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Q: Does anyone know any good websites for getting REALLY good pictures??? Just any kind of picture. Like pictures from movies or of movie stars or other stuff like that. I will rate 5's for anyone who gives me the direct website! I always rate high! Thanx!

I get everything from google!

google.com/images

Q: i really need new clothes but i don't have a lot of money. what are some good clothing stores with websites and i can order from? i need some really cheap ones with cute clothes! also..are there any from other countries that ship in cheap? i want clothes that not everyone has so i can be different..but still in style and cute. tell me all you know!

btw im 15.

Forever21.com

Really cheap nad cute!!!!

Q: So I have to get a pretty good long list of games we can play with our kiddos at camp. But I want some new games.. not the tradition tag or duck duck goose sort. Something they've maybe never played before. They're pretty young too..5 to 8 So I need something that they can all enjoy together. Preferably something not terribly messy either. lol Thanks to everyone who helps. I'll rate. :)

Red Rover- I little violent for young kids but still fun!

Drip Drip Drop- A twist on your traditional duck duck goose and its great on a hot day

Hand games like the Dilly Dally duck

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mii whole life i have had brownish-blonde poker straight hair.. i don't know if i should dye it or if i should perm it.. ne ideas??? **nikki**

There are special gels that can curl your hair. You just apply and crunch, crunch, crunch until your hair is curly. Or, you could use volumizing shampoo. Perming your hair is an option and if you really want curly hair thats the most permenant solution obviously. You have sooooo many options. First I'd use the gels to see if you even look good in curly hair. I reccommend John Frieda.

Q: I've always wondered this...
Why do teens think that they "need" a boyfriend or girlfriend? What's so great about it?
I follow that at least in high school and college it's kind of a time to experiment with relationships and all, but I just don't really follow why teens think they "need" someone, especially since a lot of it seems to end kind of painfully for people.
Anyway, long story short, I'm confused about why people think it's something they need, why they seem to look so hard for it at a young age, and what's so great about having a boy/girlfriend.
Thanks.

When you're a teenager you start feeling attracted to boys or girls and you want to show your fellings. Thats just how it is during that age!!!

Q: Alright, I am 16 and I live with my twin sister, my 19 year old brother, and my mom. She has always been pretty overprotective, especially after my dad died of brain cancer. But recently it has gotten uncontrollable. She makes up stupid excuses so I can't go hang out with my best friend. She acts like she doesn't trust me but when I ask her why she doesn't she doesn't give a reason. I have a feeling that the reason she doesn't want me going places is because she doesn't want me growing up so fast. I am going to be a Junior in High school this year and then I will be graduating in 2007 and going to college. She needs to understand that I am becoming more independent and will be an adult soon. She even went as far as keeping me from getting my liscence until I finally was able to convince her to allow me to get it. If anyone has any advice for me about how I can get my mom to give me more indepedence and actually try to listen to my side of the view.

Your mother has experienced a great loss, and she needs you to be there by her side. You are right, she probably doesn't want you to grow up and leave her. The only way to stop this, is to tell her what you're feeling. She'll understand what she's been doing to you, and maybe will loosen up. Remind her about what it was like to be a teenager, and being excited about new things such as your liscense. Good luck

♥Arielle

Q: yesterday when i went to school i got my period and it leaked though the pad and then i went to the nurse and she wanted to know what happened so i told her and she gave me a diper type thingy and it was like 6 inches thick all over and i was wearing really tight jeans today and everyone saw me and they were calling me diper butt and then i went to the nurse again and she gave me another one and she put 2 on me and it was like thick like 12 inches or sumthing and everyone was making fun of me and then she put this thing on me and it make me have a huge but and like i couldnt get it off and when i did she took me back and gave me 3 and then i couldnt like move but she said oh well and everyone was really making fun of me and i dont know what to do it make me look so fat and like since they were tight jeans it made me look huge everywhere like the frong between my legs and my but and i dont know what to do. help me!

Wow! I'm really sorry thats how your day turned out. Belive me worse has happened to me when I have my period!!! Just ignore what all those jerks are saying about you. It may be hard. Next time you're on your period bring a zip on sweatshirt to school. Then, if you get into a situation like that, you can take off the sweatshirt, tie it around your waist, and it will cover up your big butt!

Thats what i do and it works!!!

-♥ Arielle

Q: what shows on broadway in new york city do you recommend besides the lion king? (already saw it)

Wicked- My personal fav!!!! Its about what happened before the Wizard of Oz and it explains why the lion is a coward, why the other chracters don't have brains and hearts, why the ruby slippers are so important to the Wicked with, and the realationships between Glinda and the wicked witch! Amazing play if you love the wizard of oz!!!!

Hairspray- really good!! Many of my friends recommend it!

Beauty and the Beast

Spamalot- heard that was good. I think its a spin off of Monty Python.

I ♥ Wicked!!!!!!!

Q: i went to the beach last weekend..and i used sunscreen but i only applied it once..and im pretty pale....and i got burned really badly it hurt for like 3 days soo bad...well now my ENTIRE back is peeling as well as my shoulders..it is sooo effing grose...and ive been picking it...&& it itches and stuff..ive put lotion on but is there anything that will make it stop!?

Dont pick at it! It may be tempting but that will just make it worse. Put aloe vera on it.

Q: I have a pet monkey. I also have an awesome girlfriend who I plan to ask for her hand in marrage. I love her a lot and she means the world to me. However.. I had alredy bought a very expensive white gold and diamond encrusted engagement ring. But.. I know this is going to sound stupid and made up.. but my monkey ate it. He seriously honest to god te it! I dont have enough money to buy her a new one.. so what to I do?

take your monkey to the vet and they can pump it out of his stomache. Just dont tell your girlfriend!!!!

Q: I love denim skirts and flouncy skirts from abercrombie! ..the problem is..They are too expensive! Do you guys know anywhere I can get a bargain skirt?..don't say ebay! Thanks!

My cousin bought me this really cute abercrombie skirt from a thrift store! Aeropostale has really cheap skirts. Oh and hollister, and american eagle have good stuff too. The cheapest skirt I've ver seen was at forever 21 also.

Q: Hey, someone wrote in my yearbook "i am your distra" what does that mean?!?! only answer if you're positive.
thanks

maybe that person has horrible handwriting and meant sista.

Q: Well, i'm 13, and i haven't had my period yet. but for a while now, like several months, i always have a whitish discharge in my underwear, and i don't know what it is. it can be kind of sticky, and has an odd smell. i don't have any pain or anything, but i have no clue what it is at all. can anybody relate and tell me what is going on? thanks in advance!!

You'll probably get your period in the next 1-2 years.

Q: okay, so i was at zootopia last nite, and i think i did something wrong. i threw my bra at jesse mccarthey. and well i was drunk and he seemed pretty annoyed at what i did. like its not like i'm ever going to see him again but it was jsut do strnage because i was there with my boyfriend. and he wants to break up with me.

Yeh...sounds like you were drunk. Just explain to your boyfriend that first of all you were drunk. Then tell him he's hotter, cuz then maybe he won't be jealous.

Q: I am looking for some web sites that sells clothes/shoes/bags/jewlery/etc. I am into alot of different styles--so any suggestions about where you shop online would be appreciated! thanks!

zapoos.com!

Its a shoe website thats has absolutely free shipping!!!! love it.

-Ari

Q: okay so whenever i tell myself to not eat some kind of food i end up eating it and whenever i promise my self to go run i cant.. so how can i keep these promises to myself and go out for a run and not eat certain kinds of foods ?

Don't keep bad foods in your house...then it won't be tempting!! When you go for a run, go with a friend its always more fun!

Q: Im in chorus at my school. I love singing and the class is sooo fun..my teacher is the best and i love singing at concerts. We just did The Phantom of the Opera and it was fun! I know that sounds corny but i really like it. I love being on stage. Well we had to sing for the graduates this yr and i felt embarrassed. We had to wear these lame chorus shirts and blue skirts. Everyone was laughing or snickering why we were singing..i felt soo embarrassed. All my friends make fun of me and im tired of it. Should i just quit chorus or what?

Don't quit you love it! I had that same thing, but with orchestra except I didn't LOVE it! If you love it you might be able to go far! Maybe to Broadway!

Q: It's that time of year again. We're going to sign eachothers yearbooks. I'm sick of writing Cya in ___ (whater grade yor going in nxt year) and have a good summer. I was wondering what are some cool "quotes" to write in?

That quote by dr seuss. "You have brains in your head and feet in your shoes..."

but that sounds like what a teacher would say.

Whatever!

Q: I just had to put my cat to sleep due to blindness and its hard for me, because hes older than i am!!!!! he's 17 years old and i've had him since he was born. he was just the sweetest cat ever and he was sort of my best friend. does anyone have any tips of how to make this pain go away??

sorry i sound so dumb...lol. please help!!

Same exact thing happened to me! I had a hard time getting over it, but after a while a forgot. I still remember him but I don't cry. You may think your pain will last forver but really, it won't. We bought a dog to fill up the empty space in our house. Maybe that's what you need to do.

Q: My BF and I have been going out for a month. And we kiss and W/E outside of school, but past couple of days we have been doing little kisses after 4th. we both feel kinda uncomfortable cause all my friends go AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW really loudly n obviously when we do and its really annoying! i've told them to stop but they dont! have can i make them?! i rate ^^