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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]
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So i usually wear sporty clothes, but i guess kind of want to get "more fashionable".. i don't really like to wear low cut shirts, and i don't want to spend like 100 dollars on a pair of jeans. i usually like the clothes that they have at american eagle i guess. so.. basically i'm asking what kind of clothes people can reccomend. (maybe websites and pictures or just ideas).. also.. with the outfits what could i do with my hair (a little below my shoulders)? THANKS
if you like american eagle you can also try
-hollister
-abercrombie & fitch
they have lots of cute stuff there. if you dont like wearing low cut shirts then you can just get t-shirts there. they have cute jeans tooo and basically all of them are under $100. and for your hair i would just wear it straight or in a ponytail.
xoxo
does anyone know a book or a song about a girl who is in love with a gay guy? (even better if the gay guy is her best friend) i need to read or listen to something that relates to me
i dont know if this helps, but on a show i watch, degrassi, this girl ellie really liked her friend marco and they started going out but then he told her he was gay. this goes on for a few episodes if you maybe wanna watch the show because its probably more meaningful to like see it visually than read it or listen to a song.
hope i helped!
xoxo
well i just got a boyfriend to day and i instantly cheated on him but i dont know if its really cheatin cuz the only thing i did was feel on someone else's dick but i don that to this guy all the time....lie on a daily basis! so is it still considered cheating?
yeah its still considered cheating.. you dont do that if you have a boyfriend. and if you really feel the need to do that.. maybe you arent ready for a serious relationship yet.
hope i helped
My boyfriend couldn't be anymore perfect if he tried and it scares me so much because if he hurts me again its going to hurt so much more because it would be over for good.
i know exactly what youre saying. you feel like your life is too perfect right now right? like you dont wanna go to sleep at night because your life is better than a dream. you just cant believe you found a guy as amazing as him. youre scared youre gonna lose him. honestly, you need to get over this fear because youre not gonna enjoy the relationship while it lasts. most teenage relationships do end sometime and i know its hard, but you have to face it. ive been in your position and its ended but i got over it. it takes time.. but i promise you will get over it. who knows.. maybe you wont break up ever and youll get married! but just in case.. you need to stop worrying!
xoxo
what would you say is a normal clothing size for a teenage girl? like 2, 4, 6, 8...
also, for junior sizes, is a 1 equal to a 0 or 2?
okay teenagers can range from 13-19
thats a pretty big age gap
im 15 and im a 0 if that helps at all?
15/f
you see i have red hair......down there.....and i really want to have sex w/ my boyfriend but idk if he would be offended, or turned off, cuz i have pubic hair..... should i shave it off?
yeah im 15 too.. and all the guys ive talked to have said that they prefer it shaved. like most think pubic hair is gross. but honestly dont do anything you dont want to. its your body. if he doesnt accept it then he isnt a very good guy.
hey ive been talking to this guy daniel, hes not my boyfriend or ne thing bu twe flirt alot, hes never had a girlfriend just friends w/benifets and hes always saying he's got a pretty average dick size but do guys dicks get bigger or smaller when they get hard cuz he said he's like 8 inch but when i felt him he was like only a four maybe but then again he wasnt hard...... so do guys dick's get smaller when there NOT HARD?!
yepp guys dicks get smaller when theyre not hard. are you sure it was only 4 inches? because guys dicks dont get THAT much bigger when theyre hard. either hes lying about his size.. or maybe he was like 6...
17/m
ok so me and my girlfriend decided we wanted to take a shower together and yea..
well i was fingering her and she was playing with my dick and then we would like hug and my dick would be right by her pussy and some pre cum got on it
well then she read a thing that said cum could get inside you and make u pregnet without even having sex
so i was wondering if pre cum has sperm in it and if it can get a girl pregnet like cum can?
please helpppp
yes. precum has sperm in it. yes she could be pregnant. theres not as much of a chance of her being pregnant if you didnt actually stick it in her.. but if you got precum or cum on her then yea theres a chance.
My boyfriend and I have been dating a long time. I love the man dearly. Now, we have been having sex quite a while, and at first I wasn't really into the whole oral sex thing. Now I am, I like it. Now my boyfriend has had sex with 6 girls but only eaten me out. So I guess he is new at this. But I keep hearing that if it doesn't feel really good then he is doing it wrong. Now, I am not going to lie, it doesn't feel that good. I am usually just doing it because he wants to. How should I tell him to change what he is doing because it just doesn't feel good. And I want to be suttle. Should I just suggest different things? And if so what? I have never had anyone else eat me out, so I'm not sure what feels good.
okay well yeah ive heard that too.. if it doesnt feel good something is probably wrong. you kinda have to be more detailed to what he actually is doing.. but i can still answer. maybe just suggest that he do something different. tell him you want to try something new. also, maybe youre not relaxed enough. if youre worried about something or being self concious it probably wont feel good. try to only concentrate on whats going on. relax! good luck!
I was wondering how to get to second base with a girl. I mean does she have to like tell you to start touching her boobs or just like lead you into or does the guy just have to go for it and hop that it was the right time?
sometimes girls will take your hand and put it where they want it.. but that RARELY ever happens. girls dont want to look like sluts. unless you guys are like going out or something. most of the time the guy has to do it. start off with your hands like on her waist and then slowly move them up. if she doesnt like it she will ask you to stop. just respect her wishes. dont make fun of her. you can ask her why but do it politely. also, dont do it in front of people.. wait until youre alone. most girls dont like THAT much PDA. good luck!
Okay, this is a question for guys to answer. I put it in this catergory because putting it in the relationships catergory just didn't seem right.
My boyfriends birthday is coming up, we've been together for a year and half. Normally on the gift giving holidays I get him a video game or something else techy ( he's a self declared gamer. I just call him a nerd). I've lareadt reserved the game I'm getting him, but I wangt to do somrthing sexy for him. We've been having sex for almost a year, but pretty much the only position we do is missionary. Now, I have a plan, so this is wher I need guys opinions, tell me if you would like this if your girlfriend did this for you, or if there's anything you think I should add in or not do.
1.) I'm gonna go to his house, dressed in a sexy little outfit, go to his room, and blidnfold him, not saying a word.
2.) I'm gonna undress him, he won't be able to see a thing.
3.) I'll probly improvise here with what I'll do (kiss him all over, lick him, whatever I feel like doing)
4.) Throw him down on the bed, hop on top and go crazy. (I recently heard that most guys prefer girl on top sex, is that true?)
Okay guys, so again, tell me what you think, if there's anything else I should or shouldn't do, if you personally would like this, and anything else you can think to add. Any comments are appreciated.
Please and Thank You!
im a girl.. but it sounds like he will probably like it. it will definetly be a change from what you usually do.. much more exciting so he will probably like it. also, yea ive heard that guys like girls on top better.
good luck
I have to do a school project on a controversial/ethical subject and I wanted to choose something other than the death penalty or abortion. I have chosen to do underage drinking. As part of research for the project we have been asked to gather different points of view about the topic and I decided Advicenators would be an ideal place to get some of these opinions/experiences.
If you could take a few minutes to answer these questions/give any additional infomation then it would be very much appreciated.
Did you drink when you were underage? (I know that the legal age varies in different countries, so just go with whatever the legal age is where you are). If so, how often? Where and how did you obtain the alcohol? I'm focussing a large section of the paper on the use of fake ID/asking older friends etc to buy alcohol for you, so if you have any experiences with that, then please let me know in as much detail as possible.
Thank you.
this isnt about me but its something that happened at my school and is still happening. almost a year ago.. on homecoming there was a huge party and there were kids of all ages there. anyways, they got the alcohol from a parent. a car full of boys drove home from the party they were going really fast and they crashed into a tree and two of them died. one was a senior and one was a freshman in college that came home for homecoming weekend. there have been 5 deaths of kids my schoool this year. 3 of them were related to alcohol. maybe you can include the consequences or something somewhere in your paper.
Well a few weeks ago, my dad got put on house arrest for extortion, and so I don't exactly want my friends knowing, and it's kind of obvious why. But I want to lose weight. I want to go to th gym with my friend who's not a member, so I can take her, but my mom won't let me invite friends over. How can I lose weight when I can't go to the gym without my friend? How can she lose weight? I hate going alone with my mom because it's so boring, but when I have a friend, it's easier for me to exercise. What do I do?
maybe have your mom take you to the gym and pick up your friend on the way there. then you can go to the gym without her having to come to your house. then after you can either drop her off at home or maybe go to her house or see a movie or something.
good luck
xoxo
why do I get out of breath
um you mean when youre running?
youre probably just out of shape.
do more exercise and you wont get out of breath as fast.
me and my boyfrend had sex and with no condom and it was only in onces like in out and i was wondering if i'm goin gto get pergent.
you definetly can get pregnant. if hes inside you without a condom at anytime there is a good chance of getting pregnant.
F/15
Okay. So heres the deal: I dated this guy for about 3 months. Even though that isnt very long, I really fell for him...hard. We've been apart for about 5 months now and I still can't get over him. He's a senior this year, and Im a sophmore, but I always see him in the halls. Everytime I see him I try to play it cool when he waves or says hi to me but inside im dying. I feel exactly like I did before I ever went out with him, only this time its not just a crush I have on him I love him. I really miss him but I dont think he misses me anymore since so much time has passed.
To make matters worse, I've been doing some really stupid things lately, one of which is getting high and coming to school. Last week I was high and remember parts of what had happened that day, but everything I dont remember, my best friend filled me in on. When I was crazy high, I remember going up to him and hanging off of him, telling him to dump his new girlfriend, or that I would even be open to the fact of him cheating on his girl with me and i told him that i loved and missed him. Im sure I did more than that, but I do remember sayin something along those lines.
Please..I need some kind of advice. I feel so pathetic for trying to hold on to someone for so long.
i know how you feel. the same kinda thing happened to me. how i got over it was eventually i started hating him for making me feel like that. so basically at the beginning i hated him and loved him at the same time. its complicated, i know. but he just made me soo mad. i went out with my friends more, they said bad stuff about him and it made me feel better that my friends were on my side. so go out and hang out with your friends, do sports, join clubs, do whatever it takes to get your mind off him. please stop doing drugs. bad things can happen (as you saw).
If someone fingers you are you still a virgin?
yes you aree.
you only stop being a virgin if you have sex.
Hi! I was just wondering how to get over this? Okay so I went over this guys house. He used to hate me right but when he saw me last week he said hey. He also kept flirting with me and stuff. Then he let me sleep in his arms. Until this girl he liked got on myspace. He started talking to her so I went into the other room and cried my eyes out. I went past where he was laying in the floor and he looked up like he knew he had hurt me or something. He looked like he cared. But he didn't cuddle with me until his future g/f got off. Then he talked to me about his school and our realtionship and how we used to be good friends. I hate this so much. I'm never going to get over it. I mean does he like me again or is he too much in love with all the other girls he likes. I don't know. He makes me want to starve myself and die. I just want to end it all. My life gets worse everytime I'm around him. But I like him. What do I do without involing talking to him?
yeppp something like that happened to me. like you hate the guy so much and he makes you so mad.. but in the end you STILL like him and you cant stop. i would say.. leave him alone for a little while. once he realizes that you dont need him he might start thinking you dont like him and then he will realize that he cant just push you around and make you his bitch to use when the other girls arent around. he might still like you.. maybe he was just trying to make you jealous by talking to that other girl. if hes a good guy and he really likes you he will come back to you after you stop talking to him for a little while.
is it posibly to like a guy but dont want to like him but cant get over him???
yes its possible.. believe me. if you really like him and like cant get him out of your head maybe its not a bad thing to like him. theres nothing wrong with liking a guy.. but if you really really dont want to like him then try hanging out with other guys and stuff. dont hang out with him or see him. try to think of why you liked him in the first place. if you cant think of anything then theres no reason why you should still like him.
If discharge is normal,is it also normal for ir to smell weird I took a test and I kno that I dont have any infections.Just my boyfriend wants to eat me out and I am really embarresed that my discharge smells funny and I dont want him having his face down there when it smells I use this feminen fash for my vagina and it hasnt helped how do I get ride of the smell thanks for reading
just like take a bath right before you see him & like wash yourself with a soap that smells good & like strong & that should make everything smell good when the time comes..
xo