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Q: 18/F

Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. I really want to lose my virginity to him. He is not a virgin but obviously I am.

I've talked to him about it and he says its my decision and he will stand behind which ever I make. (Wait or Not Wait)

Half of me wants to do something, then the other half is just like worried. I know I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with this man.

What do you guys thimk I should do?

Also, I heard you bleed a lot when you lose it. He has a rather large penis. So will I bleed heavy like on my period? Or just a little? And if I put my pants on afterwards, will I bleed threw my pants?

Thanks.
Honestly, no one can answer this except you. We can give advice about what we wouldnt or would do, but ultimately its your decision. If you feel that you've been together long enough, and that you really love him & that it would be special, then I'd say do it. Only if you feel that you are ready and are able to accept the risks/consequences/benefits that could come from it. Know what you're getting into and what could or could not happen. Just be aware of everything before making your decision. Read about stories online of girls who have lost it and what happened afterwards to become familiar with situations that may arise.

As for the bleeding, everyone is different. I didnt bleed my first time, but some of my friends did. It all depends. The heavyness of it can vary. Ive heard in some cases it was alot, but it doesnt last. It just happens the moment the hymen is broken. If you do decide to do it and you do bleed, take a shower afterwards and it should stop, so when you put your clothes back on you'll be fine.

Q: omg my boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me 3 days ago and i cant eat and i cant freakin sleep!! and everytime I think of him I get nautious(sp) Im home sick today so I dont see him and I cant cry infront of him but I was about to yesterday!! so I have two questions!!

1) HOW CAN I GET OVER HIM!?
2) HOW CAN I MAKE HIM WANT ME BACK?! (without going out with another guy!)

PLEASE HELP ME!
Well first you need to decide what exactly you want to do. If you want to get over him or if you want him back.
There is no way to "make him want you back" If he wants to be back with you, he will do so. Dont try to become something that you're not so that he will want to be with you, no guy is worth changing yourself over.

As for getting over him, take up new hobbies, join a sports team. Do something to occupy your mind and try and stay as busy as possible. A free moment leaves room to think about what you dont want to think about. Spend more time with your girlfriends and try to avoid situations where you would remember him by. Once you have down the idea of not remembering him, then confront some situations that would remind you of him, and accept the fact that you guys are over & that'll test whether or not you are really over him.

It's hard to deal with the first couple days, I understand, but give it a try.
You also cant do it if youre not willing. So if you're ready to get over him and accept the fact that its done, then try what I said up there. But if you're not ready to let go, then dont just yet. Do it when you're good and ready.

Q: Basically, I've sort of broken my cell phone, can I get it upgraded/replaced without paying anything?
Well it all depends on your cell phone provider and what they say. If its under warranty still, they have to replace it no matter how or what damaged it. If its not under warranty & you have insurance on your phone, you have to call them and ask for the insurace companys number so that you can file an insurance claim. My insurance claim would cost 50 dollars & that doesnt even insure a new phone. But thats just what verizon says. If you dont have insurance and arent under warranty you basically have to buy a new phone. Unless youre really good at talking your way out of things, you might get them to reason with you.

Q: My boyfriend is kind of a criminal. He tipped trash cans with some of his friends and broke security cameras and flag poles. He's now grounded and is kind of on a house arrest thing. I love him, but how do I go out with somebody like this?
Eh. I understand this all too well. I'm in love with someone who's addicted to heroin and whos in a group home. It's not the best thing in the world for someone to be involved with especially if you're an unstable person and can't handle it. If youre okay with not being able to see him cause the house arrest and grounding thing, then I would tell him that you're not at the position in your life where youre able to deal with something like this. Also, encourage him to change his act. Tell him that he is such a great person and doesnt need to be doing things like that, and if he needs somenoe to talk to about why hes doing it, to feel free & talk to you. Tell him you dont want to see him end up in jail & hes too good for that.

Q: i'm 5'6" 126 lbs. big leg muscles, skinny upper body, NO boobs whatsoever. seventeen years old. my question is: how do you get boobs without getting fat? when i eat more, the fat rarely ever gets to my boobs first, it goes to my face or stomach or something. if i run, it gets rid of all the fat in the chest area as well as everywhere else, but i want to have a bigger chest! any tips?
Eh. There really isnt any certain diet that you can go on to gain boobs. When you exercise and lose weight your boobs are the first to go. Some people are born with the genes to have a big chest and a small waist, and some are the exact opposite. The best thing I can suggest is that maybe when you're older take something to enhance them, but I would focus on loving yourself for who you are, and try not to focus on changing yourself so much.

Q: Well. There is no way to remove that, cause people have to click it in order to view your pictures. What you can do though is go through in your layout code and change the links to the color of your background. Like, mine is white so my links for that are white also so you cant see view my pictures ; and you have to click on my pic to see it.


... you gave me that answer to my question, but i don't have the code for that, help me out?
Im not sure which one it is. When I did it I just changed it to white which is colorcode FFFFFF
just go through your layout code if you have one [if u dont then it wont work]
and itll say somethig towards the bottom like.. active link / used link/ or something like that
and then codes for whatever color it is. change them 2 white.


Q: earlier today i went into hottopic and there was this song on and i loved it but i dont know the name it went something like this "tell all my friends im dead" it sounded like new found glory but i never heard that song
"Tell all my friends I'm dead, I'm leaving you, this time its for good. It wont be long before you forget my nameeee"

If its that then its definitely New Found Glory, Forget my name.

Q: Does anyone know where I can find a list of fonts that you can use for your Nexopia profile?
No idea about nexopia but if you go to dafont.com it has tonss of fonts that you can download for your computer & use = ]

Q: I made a fansite on myspace and I'm trying to think of some ways to promote it and get friends. Do you guys have any ideas?
whore trainsss.

www.friendfury.com
www.friendstorm.net
www.msbuddy.com

all those are really good for getting lots of friends, i use them and I have like 19,000 haha.

Q: How do I get pictures that move for like 3 seconds (look like videos)?

And how do I get pictures that flash like 3 pictures in one, like a really fast slideshow?

Thanks
you can make your own easyyy.
download Animation Shop 3
I used to make AIM/msn icons all the time
AIM ones are 50/50 & MSN 100/100
(if you decide to make one)
Search google for animation shop 3 download
it should be free
and if/once you get it, you should be able to figure it out
it goes by frames
Like if I wanted my name to animate i'd put
Roxy in the first frame, and Starr in the 2nd
so when it was animated it would flash roxy starr

and if you dont want to make your own, you can always look up gif images on the net & find some

Q: how can i take out the part in my myspace that says 'View My: Pics | Videos', but not my picture and headline and stuff, just that text. don't give me websites to find it at please, i've looked all over. thankss.
Well. There is no way to remove that, cause people have to click it in order to view your pictures. What you can do though is go through in your layout code and change the links to the color of your background. Like, mine is white so my links for that are white also so you cant see view my pictures ; and you have to click on my pic to see it.

Q: okay so i have a video ipod. and it was working fine until today. it was plugged in as normal, but all the sudden this box comes up that says my computer can't read the ipod and that i need to use ipod software updater and restore the ipod to factory settings. why did this happen? and now my computer won't recognize my ipod so i can't even fix it! please help me!!!
Hmm. I have a video Ipod too and ive never gotten that before. I think my friend has though. If you have the itunes/ipod disk that it came with, try reinstalling that and then type in the little code on the back of your ipod that says its real. If that doesnt work, call apple and tell them about it and see what theyhave to say

Q: 14/f

I have been getting my period for around 6 months, but I havn't gotten it since August. I know it is normal it to skip, but when will it come back?
Now for the random question:
Why do most sexual offenders live in Florida?
Theres no telling when it will come back. When you first start your period it is very normal to skip because its still trying to regulate itself. I'm 17 and have been getting my period since I was 12 and I still ski[ for 7 months, then reandomely get it. Maybe try looking it up online for symptoms before your period like crams/discharge or something like that.

As for the sexual offenders, I realy have no idea, lol. Theyre found everywhere!

Q: So.
My two best friends are trying out for the school JV doftball team, we're in highschool obviously. I've always wanted to join a sports team at school so i figure i'd like to give softball a try. The only thing is i've never really played much and the only sports I play are ballet and other types of dance.

Anyone have any tips or something that can help me learn how to and play well?
I played softball for 5 years and its really not that hard of a sport to get down, especially because the ball is thrown underhand so its not that fast. I'd say go to practices and see how it goes. You can also buy a softball bat and try swinging it around in your backyard to get the hand of the swing & step motion. & If you wanted to practice your throwing theres something you can buy that you set up in your yard and it has a bouncy net on it, so when you throw the ball it comes back to you & you catch it. Its really good for learning how to catch & throw. Only tips I can give you would be to make sure you step into your swing when you swing, and step into your throw. Practice throwing/batting with your friends until you get better =]

Q: i wanna say thanks who is dis
lol, my names roxy.

Q: Well, me and my girlfriend were fooling around and after we dry humped and i came, i fingered her. Now I don't remember if i had semen on my hand(from touching my damp shorts). She's had her period already, 2 weeks after the event, but she's been showing symptoms of "Morning sickness" at the same time. Could she be pregnant or just feeling a bit under the weather?
if she got her period than she's not pregnant. Girls can get pregnant the week before their period & thats it. During their period the body flushes out all the un-used eggs that she produced. Since she got her period, thats exactly what it did, because none were used. It's most likely psychological. Ive had alot of friends think th ey were pregnant from a vast majority of things, and then they made themselves sick by psychin themselves out. They kept worrying about it constantly and then developed "symptoms". If she continues to feel that way though, I suppose she could go to the doctor but I'm almost positive she isnt pregnant =]

Q: okay so this definately has nothing to do with my love life, but i didnt know what column to put it in, so i just put it in the one i thought most people would look at!! does anybody know anything about teeth alignment? like how much it costs, do they put you to sleep during the process, etc. Or could you give me some sites?
Basically, Id say go to www.invisalign.com It shows the complete process of invisible braces, which basically works the same as regular metal braces. The cost for those range from $2500 - $5000, but if you have orthidontal insurance it should cover most of it. If not they have nifty payment plans where you can pay about 100 a month to pay them off :) I've been looking into it because I want my teeth to be perfect haha. I'd give them a call and get a consultation, it couldnt hurt!

Q: Ive been with my boyfriend for a while now and I love him more than anything but here lately im afraid to lose him I always think he can do soo much better than me like im not good enough for him what do i do.
Sweetie, let him be the judge of that. I know from personal experiance that if you say "you can do so much better than me" too many times they begin to believe that they can do better, and they will find someone who isnt so negative. The last thing most guys want to do is constantly repeat themselves. If they say youre good enough, you are. Take it from someone who has alot of experiance on the heartbreak issue.. Dont let him slip away. Do whatever you can to hold it together and just let everything go and have fun. Thats what relationships need. Just have fun with him, love him, do whatever. =]

Q: 14/f
My friend moved to a different state a few years ago and i finally found her, well i mean i looked her up on Myspace and i found her page i messanged her and asked to to be my friend and what i dont understand is she accepted it but she never replied to my message. in it i told her to call me and heave her my phone number and she never called or anything. i asumed she read the message besause im on her friends list now. why hasnt she contacted me bace at all? does she not care about me anymore. we were BEST friends and dont say someting like oh she just shy or something like that because i know her and she is deffanitly not shy to not say something back to me. weve known eachother sence first grade and she moved 4 years ago, we havent talked in i dont even know how long. please what should i do i miss her terribly.
Ehh. Sometimes things like this happen. I had that happen to me. I was best friends with this girl and then she moved to NH. and im in ohio. It was kind of sad, and we lost touch because she got a new cell and stopped getting online, then i found her on myspace one day and messaged her and she replied, but our friendship is different and we dont have much to say to each other anymore because everything is different. I'd say just let it be. If she wants to respond, she will. Maybe she has been busy and doesnt have time to reply to messages and Im sure she wouldnt accept you if she hated you. She probably is busy in her new life with new friends and everything, just give her some time and im sure things will work itself out. & If it doesnt.. then ehh.. thats part of growing up doll =/

Q: My Windows live messenger won't let me sign in.. My windows messenger(older verison) lets me sign in.. What could be wrong? I've tried redownloading it again.. thanks in advance
Sometimes my windows live messenger does that also. It goes through alot of updates and maintenance, I do know that. Try hitting "connection problems" & see what it does. Windows live messenger is usually pretty good about diagnosing connection issues. If it still wont work, completely uninstall the program and then reinstall it. If that still doesnt work then try messaging the windows technical group =]]

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