Hi, this is Kate. I'm 17. My life motto is 'Live Laugh Love', I really think those are great words to live by and I'm planning to have it made into a tattoo. I'm not religious but I love learning about different religions. I write stories based on things that have happened to me because sometimes I have days where I just think 'wow that sounds like something out of a book'. I've finished 3 stories and I'm about to start my first horror story..very exciting. I believe in fairy tale love...the kissing in the rain, staring at the stars on the rooftop kind of love..Why? Because I'm in that kind of love and its been the greatest time of my life. And it didn't come easy.
I'd love to help you with whatever issues come your way. I've been in relationships where the guy was too old for me, the guy was my best friend, the guy just wanted to get some. I've been the other woman but I'm not proud of it. I've been the girl who waits years to be with the guy she wanted.
I come from the type of home where everyone seems okay and then when everyone leaves its chaos. My parents should have been divorced years ago and I can't stand to be around either of them so for now I'm going day by day, only coming home to sleep and counting down the days until I go to college in August.
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Ok for halloween i want to be a cow,duck,or piglet. I'm 13 ad i just liek to be crazy like that. so do you no if they have those questions in like a GIRLS size 14-16 not juniors girls.. and where could i find it? Thanks in advance!! Oh and if you have any ideas about other costumes liek that just let me no! (link)
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try partycity but start looking soon because i know at my part city you have to get your costoms early because they go quick. also you can have a friend go along with you and be a farmer. have fun you'll deffinately find something at partycity and if you don't have one near you i think they actually have more costumes online than they do in their stores.
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i've been using the ab lounger like everyday for a month and im not really geting any results. what should i do?? (link)
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my mom uses it and does appx.150 crunches on it and she's lost some inches around her waist and she says she feels healthier. it depends on how much you use it.
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well there is this guy that i think i am in love with. I've liked him for about a year. Him and I have a pretty good realtionship. Im really scared of rejection, so i've never told him I liked him. I think about him all the time. We always flirt and have hooked up a few times. Im scared to tell him how I feel because he is in my circle of friends and i dont want i to be weird. Im honestly would do ANYTHING for this kid. Is this love or lust and any suggestions on what to do? Thank you =] (link)
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TELL HIM. i was in the exact situation. after months of liking him i finally got the courage to tell him and that day i found out he was going out with someone. i thought it would be weird if i dated my friend but when i finally got over what everyone would think then it was too late. do it! or you'll regret it i promise
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My boyfriend was hanging out with this girl named Natalie. Natalie told me that he got a boner while they were together. Does that mean he is turned on by her and not by me. I don't know what to think.
help. (link)
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its probably just physical or she was trying to turn him on. my guy friends dont get turned on easily but we're just friends. so talk to your boyfriend about it. dont act angry just use a calm voice and ask him about it.
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Ok. So the questin I asked before was if I should go for it or not, and I took ya'lls advice and did. So now I wanna know what the first thing to do would be. We've been going out for a little bit and stil havent kissed or held hands yet and I wanna know what the freakin' deal is. lol. How do I get him to make the first move, or should I? I just don't want to feel weird if I end up having to. ya know?
Need help.
15/female. (link)
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i had a boyfriend like this. i waited two months and he still didn't kiss me or hold my hand. so one day i got tired of everyone asking if we kissed yet so i just grabbed him and kissed him. not the most romantic way to do it but after that he wasn't afraid to kiss me. or whatever the reason was that he didn't make the first move. sometimes you just gotta take charge and be the first to do it. just try to make it more romantic than my experience. but dont think too hard about it. JUST DO IT!
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Why do guys like girls with curvy butts? What's the appeal? (link)
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this doesnt totally answer the question but i have no idea why they like girls with curvy butts. its just a bunch of fat attached to our lower back. and this relates to what the previous advicenator said, girls (me included) like guys with big muscles because it means they can protect us and since i am a small thin girl i'd like someone to protect me but large butts on a woman are totally pointless except it adds more cusion when you sit down.
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Does anyone know of good sex scenes in a specific movie (or tv show)? Not necessarily with nudity...just an overall good sex scene...that is like intense and crazy? Thanks so much! (link)
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the cabin scene in Cold Mountain
Monsters Ball
in Sideways there's two short sex scenes that are kinda funny more than sexy
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Hello =]
Well i LOVE skinny jeans LOL and i got lots of them but i don't know what to wear with them im very causual but i just wanna start get more into the WHOLEE fashion thing if you get me i mean i dont just want to put a normal shirt on cause im kinda sick of it lol any ideas or even pictures ?
Thankx Much (link)
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i love skinny jeans. you can wear a dressy top w/ them and make them fancy or wear a plain shirt with them and have them be casual. i get a lot of shirts from abercrombie and fitch but be prepared to pay for them. i just spent $140 on 4 shirts. get babydoll tops they always look good. babydoll shirts are the ones that are kind of tight on top but then they're really loose on the bottom. layering works well with skinny jeans too. basically go to american eagle or abercrombie and fitch or any of those types of preppy stores and most of their displays in the windows have skinny jeans. if you just go to your mall you'll get ideas. skinny jeans are easy to work with.
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School's coming up within the next week and I do not want to see anyone. I feel like I've gotten more bitter over the summer...like all the joy and excitement of seeing my old friends have flushed away. All summer long, those myspace comments, "We miss you so much Claire!"..., "We have to hang out!" What about those yearbook signings? "Claire, we are SOOO hanging out this summer!" Guess what. Not one phone call. Nothing. NO INVITES. I feel betrayed and so out of the circle. I see pictures of them hanging out and laughing on myspace/facebook. It's like they're rubbing it in that I'm not with them or something. Is it wrong of me to feel bitter towards each and every one of them? I didn't see any of my "friends" this summer...Oh except, I did run into two of them at the grocery store once. I've been lonely all summer..and when school starts again, I'm going to see them, and my hurt will show. How can I react to them when I see them. All those fake "Awww, Claire, we missed you SO much!!" Well, if you missed me that much, why didn't you ever ask me to hang out with everyone throughout the summer? Any words of advice? (link)
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i'm in the EXACT situation. even my best friend betrayed me and had a party just the other day and didn't invite me. i'm going back into school and i'm going to have a fresh start and try to rebuild what i lost over the summer. if you know someone's having a party and nobody has called you then go ahead and call one of your friends while they're at the party, maybe they'll invite you. but when you get there don't act mad or it'll give them more reason for them not to invite you. just try to have a good time. i hope i helped a little.
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14/f
I recently told my friend ( a guy, we will call him A ) that i had a crush on his best friend. ( we will call him F ) so A says to me that he will talk to F about me and see if F likes me too. A couple of days later, he tells me that F knows that I like him. Then a few more days later, and A tells me that F said he likes me but doesn't want a girlfriend right now during summer.
well, my question is- does this seem like he actually likes me? or is just being poliete and trying to say no he doesn't like me? i know it seems really silly, and obvious, but i just want to make sure thats the truth. (link)
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it's possible that he really does like you. all my guy friends say they don't want a girlfriend in the summer but they talk about girls they like and they talk about how they'll probably ask them out when school starts. start getting closer to him now, physically and emotionally so maybe by the time he wants a relationship you'll be the first he thinks about.
good luck
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Hi,i was wondering what age is a good age for kids to start dating? Im 14 going to be 15 (freshman in highschool) if that helps at all..thanks : ) (link)
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my first little fling was in pre- k haha. me and this boy were inseperable it was cute. my mom has pictures of us holding hands. but my next actual relationship was in 6th grade but it wasn't serious and didn't last long and then my most recent relationship was when i was 14 and that was more serious and lasted 4 months but i know someone who started dating a kid when she was 12 or 13 and she stayed with him for almost 3 years. your parents are probably worried about you dating because dating leads to sex, not all the time but most of the time, and dating makes you focus less at school. just talk to them about it, tell them you want to try it.
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so me and my best friend are gunna have a sleepover soon. and like i wanna make it the most absolute most funnest sleepover ever. because we usually just have a normal sleepover where we watch movies and talk about stuff and guys. any advice is appreciated!!
oh and 14/f if that helps. (link)
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make your own video...if you have a camera. it's fun for that sleepover and then next year when you have a sleepover you can watch the movie and laugh at yourselves. one time me and my bff wrote stories. we just had inspirational writing bursts and took 3hours to write stories and then we read them to each other. they were funny. bake cookies or something.
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Heyy
Im a girl, 15
I keep tryin to shave my pubic hair BUt I always get red bumps or stubble or it hasnt shaved or i get little scars
Grrr i cant get it right
Ive tried waxing, but thats too painful and all the wax got stuck there o"o and wouldnt wash off for a day =/
Ive tried new razors, bluntish ones , shaving along the hair [downwards] , shaving against hair growth [upwards towards my stomach]
And I cant afford an electirc razor, if tha would work.. I am willing to pay anything up to £10, but not over thanx
Im sick of not getting it right....../=[
And when i think I do get it almost right, its still really prickly and rough ..
any suggestions ?
tyyy xxx
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the person below me said not to use nair because it hurts. it only hurts if you get it near your vagina or any other hole. so just do the top half with nair and then shave the rest. understand? the lower half has softer hair anyways so it should be easier to shave without bumps.
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Okay so my state (TN) has decided to mandate that every student K-12 get 90 minutes of excersize a week. Well they are using our homeroom time at my school to do just that. I think it is incredibly stupid because its not the school's responsibility to tell us what to do as far as excersizing goes. It is so damn retarded I can hardly stand it. I HATE coming to school now. OMG as if it wasnt bad enough LETS THROW IN SOME EXCERSIZE!!! Plus my homeroom teacher is strict with the rules, so if we dont do these excersizes every morning, she will write us up. I dont feel like I can talk to her because she wont understand. And I cant sit there and object while everyone else is doing it because that will draw negative attention to me. I get enough attention as it is for being fat. And thats not the reason I dont want to do the excersizes. It's just that 15 minutes is a long time for someone who is as heavy as I am and its embarassing to have my fat jiggle around for the whole freaking class to watch and laugh at. I would much prefer to excersize in PRIVACY where I dont have to worry about what I look like. High school is bad enough as it is. I think this is pure torture and I really want to refuse to do it. But I dont want to bring negative attention to myself. WHAT SHOULD I DO???? and what is your opinion on our new state law?? (link)
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at my school we have 45minutes every other day and the only way you are exempt from it is if you're in a sport. if you did exercise in private and lost some weight then maybe you'd be more self confident so that 15 minutes wouldn't be so bad. its not that bad to begin with, it takes me longer to take a shower. i think you should just suck it up and do it. it's keeping you healthy. losing weight will get you positive attention.
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think of your DREAM house.
and tell me something about it.
something special.
dont tell me "it has a living room"
tell me something different about it.
like how the hall, is a hall of mirrors.
or how the fifth floor is a paintball range or something.
or even somthing about the outside.
how all the windows are shaped like bongs.
or your secret garden right before the bar on the beach.
:)
things like that.
thankk yoouuu (link)
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three floors plus a finished basement.
first floor:
massive kitchen w/ dark wood cabinets and tanish grey granite countertops. big stainless steel fridge and one of those proffesional industrial stoves. in the corner i want a little nook where i can have a bistro style table with 2 chairs. then a family room off of the kitchen with a huge stone fire place and cozy comfy couches that you can sink into and one of those big wood entertainment centers with lots of shelves for books. next in the dining room i want wood floors and a tray ceiling but not a normal tray ceiling, i like the ones where its like four boxes pushed into the ceiling. then i want a living room, nothing special. in the back of the house i want a big sunroom with white wicker furniture and some sort of stone tile flooring. ok now on to the second story:
about 5 bedrooms all designed like hotel rooms for lots of guests and each with their own bathroom.
on the third floor:
there will be the master bedroom that is loft like, big and open, and bright with lots of windows overlooking my rock waterfall that flows into the pool. my master bathroom will be enormous with sky lights over the jacuzzi tub, then i want a big shower...big enough for two people : p
oh and i want the entry to be big, like a two or three story one with a big window above the door. then in the basement i want a movie theater and a bar and another fireplace down there. and a billard room and an office. oh and i want my driveway to have a big iron gate, but a nice iron gate with my initials in the middle.
thats all
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14/f
Is God real? I'm a raised catholic, but I for about 2 years now I've felt atheist/agnostic.
How do you know it's YOUR god that's real? What if there are many gods? what if there's a goddess?
just give me some proof.
because a lot of times i feel guilty for not being religious and i feel like i should be religious. But I don't want to save myself for marriage and I masturbate which makes me think that I shouldn't be a christian! Can i still be a christian even in spite of those 2 things?
please just give me advice. (link)
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whoever said the earth is a perfect circle is wrong. the technical term is an oblong sphere which means its wider than it is tall. so no God did not create a perfect circle. i was a fairly strong believer until i took earth science in school and the stuff they tought made more sense than what the bible says. i consider myself a cristian despite those things. my religion doesn't control my life. im not really religious but i have a religion if that makes sense. i don't go to church. but i pray from time to time, have to say it never worked. i believe in jesus but im still not totally with the God theory. i think you can believe whatever you want. the point of a religion is to believe whatever they tell you no matter if other people think it's real or not. there is no proof of God. jesus is more of a possibility and i watched a show where they explained how it was scientifically possible for the red sea to part. i think that when these strange events happened in history the people at that time didn't have an explanation for it except that it was caused by a greater force. they called it God, i call it nature. the earth is powerful, things happen. i'd like to think there was a goddess and a woman controlled the world.
that'd be nice
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i know i didn't completely answer your question but i don't think anyone can give you a completely logical and proven answer. i just gave some of my thoughts....hope you enjoyed them a little.
modelkate11
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What is the site that lets you have a complete view of a hotel room before you book? (link)
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expedia.com lets you see all class levels of hotel rooms, resteraunts in the hotel, the lobby, loumges, the pool. everything. and it gives you costomer ratings. i sound like a commercial but its a good site
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there is this boy that i really like hes gonna be a junior im gonna be a freshmen. my friends think hes too old. do u?
jaclyn
o by the way i found out he told his friends he likes me!
what should i do? (link)
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don't mean to burst your bubble. i know everyone already answered your question with answers that you probably want to hear but im going to give it to you from experience. when i was 14 i dated a guy who was 17. my parents were furious. he seemed like a really sweet guy. he always told me he loved me and we always hung out. we lasted 5 months before he started asking me for sex. when i wouldn't give it to him(because i was 14!) he told me he liked another girl, so i broke up with him. this may mean nothing to you. you might say "oh my guy is different" well all teenage guys are the same. a 17yr old boy is at a different maturity level than a 14yr old girl. im not trying to say you're immature im just saying that you really really really need to think about it before you get deeply emotionally attached. when i was your age i didn't think it was too old but now looking back on the experience, i don't regret it but he was deffinately too old for me. i just see it now as a learning experience. you're going to do what you want, i hope i helped you a little.
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18/female.
This guy and I have been talking since the end of April. He had broken up with his girlfriend he had been with for four years a few weeks before. They still talk & I have no problem with it because I'm pretty sure they'll never date again. She just used him to get money out of him, you know, a gold-digger. Anyways, the guy treats me pretty good & I like him a lot. There's just something about him. I'm not sure what it is really, but I've liked him since the first day I met him. The feelings I have when I'm around him aren't the same as when I've been around other boys I've liked. But his sister told me he was looking for a girlfriend & that's around the time we started talking. So I figured he would ask me out sometime soon. Well, today we got into an arguement. I think this is the conversation that started it..
him: I'm going to a party & get drunk in a little while.
me: You gonna talk to all them girls there?
him: Yeah, if there's any there.
me: Alright then, you won't be seeing me anymore.
him: Why not?
me: Well if your gonna talk to other girls I'm not gonna stay around.
him: Oh, I didn't know it was like that.
I told him I was just playing around, but after that he really wouldn't talk to me. I asked him what's wrong & he kept saying nothing but you could tell by the way he acted something was wrong. So I waited about an hour for him to start talking to me again & he ended up going outside with his brother. So I started to leave and he asked where I was going and I told him home. I stood there for a minute waiting for him to give me a hug, because usually before I leave him he'll give me a hug, kiss, and he'll tell me to be careful. Well, he walked inside so I followed him in there. He asked me why was I acting so pissed off & I told him I wasn't. So then he walked back outside to his car. I went right behind him, said bye, got in my car and left.
Now I know some guys act like this a lot, & this guy has even told me he can have mood swings from time to time (not serious bad ones) & he said if he didn't act happy or talk much that would be why. I'm just hoping that's what this whole thing was, but I have a feeling he won't call me. So I was wondering, should I just wait this little arguement thing out (this was the first time we got into a serious arguement & it wasn't even that bad) & see if things get better, or just go ahead and move on?
Because I really like him. I'm pretty sure he likes me as well. He asked me one time about my "boyfriend" & I told him I didn't have one & didn't want one. He asked me why not & told me I should settle down. So I asked why hadn't he settled down & he told me, "Well, I've been with the same girl for a month." (talking about me) I think he isn't sure about getting too close, like relationship-wise, to me though since he leaves for basic training for the Army in September. But I just need some advice about this whole situation. Sorry it was so long, but thanks a lot! (link)
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i've been in a similar situation. the best thing to do is apologize for whatever you did. just say "sorry if i offended you or made you mad" dont say "im sorry for whatever i did" because then sometimes they get mad because they think you don't know what you did, even if you don't know. apologizing is a quick fix sort of thing. it can make things go back to normal quickly, or you can try calling him, not waiting for him to call you. just be a friend to him, see whats wrong try to work it out. men are difficult you never know how they'll react, my methods are just from experience.
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what do girls like to see guys do. This may seem stupid, but im wondering what girls like to see and what gets them going. Also what qualities do girls like in guys. (link)
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ok you're asking what girls like to watch guys do? personally i love watching guys drive pick up trucks. not old guys but young guys. it doesnt have to be a really fancy truck, as long as the bumpers still connected and it doesnt sound like its going to break down. i also love watching guys play sports. i think its cute when guys try to show off in front of girls. i like a guy that'll listen to my problems. not all of them but some, and be able to comment on what i said so i know they listened. obviously i like athletic guys. they dont have to be buff but i like them athletic. something that keeps them from being a couch potato. i love when guys go out of their way for a girl. do something they wouldn't expect. i love funny guys. i like getting hugs from guys but too many is weird. i dont like when guys think they're something they're not. basically don't be fake. don't ditch a girl when you're with your friends...it makes us feel like crap. we need someone who we can trust and someone who will defend us. oh and please pull up your pants. i really hate when guys let half their boxers hang out. you can leave them out a little bit. lol i have to admit i do like when a guy stretches and his shirt pulls up and you can see his boxers. and this is just me but theres a guy i know and he wears boxers with little cupids on them. i love it. haha. anything else you want to know leave it in my inbox. i hope i helped.oh yeah, and dont spend more time on your hair than i would on mine.
modelkate
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