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When ever I'm on MSN messenger, and try to send an instant message, my "enter" key won't send the message. I've never had a problem with this before. Can someone please help me out? Thanks. (link)
well i do not have MSN but i have AIM.
and with AIM what you do if this happens is there is a place where you can change everything, like Preference. check there


how much do i shave down below?
i am not quite sure please help me asap (link)
how ever much you feel the needed
are you sexually active?
if so you can shave it all off, or ask your partener on what they like the best.
if you are not active you and just shave it so you cant see it around you panties or bathing suit.


my friend likes this guy who she is kinda good friends with what can she do to make him like her? like how to act? what to say? hes probably a little out of her leaguee... no offence to her.. lol thanks for your help! (link)
she can flirt with him.. a lot.
and make him want her. make him want her. and she can act sexy. and once she's got him sortof wrap around her finger, act a little hard to get.


The guy I'm kinda seeing likes the "natural look"; no makeup, real breasts, and he prefers I don't shave because it's more natual, things like that. I'm at that point where I haven't quite snagged him as a boyfriend yet, but I'd really like to, so I'm willing to kind of change my style to make myself more attractive to him.Right now, my style would probably be labeled as "emo", and I wear alot of vintage-inspired clothing as well.

So here's my question: how can I achieve the "natural" look with my style, hair, and anything else? (link)
well first off.. you should change for anyone.
but if you really want this guy you can change it up a little.

for your style wear more earthyer tones. not many bright pinks, or oranges. and wear jeans and a t-shirt some times.

for your hair :
i really cute thing is when your hair is wet, put some gel in it .. then blow dry it so it is a little wavey.
or straighten your hair, but flip on the ends.

and for makes up :
you can just stick to a little blush, or bronzer, then brown eyeliner, and some skin color eyeshadow.

good luck, have fun ♥


So BASICALLY Im going on a cruise in December to the Caribbean and Im really excited and all, but I dont have a lot of warm clothes! Ive outgrown my summery clothes and I live in MASSACHUSETTS so EVERY store only has cold weather clothes. And Ive tried! I mostly just need BATHING SUITS! Im thinking I probably need to order them online? That would be the best option. I leave December 23rd. Im a size 14 in bathing suits (in like kids lol) Does anyone know a website(s!) I could order bathing suits on. Ive tried obvious stores - Abercrombie, AE, etc! Please be POSITIVE they have bathing suits & in my size & Ill rate you a 5! thanks!

Thanks! (link)
american eagle has them online
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/category_womens_swim.jsp?rcid=womens&scid=cat90036&navroot=womens

you can also check department stores
like Dillards
JC penney
Boscovs
and other stores like that.



i make/embellish my own clothes.. and yes.. sometimes they look really cute!!! im afraid if i wear them people will make fun of me.. my quesion is should i wear them to school or not?
answer this question to get a 5! (link)
yes. duh.
you've got a talent. flaunt it!


Ok so I just bought this purple eye liner but I'm not sure I know how to apply it. When I use black eyeliner I put it on that white line thing between your eyes and your eyelashes. I know that the purple wont show up if I put it there b/c its too light. Does anybody know where and how to apply purple eyeliner? thanx. I RATE HIGH.

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put it on your top lid, just above your eyelash line
and then you can also put it on your bottom lid, right below your eyelash line.


WHat's a store all for bras or has a section for bras? 13/f (link)
Victoria's Secret is the best place. they have great bras for teenagers, it is the Pink collection.


I really like this guy.. and I don't think he likes me.. how do I get him to like me? lol (link)
just flirt .. a lot
and be friends with him
make him want you.
♥ have fun.


my bf gave me a hickey on tuesday and it hasnt lightened at all or anything..i mean its VERY noticable. its like very dark. i can wear my hair down the rest of the weekend and to school on monday. but for cheerleading i have to wear my hair up so idk how im going to do that without my whole squad seeing it cuz trust me they will. can anyone help mee!?

5's for any bit of help (link)
haha, i've been in this situtation before. but it was on my neck.
you can just put some conclear on it. and if people notice, they notice. i am . everyone, well hopefully, will get one in their life.
its not big deal if your squad sees it.
if they give you a hard time just ignore them, you had a good time.


http://www.livejournal.com/users/xd0nthatex_fake/

I suggest you read it. All of the columnist are getting this. (link)
yeah .. i did.
and i think its stupid that some one would lie about their picture.
i know i wouldnt. thats me in my picture, no doubt about it.
i wouldnt lie about that. its just plain stupid.
you shouldnt lie about what you look like, but you should be proud. no one in this world looks exactly like you. you are the perfect you. be happy for that. ♥


does anybody know the shirt where it says hugs not drugs, and its blue ? where can i find this shirt cause i really want ittt (link)
hot topic.
i got the wife beater.
they have t-shirts, zip up jackets, and wife beaters.
you can go online and see them.
♥ have fun


I have a unibrow..no doubt about it..but i started shaving for at least 5 months. Im not stupid and i new that it'd grow back darker and thicker. But i just thought i'd shave it all off before anyone could see. But now it's really dark and there are black dots.How do i get rid of it? (link)
first off, shaving doesnt make it grow back darker and thicker, it only appears that way.

but stop shaving it.. A.S.A.P. and wait for the hairs to grow back a little, and then go get your eye brows waxed. it works better, and lasts longer.

maybe you can save up and get the at home wax kit, and do it your self after you get it do for the first cupple of times.

but shaving your face, unless you are a man, is horrible. and girls dont do it.

good luck ♥


My mom wants me to get a hair cut, so she asked me to pick out a style. I kind of want it shoulder length maybe a little shorter. But the problem is I have really thin hair (thanks to my mom and dad). I don't know what hair style to choose. Can someone help me? I have kind of a square face if that helps. (link)
same here, i have extremly thin hair, but mine is from not eatting properly.

you can keep it shoulder length and have longer layers.

or you can cut it to about mid neck, maybe a little longer, and get it all layered

i love my hair on the shorter side (mid neck) and layered.

dont be afraid to try something new and fun. its hair, it'll grow back ♥


i have brown eyes that have a hint of green to them so they almost look hazel in the sun...does anybody know a good eye makeup/shadow or whatever that would make them look hazel even when there not in the sun? (link)
gold works well.
also purples, like dark purple eye liner.
there is a brand, i completely forgot the name
but its sold at target, and it is made to bring out what color you want.
good luck ♥


My friend just gave me Jergen's Natural Glow tanning lotion. I want to know if it really works, or if it makes me turn orange before I use it. Has anyone else ever used it before? (link)
i've used it.
it worked well with me.
and normally tanning stuff makes me orange.
try a little spot on your tummy or something
and do it for a week, see how it turns out.
♥ good luck.


Hi Everyone!
I just bought a whole bunch of brown/brown tone clothing and I'm wondering about some "rules" i need to keep in mind. I know brown with black is a big no-no but what if it's 2 different tones of brown? Can anyone help me out? (link)
you have to be careful with brown on brown.
the only thing that you might be able to do it
tan on brown.
but i wouldnt wear all brown.
and brown and black . no way
brown and pink is cute.
brown and gold is cute
brown and tan is cute
brown and yellow is cute
brown and blue .. not really
brown and green .. not really.

so good luck with that ♥


how do you french braid? lol i know this is random but i can never get it right when i try to do it its always loose or just messed up.. (link)
here are a few sites
http://home.columbus.rr.com/dreamweavers/braids/french.htm
http://beauty.about.com/od/hair/ht/frenchbraid.htm

it helps if you start with damp hair with gel in it. it keeps down the fly aways, and holds tighter.
good luck ♥


Okay, I have a problem with this guy...you see I have this neighbor and I have just realized over this past summer that I am deeply in love with him. The only problem is that my best was in love with him too. So school came around and suddenly one day my friend Erika (the one who likes my neighbor Chris) comes up to me and says that Chris just asked her to be his girlfriend, but that he wants my premission before they become a couple.
So I talked to Chris and gave my premission because I knew it was the right thing to do and in the meanwhile I was completely and utterly devestated. I couldn't believe that this was happening. Chris and I had been the best of friends for a whole year and we were really close. I had always thought that just one day he would like me back. (He already knew that I liked him because my friend accidently let it slip awhile ago and he was really nice about it. And Erika and I had once asked him who he liked more and he said it was a tie)
Well now it's been about two months and it's getting even worse. Erika has started bragging about it. Saying things like "Oh my God I'm so glad that Chris choose me out of us!" in front of my face. And she's been making up stuff too like "Chris said he wants to spend the rest of his life with me!" and when I confronted Chris about it he said that wasn't true. I mean we are only 14. And then when the three of us hang out she hogs him and I can't even have a decent conversation with him.
It's so weird though because half the time Chris acts like he likes me and then other times it's like I got a deasese. I just don't know what to do anymore! Erika is driving me insane and I cry all the time these days and my emotions are all haywire. And I have no clue if Chris likes me or not. So if you have any answers or comfort or anything that would be great. (link)
first off .. you should not let a guy get between ya'lls friendship. and it is a horrible idea for two of ya'll to like the same guy.

but talk to her. tell her that you do not like her talking about/bragging him infront of you. and you feel like when its the three of ya'll she hogs him, and you cant get a convo. with him.

then you could go talk to him.
tell him that this is hard for you, and that your friend is being rude about this all. and you still have feelings for him, and maybe ask him if you and him could have some one on one hanging out time.

i think that might help a little.
but you two girls have to know that you cant let guys get between yourfriend ship. chicks before dicks.
because when this whole relationship thing is over, you still want to have eachother left.

good luck ♥


Me and my boyfriend broke up because I thought he was cheating but we worked out things and are back together but how to I tell my mom that we are without her getting mad? I'll rate high! (link)
just tell her, that you and your boyfriend hit a speed bump, but everything is back to normal now.

she should understand




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