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hey i'm courtney! :)i'm nineteen and i live in ohio. i am currently not going to college, and just working fulltime.. i'm single and not really looking but,i love to go tanning, shopping, and seeing friends. i am very social, and love to listen to problems and help the best way i know how. i am a very happy person, and willing to be there for people who need me most, and i care for most in life. that's a bit about me heh.
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13/f
Ok i dont know what to do bc i really like this guy and i have only told my really close friends but most of my really close friends are really close friends with him. But i want him to find out some how bc he is always like flirtin with me well he is like always sittin by me and talkin to me and flickin my bra straps and tickling me and stuff so i think that he might like me back. But all of my friends are laughin at me but he is really nice and he is kinda cute and like when im around him he just makes me smile. But i dont know how he will take it if i tell him so i dont know what to say but we always sit together and i have a couple of classes with him so it would be really obvious if i told him. But the biggest problem is that me and my friends are kinda preppy and he is a skater boy so i dont know how my friends will take it if i go out with him. But some of my friends have been like EWWW!!! and some have been like oh he is cute u should go for it and they all think that he would go out with me but i donk know. But we are always txtin each other so i dont know if that makes it obvious too or not so PLEASE PLEASE help me!!!!
firstly, don't care what other people think about this. they aren't your heart. even your friends. your heart knows what it feels darling.
secondly, send him a text asking if he'd ever consider dating you. it's subtle enough for him to know you like him it seems to me, he returns your feelings.
is it normal to have cramps after your period. i haven't been sexually active for at least 5 months.
it's normal. some girls have them. others don't. i usually do.
What if she does like me more than a friend and she wants to be a couple?? I am now nervous! but I don’t know I can do this because I told I am not ready for a relationship because I don’t respect myself. I said that after she said on the chat room about her jealousy. And I might be moving how the hell can I work that out? I don’t want to see her with some one else but crap what should I do? So do you think this is right? Should I shut up and stop worrying and go ask her the one question? Or really should I just forget about it and move on?
ask her the question. then decide what to do. stop stresssssing so much.
so i wrote out the letter BUT i didnt give it to her yet. i want to know what do you think before i send it out.(let me know what to fix okay)
There is a reason why I wrote this:
I want to make things clear between us, because I been feeling quiet confused at the moment.
When I explain myself to you and how I felt about you, you took it respectfully and I am grateful for that. You told me in the chat room that you are fine about my feelings but don’t like me in that way. I respect that and so I moved on. But when I told you that I meet that guy Paul at the party you seem a bit jealous and I ask why you where. And it did catch me off guard, when you explain it to me and I didn’t know what to say but I was really confused because I didn’t know what to think. So I want to ask you, do you like me more than a friend? I need to know just to make things a bit clear, if you don’t then that’s fine we will stay good friends. I value our friendship very much but it seems like right now it is on the line and I don’t want anything to break it.
Please write me back when ever you can.
well hon, it's sounds good to me. you explained to her what you needed to and hopefully this all works out for you. now you just have to give it to her. :)
where you said "meet" paul, it should be met.
&by the jealous snetence is should be were. not "where".
GUY1: A little less then year ago i met this guy online and we instantly captured feelings for eachother. Well a month after we started talking he went to jail for nothing that needs to be said but it wasnt anything to bad. We stayed in-touch thru letters. Well he got released from jail on monday and he sent me a text as soon as he got out.
GUY2: like 3 weeks ago i met this guy off the internet again. And we fell hard for eachother in just a week. He always called me his man, and say he thinks about me all the time, he doesnt need anyone else, he wants to be with me. Well about three day ago he had a change of heart he stopped calling at night (the only time we really had time to talk) or if he did it was short. I was looking at his myspace and he put another girl as his first person. He told me that they are just friends and that i am not his man and i am not his girl and that this girl finds him very attractive but they are only friends. This is killing me completely because he still has my picture on his page and the caption says your the only one i need.
well i told GUY1 that i only wanted to be friends and he said thats fine but you better still talk to me. Well its not happening im losing both guys. GUY1 i care about so much but he wont say a word to me unless he wants to. GUY2 says he still cares about me and always will but he can't do the distance.
GUY2 is moving on with his life. I need to move ona nd if i am going to i want it to be with GUY1 but how do i get him to talk to me?
Am i being selfish please help me...
you just don't know what you want. clearly you were misleading guy number one. like, now you want him back just because guy number 2 doesn't want you? yes, it's selfsh. i say, give both guys space and see who talks to you first. then decide who you want, and be sure, don't keep messing with their heads hon.
15 / F
I'm in a square with female best friend, a boy that likes me, and the boy that likes me's best friend, who is my crush. Yes, it is a very messed up square. My crush claims he likes a girl who is NOT my best friend, but I feel like he likes my best friend more than he likes me. I am very, VERY jealous. She's known him for a much shorter amount of time, yet he's nicer to her, AND they talk through more than one form of communication. I feel very sad & can't talk to anyone about it. NO ONE IN THE SQUARE knows i like him, or even that I like ANYONE. I can't simply tell my friend to stop being all over him because she has no idea i like him. I just need to find a way to overcome my jealousy. I've already attempted googling, "overcoming jealousy" but they're all about jealousy WITHIN a relationship! I am not in a relationship with him. The websites say, "You have no right to be jealous because he is WITH YOU. If he didn't like you, he wouldn't be with you." But that just made me feel worse.
Help me please.
well either you tell your girlfriend you like him, and she'll lay off, but how do you know she doesn't like him too?
and why like someone that isn't going to return the same feelings? it makes no sense darling. find a guy who deserves you and will like you back.
i want to write her a letter because i get nervous when i try to talk to her about it. so do yoi think it be right to write a note?
you could right hwr a letter. it gets all your emotions out& you don't have to get interrupted or anything. just tel her everything you feel, and if she does reject you well you tried and your heart knows that you tried and that is what really counts. then you'll have a clear break away to move on from her.
if she accepts and can return your feelings well good for you! :]
but if you're moving that will be a whole other issue for you two.
so I've only been in school (college) for like 3 weeks, but i've already gained like 30 pounds off of the dining hall food. I can't control myself- they always have ice cream and cake and brownies and fries and all their salad dressing and milk is the full-blown calorie version. So what should I do? I can't handle this!
How can I stop gaining weight and get back to the weight I was before I came! I'm going to like die of a heart disease now! I'm soooo fat! omg! help
you need to eat a healthy breakfast, like good cereal. and eat a lunch with some sort of fruit or veggies, and if you hungry in between then you need to eat a little snack, but nothing sweet, fruit again. go to your college's workout center and run on the tredmill or do some situps. start stretching. you just need to stop with sweets for awhile, even though it's hard. the reward will pay off. or try and keep busy so you don't get as hungry too. study more for a class or a test and it'll keep your mind off of eating so much.
good luck. hope i helped. :]
From:what do u think? (sorry its long)
so do you think i shouldnt ask her right now if she likes me more than a friend? should i wait alittle? i dont want to move on until i know if she likes me back more than a friend or not.
i think yes you should ask her. but, if she doesn't know for sure, then tell her that she just keep it to herself. like you said, you don't want to move on if she likes you. you also don't want to waste your time if she doesn't dear. i hope i helped. you can ask me anything you want anytime.
cmilner1607.
or on AIM, court x o loveee
Okay im a freshman at my school
and they are having powder puff,which is like football for girls.
I really want to tryout but I don't know too much about it.
Like are the rules the same and whatnot?
I basically just need some pointers or basics
thank you :)
awe, i love powder puff. :]
same rules, no tackling or hitting/kicking or anything though. and you can dress cute in uniforms make tees for your group. :]
What are some good father-daughter songs for weddings?
"a fathers'love"
"always daddy"
"daddy's girl"
there's a few. those are song titles.
ok last night i had to this nightmare that totaly freaked me out it scared me alot and it was really weird and i dont know why it scared me but it did and i was crying my eyes out in the whole dream basically it started out me my mom my dad and my sister who is only a year and two days older then me were driving through somwhere like taco bell or something then for some reason my parents got out of the car and went inside then my sister got in the driver seat and floored it starting to drive and crashes into another car killing the person in front of us then looks back and me grins at me and started laughing and i have no clue why that scared me so much but it did like maybe i wasnt even scared but i was crying in the whole dream does anyone know what this nightmare meant or anything or maybe why it scared me so much i know it sounds really weird or something but yeah
you might have just had all your thoughts bottled up throughout the day. dreams occur from unfinished thoughts we have. you might have thought of your family and a car, and thinking of driving. and those just happened to collide into your dream. don't worry about it hon. i'm sure you know your sister is sane, and wouldn't ever do that anyways. :]
how do you do this: http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a243/_devinmichelle/n31406857_31550330_5869.jpg
go to...
www.lunapic.com
it's a mirror affect with photos, obviously. :]
what is aquanet? is it like superglue for the hair?
it's super extra hold hairspray.
wheter or not it works i couldn't tell you.
hey everyone dis will be pretty long but i justreally need a answer quick.. please.. ok
well i really like this boy and all and last year he always used to look at me always used to talk to me and stuff and i really started ot like him i mean badly anyway he went to amerrica and stuff and then he came back
and asked for me and stuff and my sis told him when i ws comin to skool anyway this year you kno when you first go to skool and stuff and you havnt seen people in a long tmie and you get nervouse and scared and you kno what im saying anyway i was like to him heeey then i saw my friends behind him i was soo dammn exited to see them and stuff and so then BY MISTAKE honest mistake i just ran away from him and hese like why are you runnin and i totally ignored him but i swear i so did not mean it i just didnt think anwyay i told him i was sorry and now we talk and stuff and whatever happend happend lol but i duno man.. i feel that he doesnt like talk to me as much as he used to everyone finds him the same somehow i find him diffrent and like i find him we dont talk as much andhe never looks at me alot like he used to we shake hands everytime we walk buy and stuff but i duno please dont tell me hese prolly still mad that u ignored him cause i kno hese not i mean we talked today normal laughing and stuff and he told me he wasnt mad and stuff.
But what do i do to get him to talk to me more i dont wanna always come up to im cause he will find me annoying any suggestings?? please?? thanks
give it time. he proly feels awkward too just like you did. you know? let him loosen. you got allll year to talk and hangout. so relax,i'm sure he's still into you hon. and guys sometimes hide their feelings more anywys. so it's all good. :]
I got a pup when I was in about 4th grade. I'm in my junior year now. He's 9 years old. I find this strange that when I look at other dogs and meet them.. they are just animals.. pets.. dogs to me.. But when I'm with my dog, he's not just someone [hah, an animal] you go "aww cute" and pet.. Isn't that strange? I treat my dog almost like a person and he gets the affection he deserves.. but other dogs.. I don't know how to explain this.. But why am I thinking like this? Is it just because I grew up with him and he became so familiar? He does not act like a normal dog you can say. He's not hyper and he's not confusing to me or unpredictable. I can tell when he's sad, sick or in pain. I feel out of place. I met my cousins new puppy and he was wagging his tail.. being hyper.. To me, that dog was just a pet you take care of. But my dog, he's a part of the family and sometimes i feel like i can understand him just by looking at his eyes... It makes me feel weird, is this wrong?
it's called unconditional love. you just love your dog. my dog wicket i treat the same ay. he gets everything. and i always treat him like a human. he acts like one. i see him smile and can tell when he's sad or sick. he's my love and will always be there for me. you're not wierd you just love your dog. which is great. :]
I never knew that I become bisexual I never thought of women in a sexual way before I meet my best friend Jane 7 years ago. It was a big shock to me that she is my only first crush I ever had in my life, yeah I had pervious boyfriends in high school but I used them to get over her, I didn’t like the fact I was doing that to them so I broke up with them. I only told my older sister and my friend Josh too. They are supportive to me and try to help me when I ask questions. I told Jane about how I felt about her in our senior year she didn’t say much but was shocked. After we graduated I was busy with work and junior college same with her too, we are good close friends and we hang out with each other and others too. I still like her and I was always reading her body language to see if she likes me back. What I read was mixed singulars she is a touchy person who leans on me some times.
Last year she told me some guy in her class was asking her out I sat and listen but inside I felt a bit jealous I ask her what she said to him and she said “no I am not ready for a relationship at the moment.” after that conversation the next day I was trying to recall that day I told how I felt about her, I was trying to remember what she said about it. But nothing Jane didn’t say anything about it So I was struggling to find out how I can talk to her I was tying to speak to her on the phone or face to face about it but I freaked out, I even wrote a letter to her about it but it she didn’t received it cause she didn’t respond. I wanted to ask her “why did you seem okay when I told you how I felt about you?”, A year past and my friend Josh told me to step up and ask her, but I still couldn’t tell her, so in May I ask her to go online the chat room to have a chat, and so she did, I told her everything of myself and how I didn’t like myself for who I am, and when I ask her “why did you seem okay when I told you how I felt about you?” she said “I am fine with it before I was shock but now I am fine not that I like you in that way cause I don’t know what gender I like but yeah I am fine with it” I was glad to hear her reply and I went on explaining myself to her, I was kind of relief of getting it off my chest.
In July I knew I had to move on but then I knew it will be hard for me to get over her cause I liked her for so long but I had to. We still hang out as good friends and with our other friends too.
On the 4th of July I went over to my sister’s house party, she told me that her room mate Tiffany was trying to hook me up with her brother Mike. I talk to him and played pool he is cute and nice but I didn’t feel any sparks between us nothing happen at all between us but it was nice of a friend to try to hook me up with someone it was funny and flattering. Next week I told Jane about it on online chat room Jane’s response was unbelievable. She replies “I don’t know if I should be happy or pissed” I reply “what?” Jane “I guess time will tell for the both of us” I reply “what?” Jane “what do you mean what?” she then said she had to go to bed and I said good night, she logged off. I couldn’t sleep that night and I ask myself “was she jealous?” I send her an email and ask her if she was jealous. I was pissed that day because now she was making me confused and was messing with my feelings. She wrote me back and said “I don’t think its right to force someone into a relationship (even if you to did not talk much.) I don’t no if that’s how you saw it or not, but that is what I saw when you told me about it. And I did feel jealousy yes, I felt the same when you were going out with your last two boyfriends.”
She explained that she might feel left out if I have a boyfriend and she is afraid that we won’t be close anymore.
I didn’t know what to say but I told her that I can’t respect myself and I am not ready for a relationship. Not with the same sex (I didn’t tell her that), I might be moving next year to a different state with my parents and she said she is not happy about that either, but I have no choice because I don’t have enough money to have my own place. I want to clear my head and to help myself to respect myself she said that “people tell me that moving away is not going to help. But if that’s what you think you got to do it then do it and let no one stop you it may let you unwind a little”. She is right about that but I have no choice, if I did I will stay.
I told her I didn’t like the fact how she might like me back because I didn’t want her to be mixed with my depression of not respecting myself. Jane didn’t say anything, but I was thinking she might just didn’t want to be the third wheel as I was going out with someone and pay addition to some guy than her. But I will never do that. I do want her and I know I will never forget about her either because I think of her everyday. Now today we are still talking and hang out too. I don’t know what to do now I want to be with her but I can’t respect myself, and I want to know if she does like me back more than a friend. But I cant step up to talk to her face to face I get all red and I studier so I think it be right to write her a note. what do you think I should do?
if she had feelings for you, it ws wrong for her to act like she didn't for so long. here you are, trying to get over her and then out of left field she sys she might like you back? and doesn't even say for sure or not. so you're left hangy and back to step one again. she seems like she doesn't know what she wants either. you could write her if you know you can't approach her face to face. it's a confusing situation. ultimately, if she does and you do, i don't see it going anywhere if you're moving out of state. just keeping in touch and that's pretty much it. but you both don't seem ready yet. so just take baby steps. don't do everything at once.
I've been with my boyfriend for ten and a half months now and I find myself trying to start problems with us. Like yesterday for example, my boyfriend was completely happy and everything was perfect for him and I don't know I just decided to push myself away from him. He spent the whole entire day asking me what was wrong. I don't know I guess I don't like him being happy unless its just me making him happy. I just don't know what to do. The fact that I'm not happy most of the time unless its because of him kind of makes me want him to feel the same way I guess.
you're just like me. it's like i try to ick little fights sometimes. it's because we're bored. which isn't bad. i mean, it happens after awhile when you've been with someone for this ong hon. just try and do things that you know will make you happy with him. and tell him you're just being a girl. im sure you love him& are happy. you just get ored sometimes. put yourself in some activties, go see a movie, go take a walk. anything to just set aside the pointless boredom in your head. :]
how to get over an ex? because he wants to be friends with me and stuff but it makes it harder for me to get over him its been a year and im still not over him because he get my hopes high and stuff and it hurts please help?
you need to keep some distance, some boundaries. you need to feel disconnected with him. because if your space never occurs all your emotions will reappear again. tell him it's too hard to be friends at this time. tell him you need time to heal. these things happen. and great love takes time to regrow in your heart.
I am 26 and my husband is 28years old. I want to have a baby. My husband and I are trying since five months still I am not becoming pregnant. Now it is two months still dint get my periods. I did a test. It shows negative. I am very disappointed. So what can we do?
you could get a sperm donor. im sure you know that already. try adopting.
keep faith&praying, maybe if you try and he trys god will reward you with a beautiful baby. maybe god thinks you both, arent ready or stable yet. be patient. this takes time. just keep trying and stay opptimistic. :]