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ok.. basketball season's gonna start in 2 mthz.. im a grl.. bout 5'1" nd 115 lbs. im thinkin of tryin out 4 my freshman team.. shud i rilly tho? cuz i guess im just doubtin my abilities rite now.. my shootings a bit off.. but my defense is pretty good.. how i see it tho.. is that i cud just help in assists.. but idk.. do u kno how i cud get in shape in 2 mths tym nd ne basketball advice that u cud give me?

signed,
BasKEtBall fReaK

haha! you sound EXACTLY like me! geeze are you my twin! haha! im 5'1 and 115 lbs! =O geeze! haha! definitally..DEFINITALLY try out! give it your all! work on your shooting for right now..ask someone you know for pointers on shooting! running gets you SOO in shape! it sucks ass..but run! haha! do sprints aswell..cuz i know for basketball they usually do suicides ((in my school)) so idk..but ask an upper class men you know about it! tryout adn have fun!

((Let me know later on if you make it!!!!!)))

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Hi my name is Jess and there is this boy who is a grade younger than me and i guess i like him but everyone makes a big deal out of if someone goes out with someone in another grade oh and he likes me too so what should i do go out with him or not

haha..i just answered a question like this sweetie! im a sophmore and my boyfriend is a senior. im 15 (16 in december) and he just turned 17 (today is his birthday) and age doesnt matter for us at all! we share something special..and thats all that should matter. believe me, if it bothers you THAT much then dont be with him if its going to make you feel horrible. i personally think age aint nothing but a number!


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i am a freshmen ... and a senior is hitting on me ... it is now September ... but this has been going on for about a year. He is a Lifeguard at a pool i was at during the winter, and he IMed me and told me that he really likes me and that im pretty and stuff and he wants to go out with me. He seems nice but my parents will NEVER go for it .... but he still talks to me and stuff ... at times he can be gross ... but hes pretty nice ... i never see him tho .. he goes to a different high school..... im just SO CONFUSED !!!!

wow..well, first off sweetie. Im a sophmore, and my boyfriend of 6 months ((today!)) is a senior..we go to diffrent high schools. we've found out that age doesnt matter because we care and love eachother so much. if your not feeling this between this guy tell him straight up. tell him you would just rather be friends. i personally dont think age matters at all..as long as you two care about eachother enough and he realizes that he cant cross the line that YOU should set then things will be alright.


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Hey, Its Tiffany. I wrote to you a while ago about how I am still in love with my ex and stuff. Well, Him and his girlfriend broke up not to long ago and we had started talking again. I ended up going over to his house a week later and things were going good. His parents weren't home and we were just chillin' in his living room. Everytime i would sit on the other couch he would ask me how come i wasn't sitting with him, even tho he was sitting on a one person chair. So i went over to sit with him (on his lap sorta) and i continued to talk about my life and stuff. It felt sort of weird sitting on his lap especially when he put his arm around me, because it felt like the old days when we were a couple. Then he asked me to kiss him, and i said i would feel like i was being used, but i ended up giving in. I just couldn't help it, I love how he kisses. I've never felt the way i do when i am kissing him with anyone else. Its like a fireworks type of kiss. A kiss ended up into a big makeout session. and at the time it felt soo right. but then when we stopped and talked he said we would just be friends...friends with benifets. I Agreed at first but i don't think it is totally what i want. I mean, I feel like i am used and once he finds a gf, where am i gonna go? I left his house and we hadnt talked for like a week, and then finally he called and he wanted to hang out but i had to work. Luckily i got outta work early and i was driving around with some of my girl friends and we found him and his friends. My friends and his friends think we should go back out and i do too, but he says that he just doesn't want a g/f. Then we ended up kissing. My friends think this is not fair to me, and i don't think it is that fair either but i kiss him anyways. I just don't know what to do. And its weird because his friends spent a lot of their time trying to break us up when we were going out, and now that we are apart they realli want us to go back out. they were pretty much telling him he had to. but he said no...ohwell. JUst thought i'd let you know whats going on.

~Tiffany~

thanks tiffany for letting me know!:) g'luck with everything!

x0x-dani

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does anyone have any good sites for midi files? thanks x0o

what website are you using them for? Because if its for xanga i have tonz of music sites in mine. uMm..check out musicville and iwebmusic those both have em!:)

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Hey Does anybody no any good graphics sites??

You can request your own graphics at www.buddy4u.com its so awesome! and there are places listed there you can get some!:)

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Ok, here it goes

I have pale skin and dirty blonde hair, and some freckles. What are some good make up tips for me to use?

Dont hide what you got! Everyone is Beautiful in their own way! Look into Teen People or YM for makeup tips..their SOO good with covering all skin types!

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ok i have a BIG problem and im sure that it happens to a lot of people.. but whenever something happens that makes me mad i always want to kill myself and its scary cuz sometimes i almost do.. i dont no wut to do and i need some help before i actually do!!! does this mean im like mentally ill or something?? should i see a doctor or anything?? thanks..
xox manda

Definitally tell someone..it feels SOO much better to get it out in the open. Believe me sweetheart, I was exactly like this and I told my mom ((even though i didnt want to..i knew i had to)) and she got me help! I saw a councler for awhile..and reallie enjoyed seeing her and progressed. I saw a phycologist..and she hooked me up with some anti-depressants, and those help soo much! It reallie helps to talk about it! I hope you make the right decision and see someone about it. I know it helped me out so much. I was so bad at one point in my life all over my first boyfriend...but things in life arent always that bad. What you need to do sweetz is look at the positive things in life. When something is wrong or when you need to vent write it down..write your feelings and thoughts down. Dont take it out on yourself, its not the way to go. Ive been through a few deaths in my lifetime, some accidental..and some on purpose..and those deaths that happened because of them not getting help just tears you apart inside...even if your NOT close to that person. Its just the thought of it all. Stay positive, and if you ever need anyone to talk to..I wouldnt mind being penpals..or aim buddies!!


((let me know how things go manda..hope i helped!))
x0x-dani

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ook i srsly need help! im a girl and this guy im friends with has a birthday coming up soon and i have no idea what to get him! we are soo close and i really wanna get him somethin nice cuz he means a lot to me! ((and btw he`s 13))
i am so clueless!!!

awh! haha! i had this problem with my bf too..and i asked ppl on here and they were SOO much help!:) anyways..get a picture of you a him and frame it..then on the frame write memories you and him made in those cool funky glue markers (you can get them at wal*mart) their so cool..and it will be really meaningful!:) bring him out to a fun night of dinner and a movie...make memories!:) bake him a cake!:) thats always fun on your part..and im sure he'll love it!

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I really wanna bf but i dn if any guys like me! I LIKE this one guy but he lives in NY and i live in Maine. I also like this guy in my school. The guy in Ny liked me back but i dont think im ready for long distance. Should I go for the guy in my school, that is like ask him out, or should i try to do long distance w/ the kid from NY? Cuz like i dn if the kid from my school likes me or what. But hes always talkin to me and smiling at me. So which one?

woah! i live in maine! :) haha! anyways.. definitally go for the kid in your school long distance NEVER works out..unless your very committed and its really hard at a young age when u cant see eachother. If you dont really like the kid from your school then just wait till the right guy comes along!:)

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ok my bf in skool told me to chose me or softball but i love him and i love to be athletic and play softball so i dont kno wut to do :-/ plz help

wow..first off i would choose softball! its dumb that he is making you choose! love doesnt last forever, especially love like this ((no offence)) but if he is going to make you choose between those two..then choose that! its horrible that he is doing that to you sweetz!

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Is it normal for a guy my age (14) to be masterbating at least 1-2 times a day to porn or not to porn?

Please administrators, dont delete this question, i really am concerend about this and ive seen girls ask this kind of stuff without you deleting it..

No completly normal...guys do it all the friggen time! even in my school..its kinda disgustin cuz no girls want to see that..but w/e

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yea i was wondering if you guys have any advice to help me get abs...im 15 and 101 pounds i was 115 but i got sick and i didnt eat for 2 weeks so i lost weight...i have the figure to get abs but i just want to know how?? thanxs a lot

CRUNCHES!! haha! LOTS and LOTZ of em!

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I am tring to find song's from the 90's that are really cool and I need help remembering the name and or song. And maybe a site that I can listen to music videos. What Should I do?

go to vh1.com they just did this thing on i love the 90s and they have songs from that era!

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Okay I have acne. Not that bad. And i would love to clear it up b4 school starts which is 8 days away. what can I do to clear the acne. Is there anything that actually works in 8 dayds or less. please I need to get rid of this acneee...

uMm..ask your mom to call a dermitologist..and they'll either precribe something or tell you what the best product will be to buy at a store.

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Ok, are you supposed to shave your ahem pubic area? Ive heard you are and you aren't and it's so confusing. Or do you just do it if you're going to have sex? I'd appreciate the help.

Guys apprechate it being shaved..so definitally mow the lawn. ALOT of guys dont shave down there..so dont be surprised! haha! But girls..its just so much nicer and enjoyable for the guys that way! SO definitally do that! Also, so its not bumpy use a mosturizer. uMm..you can shave it whenever..but if you know your gunna do shit that night or w/e definitally shave!

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I NEED YOUR HELP! Tomorrow i have school again and i need a reallly good hairdo. But im telling you my hair will not curl or scrunch so whatever i do if any hairs down it has to be straightened. If you could give me good details or steps on a hairdo that would be appreciated.

if it helps, im a girl, and im wearing a skirt tomorrow.

straighten all your hair then take thin peices along the sides and curl em..it makes it look reallie pretty!:) haha! check out YM or teen people for hair styles! im pretty sure they have websites too

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uhmm hey i got a ? whats a g - string? PLZ RESPOND ASAP !

hey..its just like a thong but insted of fabric on the back its a string. i personally think it is SOO much more comfortable! simply because you cant feel it.

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Ive been goin out wit muh b/f for almost 2 weeks now but we knew eachother like 3 weeks before that and we were kinda close before he asked me out. Well a couple nights ago muh friend talked to him on the phone and they got on the subject of sex n all that. Now I am 15 goin on 16 in 3 months and hes 17(senior) goin on 18 at the end of sept.Well they were talkin and now hes really into wantin to do shit. Before we juss chilled n all we did was makeout and still do.I mean hes not pushin me to do anything I dont wanna but I did tell him I would have sex wit him but not now ya know?! But yeah I wanna but I dont know if Im ready or not. I like him alot and I can see my self bein wit him for sometime now. I have talked to some of my friends that arent virgins and about like when its ur first time n all that. Im juss scared about like the consequences and of it hurtin or somethin??.. Can someone PLEASEEE gimmie advice worth taking..Thankyou:)

wow..youve only been with the guy for a few weeks now..it doesnt really matter how long u guys were friends..friends and relationships are COMPLETLY diffrent! i would give it a few months..to make sure hes not in it to just get some! ((even if hes ah sweetie..some guys still are!:(:()) anyways..you seriously should consider that! but if you feel that your ready then tell him to be prepared no matter what with a condom. its the safest bet! also you should go to the dr. to get birth control before you have sex..its just SOO much safer that way!

((hope i helped!))

x0x-dani

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i wear jeans to school and my mom said i cant wear thongs soo u can see my underwear line what should i do?

uMm..wear boy beifs..or be wise and ask her if you can wear g-strings! haha!

x0x-dani

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