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I just started dating this guy a little while ago, and I like him, but it's so hard to talk to him. He's really sweet and I really do like him, but we can't ever have a conversation without awkward silences. Should I continue to go out with him and hope things get better, or should I just break up with him? Thanks. (link)
if you really like him, why not spend a lil more time with him. it takes time and a lil effort inorder to get things started you know what i mean? then try just having regular conversations, its the lil things that make a big diffrence. hope it helps


Is there anything you can do to make a black eye go away faster? I've got one right now -- an accident -- and it's really gross looking and hurts. (link)
well, in the 40s they used to have a raw piece of meat and put it on you're eye, im pretty sure it works now but i never tried it. Put some ice on it and let it heal a bit. hope it helps, get well soon


ive liked sean for ever and he was really really nice like wicked cool and like i mean i think he did like me. his family like cousins and brother are like assholes, like obnoxious and mean. so my sister was like dont bother his family are assholes. sean was such a sweetie last year and most of this year but now hes turning to be a asshole like his brother, i like him so much but i do nott want to. and he knows im like obsessed and basically makes me more. what can i do to make him think i dontt? hes in my gym class always like being weird or acting nice.. thankss! so basically what should i do around him and how can i get over him

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well it's actually goona be a lil hard to get of him, cuase usualy women like assholes. It's becuase they think they can change em' Its true. If you would like to avoid him i guess just clear youre mind of him, and just stay away i guess. not sure if that helps but i hope it does, take care


How can I find the best way to make my boyfriend to open his soul and heart in front of me?We have a relation since 9 years and we have now this problem. I'm a female and I'm 28 (link)
hmm an intersting question, to open one mans heart and soul you must solve the puzzle that questions both mind and spirit. Yoiu must ask him how he feels about himself and you. To ask such a question would be for the right time and moment, timing is one of the best assessets. Of course some things are kept a secret, some things should never be said or found out. If you must pry, pry with cuation, and share a lil of youreself too. I hope this helps, good luck


approximately a month ago my Boyfriend and I were foolin around and while we've never had sex we got a little carried away... to sum it all up he ended up cumming on my butt- we tried to clean it off as soon as possible but technically it is possible that some could have slid down to my vagina... does anyone think that I might get pregnant- I was off my birth control and havent had my period for two months (always been screwed up without my birth control) but he never penetrated me- what do you think? (link)
oh well, if he never benetrated you then you should be fine, If it's anal or outside then it wont effect you. If you still can't be sure about ti, then take a pregnacy test at elast to clear youre mind. be forwarnd about this experiance and what COULD happen, anyway hope it helps. take care


Ok i am 15/f and i just found out i am pregnant a few days ago, and my boyfriend (the baby's father) knows. now we have talked about me possibly getting pregnant before and we were fine with it....but now i am and we are keeping the baby because we both want to. but we havent told our parents yet....but we are this weekend. but the thing is we already know hes mom is going to be abssolutely furious, and we were wondering about if he would ever be able to see the baby. because my parent will be fine with it, like they will support me and all, but his mom we dont know, so does anyone know if there is a law that says if he wants to that he has to see the baby? and this is in michigan, and i have not been able to find anything after long hours of researching on the internet...now please if you answer this dont tell me how much of a bad person i am and that i am only 15..i will have enough of that just please answer my question... (link)
At least you admit to it, well, im pretty sure that he can see the baby cuase HE is the father after all and the mother has no custity or the athority to make her son not see his own baby am i right? If she does get mad, who could blame her ya know?, anyway i hope things work out for you and youre boyfriend but please be advised to be ready for the obsitcles ahead, plus childbirth. Anyway good luck, hope this helps


All my life I've wanted to help people and for the past year or two I have decided that the perfect profession for me would to be a Social Worker. Next year I get to take a journey to HighSchool and I was wondering if you have any ideas of what classes would help to acheive my dream?Also... Would knowing a second language help? I get A's and B's and I'm a goody good girl thats never gotton a detention and of course I have never got in trouble with the police because after research I understand that they do background checks. Please would you respond with ideas that would help me later in life. Also, how long do you have to go to collage if you want to be a "Social worker" I am realy intrested in Child, family, and school social workers. Though a lot of kids dont realy appreait people like this I belive they do help alot. I would love to work for a company. My dream all my life has been to have a email adress so people could email me and i could help them with there problems. Now i have a dream helping people in such a way and I know I can achieve this. I know I'm only in 8th grade but I know this is the job for me


Sincerly,
Meg
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That's great to know someone who'se passionate about a dream job such as this. Well you could take some phycology classes, socialology classes, there's also observing the behaiviar patterns at locol highschools. It's amazing what you can observe in like a few weeks on teens and kids. This one trick i used is watching the discovery channel, the animals on the show reflexs the animals we are today. I guess the classes you'd take would be a lot that have to do with the mind and social behaivor. It would be nice to have someone to talk to, i mean, i've been through some counseling but it never seemed to help, they just seem to give up, hey how about testing youre abilities on me, im one tough case to crack ^^ anyway e-mail me whenever


Hey. Well, I'm currently in the 8th grade and I will be going on to highschool this upcoming August. Well, not a lot of people are going to my high school-only a few. I was wondering, how do I become social because I tend to be shy at most times, and in highschool, I want to have lots of friends and for people to know that I'm cool, fun, and nice to be around with, since I really am once people get to know me. I also want to makea great 1st impression. If you have any tips, suggestions, etc. I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks for listening! (link)
I could understand what you're talking about. I guess i could say " just be yourself" but that's been said and... not really done. Anyway, the best bet would be to be the explorer. If you wanna make friends just ask em around and where's what ya know? You can try and regroup with your old friend too, but meeting new people's always fun. Remeber, high school will be pretty tough in terms of social and friends wise. I had to go through it with the occasional rumor or two. Just relax, plan out, and be aware. hope it helps, and good luck.


do you guys think lockin arms with a guy would be considered as cheating on your boyfriend. when the guy you are locking arms with is only a friend? (link)
yes, sorry but it is. I know some will say no it's not, but it is. If i were you, i would stop cuase it's always "locking arms" that will lead to other things. Like for guys,if you have a girlfriend and you happen to have lunch with a girl who'se a friend ( i don't know why) is considered cheating. I know it doesn't make sense but it's the way jealusy works in humans


Hi, I'm a columnist on this site (lauraxomichelle) but I need some advice of my own. It's actually mostly for my mom. When she got married 20 years ago, she bought a beautiful set of dishes at Bradlees, which is now closed. They were by Home Beautiful, style JP 303 ambrosia. If anybody knows of websites that sell them (like, legitamite sites) or stores (we're in the southern New England area) it would be a great help! thanks so much! (link)
hmm, you could try the antiuqe places there in S england. If all else fail, antiuqeing works


Does anyone know what/how to get rid of pimples between legs? It would be the area where my legs rub together. They also scar. (link)
you could always pop em, cuase they're just legs not like anyone's goona admnire or label you when it comes to legs. If all else fails you could put rubbing alcohol on it. Hope it helps


My son is going through a difficult period. my husband and I split up in july and my son who is 19 and in college met up with a girl who has a boyfriend and is engaged my son is not in school and says hes returning in summer but I'm afraid hes not going back and she is ruining his life she wont leave her borfriend will he go back to school (link)
hmm, difficult situation miss. Well As a fellow 19 year old, i would want my mother to have a good long talk with me and tell me what kind of truoble i am getting into. It would be much better if you would talk to your son and just tell him what you want. Demand it and if he's not doing anything to change it. Then you should tell him that if he's way to deep, he has to get out on his own cuase you warned him and told him. It would be on his shoulders.


I work in a large superstore in the clothing department. There are 8 ladies including myself in this department. I get along with everyone but have noticed in the last several weeks there has been a lot of backstabbing behind the scenes. One lady got a promotion and now some of them are jealous. Another lady is always complaining and very negative, and another one is angry because her hours have been cut. How can I stay positive when this is going on? It's very stressful. Does anyone have any advice? (link)
hmm well, the best advise is to just ride the current on this one. Screw them if they're goona be a bunch of assholes then screw them, it shouldn't ruin youre parade right? just ignore them.


hey,everytime i pick a name it starts to get popular and everyone has it! what are some extreamly unique GIRL names that are from other contries such as germany and france,(really other than the U.S) thank you! (link)
hmm, well you could always do some word play with other names of anykind. Like for example; Judox, Yu-krin, or Sada. just think even if it sounds random ya know? Hope it helps


okay ive died my hair like 4 times in the last 3 months and my hair is kinnda unhealthy like i put stuff in it about once every 2 weeks and i do straighten it. what can i do to make it more soft and healthy?(dont say dont straighten it because i have to) (link)
well, you could from now on stop dyeing it, and use some of that healing shampoo like on the commercials. hope it helps


i need some sereous help right now. this girl i like so much will tatlk to me anymore. we used to talk so much, i mean we went to the fair and would ride the rides together. she never said she liked me but i got this immpresion because she asked me who i liked a million times.but at our junior high dance yesterday, she said that she hated me and i felt way to nervous and heartbroken after that to ask her to dance.I feel so hurt its like ti dont want to go to school anymorea because i dont want to be in the vicinty of her . what adviec can you give me so i can find out why she hates me but not seem despeate to know? (link)
ouch, happened to me once when i was in high school. well, she may be very nice, but if she's goona be like that without probable cuase of telling you then there's no point of being with her. Wonem like that come and go, it's best to just not care anymore and prtend that you don't know her. She's probably being manipulated by her other friends with false lies, that's usualy the case, just for get about her and move on. in the situation youre in stronger people walk, weak people talk


i was at a concert the other day,and someone that was filming the bands on stage had this awsome sweatshirt on.it was black with a pink glow in the dark brain on it and on the back it said motion city soundtrack.

does anyone happen to know where i could buy that one?ive looked all over the place and i cant find it.so if anyone knows a website i could buy it off of id really appreciate it.
thanks! (link)
have you tried E-bay?


I made this thing for my boyfriend, and I wrote "I love you" on it, but I have room to put his name under that.
Do you think I should personalize it or just leave it as "I love you"?
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hmmm, well i guess if you wanted you could put his name under it too, makes him feel a lil special knowing that you thought of him while making the item


I'm going to be Joan of Arc for this event at school, and I need any kind of creative idea about what to do. I have to make a presentation as her. As in 'I am Joan of Arc. I did _____'. If you know anything about her that I should make stand out more than anything else, or a way I can make my presentation interesting, please share your ideas with me. (link)
ooh i have an idea, have (if you could) a suit of armor that she wore, a real sword, and maybe try to look like her too, short hair, and dye it the color too. hope it helps


Ok Im 15 nd having a baby nd will the baby take the fathers last name or mine or is it our choice? (link)
jeez, 15... why? a baby? now? i think i would be concerned about this situation than a name. well, it's not my place to say but if you really want, you should decide together, not just on the name but on the future too. I hope you understand the hardships and obsticles of what is going to happen. i pray that you will make the right decision in the future




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