I'm a fourteen year old girl from California. I'm a rabid liberal/feminist an a writer. I've been through cutting, and I'll try not to give bad advice. Ask me whatever you like . . . I'm not so good on romance questions, with a lack of any significant experience, but I'm good on everything else.
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what could the ending be for my story in english? it's about a girl who discovers a girl was murderered in her house..it's a ghost story any ideas??? cheers. (link)
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hmmm . . . you should make a twisty ending, because twists are good. You could have the ghost be related to the girl and maybe the girls grandfather or uncle or such would have been the killer. It depends on what time period the ghost is grom.
Or you could have the girl annoy the ghost by trying to get rid of her with, say, the help of a psychic friend, and have the ghost attempt to posess the girl's family to kill her, but the psychic friend or whoever comes in again and saves her. Or, you know, the girl could develop her own psychic powers. ^^
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hey I have a question. What is the diference between a christain or a cathloc? I always thought that they were the same in general. but sence being on this site I have noticed people say they are in fact diferent.
and one more thing can somebody tell me what a pagan is? not to be rude or anything. i know that that is a religion but do magic or something.
so answering my question would really be helpful.
signed
confused Christain (link)
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According to dictionary.com, a pagan is defined as "one who is not a Christian, Muslim, or Jew, especially a worshiper of a polytheistic religion."
I think you can also add Hindus and Buddhists in there as non-pagans.
A pagan might worship the Norse gods or Greek gods, for example. I know more about wicca than paganism (no, they are not the same thing, wiccans have more of a focus on spells) but I hope I helped.
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I dont believe in God, or Satan, or heaven and hell. I think its just a story told to us to try and make us act like better people. Please comment. (link)
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I agree with you completely. I dislike most religions that will throw such unlikely ideas at you and tell you that you MUST believe theM.
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would having sex with your clone be consider gay or a new form of masterbation??? (link)
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masturbation, I suppose. But you'd have to be homosexual or bisexual to get turned on by it.
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WHAT DOES idk STAND 4 (link)
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I don't know.
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Hey everyone I asked a Q about this poem a litle while back and I think I'm done but to those that answered before I would like to know what they think. and to all advicenators too but is it good at all now? just let me know please. Thanks.
No More
You laugh at me, You point.
You say "how weird!"
You say "how ugly!"
You say "how stupid!"
I turn the other cheek so you can just laugh and point some more.
I have cried my tears. I have hated myself for you.
There were times when I couldn't see through my tears and somehow I found the strengh to turn the other cheek but still you laughed and pointed more.
So in this poem I want to tell you that the days of your laughing and pointing are no more.
When I see you I laugh and say ""How Pathetic!"".
You have put me through this torment for you own satisfaction but no more.
I have cryed my tears. I have hated myself for you but No More. (link)
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I love it now. Very emotional. The entire last part, starting with "there were times . . ." and going to the end is absolutely lovely.
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Lately I've been getting on my parents nerves. I can tell cause they're always mad at me. They say it's because I have a really bad attitude. Even though I really don't think I do. I usually have a great attitude about things. I've also been really into acting and every time I talk about it they just ignore me so I get mad. Just the other day he told me I did something when I knew I didn't so I calmly told him I didn't and he told me I was lying so I got mad. He told me to get rid of my attitude so I said no because he called me a liar. Then He got up in my face and just started screaming at me. I'm really confused right now and don't know what to do. Could any one give me some advive.
I'm 14 (link)
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Your dad (I'm assuming the He was your dad) had no right to get to angry at you.
Maybe write your parents a note where you tell them basically what you said here -- how you fell ignored and how being screamed at hurt. Leave it where you know your parents will find it, disappear for a while to the library or some such, and see if they're nicer to you when you come back.
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COULD BORING GET ANY MORE BORING!!! I'm stuck in the house with my little sister and it's sooo boring. The computer and tv and playstation are losing there fun...so any creative ideas on what i could do to when stuck in the house?? I'm 14 and a girl. (link)
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-Read
-Write a story
-Try reading all the archives of a web comic. (I suggest errantstory.com because it's interesting or rpgworldcomic.com because there's a lot to get through and it will keep you busy) If you're desperate to get off the computer, don't do this, but it's still quite fun.
-Teach yourself to do Yoga or some such. You can find info either lying around your house or on the net.
-Cook. Cake mixes are fuuuuuuun things . . .
-Draw chibi versions of everyone you know.
-Do the jumble and the crossword jumble in the paper, if you can find it.
-Find old clothes, like shirts, and chop them up so they are spiffy. Then make your sister try them on.
Hope this helps!
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what should I do if i wanna wear a skirt but my legs aren't the prettiest things to look at? (link)
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tights . . . or wear the skirt over jeans to look spiffy.
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ok wut site would i go on to get some hair styles.... i have blonde kinda meduim its like an inch past my should hair... i wear it in a pony tail every day and i need good hair styles i also straighten it sometimes but i have had swimming for the last couople weeks so its hard i really extremly need hair styles wut website should i go to that gives good stles and steps? (link)
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I don't know any good sites. You could just google it.
I like to put my hair, when the mood strikes me, into a sort of half ponytail with a bunch in the front hanging down for me to glare at people through. It looks spiffy.
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Does .9 infinitely repeating equal 1? At first glance, one might say, "Of course not!", but hear me out. I asked my genius math teacher the same question, and he though about it, then wrote a long equation apparently proving that they were the same number. I have since then forgotten the equation, therefore, forgotten how he arrived at his conclusion. A fellow classmate said he would argue to the death that they were not, but his opinion changed upon reading the teacher's equation. My way of thinking it is this: If 3 x 1/3=1, and 1/3= .3 infinitely repeating, then .3 infinitely repeating should equal 1. But if do the multiplication, each individual 3 would become a 9, so the answer is also .9 infinitely repeating. So 1/3 x 3= 1= .3 infinitely repeating x 3= .9 infinitely repeating. So 1= .9 infinitely repeating. But to say that two different numbers, excluding fractions, etc, can equal the samething doesn't seem right. So, are they or are they not equal? (link)
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hmm . . . don't think they're equal, but I'm not a math teacher. In class my math teacher was talking about the infinite number of numbers between any two numbers thing (O_O) and she told us about the guy who came up with that.
His friend thought he was stupid, so told the friend to walk halfway across a room. Then halfway across the remaining half. And halfway across that. And so one and so forth.
Stick your .9999999 infinite repeating question in there, and I don't think they're the same at all.
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Recently this guy said I have a lot of pubic hair. He said it was abnormal. I didn't think it was. He said it looked like a forest. Now I'm really embarrassed about this. He keeps making fun of me and these other guys were asking if I shave. I'm getting a new bathing suit for this field trip I'm going on and I'm going to get some wax so I can remove this embarrassing black hair from my stomach. I looked at the wax I am going to buy and noticed that you shouldn't remove hair from genital/vaginal areas.
Well I know I'm not going to use a razor sinse it can cause in-grown hairs and comes back thicker and makes skin irritated.
I can't use my depilatory creme at home because you shouldn't use it for pubic ahir.
I tried to look for some wax that removes pubic hair but I can't find any and the trip is coming up in 6 days.
Do I have to shave down there? I don't want to! This one girl said she got a mohawk. Okay? Will it look bad if I get a small swimsuit and don't remove the hair? I don't think I should listen to the guy. But if I use a razor wouldn't the hair poke out of the swimsuit? I'm still buying the regular wax for my stomach and bikini line.
I don't know what to do! If you now of any wax that can remove pubic hair please tell me. (I can't go to a salon to do it!) Thanks! 14 year old girl. (link)
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razors are bad for pubic hair . . . trust me, I know. :-)
like everyone else has said, use way or nair. In an emergency use scissors to keep in in control.
If you still are insecure about it, get some of those short-things you can wear over your bikini bottoms.
And pay no attention to the guy. He is an idiot.
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NO MORE
You laugh at me. You point, you say "how Weird" you say "how Ugly" you say "how Stupid".
I turn the other cheek so you can just laugh and point some more.
I have cryed my tears. I have hated myself for you.
I will always be here and you can't change that.
You will never make me feel bad again. NEVER!
So you better give up!
When I see you I laugh and say "How Pathetic!".
You have put me through this to make yourself feel good.
No More.
I have cryed my tears. I have hated myself for you But no more.
K.J.B.
Hi all advicenators! This is the only peom I have been able to write in the last 4 months and I was wondering if this is a good poem. i also want to know if I did all punctuation right? please answer it would be helpful.
K.J.B. (link)
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Overall nice poem. I liked the line "I have cried my tears. I have hated myself for you" even though you misspelled cried.
I also like "I will always be here and you can't change that."
I like how the attitude of the person yhou're talking about comes through.
I think you could do this differently with spacing. Maybe instead of one line:
you say "how weird"
you say "how ugly"
you say "how stupid"
The last line ("You will never make me feel bad again. NEVER!") seems weak, particularly the never in capitals. Maybe if you moved it down a line and took out the ! and decapitalized (is that a word? I don't think so) it?
Play around with it. Figure out what tone you want and switch words around until you get it.
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hey thank u for helping me but i do this on the ground and i hope this helps me wut u have sent to me i appreciate it holla (link)
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Glad I could help, even if my advice was mostly meant for trampoline. I think these two suggestions will work on floor too.
Good luck with the back handspring!
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i can do a back hand spring but i caint land it i always land on my chest and my stomache wut can i do to land straight??????????? (link)
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if you can't land it I'm assuming you're doing this on a trampoline or tumble track.
Have someone spot you a few times. Keep your body straight and try to snap your legs down when you're landing.
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I occasionally pop joints in my arms fingers, toes, neck, back, etc. Does this cause arthritis? I have a mild understanding of anatomy and physiology, and I know the popping sound is caused by the gaps inbetween joints, and that if you do it enough you can wear it down to the bone, but how long does something like that take. And if it does damage your joints, why do chiropractors do it? (link)
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No, cracking your knuckles does not cause arthritis. It just annoys people. (-;
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I am 13 going on 14 and only 5'2 . I am tired of wearing super high heels as my mum hates it when i do this , and on top of that , my crush is about 5'11 !!! . Thats like , 9 whole inches taller than me .Which means that I only reach up till his shoulder , not wearing heels .
( He's 14 going on 15 ) Do you think that i am too short for him ? How can i grow taller ?? ( I know it seems impossible to MAKE myself grow taller , but any special diet suggestions ? ) (link)
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You're taller than me and I'm a year older than you. Be happy.
I don't think your crush will particularly mind if you're short.
There is no way that I know of to make yourself taller. Sorry.
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Hey, T'is me, Mordak from spacefem. I wanna know where i should get my next piercing. I have 8 in my ears, 6 in my lieft, 2 in my right, and an eyebrow ring in my left eyebrow. So, where should i next bung a hole?? (link)
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bellybutton.
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When at school, sometimes I kinda go crazy by taking the seagulls from off the grass and eating them, and then I throw rocks and berries at my friends. Just yesterday, I went streaking and painted myself in tiger stripes through math class. In the computer lab I take all the cds and break them. I've broken a computer one time too. Also I eat pages of textbooks when teachers don't watch. I burned some of the books in the library and then ate them. (Actually, they're pretty tasty with some ketchup.) Last week I jumped on a lunch table and pissed on a yard duty. I am 26 years old and I am still in the 8th grade. Is this normal?
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Perfectly normal. I do it too. Have you tried deep frying the burned books. It's yummy. (-;
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My husbannd and I want our daughter to get a good education. She will be 5 in July. We can't afford to move, and there is a publice school down the street that seems ok. We were looking at private schools, but I don't drive, and would have to take her on the bus, which may not be that convient. What if I miss it, or it's late, or it's raining. My mother-in-law lives across the street,and she says it would be easier to just take her to the public school down the street. She says private school can wait till Jr. high or High School, when kids are more likely to get in trouble. Her neighbor has two girls that go to the public school and they "love it there". At first, I was judjing it by how it looked, but they have made someimprovements, and it looks pretty nice there now, so I'm going to go visit it and see what I think. My husband found a website that rates schools, and it says that private schools are not held accountable for what they teach, they can teach whatever they want, while public schools are subject to specific regulations. Can any of you parents with school-age children enlighten me on your experiences? Thanks. I would appreciate any help. By the way,not to brag, but our daughter is very bright, and I think she will do well no matter where she goes. She's friendly and outgoing too. (link)
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I'm a student, but I've gone to both, so here goes:
It's a pain to transfer from public school to private school because, in my experience, private school tends to be more challenging. I wouldn't wait until high school to transfer.
Again, only one school district. You've gotten a good start by doing research. Find a site that rates the public schools in your district -- they vary from place to place.
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