okay there is this kid i love so much . i knoe i am in love with him i talk to him everyday, i flirt with him but .. its my best friend`s exboyfriend .. i dont knoe what to do cuz i love my best friend shes like my sister .. and i dont want to tell her so i dont knoe what to do
just tell her...you shouldnt be ashamed to like a person she USED TO like..heck you shouldnt be ashamed even if you liked a person she liked as well...if shes thah close a frend to you then shell definitely understand...ya noe?
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theres is this kid that asked me out 6 times and i say no everytime .and its really annoying and he does it everyday nd when i say no hes asks my best friend wtf is tha matter he cant be alone for a few months .. but what if he asked me agen what do i say to him ?
if you totally dont like him then keep telling him no... and also tell him thah you get irritated every time he asks you and would he please stop...if thah dunt werk then talk to his frends and ask them fer help...er your frends too....ya noe?
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hey yall im 13 and im female.. i am having guy trouble :( i could get any guy i want but the one guy that i DO like says he wouldn`t go out with me.. i feel lonely tho i feel like i need to like someone how do i get the guy to like me? tHaNkZ
as i tell everyone...just be yourself...theres no point in you changing yourself just for one guy mite not like you for YOU...if he dusnt like you theres not much you can do...ya noe?
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Well i had another question before but i think alot of people misunderstood it. I am Best Friends with 2 girls my age but one is moving to B.C and all my other friend wants to talk about is how she is leaving and stuff. But a couple days ago when she visited they hung out and left me alone basically when im there best friend too! Have any advice for me?
so your being left out? well tell them thah your part of the triangle too and thah you feel left out sometimes because they seem to be getting closer wile you seem to be on the other side of the screen just watching them and not being included... ya noe?
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Hey Ive been getting behind in school REALLY bad and I say Im ganna study every night to try and get better grades but then I end up getting invited some where or Wanna do something with one of my friends so I end up not either stuffing or doing my homework or anything Do you have any idea how I could do both?
time management...set your priorities ferst..then make a lil room for a social life...dont hang with your friends tooo much...make it so frends and schoolwork are balanced... like lets say you hav a big final coming up after the weekend and your frend invites you to go to a theme park one day and a sleepover another...choose one and set the other day fer pure studying...things like thah...ya noe?
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My family is always bugging me about my grades and about school and it bugs me.They always tell me to bring my homework home so they can see it but I never do and when I do They try and help me but I get frustrated with them and all this stuff .Our family is always in fights and Ive tryed everything to get our family together but its not working.
just go with the flow...like do wat they ask without sayin anything...and nip agruing in the bud wile you still can... you could also ask them (like out of curiosity) why everyone is fiting all the time and can we please not do it so often...things like thah....ya noe?
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Hey! OK, I'm really shy. Its not that I enjoy being all by myself because I totally hate it... I love to be with people... but it’s hard for me to just walk up to someone because last year in classes we got to sit around and talk for the end of each period. When I tried to talk to someone they would be like "uh huh. Ok" and then walk away. However I’ve talked to each of them individually and they seem interested in talking to me (No, they were not just being nice) I’m moving to a totally new country next year which means a new school. I want to redo myself… like not be so shy anymore. Could you all give me some tips for me to be less shy? And please no advice like "just talk to people"… that doesn't work. I've tried. Thank you so much everyone!! Any advice is appreciated!
confidence...always walk with your head up high and dont care whether or not people talk to you... i had this same problem wen i was in 7th grade buh wen i moved and went to 8th grade i pretty much didnt care anymore and thahs wen ppl started talkin to me...i was just there and they were the ones to come and talk to me...ya noe?
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I really like this guy but he doesnt like me im sad because I really like him! I dont know why he doesnt like me he wont tell me My question is how could I get him to like me?
just be yourself...if he dusnt like you wat can ya do? you cant make him like you...changing yourself wont do anything...he mite fall for new looks or sumthing buh he wont like you for YOU and wat good is thah....ya noe?
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Im 14 female..okay my bff steph n i are....soooo close we go on vacas together n my mom is like her second mom since her family life isnt so good..she is like my sister..we have been through hell n back together n i know i can tell her anything!! shes such a great friend! but...well lately we have been drifting..we r kinda going seperate ways i think..im into school..im going to summer school to get a highschool credit n she wont go..she missed 49 days from school last year n yeah..so im into school n shes not..plus our moms are 2 TOTALLY diff. ppl...well it sux bc i kinda do feel like we r drifting n part is bc of this guy..he is my ex b/f(which by tha way im ova completley bc of his nasty additude!!!)..i have knwon him fer 3 1/2 years n she has been "close" with him for 1 1/2 or so..well he is a big time PLAYA!!! n her and i both know it..but him n her have some special realtionship...n right now they r REALLLLLY close..but i know he is guna end up hurting her..n sumtimes she will bring it up like how much of an ass he is being to her n shell just laugh n say "o-well ill learn sum day!" but i knwo she is guna come running baq to me hurt AGAIN fer tha 6th time..n it just gets irratating..i wanna talk to her but i dont think she'll listen..im not sure what to do....?!?!?!?!? plz help thannnnnx! much luv!
dont talk to her about the guy and her as a couple...just tell her how you dont want her to get hert and remind her how much of a jerk thah guy is er watebe...ya noe?
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i have liked this kid since 7th grade ( im only in 9th now ) but thats still a pretty long time...he knows i liked him in 7th and he knows i like him now but he doesnt know i have always liked him...hes all i think about day in and day out...i cant EVER get him off my mind but im scared to talk to him about it...we talk and stuff he kinda flirts wih me and stuff and we chill sumtimes but he works a lot...i REALLY want him to like me the way i like him...it just hurts a lot to know he prolly doesnt even care...me n my friend went to this soccer game and after it was a huge pilloiw fight...well these kids kept like trying to get...up on me...and wen he saw it he took off his hat, put it on my head and like chased them so they wouldnt touch me...ik it sounds really gay but wen he put his hat on my head i felt like i had everything in the world...is there anyway i can stand out to him...but not like changing myself totally? thanks for helping...xoxo
sooo like me!! i hab a guy frend like thah buh he dusnt noe...SHHHH!! lolz anyways with this one i think thah you shouldnt try to stand out more to him... he prolly notices you enuff so theres no reason to try to stand out more...ya noe?
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ok well im very upset at my father for sumthing that he does. so my boyfriend is a really big guy and i dont mind at all and my dad likes him and all but my dad always calls him shrek when my bf is not around. i always get mad at my dad for sayin that bc i like my bf alot and he cant help if hes a big guy. i mean my dad isnt that skinny either so i dont think he should be sayin nething. but its like everywhere we go my dad finds sumthing shrek and says "hey we should get this for shrek" and it really hurts me. how can i make my dad stop before he slips up and says sumthing in front of my bf?
look him in straight in the eye and tell him NO NO NO NO NO NO NO! explain to him how you totally hate it wen he does thah because its like talkin bad about your bf wen hes not around only not... tell him its not cool and you dont like it wen he does thah to YOUR bf...let him understand...if not then ask your mom fer help...im soore she can talk him out of it...ya noe?
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I really, I mean really like this guy.He is my age and he is 1 of my bro's friend's brother.He goes to school with me.The last few weeks of school me and him were becoming really close.Im scared that next year he won't remember me remember me anymore.What can I do?
be there...say hi to him and like totally act normal..if he dusnt remember you then remind him of some of the "moments" you guys had..like funny memories er sumthin like thah...he'll most definitely remember you...ya noe?
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ok...my best friend is mad at me because i tried talking her into going back to my church because she has done some bad stuff lately. I apologized and told her i like her for who she is but she wont talk to me...now what do i do?
i gess all you can do is wait...i mean she mite hab wanted space and eben tho shes been doin bad stuff she coulda been doin those things fer a reason...if you want to feel better then talk to her mom er dad er sumeone she trusts about it...mehbe they can help...ya noe?
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I am the middle child in my family and sometimes I think I don't belong with my siblings. Don't get me wrong I love them to death but... I am 13 a typical girl teenager. I like make-up, boys, fashion. But my brother does not respect any of my private life or social life. I am always baby-sitting for my little sister while my mom and dad are working and while my brother is out with his friends 24/7. It's not like I do it for my health i'm doing it for the $$$ but I need to get out too and especially since its summer. I am always fighting with my older brother and when ever I am on the phone with my boyfriend my brother always makes some rude remarks like "hey is this your tampon" or something like that something gross. I TOTALLY respect his private life and social life. My brother goes through my stuff, looks at my txt messagees on my cell phone to all my friends and my boyfriend and he goes on my screen name and talks to my friends pretending to be me. I have told him so many times that I need some space and he doesnt care. He gives smart remarks to me and I can't handle it. I've told my parents they yell at him yet when we're around my parents together he acts so perfect and he is older then me... how pathetic... but seriously I NEED HELP!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!!!!!!!
Signed,
Brother Hater
if he does all thah and wont leave you alone... a) dont let thah get to you and b) make your life more independent... like say ahed of time wen you want to go somewhere and so if your lil sis needs a bebe sitter everyine noes thah your alredy gone thah day...fer your screen name and stuff like thah make a new password...ask for a lock on your door and your own fone line...things like thah... my lil bro is like totally the type and eben tho i love him i need as much space as he or you does too...so talk to your parents and make soore they get the msg...if they dunt blieve ya then gib them proof like a recording er sumthin...cold hard facts...ya noe?
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There is this guy that I have liked for 2 years (I saw him in my 7th grade yearbook when he was in 6th and I was in 7th). I am now going into 9th grade. We see each other often and we are good GOOD friends. He is one of my best friends. Well, he flirts with me like no other girl. His mom even says he isnt the flirting type. All of the people who were in our drama class say that they think he likes me. He tries to make me laugh when I am sad and he is a sweetie for life! We went and played pool today and everytime I went to shoot, he would be saying something like "I know then...." and then he pauses, watches me (making it obvious), adn then when I am done, he starts talking where he left off. I took pictures of him the last day of school and they didnt come out. Well, he had his mom take a pic of him for me! My mom gave it to me as an early b day present (his mom and my mom work together! WOW SMALL WORLD!) Do you think he likes me? With all these clues? Everyone says he does but I dont know. Please help!
he sooo does...one of my best guy frends used to act EXACTLY like thah...i mean he was the shy type and everything except fer wen i was around and stuff and ppl saw the difference...anyways i definitely think he does...if he tells you he dusnt be like ok because most likeley he does and just dunt wanna tell ya...ya noe?
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Omg.. i really like this boy in my school we hang out all the time movies at eachothers houses but i odnt know if he likes me but....im afaird if i tell him how i feel he will be like all weird around me and stuff!!! Should I tell him how i feel or just keep it as freinds?!?!?
Please help ME!!!
definitely tell!! TELL TELL TELL!! i mean as i say to a tonna other ppl theres not much thah you would realllie lose...if you guys are frends and are like really tite then there shouldnt be any awkward moments afterward...theres nothin to lose... besides the probabilitys is most likely gonna turn out thah he like you back too...ya noe?
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I live in North Carolina and my mom and dad got divorced 3-4 years ago. He doesn't pay for much, and I know he won't pay for college. I'm 16...a Junior in High School and have 2 more years left for college. I really want to go to Boston University or University of Massachusetts because I love those schools and it's my home state. My mom said that I should go to college in North Carolina so it will be cheaper but I don't like many colleges here. The ones I do like (Duke University and Wake Forest University) are private and will still cost more. I told her I'd pay for law school and 4 year college but she wanted to pay for that. She said if I go to college up there then she'll only give me the amount a year that she would pay down here. What should I do? Should I go down here or up there or should I say something?
my frend had this exact same problem!! how psychopathic!! anyways...i think thah whichebe college you want to go to more and would enjoy more is the rite choice...i mean if you go to one of the expensive ones you could always make a deal with a company for them to pay for your college in exchange for you working for them for like 4 yrs after you graduate er sumthin (i forgot the word)...ya noe?
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i liked this one kid for a really long time.. i only ended up telling a few people becuz i dont like every1 knowin.. then after awhile i found out he liked me for awhile too.. then he asked me out at 1:00 A.M on my birthday.. i said yea of course.. and then i didnt get a phone call from him or nothing.. then at 11:O0 P.M that night.. he told me he doesnt think we should go out anymore.. he never told me a reason though.. i asked him why he even asked me out in the first place and he said i dunno.. he said he was sorry n everythin.. i think i might still like him but i cant say i loved him cuz we were neva together long.. wat shuld i do.. try n get ova him or still like him?
if you like him thah much then keep him in your List...i mean why should you gib up liking him rite? on the other hand he did only "go out" with you fer like a coupla hours and ya dunt noe why he sed nvm so like...mehbe he wouldnt want you to for some reason...ya noe?
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should i tell the one i love how a feel even threw a 2 year difference in age and a hour distance in where we each live ?
definitely....age difference makes no difference...ya noe?
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im addicted to soda . is this bad
its not exacgtly bad its just unhealthy...all thah carbon and (if youve seen) wat the soda does to your teeth and stuff like thah...ya noe?
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