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okay so your making out with a guy and what not.. how do you let him know you want him to go under your shirt.. without actually saying it? cuz i mean come on that'd sound kind of stupid. the more answers the better!
thanks much. (link)
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hopefully hell be able to read your body lanuge and if he doesnt than put his hand on your breast and hope that he'll go under if that doesnt work i know this sounds kinda fast but if you dont want to come out and say it do it for him take his hand and put it where you want it or you can always take off your shirt so than eighter way theres no shirt to go under they say if you if you want something done do it yourself or your'll get no where hope i helped
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Can you get pregant from dry humping? Like if both people have all there clothes on.
~Eli (link)
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no you cant get pregant from dry humpin exspecially if you have all your clothes on you know so dont worry about it
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ok so im a little young i guess to know wat i am. But i do i think, eneyways i think im well bi and theres this girl shes my best friend and i love and i dont mean that in a friendly way i mean it in a serious way so i dont know if im bi or if i only have a girl crush err love. But thetres this other girl shes bi shes one grade higher than me and i think she likes me i know for a fact well i think my best friend who im in love with is straight but i dont know. So enyways the girl in the higher grade shes hott and i think i may like her ugh this is so confusing for me i hate it so what should i do? err what am? i mean i reaally love my best friend shes hott,beautiful,funny,and smar shes my everything but alex i kinda like shes different and shes pretty and umm hott err what ever so could some one please please help me out here!!! (link)
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first of all theres nothing wrong with being bi its completly natural and well if you love your friend tell her that ur bi if shes really your friend shell stick by you and ask her if theres any gurl that she would consider dating and once you break the news to her and you dont think shes intersted than go for the other gurl alex like you said shes hott and you like her so maybe that like could turn to love you know keep an open mind hope i helped goodluck
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15/f
I know this question is getting old but I'm in some need of advice. Preferably from a guy.
Alright, Well I'll just use my name and his.. I'm not ashamed:].
OK well heres the situation.. Mike was being all nice and sweet to me. I known him for a good year and I liked him last year and he liked me. Lets just say wrong move by me and I never got my chance with him. Well now this year we have a class together and we flirt like crazy. Well just recently my uncle fell ill and so Mike put "hope your uncle gets better sara" in his MSN Personal Message space. Well he's like my support system when I'm down. I always tell him he's the bestest and he says you are too. So basically it feels like he's into me but thats where I got lost I'm guessing. We had made plans to hangout just didn't know when exactly. Well we still haven't set a date yet but we know what we're gonna do and he seems excited. Like he was like
"Can I go into A.E while we're at the mall?" and I was like
"Yes of course, but can I go into boathouse while we're there?"
And he said yeah of course and that we'll go together.
Basically he lights up my life(sotospeak) But now I'm confused by him. His p.m read what I said up there and well my family came over and so I was downstairs with them so I was on msn as away, so I never had the chance to see him sign in. Well when I came back up his p.m said "get better soon nicole." Which I understand that his friend is sick and all and thats fine but what I don't get is, when I changed my status to online in a matter of 5 seconds he was away and then next time I looked(about 10 min later) he was offline.
I know I didn't give enough useful information for the question I'm about to ask but please make do with what I gave.
Does he like me even just a little bit or am I blinded by the light, and should just give up on a year long crush?
Thanks sooo much. (link)
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your'll never know until you go for it you already missed out on your chance once you cant move forward if your standing still ask him like you said your close ask him before you read to much into it and get played you might be shy and embarressed but its better than getting hurt in the long run and he you never know it could be the best question you ever asked good luck hope i helped
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I cry like 2-3 times a week for one reason.
A boy,I will tell you my story.
He moved here about 3-4 years ago, he was a new kid so i just messed with him and thought he was cute.[I'll call him "B"]
Then we would talk online and stuff and see eachother around the neighborhood and stuff,so i had a crush on him.
He acted like he liked me, he would call me ,Im me, all that good stuff but he would say he liked my friend but he would like invite me over and stuff all the time.
Then I got over him , next year came around and i liked a totally different boy until the end of the year.
My Best friend came over and was pretty good friends with "B" so we would hangout , which made my crush on him come back.We started talking more again online and on the phone, then we did ""stuff"" and he still continued to call me and talk to me online
yet he would say he didnt like my best friend.
Our school found out about what we did and everyone knows.
Of course , we both deny it,
At the exact time of all the rumors going around i moved out of the nieghborhood he lived in.
He started hating me becuase he thought i went around telling everyone [which i didnt] and we didnt really say much to eachother for about a good month or 2, besides the occasional him taking something from me or flicking me or some boy shit they like to do.
Just recently , maybe a week or 2 ago he randomly started talking to me [honestly i didnt expect it]
online, he said he didnt hate me and we started talking and he even asked me questions about why i moved and he told me to move back and just some other conversation.
After that one night , he never talked to me again.
My friend talked to him and asked about me and said he hates me so much and he said he has ALWAYS hated me.
Which makes me cry becuase i miss everything we used to have [but it wasnt a relationship, it was a friendship with benifits]
I dont know if he was just saying that to get as many people to believe we didnt do what we did, or if he really hates me?
Sorry this was soooo long, i just need help and I cant be sad anymore
and please dont say to move on, ive tried
and tried and tried
it isnt working at all
What shld i do? (link)
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fuck him cut him off completely i know its easier said than done but your letting yourself get all worked up on some asshole who uses you and only see's you as a rebound bitch seriously try not to let yourself dwell on him and remeber all the shit he said about you and stay away from him act like hes another face in the crowd your'll get over him if you allow yourself beleive me i was in the same situation you deserve better it helps to write it down in a diary or right poems and remeber he anit worth your tears because everytime you waste a tear on him it makes your feelings for him stronger and you weaker do you really want him to rule your life i dont think so so women up squash him like the bug that he is hes the bitch here not you it might take a while but your strong and you will get over him and assholes like him will get what they deserve good luck be the leader of your life not the follower hope i helped and there plenty of other fish in the sea hope all turns out well
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I like this guy but I have heard that he may be gay is there any way of telling ?
please give me some answers (link)
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look how he dresses does he dress alittle to gay does he act very femine and does he ever talk like a gay guy beleive me your'll know a gay guy when you see him read his body lanuage
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13/f last night i think i interuppted my parents having sex. my mom yelled at me through the door because it was locked and i knocked on it. it was like 10:45 pm. my parents never go to bed that early and they never shut the door and lock it. is this a sighn of ur parents having sex?? im just curious and i didnt think my parents still did that stuff. should i ask my mom or should i just let it go?? its really bugging me!!! (link)
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there probley having sex but its compeletly normal just cause there your parents doesnt mean they dont have sex it might be disturberting but at least you didnt really acuatually walk in on them like i did a few times
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I am 17 and I met this guy at a bar. He is 21 and I just wonder if other people think that is too old for me. Should I go out with him again? We exchanged phone numbers and we have talked on the phone. Any and all responses are appreciated. (link)
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no not at all at least in my opion i dont think that hes to old for you if you like him than go for it see what happens goodluck
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I really like this guy! he asked me out today adn i said yes! Things are going great! ((im 13/f by the way)) I'm sorat shy but i want to hold his hand nd stuf but i feel like mayb he is shy to. I dont want to have to make the first move so what do i do? i want to hld his hand but i dont think i should have to make the first move.... HELP!? (link)
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you guys are going out so why so nerves i know you dont want to make the first move but why not its obvious that hes not maybe he thinks your reject him so just try to make the first move you guys cant go anywhere if your standing still you cant move up if your not gonna take that step you know hope i helped goodluck
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ok this boy i like is going to sit with me on the bus tomorrow. i am so nervous, what do i do? what do i say? i dont want there to be any kind of awkward silences. HELPPP MEEE. (link)
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relax hes gonna sit by you so he likes you so the hard parts over make a joke comment about a movie ask him if he has a favorite movie you know be funny and charming and make him laugh be yourself and flirt lol hope i helped goodluck
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one of my friends sent me an icon and said it was so funny, i dont get it...can someone help me out? its a picture of a optomestrists chart that reads:
I
AM
SOFA
KING WE
TODD DID
whats that mean??
thanks (link)
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its a joke its really nothing special just say it fast
I
AM
SOFA
KING WE
TODD DID
what it means is you give it to somebody and the read it it say i so fucking retarded you get it
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Okay so im a girl 16 years old. sophmore im dating a senior. were in love we are absolutely crazy about each other. Although we have couple problems. we both have strong personalaties and very stuborned and have alot of pride. well for our reletionship i let my pride and stuborness go but he didnt. I have a past where i used to be with many guys just dating(no sex)and he is still really jelous about that but now i dont even talk to other guys or anything and hes still really possesive and jealous he think i try to look good for other guys and try to get attention and he thinks hes not good enough but he is. its just i like to look good and he hates it. We fight alot! basicly we have an argument every day. He does not trust me although he says he tries. we have been together for 4 months.I need to know what our problem is and how to fix it because i dont want to break up since i love him but im not sure what else is there to do.. Please help.
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ok you said you like him alot and what hes doing is abusive and unfair stick up for yourself you tell him if he doesnt change it over because he sounds like somebody who will let jealousy and fear control him you dont want to be trapped with an abusive b/f think wisely gurls regret every day if he dont change drop him i know its easier said than done but you wont regret it hope i helped goodluck
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So theres this guy I work with, who I've been talking to for about 4 months now. Just last month we even exchanged phone numbers and we've been talking on the phone and texting almost everynight. The only problem is I can't tell if he really likes me. So my question is, what are some ways you can tell if a guy is into you? (link)
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ok this sounds alot like me i like a guy i work with and well just make he doesnt play mind games you know because guys will do that he does it to me think does he flirt with other gurls two i know this sound to fast or forward but believe me its better to know than be played ask him plain out is this going some where and listen very closly to his answer talk flirt do whatever but dont let your guard down until you know you can trust him and to answer your question does he always stare at you flirt with you or he only has eyes for u he listens to you you know the little things that he does i helped i helped goodluck
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k ` wel i mean im not really fat ya kno i weigh about 129 or 130 . i just wanna lighten up on my foods & i wanna start workin out to get my body in [ shape ] i thought cheerleading would help me lose weight but it actually hasnt ''/ i just wanan lose maybe about 10 or 15 pounds . i want abs :] .. wat do i needa do 2 succeed in this . iv tryed like everythign for real . dieting . its just doesnt work for me ... please help (link)
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try eating healther you know and every little thing helps they have these delious special k and 100 calories snack bars that are low in calories and at luck instead of eating greasy shit try a sandwitch and 2% milk you know and walk alittle more instead of watching tv or asking somebody else to get something you get it and keep yourself busy itll keep your mind off of food remeber every little bit helps i lost 20 pounds for working out a hour to an 1/2 at least 3 days a week then i changed my exersise routine also ate less grreasy foods and if you want more on what i did write me and ill give some if the exerises i did and beleive i also got to eat the foods i liked hope i helped good luck
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I met this guy on yahoo messenger, he seems so nice and sweet.. He's from Australia and work as an accountant in a firm.. Well, he's already my online boyfriend but ofcourse, i'm not that serious because i only saw him on pictures and we're living in a different coutry. Plus he's 26 and i'm 19. But to be honest I'm physically attracted to him, so is he. He told me that he's already inlove with me and everything. They wll have a business trip here in my country next month and he wants to meet me.. The problem is I dunno if i'm going to meet him because I dunno this guy. I only know him through messenger but I like him a lot because of his sweetness and kindnes.Please help, gimme some advice, would I meet him or not?When i told him that i'll bring him homw to meet my family, he thinks that it's nice to meet my family.What do you think guys??? Thanks in advance.. (link)
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its good that your taking caution but like you said so yourself you like him alot and it sounds like he likes you so yeah met him dont let this chance of happyness slip away but let me stress this met him in a public place so theres plenty of people around and meet him with a close friend that you trust and if you feel safe with him than go out on a date but i wouldnt meet him alone because you never know with ther internet but i would def meet him you dont want to miss out on happyness so good luck and be carefull
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14/m
this isnt appropriate but i need to get this out.
i dont really have a large penis or even medium sized. every boy says theirs is at least 7 inches. mine is smaller. i dont have hair on my armpits but im just wondering if that has anything to do with it. i have a little bit of pubes though. i dont want to stay this small as i grow up and go into my dating years. (link)
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dont worry you havent went through puberty yet and theres no way that your other 14 yearold friends are 7 inches or bigger i think that there exzaggerating and technicoly the averge size for a male penis is 6inches when its erected and when your soft its always small but dont worry your'll have your growth sper you never know later blommers could very well beat the early ones so i wouldnt worry about goodluck i hope i helped
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Yeah yeah, "embrace your youth", i know.
But that doesn't always work when you're going to formal events/job interviews/etc.
I'm almost 16, and I look extremley young. My question is does anyone know of anything I can do with my hair/makeup/clothing that will make me appear older? (photo of me on column name: pockets). (link)
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well honestly to me your face doesnt look that young but use maybe dark eyeliner and put your hair up plain and simple or crimp it dress conservitive you know walk tall and sound mature i would try the brush style make up you know like the models do hope i helped goodluck
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alrite. so me & my ex boyfriend broke up in the begining of the summer becasse he was doing stuff he was not supposed to be doing. no it wasn't cheating. & i still care about him but i know for a fact he don't care about me anymore. i already talk to him. didn't help. what do i do? (link)
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theres nothing you can do except get over him forget him move on i know it eaiser said than done but you said so yourself he doesnt care for you like that anymore so theres no reason to keep hurting your self you know what i mean good luck i hope i helped
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what are some things that guys (in general) find irrestable? how can i get guys to fall for me? (ps. please dont tell me to "be myself" or "be confident" because i am myslef, and i am confident, i need more specific things, like what to wear, what not to wear, what not to say or do, things like that) it would really help if some guys answered this for me. (link)
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how about always keep them guessing make them think about what you said or what you didnt say the more you speak in riddles the more they want to know what u said and the more they think about you also dressing nice sylish not sluty but your own style wouldnt hurt i hope i helped
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dear reader,
i am 14 old boy. there is this girl that i asked to be my gf and its already been about 2 weeks and i still didnt get my answer. every time i call her up she says shes busy and cant talk. i think shes trying to avoid me also. what should i do?
rafol boy
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the same shes doing to you drop it its pretty clear that her answers no so drop her you dont need her there are plenty of other fishes in the sea so forget her and go fishing goodluck i hope i helped
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