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My name is alix. I'm fourteen &i live just moved to massachusets. i love all of my closer friends; theyre my life. i like cats, and my favorite food is soanish rice. i like going to the movies with all my friends; we do it every friday. it's a routine. i love giving advice about guys, but what i really love are questions from guys about girls. im really opinionated, but im usually not very harsh when i answer things. advice
i have a MAJOR problem! I want to lose weight but thats not going to happen if this continues! During the day i exercise regulary and try to eat healthy but when it comes 2-3 hours before bedtime i get MAJOR cravings for food and i usually give in! and its not just oh a slice of pepperoni NO its like a MEAL with chciken and this and that. and i go ALL OUT like RIGHT before i go to bed. how do i stop it?
you need to eat more during the day. youre craving food because your body doesnt have enough and it knows that if you go to bed, it wont get them. and heres the thing: if you eat a lot before bed, youre going to gain weight because your bdy puts on that weight while you sleep. you should have a big breakfast and lunch, and you can have a big dinner too, but you should make it kind of early, or you should exceresise after.
how do you get guys to come up and ask you to grind with them at a school where you know none of them? should you be in smaller groups of girls so they dont feel intimidated? or what? any advice is goooddd
You'll be with friends, right? Get your group of friends to talk with a group of guys, about the same number in each group. Choose a guy that you won't seem to have competition getting, and flirt with him. Be a little flirty with the others, too, just in case he doesn't ask for whatever reason. But just flirt a lot, you know the routine... touch his arm, giggle, etc. If other people in your group start dancing, hint that you want to. Or, just be like, straight out, "Let's dance." Make it playful, and really flirty I-want-you-but-not-too-much. It'll work. Guys like girls who take inititive.
On facebook if you want to report a group because it is not apporiate, will other people see if you reported it?
No. Theres no way any one else could find out really.
13/f. you can see my ribs but im overweight. like from the bottom of my ribs and up i look pretty much anorexic i hate it i cant lift anything and from bottom of my ribs down i am very big and overweight all fat no muscle. my stomach is most of my problem. but my ass is small but all fat and my legs are just plain big. so what exercises do i do. the docter says its bad but no duh she said to exercise but how. plz help me
to lose weight, you should run, do sit ups, and pretty much any other cardio excersize.
and about your ribs:
do they kind of bend outwards at the bottom? b/c if they do, then you have what i have. its from bad posture, and my doctor "diagnosed" it a few years ago. i had to see a specialist and everything. to flatten them out, he told me to do push ups and pull ups, and it really worked. so if thats whats wrong, do that.
13/f.
do crunches even work?
i can do alot of them but my stomch is still fat its not shrinking.
i wana loose weight in my stomach whats a different way?
what do crunches even do?
crunches work your abs, and they burn calories and make muscle there. yes they work. you could run, do sit ups, or pretty much any other cardio excersize. and if you dont do them regularly then nothing will happen. you have to do them pretty much every day.
That show on discovery "it takes a thief" is it staged in any way, because when the producers tell the families that they will be robbed and then like a week or month later whenever they do it the people come back home looking all surprised like it was a real robbery and they actually think it is. im confused, and then in one episode where they came back from wherever they were they came out of there car with mics on and went it to the house to see it was robbed and then acted like it was a real robbery. SO im thinking it's staged. am i right?
Yeah, its staged. and so you know the robber isnt supposed to be a theif(duh. but i dont think the person below knew that.) And it's semi real but they tell the people what they want them to say, just in their own words. And they kind of fix the house so that the theif has to do certain things to get in.. but like they change it up. i dont know if you know what i mean... its hard to explain. sorry.
K so my parents said i could redo my room.... k im 14/f an liek i just dont want one color or anythng...im just mostly doing my walls....so anyways does anyone know any good designs for my room....i wa thinkin about doing graffi or something...or paint splatter but does anyone know any other good ideas? Thankyou.
you could sponge paint them.. like, choose two colors that are kinda similar or are cute together(ex light yellow and pale pink, or a lightish blue and one thats a shade or two darker) and it would look really cute. or, you could do something that my friend did. she has a pale shade of green on one wall, then the green kind of fades darker as it goes around the room. its really cute.
Where can I buy Ed Hardy shirts & how much do they cost?
You can get them online; try ebay or edhardyshop.com, or you can get them at clothes horse or macys. and theyre like seventy something dollars.
What exactly is a panic attack, like all the signs or how you know your having one ?
Everything the person below said, plus hyperventelating, and, if your having a panic attack, you feel like youre in extreme danger.
Alright so here's the deal. My girlfriend and I have beed going over 4 motnhs now and we want to try something new. We already have made-out on top of each other, and we were talking about it and we want to take it to the next step or level. We both said we would do anything but sex. Making out gets old after awhile, and we both want to make it more exciting. Does anyone here have any ideas?
thanks =]
You can kiss while topless, or in underwear, or fully naked. You can squeeze her breasts, which she'd love. She can give you a hand job, you can give her one. You can give eachother oral.
Okay so ive been with this guy for about 6 months and well, we've been getting more physical as time goes on. Last night, as previous nights, he inserted his penis, not all the way however. well that's what he says anyway. I mean it hurt and everything but as I started to pull him into me he stopped me and said "no, don't put it in all the way." Does this mean we are still both virgins? Another thing is that he likes oral but im not too crazy about it. Ive told him before that im not too comfortable with it and he said he was fine with it, but when we're in the moment he starts to beg for me to give him oral. what do i do?
Youre not a virgin.
If his penis was inside you, then you lost your virginity.
but to correct the person below me, your hymen breaking doesnt mean youre not a virgin anymore. You can break your hymen playing sports or inserting a tampon. it can happen when youre quite young, too.
and about the oral:
just say no, and do something else that feels good to him, like giving a handjob.
okay well im having a sweet sixteen but its going to be more during the day and well afterwards i want to rent a limo. i really dont know hwere to go with the limo but i was thinking how much money would it cost to take the limo from the boston area to like virginia or north carolina. do limos even travel that far or for that long?
Yellowpages a limo company, and call &ask how much it should cost. I'm not saying that you have to use them, but that should give you an idea of how much it will be. And yeah, limos do go that far.
how do i make a messy ponytail.
like all perky and like messy around where the rubberband goes.
i couldn't find a picture, but i hope you know what im talking about :]
You just pull it up, kind of haphazardly. Just put your hands at the nape of your neck, and pull it upwards semi-quickly into a ponytail. You might have to do it a few times because they turn out a little differently each time.
i'm a size L or XL in abercrombie kids, so what size would i be in abercrombie & fitch? (in shirts) thanks!
You'd be an XS, or maybe a small... sometimes the size varies from shirt to shirt, but chances are, an XS would be perfect.
ok two of my "friends" have been calling me a whore to my face and behind my back because i kissed a guy at a dance who was my date and we were not going out because he is not ready for commitment(and i did not know that at the time) and also because i have guy friends who are kinda touchy feelly but are just my friends please someone tell me what to do.
So what? That's not whorish at all. Your friends are totally wrong. Next time they call you a whore to your face there are a few things you could do.
you could take the high road and say something like, you really have to quit calling me that.
or, you could say something a little(lot) bitchier like, at least guys like me.
but i would probably tell them to stop callimg me that, and, at the same time, become closer to other friends and kind of ignore them. eventually, the whole thing might pass.
does "little known fact" need a hypen dash thingy anywhere?
Little-known fact and little known fact are fine.
my boobs are differently sized and when i put my shirt on (it shrunk in the dryer) you could tell i turned and when i lookd in the mirror i looked flat on one side but on the other side i looked "normal" like how i should. why is it like that? how long until my other "grows out"?
Everybody's boobs are differently sized, some more so than the others.
What I would suggest is getting a bra with firm cups, and so that it fits the bigger boob. With a shirt over it, it would be really hard to tell which one was bigger.
But make sure you get one that really fits the bigger one. If it's too small, then there will be some breast coming out of the one cup, but not the other.
do you do
hey: wassup
or hey: Wassup
is there capitalization after the colon
it would be "Hey: wassup"
but you wouldn't use a colon there. it would be a comma or a dash.
ok well somebody tagged me in a picture on facebook and now it shows up under my tagged pictures. i look hideous and i was wondering if there was any way to to remove it off of mine?
Yeah, click the picture &it will say your name under it. next to that it will say remove tag, and you just need to click that.
When there's hair products that are sold in threes (shamppoo, conditioner, leave in) Is it ok to just buy the leave in and not the whole threes? I'd just buy the leave in since it'll leave in my hair like all day and im very poor but if it really works great in threes then..
You absolutely do not have to buy all three. It does work better if used in threes, but not that much better. And only sometimes. If you only want the leave in, only get the leave in.