how do you get guys to come up and ask you to grind with them at a school where you know none of them? should you be in smaller groups of girls so they dont feel intimidated? or what? any advice is goooddd
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missbananafontana answered Monday March 5 2007, 4:55 pm: I don't know about him asking you to grind, but i have advice on how to get him to notice you or whatever:
~be really flirty and dress differently everyday, but be yourself. no guy wants a girl who's pretending to be who she's not.
~be brave and really confident, but not TOO confident. don't act maintenance either.
~don't be too straightfoward. be sneaky and make him curious so he doesn't get bored with you. [ missbananafontana's advice column | Ask missbananafontana A Question ]
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