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okay i need to get my boyfriend a birthday present in like.. 2 days. CAN ANYBODY PLEASE HELP ME?
He loves music. But dont say cds please because im afraid he'll already have the one i get him.
and i was thinking like.. a slipknot dvd or something but idk where they have those or anything.. also is that really dorky?
and i cant take him to concerts thats too complicated around school and things like that.. hes going to be sixteen. ANY IDEAS.. I NEED IT BY SATURDAY..
and i always get people gift certificates to like cd stores and stuff but idk if thats what i should get him..
AHHh sorry im done. HELP?
thanks in advance
I think your right on most things. The slipknot dvd might just not be his type... and a gift certificate might be impersonal. How about ... you get him a nice shirt that is still his style, but in style... for whatever might look the epitomy of what he is. I would combine that with Lindt/Godiva chocolate, and a smaller gift certificate since you got other stuff. He's bound to love atleast one of the things you get him! And this way it won't be impersonal because you got him more than you would get your friends because its his bday! I think this is a perfect idea, I hope you like it as well!
this sounds really stupid but on my lunch shift at school none of the few friends I have have that lunch shift and I don't kno anyone else. I am so shy and I can't make new friends should I just sit by myself or what? I will give you 5's!
No! Don't sit alone... be open to new things. No need to be lonely. Maybe if you know someone from one of your classes you could just pick up small talk, and ask to sit with them! Hopefully they will react kindly. No matter how "different, quirky, odd" these people may be, talk to them anyway. It's good to have a diverse group of friends, and rather important if you ask me. You can also make friends by getting a drink or something by the vending machine and just picking up small talk with anybody you see there... like "they charge a 1.25 for this crap?" which is a little more sarcastic or if someone needs an extra nickel/dime be like "Oh I can hook you up with that" .... just pick up the opportunity whenever, wherever it may come to you. If you really have trouble making friends, you can start to do homework at lunch, and eventually someone will probably feel bad and say something to you. Or you could read a book, magazine, make some cell calls in the bathroom, doodle in a notebook. You'll get the hang of it... and I'm sure you won't be lonely for long. If it really is that bad maybe try getting a schedule change? I hope that works out for you. Good luck and have fun!
Whenever my boyfriend comes over we usually just sit and watch T.V or a movie. This is really boring after a while and I want him to feel like he's having fun when he's around me. Is there anything fun that we can do whenever he's over? Nothing sexual or physical; I just mean fun by enjoying one another's company.
Ex: Making a cake, going to the park, etc.
Thank You.
Your examples are good! You can get ice cream before he comes and make sundaes with him.... just get sprinkles and whip cream (oo la la) hehe and you can do that. Or you can listen to music together... take a walk around your block with him... talk to him about something really interesting to the both of you... go shopping together... play board games/ card games (lol it may sound cheesy but you'll have a lot of laughs).... go locally and get pizza or something with him. Good Luck!
I wana go to the fair again tonight but I don't have a boyfriend. And all of my friends are to busy kissing them. So what do I do???
Go with a friend who's a boy and is single. Or go with a girl thats your friend who is single. Or, maybe you could bring someone in your family if you are close in age and get along. If none of these work, just go with the friends who are "busy kissing" ... and meet some new people if possible. Good Luck!
I go to bed about 10:30 every night. For some reason I keep waking up around 3am and then I can't go back to sleep. Then I start getting sleepy in the afternoon when I can't sleep! Anyone else have this problem, and if so what do I do?
Maybe take some sleeping medicine and you can sleep the whole night! You can ask a doctor about that. Or, if you want to just take NyQuil, you can just get that off the shelves and that will put you out either when you wake up or before you go to bed.
I wanna make a myspace, but i really have nooooo clu how to get started! if yu can help me, plees I*M me !!! Thanks, i'll rate highhh
It's very self-explanitory. If you just hit the "sign up" button that is orange right next to login you can pretty much take it from there. However, certain parts may be more confusing. So, if you need anything, IM me at x3DryCountyGrlx3.... if my away message is on I'll try and get back to you quickly! Good Luck!
my school came up with a new dress code and it completely sucks. parents and students were kicked out of open house and kids were suspended on the first day of school!!! for example our neckline son our shirts have to make a srait line above our armpits which is REALLY high and our shirts have to come down past our belts and our pants can't touch the floor. what are some good things i can say to the administration to get them to change these outrageous rules? (*we don't have uniforms)
You just being one person may not be able to make too much of a change. But present your ideas to the principal perhaps with other friends reasonably! Just go on to explain that there are some very short people in your school and it is difficult for them to buy jeans that fit them really well but are longer because they are shorter than most people their wieght. And tell them nowadays the necklines they are asking for are very difficult to find and it makes shopping complicated. Try and present it in a light that's reasonable... I'm not sure one person can make a difference in a high school/middle school.... but I'm wishing you luck!
tomorrows the first day of school *sadness majolry* and i HAVE to wear jeans cause thats like all i have that looks good on me, lol. but if im gonna be to hot or wutever it will be ok to change. will it be to hot? im too lazy to answer this myself
Well...there's no way of knowing b/c I dont know where you live, if your school has air conditioning, e.t.c. What I can tell you is that today was my first day of school... and that usually wearing jeans won't make you hotter or sweatier, most people don't sweat on their legs. Just don't wear anything heavy on top... stick to a tshirt or tank because that will make you hot. I usually wear jeans all summer long even if it is hot because it doesn't bother me so bad. Jeans are really cute and if its your only choice, I guess you may just need to wing it!! Good Luck on the first day.... if you need more help inbox me!
so i have this friend....
shes a great person and all but she doesnt take very good care of herself...for example...
*she has body odar but she doesnt seem to know
*she doesnt brush her teeth, only mouth washes..
*she will wear the same pair of pants for 2 weeks in a row (but she has like 10 pairs of pants)
*she weill go and work out than come home and eat ice cream....
how do i tell her that thease arent healthy for her and she should change her routine?
Well you could just drop little hints... like
"such-and-such deodarant is the best!"
Or something like that..... and if that doesnt work just if your sleeping over be like come with me, arent you going to brush your teeth? Stuff like that... and about the clothes thing. When she's wearing a certain pair of jeans be like "I love those ______ pants you have!!! You should wear them tomorrow" stuff like that. And about the ice cream and the working out.... I wouldnt mention that people are sensitive about their wieght.
my sister is 14 and she is going in 9th grade and she wants to ask our mom if she can wear thongs but she really doesnt kno how to.. and also she a real tomboy and stuff she always playing sports and she wants to get some skritss but she doenst kno how to assk
please helpp!!!
thanxs u guys for helping herr outt
Have your sister tell your mom she needs them because she doesn't want a pantyline showing. And about skirts just have her say she wants them because she would like to wear one. That's all that's needed really...
While picking out clothes to wear to school tomorrow, I noticed my sweaters in the back of my closet, and began to wonder if it was okay to wear them yet. The temperature has been averaging about 75 degrees here, but it's VERY cold in school...So, since it's after Labor Day, is it okay to wear sweaters yet?
thank yah much!
Wear the lighter ones at first... you shouldn't wear the winter styled ones until late october early november!
I got an ipod and i've used it for about 6 months now. it's a 20 GB regular size white iPod. but recently, for some reason it stopped downloading songs onto it. i mean, i could still download songs off of itunes, but i cant get them onto the ipod. idk if it's the cable or the ipod itself, but i really need help.
That happened to my sister... she got hers off of Amazon... they let her send hers back and they gave her a new one free of charge. Its just one of those odd quirks!
When people say "Hope I helped!", that is so freaking annoying. Is anyone with me?
Maybe it can get repetitive sometimes, but it's not nescesarily annoying! It's a little way of noting that they hope their bit of advice was resourceful. That's all it is. Not something to fret over. But, I do see your view. The most annoying thing is when people give bad ratings and complain, just because they got an answer they didn't want to hear...not because it isn't helpful.
what is bypoller?
To be 'bipolar' is to have rapid changes of moods/emotions. One minute your ecstatic, the next your in a rage. You change your mood so quickly that it starts to become confusing.
how am i suppose to ask him??
i was making maybe next time i talk to him i can come out of nowhere saying i miss you...and see what he says to that
That would be a really good start! The sooner you get it out of your system, the better! No sense worrying about it.
Is it weird to wear a shirt you got on sale, for the first day of school? It's just a t-shirt that says american eagle three times on it.
Not at all! You like it, it looks good, wear it! It's not wierd at all!
how do you know when your in love?
You just feel it. The butterflies, you cant stop thinking about that person, you could see yourself LAYING your life down for them... and it usually doesn't happen until you fully mature and know alot about life (18 at youngest... usually in 20's)
I have this gown (for my bat mitzvah) and it is salmon pink and very see through. I can't wear regualr underwear because it shows through. I could wear no underwear because its pretty long. I could wear a thong, but of course i have to buy one. Which option should I go for?
Definetly... don't go without underwear. Wear a thing
if you and your ex are arguing and he comes out saying take a fucking hint i do care about you
does dat mean wut it says dat he acres or does dat mean there might be another chnace
Sounds like he may still have some feelings. Ask him!
I'm 14 years old and my mom will NOT let me get a thong. Almost all of my friends wear them except for me and I think my mom is being unfair by not letting me get one.. What should I do?
Tell your mom you need them for certain pants that show the underwear line .... or if you have a fancy occasion tell her you need it for your dress. Tell her it's not going to be some lingerie fest just some plain colored thongs. Moms dont like to here "but my friends wear them" it never works.