going to be a freshman to, and I won't know anyone, but your gonna get to know some people. Whatever school your going to, try to go some place public around there, so you can meet people. I'm the preppy girl to, but I like everyone. :-)
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HI Im a 14 year old girl and i told a guy I liked him right before graduation. we aren't very good friends but a friend of mine told me "he didnt want to ruin the friendship" and im pretty sure that is just an easy term for the words "i don't like you" but then at the dance two days after my friend told me the news he wouldn't stop convienently running into me and kept walking up to me like he wanted to dance but then would just say something sweet and walk away then he asked me to dance and kissed my hand. Was he just being sweet? Do I have a chance with this guy in high school? Is there a chance that he is thinking about me? And if so in a good way? (link)
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If a guy is that sweet, than yes i think you have a chance, but then again, if he was just acting sweet don't let it get to you. He could be thinking about you.
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hey, i'm kristen! i'm 13 years old and we live in a good town where nothing bad like eva happens. when my mom isn't home she doesn't let me go ride my bike around the good part of my town, or let any of my friends come over when she's not home. my mom never used to work in the summer but this summer she does. so far this summer all i did was go online and play my softball. my brother gets to go to all of his friends houses on our side of the block, but i'm not. he's 11!!! how can i get my parents to be less strict? (link)
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TRy to prove toyour mom that you are responseable. and to tell her how you fell.
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Hey all my friends think im a total weirdo cuz i love country music ! i dont think i am i only like the new stuff like keith urban and gretchen wilson i hate the oldies tho ! whos with me does ne one else like country music ! (link)
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Okay 1. country music, it's the best, the lyrics are soo true these days. Keith Urban he's awesome, and that new song "Redneck women" from Gretchen Wilson is hott. Who cares what your friends think, it's only music. I hate the oldies to. Shit, from singing country music so much, i'm starting to get an accent.!
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Hey I had a bf for about 2 months and he just broke up with me and i really want him back but how do i get him to take me back? (link)
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You had a boyfriend for 2 months, and he just broke up with you. Damn gurl, we are going through the same things. I want my baby boy back to, but you cant GET him to take you back. If he really wants to be with you, he'll come back. Tell him how you feel, hopefually he will listen. :-( I feel your pain baby girl!
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okay my friend and i were talking the other day and he was saying stuff like "BYE THIS IS GOOD BYE FOR EVER" and all this other stuff and im like what are you talking abotu seriously and then he sent me a picture of im guessing it was his arm and it had cuts all over it and he goes now times that by 10 im like wow okay then hes like your runing my death stop talking to be then he signed off the computer he has done something like this before but nothing like that serious and i talked to him the next day after but once this happend i haven't spoken to him in 2 days im kind of worried what should i do? (link)
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Worried. I'd be too. I'd be scared as anything. I would call him, or even get someone to talk to him. But if he is saying that YOU are giving him death thoughts, than stop talking to him, you don't want to be the reason he kills himself. He could be trying to get attention.
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wat do u do if ure friends b/f is flirting with u??!??!?!??!?!??!?? help me wat do i do!!!!??? quick!!!!! (link)
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If you think your friends boyfriend is flirting with you, ask him, maybe he could be interested. If he is, than he needs to tell your friend.
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My friend Marina cuts,smokes, and is threatning to kill herself. I've told her plaenty of times suicide is not the way, but she is not listening. Should I ignore her protests and contact someone? But who?
Please reply, thanks :) (link)
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Hey Grr, NO! don't ignore her protests. Tell your school counselor, because they keep things and they won't give away your name, but now that it is summer, the best way would to be tell an adult you are closets to. ASk your friend Marina why she wants to end her life? She still has a good life infront of her and she can party it all out!
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Ok...I have alot of body hair. It is dark too and it drives me crazy. My face is ok, I'm pretty good at keeping my eyebrows under control and making sure that I don't have any above my lip. But my underarms, stomach, chest, legs, back, bikini area.... theres dark hair everywhere and I'm really self conscious. It really bothers me and I have to shave every day. And then I get razor rash everywhere. And I don't know what to do. I feel really gross and ugly. Am I overreacting? (link)
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Hey. Everyone has body hair, if you have a dark hair color, most likly the hair anywhere else is going to be dark. If you start shaving at a young age, your going to produce more hair when your older. Try nair. To prevent razor rash, use lotion or baby oil. Baby Lotion does make the hair grow, but it gets rid of the bumps, baby oil is the best choice to go with! Your not overreacting.
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confused gurl,
next year me and my bestest friend are splitin up i am so scared that we will forget about each other i dont want that 2 happen.
HELP- =( (link)
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Hey Confused Gurl! No one want to lose their best friend, expesically if you are going to different schools. I know what you mean, I myself am going to a new school, and i don't want my old freinds to forget about me. So make plans with her on the weekends, or if your in high school there has to be football games you all can go to. Get to meet eachothers friends, that way all of you can hang out and have a good time! -Kimberly
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My X and I broke up again for the 2nd time and probably for the final time. But i still really like him but we didnt talk for a while there then he started calling me all the time but he woudl lie to me about where he would b and what gurls he was with to try to make me jealous. And it did at 1st until i got tired of it. I still really like him a lot and i wanna be friends with him but its sooo hard b/c i have such strong feelings for him what should I do? SHould i tell him how i feel? (link)
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Hey! Love sucks, i can tell you that. Boys are always trying to get us girls so jelouse, and then they try to "pimp" Try not to fall any of his dumb tricks. You should tell him how you feel, and be serious about it. Make him listen. :-)
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ok if theres someone that i like and i wanna start talking to him..what should i talk to him about?? like what types of things should i ask him & stuff..? (link)
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You could talk to him about, sports, find out things you both like to do. But try not to bring up the people in the past of your love life. Get the 411.
-Kimberly
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hey im katie (( female )) i weight 160 .. im also 5'6 and 14 .. i know im only supposed to weigh like 140 sumpthyn but i cant seem to lose weight i hate the way i look my parents are always giving me a hard time i cry sometimes because i cant be a size 5 or even a 7 or 9 i try so hard to diet and work out but nuthyn seems to work for me i get so depressed sometimes cause of the way i look i hate going to the beach and stuff with my tummy and i have the hardest times finding cute cholthes that fit meh right i always get stuck with oversized shirts i need help i mean i dont really have any questions i just need help to make meh feel better ;; much love Katie Sumner (link)
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Hey Katie!
The taller you are, the more you can weigh! Size doesn't really matter, many skinny people get called aneroize. Plus there are tons of plus size models, so theres people out there just like you! There is this new store that's in malls/comming to malls, for larger teens, and old navy is starting to have larger sizes in clothes. What kind of diet do you use? It could be that you don't stick to your diet!
-Kimberly
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ah. you and austin broke up? that's not anywhere near cute. you guys would always walk down the hall, looking soo damn adorable. his arm around you. and you just looking up. since hes so tall. damn girl what was it gonna be in july? 3/4 months? i hope you guys get back together. you were really happy with him, and you were never sad, well about him atleast. damn gurl i can't believe you two split. thats hard to picture you all. i can't even say anything. your such a pretty gurl, and you always had to get to know someone before you went out with them, and you got to know austin, but now i guess you have to start all over, (or not if you guys get back together, i think everyone would be happy :) ) but ya kno i have no clue. i feel your pain. but face it, it's summer, you can flirt around with other boys. and camp is soon right? plus your a really pretty gurl so you can easly flirt can't you? make sure he's not that kind of boys-you know what im talking about-
KiMs BrOkEn heArT sHoUlD hEAl.... (link)
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Hey! Yes me and Austin broke up. Yea we did walk around the hall together. Most people did think it was cute that I had to look up to talk to him, and to stand on my tippie toes to hug him. Only July 2nd it would of been 3 months. Aww, i hope we can get back together to. I MISS HIM! I can't believe it to, and I'm hurt. Lol thanks, yea it took me a while to acutally come out and say I liked him, yup i did get to know him. I guess i do have to start over :-( Lol. Some people would he happy, and others would hate it with a passion. Yes my camp starts on July 5th-July 10th. I'm looking forward to it so much. I can flirt, but i guess just because I'm pretty doesn't mean anything. Looks arn't everything. Yes i know exacly what you mean. I hope my broken heart does heal. Thank you!
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kim how are you so skinny? you eat so much too!! give me some adivce on how to get skinny (link)
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I just stay fit, plus cheerleading helps alot, and just walking around. Yea i do eat a lot! EXCERSICE! or however you spell it. IT'S A GOOD THING!! Try to cut down on what you eat (eat about half, if you eat a lot), but not to the point where you are starving yourself, and arn't eating.
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i want to try out for cheerleading but i think im not the right weight im to fat and i want to be one of the ppl they throw in the air what do i do? (link)
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You can tryout for cheerleading. I encourage you. It's a good way to stay and shape, but it's also. There's pleanty of fat cheerleaders. But usually the flyers (ppl in the air) are the smallest girls on the squad, or the lightest. Im not the smallest or the lighest i just know what i'm doing, and how to do it! :-)
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how the fuck do u dump a girl in the nicest way possible (link)
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Let her off easy. Tell her that you just want to be friends. She's gonna be sad, but she'll get over it eventually. Plus tell her it's summer, and to have fun and go party!
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isn't your uniform mostly black? so wont you be relaly really hot? (link)
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Yes, it is mostly black. Yea i'll be hott, but it beats being cold!
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do you have to wear ur cheer uniform to school sometimes. your all star one? but the skirt is realy short, how is that going to work? (link)
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I might have to wear it. The day we have freshman orentation I have to wear it to that. I can wear the skirt to school, but I don't wanna get yelled at. I would wear my underarmor, and my shell(the top, with the name) I would wear my skirt underneath my warmup, or i would put the skirt in a bag, and just wear my panty covers under my warm up pants.
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