about

Hey whattsupp, my names Erin, but i sign E whenever I answer a question. I'm a sophmore in high school. I used to run, but strained my back and now i'm done. I love track so if you need any help in that I'm your girl! I'm love giving advice and helping people with their problems. I've been through so much in 15 years, that I can pretty much help anyone. Feel free to ask me anything I'd rather tell you that i don't know than give you a bad or wrong answer.
I love clothes so i'm best at answering questions about style or fashion. When I grow up I want to be either an actress or a fashion desighner. So these are my best subjects! Butt, I can help in pretty much all of them :). Please feel free to ask me anything, I'll ALWAYS answer to the best of my ability, and come on here as often as possible!

-E!

advice

so, I have this plain yellow t-shirt, and the thing is that it's slightly see through, so on the back you can see my bra.
I was just wondering whether I should wear a white or a yellow bra underneath it? I don't own a nude one...
So yes, which would be better?
Sorry for the weird question.

Get a neon colored cami, and wear it under, It'd look so cool!

-E

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So i just got back from travelling to florida with my friend and her family. i would like to get them a gift of som sort, just to show that i really do appreciat them taking me along. Last year i went with them and i gave them about $150 dollars worth of gift cards. This time i want to do something different but i'm just stuck on what to do. any ideas? there is a 16 year old, 6 year old, 3 year old and there parents.

Order those cookies that are shaped in various shapes and have thank you writen on them! Have your family have them over for dinner, WAYY less then $150.


Hope I helped

-E

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is bad breath contagious?

ummm... no?



-E

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Okay so my boyfriend of a year and 1/2 has cheated on me twice and it took me a long time but im starting to trust him again. Well a while ago his best friend kissed me but it wasnt my fault it was like a 2 second peck and i had no idea he was going to do it plus i told my boyfriend right after it happened. Well my boyfriend told me that i had to stop talking to him and i understood and i did. then my boyfriend didnt like my best guy friend ( we've been friends since 5th grade (im now in 10th)) and he made me stop hanging out with him. Well the other night we got into a fight and he told me that he didnt trust me and he goes through my myspace all the time and he has people watch me and then he got on here and was at my home page and asked me why i put on here that i liked someone else and i was like what the heck are you talking about??? and he called me a liar to my face then i got on and found out he was reading a question that someone had wrote to me and ugghhhh! im so frustrated ive never ever gone through his stuff ever and hes cheated on me!!!! HELP!!! what do i do???? sorry this is so long i just need help! Thanks in advance.

WOW, haha, well, First of all, I just have to tell you that it's not his disition who you hang out with. This guy(talking about your friend here) is your FRIENDD! No boy before. It is not your boyfriends disition if you can or can't talk to him, your clearly not going to marry this kid, so why waste your time with him? You are in 10th grade, all the disitions you make are yours, not his. You decide that you want to do when you want to do.


Hope i helped, and if you need any more help drop it in my inbox!

-E

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i saw this movie about a year ago and its kind of a scary movie but theres these young adults and they play this game on a laptop and when their character dies in the game one of the people dies in real life????

Stay Alive,
you liked it?
I thought it was okay, it could have deffinetly been better at some parts though!!

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Sorry for the length :(

So.. there's not much to say... There's this girl... (let's call her R) whom I've been best friends with forever...since, like, 3rd grade (and we're in 8th now) and we live right next to each other, and she's almost exactly a year younger than me. I've never thought much of the way she acted or looked or who she hung out with besides me... until now... A lot of people think she's weird and stuff.
Just a minute ago, I was looking at some random people's pictures on Facebook, and I came across this one popular girl's picture with R in the background looking like a totally freak (very very bad picture of her...she had this freak haircut--which she HATED btw--and was wearing a weird tanktop). The worst part was the tag for her was HAHAHAHAAAHAHA. I just stared at that picture for awhile, and then I just closed the entire window.
I really do love my best friend, but I'm beginning to question her a lot. Like the way she's always being so quirky. And not in a good way. Like when she wears the same slip-on Vans everyday with misfitting Aeropostale shirts and bellbottoms with huge tears at the knees. And how she duct-taped her shirt once because it said WTF in tiny letters (I tore it off before anyone could see that...). Or maybe how she stands with her feet wide apart and her braces sticking out of her mouth. Or how she's never been asked out in her whole life. Or how it seems she hangs out with some of the weirdest people.
As I'm writing this, I'm getting this horrible knot in my stomach... I feel like a jerk and a backstabber and a horrible friend. But I just feel like I've sort of...outgrown her. We used to be really weird little kids while we were in elementary... haha... we used to go around asking people for their hair and wearing matching Fairly Odd Parents t-shirts and sit beneath a tree all day and make fairyhouses. But that was... 3 and a half years a go. I'm done with that stuff. But I feel that maybe she's stuck being a little kid?
Look, I know I'm probably not making a ton of sense. But my ultimate question is: what should I do? Should I ditch her? Still be friends with her? Talk it out? I'm so confused. Any help would be appreciated.
Thanks :)

It kind of seems that your venting. Not that this is bad or anything. I used to feel the same way about my one friend. Is R a good friend? You need to ask yourself these questions. You don't need to spend every second with her, but if your not going to be her friend because of the way she dresses, then thats shallow on your part. Take her shopping and pull out something 'normal'(to your standerds) and say, "This would look so good on you!". All in all, everyone has a little bit of dork in them, even you. If R is a good friend, then who cares what she wears, it should be whats inside that counts, not outside. Also, i'm not trying to be harsh and say your a bad person/friend, i'm just trying to get you to be able to veiw your situation from someone elses shoes.

**Make sure you look at both sides before you actually do something you MIGHT later regret.. For example, telling her you have a problem with the way she dresses.. on one side you could hurt her feelings and she may not want to be your friend, and on the otherside, she can change completly just to fit your standerds..

Okay, i'm being onesided.. pretty much, i don't think you should say anything. I think that there is a reason you became friends with her in the first place, and it'd be offly horrible of you to throw that all away just about materialistic things.

Hope I helped!

-E

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the other day my boyfriend was going through my phone and saw his cousins number in my phone (he's a boy) but the thing is he's my second cousin too (me and my boyfriend arent relataed so dont worry) and he went off.. he pushed me and was calling me all kinds of names. now he wont call me back, answer my calls, or even answer my texts. its been 2 days and i still aint heard from him. i love him. and i know he didn't mean to push me. what should i do? im female and 16.

umm, its your cousin.. its not like your going to go and kiss/do stuff with your COUSIN! thats gross. It doesn't matter if he didn't mean to push you, the fact is that he did. You shouldn't be trying to get a hold of him, he should be calling you asking for your forgiveness etc. i know he'll say that he won't do it agian, but this is the first sign of dating abuse/violence. Don't get involved with a guy like this, hes not worth it. Move on, expecially at 16!

hope i helped
if you have anymore questions just drop it in my inbox!!

-E

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So I'm doing this report and have to use MLA. I looked it up online and stuff but its kinda confusing. I know I have to use time new romans size 12. Does it have to be double spaced? I'm in 9th grade so I'm just learning how to use this. Please help me as much as you can. Thanks! Any other info would be nice too.

Knitecite.com


ALl you do is plug in the information and it tells you how to cite it.

Then, you list it in ABC order and if it goes on to a second line then it needs to be indented.

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There is this guy that I really like a lot. The thing is i've never met him. He lives a state over. Anyway I told my friend that I really liked him, and i'd talk about him and how great he really is. Well when I showed my friend his picture, she wanted to talk to him. So they started talking, she has nick names for him, they talk more than him and I do. I just don't get it, she flirts with him all the time, everytime they talk. She says that's just how she is with guys. Also she has a boyfriend. So i've pretty much hit rock bottom with what happened tonight. They were talking and she told me what part of what they were saying because it was funny. She said he needs to go to bed, and he said she needs to go to bed, then she said alright father, and he said i'd rather be your mother. At first she didnt get it either until she thought about it, and then she got what he was saying. He said that because the other night when they were talking he said something about being her mother and spanking her all the way to her bed or something. When she told me about that, I almost just broke down. She does that all the time. She talks to him and flirts with him and then reads me what their saying. I just can't understand any of it. She didnt want to talk to him until she saw his picture. I mean she knew that I liked him a lot and yet she still just flirts with him right in front of me or reads me their conversation. I guess what I wanted to know is, what do I do about this? Do I just forget about him, and move on? Do I...gosh I dont even know what I should do. He really is such a great guy. I just can't stand the fact that my best friend does this. She flirts with every guy she talks to whether she knows I like them or not, she even flirts with other guys in front of her boyfriend. And one time when we were at the movies I saw a really cute guy and I just wanted to point out that he was cute and she just says yeah he was staring at me. I just..I dont know what to do. She's my best friend really my only friend. Please just tell me what you think about all of this, and what you would do, or some things that ou could do in this situation. Any answers are greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance.

Woahh, i have a similer stituation. i think you need to tell her this. Be nice and just say hey, i really need you to stop flirting with guys i like its starting to bother me and you wouldn't like it if i did it to you. About the guy. Let her have him. They'll never meet, and you'll never meet him. If having one more guy makes her feel good about her self then whoppie. Find a guy that doesn't let her do that. They guy sounds like he would youse you, or her.

if you need anymore help drop me a question.

-E

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Okay so track starts monday and i was wondering if there was anyway to help my breathing. When i run to two full song im out of breath like 3/4ths into it but i can run the whole two songs w/o stopping if I try but my throat really hurts at the end is there anyway to stop this or reduce it? I run two songs non-stop everyday. I dont know why it still does this. thanks:)

Breathe in nose and out mouth. It will feel aquward but it helps a ton while sprinting. If you can only JOG 2songs then i think you should slow down your pace.


-E

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okay well the past tow days my lower abbs have been hurting really bad, i went the the bathroom and my uraine came out very slow and painfully,than as the day went on it started to hurt more and i always felt as if i had to be when i didnt. when i went to the bathroom their was a ridiculious amount of pain while peeing like something was trying to come out that couldnt.I look in the toilet to find out i was peeing and blood was comming out it happend twice today.im not a virgin .Green tea is the only thing i drink and people in the past i know have had kidney stones from it.
i researched it, im not sure if its a urinary track infection or kidney stones. Im not too sure of anyof this because it had never happend before,if anyone has any idea what this is please help! thank you so much!

Go see a doctor. They'll know what to do that is best. I know that when I had this bump on my eye and my mom researched it it said that it was cancer and when we got it cheaked out it was nothing. Just go see a doctor, its the best thing you can do for yourself

-E

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Does anyone know of any teen sites that are for texting and meeting people your age?? (Like 14-16)

Don't give your phone out to people over the internet. But I do have one site, but it's for a bunch of people from age 13-like 75. But you can choose who you talk too.

Interpals.com


-E

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okay im fourteen years old and im extremly bored with my life. not all of my friends have a hobby but most do. im not a sporty girl but i would do a sport if that was my last resort. i need something to occupy my time really. everyday i get home from shcool and jsut watch tv or go on the computer for hours. its getting ridicoulus and boring. any suggestions?

Try track. You can do short sprints. You meet so many people and its fun. Also, at most schools it is a non-cut sport so you'll deff. make it.

Every other sport requires some sort of talent.

As for a hobby, try sewing. You can make your own clothes once you get good.

Try out for your schools play/musical. Go for a bike ride instead of watch tv one day. Take up cooking. Write a book.

-E

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I'm 17 and very shy. I've never had a boyfriend and am not that close to any guys. My senior prom's coming up in a few months and I'd rather not go by myself but I'm not interested in anyone at my school. How do I meet more guys my own age that don't go to my school?

Don't do the internet.

But, what I would do is just go to local hang out spots. (movies, mall, etc.) If you have outgoing friends ask them to help you meet people and talk to them.

Hope i helped!

-E

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Why is it that people say you only have a 20-25% chance of pregnancy? If i continued to have unprotected sex on the right dates, or around them, when do you think i would be pregnant by?

Do you NEED to have sex on the days of ovulation, or can it be any day of the month, that there is still a chance of pregnancy?


Thanks :)

Honestly, regardless of wether or not its your time to ovulate or not theres still going to be a chance of pregnancy. However, you have more of a chance on the days you do ovulate.



-E

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i have a school semi formal coming up..and i was wondering the flowers the girls wear around their wrist..i know where to buy them but about how much do they cost?

That depends where you buy them, but by me there like $10-$15 bucks. Just go to Jewel. You don't need to go to an actuall flower place.


-E

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so i have gym class right now,
and it's winter, so my legs are realllly reallly white :[
is there any tanning lotion or anything i can put on the that doesn't look too fake to make them look tanner in shorts?

My friend uses this Victoria Secret stuff.
Sorry I don't know the name, but i thought i should tell you not to use
Bear Bronze or somthing like that, its grosss, you have to lay dry for like 15 minutes and you turn out orange.

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I made my old yahoo e-mail account years ago. I need to access it now, but when I originally made it, I must have made up a fake birthday. Now when I entered in my "verification" stuff, it says that it doesn't match. Has anybody had this problem before? If so, how do I access my account?

Try looking around to see if you can answer the question that you picked when you made the account. If that can't be done then i'm afraid theres no way to get in.
For future reference try writing down your passwords or using the same one for everything.

Hope i helped
-E

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okay so my girlfriend is pregnant and she dont get her period does that mean the baby is like drinking the blood?

haha, no. The 'blood' is lining the uterus for the baby. When your not pregnet you don't need it so your body gets rid of it, your period. But when your with a child you need it. The person before me mentioned the egg and thats true, i just thought i should add this

hope i helped!
-E

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my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 11 months and i have noo idea what to get him for valentines day. i asked him what he wantd and he just showed me a few shirts he liked. how much should i spend on him though? he said he was going to take me out to dinner and get me something as well. help pleasee. :)

The best present isn't by how much it costs, its how much it means. Listen. That's the best gift. If he likes a movie get it for him, with popcorn and candy(maybe he'll invite you to share..) If theres something that is special between the two of you do something that represents that.

One of my favorite things is to get a small box, hand decorate it. A bow, paint it, use glitter, whateverr. Put a key in it. And when he opens it tell him that it's the key to your heart.

Hope i helped!
-E

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