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I use to be on this site all the time. Got sick of reading the same exact questions and basically copying and pasting my answers because no one cared to read questions asked before them. So I left and haven't really been on here.
Ps. I'm not perfect and my advice isn't always right. & sometimes I choose to make it sound like you will get hurt more than you actually will to prevent people from doing stupid things. Like if I get drunk what can happen? Well i might just say you can die.....stretching the truth but I think its better than having people go out and get drunk. Plus you can die but you would have to have alcohol poisoning.

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does photobucket eventually delete your pitures or your account after a certain amount of time if you dont pay?

Q: Are free accounts ever deleted?
A: Free accounts that are not logged into or havn't had any direct links for 90 days are removed. To avoid this log in to your account once a month.

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Ladies, Does size really matter? Im just curious.

To a lot of girls yes
Other people care more about your personality and other things

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im constantly wet down below im a female btw.i cum home from school and my knickers are soaked thru.im too embarresed to tell ne1 i know so plse help?is it bladder weakness?thanx

a)horny
b)discharge
c)yeast infection
d)go to a doctor
no one will know for sure what it is unless we see it and we don't want to so ask a doctor and let them check it out

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I'm looking for girls with any make-up tips to give!!! ANYTHING helps. Also I'm looking for someone who's willing to send me pictures of themselves with some neat eye shadow looks and tell me how to do them. Thanks

the key to make up is to make it look like you aren't wearing any

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if i made out with a girl on a dare... does that make me a lesbian????

no

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hi... just wondering, how did you get the music on your page?? like, i know how to get music codes and stuff... i just dont know where to put them.

i just put them in the about me section.

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In my school people get picked on school temas basically because they are friends with the coach. they could be not as good as one person but if they know the coach they will still make it. well i dont know the coach and im trying out for basketball but i dont know if i should because they probally wont pick me cause i dont know the coach cause im ok at basketball im not the best but im not bad (sorry if this is confusing) my question is though should i try out or not?

yes most def. if you don't you will always be wondering if you would have maid it or not.

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Well you see, I kinda have a guy as my best friend and wee are both currently single. Its no untill reciently that I realized that I have fell in love with him. I don't want to ruin what we have now but I don't no how to tell him. I am soooo confused~ help

Personally I feel like those are the hardest questions to be answered. If you think they he may have feeling for you as well, start a conversation with him. "Hey, I want to tell you something." "I think that I like you a little more than a friend" see what he says if he isn't interested just tell him that "I know that you probably don't feel the same way and I hope we can still be friends, but I just wanted to tell you" see how that goes. If you don't tell him you will basically make it worse for your self because, then you will always be hiding a secret. Hope I helped.

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I don't really have a good relation ship with my dad. He left me my mom my brother and my twin sister. We never really got along. I really want to go to this boarding school in Seattle Washington. Its really expensive like 20,000. My mom said the only way i can go is if i ask my dad for the money. He has the money but im really afraid to ask him for it. I really need to go to get away from everything. But since i never really had a good relationship with my dad im afraid to ask. I don't like him because of what he did to us. I just don't want to talk to him. How do i get over this? How do i find a way to ask him? Should i even ask him?

Yes you should ask him. He left you guys let him at least pay for something. If you have a big fear of talking to him, maybe you could e-mail him or write him a letter. If you really want to talk to him, try to sit down and tell him how you feel and why you want to go. "How do I get over this?" think of what will happen once you ask him, the benefit of the thing how you will get what you want. Work your self up to it by telling your self this all the time.

hope i helped ask me anything else whenever

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about three months. We havent kissed yet, but i think i want to. How should i tell him??

sneak up and just kiss him, i'm sure he won't mind one bit.

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i have windows XP and i have 2 accounts. i would like to swich all of my folder onto the other account but how do i do that? thanks for your help!

how many times did you ask this question? i just answered it.

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i have windows XP and i have 2 accounts. i would like to swich all of my folder onto the other account but how do i do that? thanks for your help!

Umm I know how to make each folder switch like one by one. You would just have to put it all into the shared folder. Go to like 'my document' and press 'ctrl A' that will highlight everything then press 'ctrl x' that will cut everything then paste it into the shared folder. If that doesn't work just high light and drag everything into that folder. I believe that no matter what folder you go into on the left side it says 'share this folder’ and 'shared documents'. So if you were just to go into a folder you want to share then press share this folder and if you want to see what is being shared between everyone click shared document. I hope this wasn't to confusing and you understood it. I'm not sure if there is another way of doing this. I mean you can always put it all onto a dick but that takes to long. Good luck!

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So I like this guy, right, and I think this other girl may like him, too. I was waiting for class and my friend asked my friend who may also like him if she did his make-up for the play. It was in that "Oooooh" tone of voice. I also think that my crush is much more likely to like her than he is to like me. I want to ask my crush if he likes the other girl. We are friends though. So I would make it sound like curiosity and not because I like him or anything. Should I ask him?

sure why not

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I've been dating this girl for quite some time now and we've just recently slept together for the first time. I'm 24 and she's 18. She wasn't a virgin so it's nothing like that but after the sex, it felt extremely wrong. I never wanted to ask her out in the first place because I was 6 years older than her but my friends kept saying that "It's not a big deal; You're both adults, 6 years isn't much, blah, blah, blah etc." So I eventually asked her out and I'm glad I did because she's an amazing girl. Her being only 18 did bug me before but not as much as it does now. The sex was great and everything and it wasn't until after we finished that I started to feel like absolute shit. If it helps any, it happened on Saturday night and now, I've been trying to avoid her. I still have strong feelings for her and I don't want to end things with us, but I just don't know how to get past this. I'm not quite sure why I feel this way either. I want to talk to her but what am I supposed to say, "Hey Hun, I felt like I raped you the other night...How did you feel about it? Did you feel as if you were being raped?" I don't think I can sleep with her again until I get past this and I'm not sure talking to her about it will help.

You didn't rape her if she agreed to it and she is of legal age just like you. My neighbors are 6 years apart and had a baby a couple of years ago. 6 years doesn't matter much once you are like 18.


*yea i guess i didn't hmm sorry.*
i guess you would just have to figure out why you felt the way you did.

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their is this guy i have liekd for a really long time. hes alsome. the other day i ended up going to his house an we ended up making out and it got around to everybody at school an he didnt dis agree with it. then liek a week later he called me and was liek do you want to come over an help me with my project and when i got their he wgoes im not in them odd to do this. so when ended up making out. an he goes i tohught you didnt like me. and i was liek i dont know mabey i do. then i was liek i tohught you didnt liek me either. and he goes i take wut i can get? and i was liek what does that mean an then in a really cute voice he goes .. baby ur so blonde. wut does i take what i can get mean?

no offence but he means hes getting what ever he can get. as in anyone who will do anything with him. He may not like them but if they are willing to do anything with him hes all there.

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Hey, i have nothing against black people at all, im jewish and i think i have a crush on a guy thats black. I'm not aloud to date until im 16 but like my parents i dont think would want me marrying someone that is black not because there black its just that they think i should marry a jew. So, my question is, is should i not like him i mean im prob not going to marry him or date him unless he likes me. WHta should i do?

heh all jewish parents are the same. You can't just not like him and it's not like if you even date him you will marry him. So if you like him go out with him don't tell your parents. It won't be for ever anyway.

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what is the first thing u do when you have your period.... what do u do?

umm since it seems that you are clueless i would tell my mom and make sure you get a pad when you feel more confortablens use tampoo?

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This girl and i have been realy good freinds since the day we met(she was in 7th and I in 8th). last year we started liking eachother and then we ended up dating for like a week or two and then she ended up moving to a town 45 minutes away so we stopped dating. we sorta lost contact for a little but but then reconnected and picked up our friendship where it left off. well she then again moved all the way to texas(i live in california) and we lost contact all together for a while. Once again we reconnected and started talking more and soon she moved back to the town 45 minutes away from me. now that she lives there agian weve been talking almost every day on the phone or online and we even got to see eachother the other weekend for the first time since the summer. We both want to see eachother more and since the other weekend old feelings have arrisen and we both REALLY like eachother again(i havent stopped thinking about her since). we both want to date but the distance seems sumwhat of a setback since she doesnt drive because shes not old enough and i dont either because im busy to get my license. we both really care about eachother and want to be with eachother, and im there 100% to making the relationship work if she commits knowing that the distance will be a setback to seeing eachother regularly. should we try dating a see what happens? would a long( but realatively short) distance relationship between us work? i would greatly appreciate your help and advice.

personaly i hate long distance. but if you both like each other and stuff why not? i mean if it doesn't work out at least you will know that and not regret not going out with her for the reast of your life.

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okay so i think that i have found the love of my life! hes reall sweet to me and funny and i kno he would make a good husbnd.. or well.. long term bf. but the thing is im only thing the 8th grade! is this extremely like not right? i mean yea i kno i have my whole life ahead of me still .. adn i kno we are both gonna date other ppl but i want him soo bad! can some one please talk some sense into me?

heh young love so sweet. well about 90% of HS relationships don't last and you are in JR making it even higher. Only time can really tell but the numbers are not working for you here.

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Okay.. if you have ever had an overprotective ex-boyfriend you will know what I am saying.. Okay I really like this one guy and he lives like 20 min away and is older than me (Neal).. And all of a sudden me and my ex-bf (Steven) start talking again and it is nice.. Well unfortunatly his best friend is my best friend (her name is lindsey).. and me and him i guess u could call best friends lol.. so its like a triangle.. well anyways I did stuff with the guy I like on Saturday and I told my friend Lindsey... well I guess Lindsey tells Steven everything which I tell Lindsey everything so it all goes around lol.. And I told lindsey what I did with Neal.. and then Steven starts telling me he likes me again and how much he doesn't want me to get hurt my Neal.. Well how can I stop his overprotectiveness (if that is a word) plz help me

Kaydee

don't tell anyone anything so they don't tell anyone and the triangle comes to an end.

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