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Okkkay.
On the movie Yours,Mine&Ours
When all the kids that a party.
Drake Bell and that other guy
gets up on stage and sings at the beginning of that party.


Does anyyonee know what that song is? (link)
the band that drake bell is singing with is an actual band, and that is theyre original song. it is called "bring em out" and it's by hawk nelson. you can find this song on hawk nelson's second cd, "smile, its the end of the world"


alright so ted* is now going out with tammy*. i was first really upset because i liked him and he liked me and all this other stuff but long story short i don't care anymore. i was just wondering if there were songs that any of you know that sort of give the bird to the guy and just sort of say go screw yourself, haha. i was thinking of "you oughta know" by alanis morissette but are there any other songs that sort of describe this feeling? thanks. (link)
makes me wonder by maroon 5


I lied to my best friend. And my cousin too. I hate my life. I think i just screwed it up. It was a really bad lie. They found out about it. Got any apology songs? Thanks. (link)
"cold" by crossfade. the chorus basically says, "what i really meant to say, is im sorry for the way i am, i never meant to be so cold..." hope that helps!


theres these two songs i hear frequently on the radio one goes like this

1. cause let me remind you we'll always have each othhhhhhha

thats all i remember and hte other song goes like this

2. we'll carry on, we'll carry on, we'll carry...

- what are the song names and artists of these two songs

thank you!! (link)
the first one is most likely umbrella by rihanna, but i am unsure about the second one.


Can you still tan if you put sunscreen on? I need to make sure I don't get a burn, but I hate being so freakishly white! (link)
yes you can, it depends on what spf you use. if you use spf 30, you most likely will not tan. howeveer, if you use spf 15, you will tan, and as long as you reapply it often you will not burn.


Does any one know some good songs about self reliance? like having to do things yourself and being on your own and not having anyone to rely on through hard times?

Thanks ;) (link)
i do not like this song at all, but the lyrics sound like what you would be looking for. "inner strength" by hilary duff.


Ok im a senior and i have had these friends since freshmen year and our shopmore year me got in a huge fight and i stopped talkin to them all and now since its our senior year i want to get back to the way things once were so im just forgetting everything that had happened and moving on...do you think it will work out? and also do you think im dumb for tring to get my friends back? (link)
i dont think you are dumb for trying to rekindle an old friendship. i think it could work out, but it all depends on your friends. apologize for what happened before and tell them how much youve missed them. good luck!


so, recently, i've been realizing, that, i flirt, wayy tooooo much, wiht like any guy. i can't help it.. its just easy and fun. and i feel HORRIBLE about it. are there any suggestions to help me stop flirting so much, or anything at all?
thanks
14/f (link)
all i can say is that you should try and save your flirting for guys you really like or are really interested in. if you catch yourself flirting, try to stop. also, if youre with friends you could ask them to let you know when youre flirting, if its something you dont realize until after the fact.


i really need a new cheap digital camera. i was looking through the target website and i found this one for 100 bucks:

http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/sr=1-8/qid=1180893918/ref=sr_1_8/601-6454491-6023347?ie=UTF8&asin=B000MAF0XU

i'm not a camera whiz, and i dont know anything about them, so if you guys know anything about cameras and if you read the little description thing, is that a good quality camera? THANKS SOO MUCH (link)
yes, this is a very good quality camera for the price you would be paying. it has zoom, an lcd screen, and photo printing ability. however, you have to consider additional costs for the camera, such as a charger, a printing dock, and a photo program for your computer so you have a place to upload your pictures.


This is a question for teenage girls. My daughter and I have always been very close. She's always been very open with me and willing to share things about school, friends, boys, etc. Now that she's 13, though, things have changed some. Sometimes I can tell she's upset about something, but when I ask her what's wrong, she doesn't want to talk about it. I realize this is normal, that she wants some privacy and doesn't need her mom butting in on everything. But I also know it sometimes helps to talk about things instead of keeping them inside. I want her to know that I'm here for her and that she can tell me anything. Should I keep trying to get her to talk, or should I just leave her alone and hope she'll open up if she needs me? (link)
i think the best thing to do in this situation would be to let your daughter know that you would like to know whats going on in her llife, and that you are there for her. tell her you would like her to talk to you, but you arent going to pressure her. say that she can come talk to you anytime she wants, but you arent going to ask her to anymore.


my name is Rachel and iam 18 years old and my cousin traci always bosses me around and she's 15 years old and if i don't do what she says she says she won't speak to me again what should i do? (link)
you need to tell traci how you feel. you should tell her that you dont appreciate it when she bosses you around, because you deserve respect, and not just because youre is older than her. you need to let her know that you would like for her to stop being rude to her, and ask her why she feels the need to treat you the way she does. maybe youve done something to offend her previously. most of all, let her know that you dont want her to stop talking to her, because you like her, but you arent going to tolerate her treating you the way she does. let her know something needs to change.


Ok so I was at the mall with my family because my mom had this idea that we should have a family day. Anyway on while we're there I saw some girls from my school that I know hate me and would just ignore me otherwise i'd have said hi. But i tried to hide and no they didn't see me but my parents say I'm not allowed myspace if any drama happens and I wanna know if that counts did I blow it?
thanks in advance (link)
well only your patterns opinion really matters in this situation, but i dont think that what happened should count. there wasnt any actual drama going on there, and if the girls hate you, thats not your fault. so i think in this case youre ok, but only your parents can tell you that.


im 13/f
ok i know this might sound stupid but sometimes i think im too nice, and people take advantage of me. like, if im sitting at a desk and someone says "aww i wanted to sit there", i'll get up and move, even though i really wanted to sit there. or if some girl is flirting with my boyfriend, i just sit there and dont say anything, even though i'd really like to punch her in the face. my dad and my boyfriend keep telling me i need to stand up for myself and not let people walk all over me, but i just can't do it! i dont want to be mean or look immature or rude! how can i stand up for myself without feeling like a "mean girl"?
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you cant let people walk all over you. you can stand up for yourself without coming off mean. like if somebody says they really wanted to sit at a desk youre sitting at, you could say "im sorry, maybe next time you could sit here?" or if a girl is flirting with your bf you could say "im not trying to be rude, but it really makes me uncomfortable when you flirt with my bf. could you please stop?" as long as you say things politely, and dont act mean, people wont be offended. standing up for yourself is always good.


So I have no idea how to dance. I mean in school and stuff we don't really have that much dances and stuff and now we're having one. I'm sure some people at that know how to dance from going to clubs and what not but...i can't//don't know if i can dance. This is a tough question..but when everyone's dancing I want to join in to make memories..any tips? (link)
the secret to dancing is that there is no right or wrong way to dance. if you can hear a beat in a song and move to it, then you will be fine. you could always try watching music videos for some ideas on dance moves, and there are a few songs that have certain dance moves that everyone does. ("snap yo fingers" lil jon, "pop, lock, and drop it" huey, "lean wit it rock wit it" dem franchize boys, and "walk it out" unk) you can always look at your friends to see the way they are dancing, and try to do something similair. as long as you can move to a beat in a song, it doesnt matter what youre doing. and the most important thing to remember is that its better to be dancing a little different than everyone else, than be standing on the wall watching everyone else have fun. no one can laugh at you cuz youre trying to be outgoing.


can anyone send me some really good and working really good DIET TIPS? (link)
you have probably already heard this before, but one of the easiest things to do is to drink water. drinking water speeds up your metabolism, so you are burning more calories, and youre supposed to drink 8 cups of water a day anyways, so it is a good thing. also, this sounds like it wouldnt work, but the best thing to do is to exercise at least 3 times a week. and most importantly is your diet. try to stay away from unhealthy foods, and make sure you arent intaking more calories than youre burning in a day. if you get hungry a lot, you could try eating 5-6 small meals a day instead of 3 large meals. good luck!


15/f.
how do i become more confident? (link)
confidence comes from the inside. you have to be assured of yourself. if you like the way you look, you will be confident. if you think you are smart, you will be confident. if you believe you are well-liked, you will be confident. dress in clothes that you think make you look good. congratulate yourself when you do well on tests and projects. make a lot of new friends and be outgoing. and take compliments seriously when you recieve them. when people think you are confident they will naturally be attracted to you.


Does God punish you if you sin, or if you are planning on sinning.

Like if i know i'm going to cheat on a test, or if i already have, will God punish me by making something bad happen to me, or by makeing me get a bad grade or soemting along those lines? (link)
according to the christian relligion, if you have accepted christ into your heart you can ask for your sins to be forgiven, and he will erase all of them. i am not aware of god punishing people for sinning or planning to sin, however, although christ forgives you for all your sins it isnt meant ot be used as a "well i can sin because god will forgive me". but i havent heard of any instances where people have been punished because they sinned.


Could someone explain what Wicca's about?I've done a lot of research on it,but everyone's interpretation seems to be different. (link)
the definition of wicca varies from person to person, but basically it is a religion that believes in a god and goddess. it is large on female empowerment. wicca is a magic religion. it uses spells to make things happen. wiccans only use white magic, meaning there is no voodoo or bad magic used. one of the wiccan laws states that everything you do will return to you threefold, so it would not be wise to try and cause something bad to happen to someone. the main wicca law is "harm none." many wiccans use their magic to help heal people. before a wiccan starts attempting magic they have to undeerstand the rules and laws of wicca, and dedicate themselves to the religion. wicca is a good religion to look into because it is very open and accepting, can be practiced by anyone, and believes in self empowerment.


what did YOU do when your dog/pet died?
my dog didnt die but when he does what do i do?

can you stuff him? (link)
technically you could probably take your dog to a taxidermist and have him stuffed when he dies, but that doesnt seem like a humane thing to do. it is also extremely expensive. i would suggest burying your dog if you want to have him near, just make sure he is at least 6 feet under the ground. also, you could cremate him and have his ashes put in a box or urn. if you dont like either of those options, you could always take him to an animal hospital, where they will dispose of the body.


ok my cats are weird. They drink from the toliet. Even when I have given them a fresh bowl of water, they would rather drink out of the toilet. Is there something wrong with them? should I stop them from doing it? If so how? (link)
it is not uncommon for animals to drink out of the toilet, although it is more often dogs than cats. this is fine for your cats to do, it is perfectly safe for them to do so.




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