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my friend is upsessed with my cousin and im like really upsessed with her families friends son. and she gos to his bcuz her cousins best friends with him and he goes ova hers, wen i go to my cousins i always ask if she wants to come, she always brags a bout like noing him and the whole house thing,and i never brag about my cuz..sooo

SiGnEd--WUT SHOULD I DO IT BOTHERS ME??

Just let your friend know that shes starting to bother you.

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I have a yeast infection and I'm okay with it because I've had one before. The only thing that worries me is that I had sex for the very first time last weekend and I'm scared that it happened from that. I'm very sensitive "down there" and if every time I have sex, its gunna happen then thats not a good thing. Can you get a yeast infection from sex or an STD?!?!

Hmm I have read that it can be spread by sex. I'm not shure about the STD thing tho, Im sorry.

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hey, i went out with this girl for all of my freshman year, and last year we broke up, and ive dated other people since then, but now things are heating back up with my ex, and i need to know the difference between her just trying to be nice, and flirting with me again....any help?

All you gotta do is ask her. =)

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I had sex for the first time last night and I didnt bleed at all. Doesnt every girl bleed? That kinda makes me wonder.. Also, we didnt do it very long or hard so I think thats why? Just making sure Im not strange or messed up..

I didnt bleed my first time. You possibly just popped your cherry during other exercises, or sports.

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does anybody have any idea what 'You can't fight fire with ruby lipstick' means?

Its like saying... Hey, your lipsticks too dark! OR, The color of your lipstick resembles the color of fire

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Hi see well I have this Boyfriend who cares for me tomuch!!! I mean love him and all but he gets to protective!!!! what should i do , I dont want to be mean to him either what should I do????????????

Talk to him, tell him that he just needs to lighten up a little. He should understand! Good Luck!

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im 14/f and i REally like this boy he is soo cute, and we alway stare at each other, i know he likes me to,and im older then him by 2years.is that bad?im just 2 shy to tell him how i feel.HELP MEH!!!

No its not bad to be older than him! If your too shy to TELL him, Write him a note or something :) Good Luck

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17-F Okay...I've never had a really good relationship before. All my friends and seem to have the perfect boyfriends and I can't even meet someone that I connect with. I feel like I'm never going to meet my special someone. I know that your suppoes to be happy with yourself until you can be completely happy with someone else...so I did that...I fixed everything I don't like about myself and really am happy with my life as it is...except not having my significant other...what can I do?

-Sincerely, hopeless

Ahhh I have the same problem. Im sorry I couldnt help

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Hey see I knew this boyfor about 8 years now and he went away when we was10 years old then he finally shows up yesturday and expects us to re be friends...... and I hardly even reconize him.!
so what should I do?? PLZ HELP

Catch up with him. If you still like the way he is , then yall should become friends again :)

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what does 69 mean cuz all my friends say it and im too embarassed to say anything

guy on bottom girl on top, facing opposite ways, guy eats girl out while the girl gives him head

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so ive made out with a few guys b4 but i get sick of doing the same old tricks and teasing. is there any new moves that turns a guy on while makeing out with them?? i mean i knoe how to kiss and all but i want to learn more please help

OO Kiss his neck or his stomach ;) Run ur hands thru his hair, on his neck and down his back, he will go crazy

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what does cybering mean?

Like sex on the internet, you just type out what ur doing to yourself or whatever :S

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im really sensitive at school...if some1 teases me, i take it so hard. then when they reply saying im so sensitive, i feel hurt...is there anything i can say to "my friends" if they insult me..like in a joking way?

Ask them to stop because its really hurting you. If they are really your friends, then they would stop when you asked them to.

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ok say ur boyfriend hasnt called u n like 3 months
what do u do?

Call him

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When ur having sex..does blood really go everywhere?! i want my first time to be romantic not red!..do guyz know that happen? thankz..

It bleeds, but not everywhere

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my brother just hit me so bad and it was for like no reason my whole face started bleeading he took a shoe and started hiting me with it and started pulling my hair i hate him so much..i was so close 2 calling the cops but i just couldnt wat should i do i really started hating him!

Kick his ass harder. Nah..... Im joking.... Just tell your parents or something and they can straighten the little punk out

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Do you know of any sites where I can post up my pictures for free?

Picturetrail

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Are you damaging your eyelashes by using an eyelasher curler?? And what if you do it everyday?? Is this risky and damaging?? Thanks!

I do it everyday too..... I think its fine though

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I have been getting zits ever since the beginning of 7th grade. I really hate it. And I use Clean & Clear to clear them up, but the product doesn't exactly work. Do u know any product that will work? What advice would u give me? I looked at ur Zits link, but i've tried all of that..and i still get zits. Please tell me what products u use! It's hard to walk in school when a lot of boys are staring..

PRO-ACTIV they sell it at the mall, and its about 40-80 bucks for the whole system. I use it for prevention and its great! One of my friends had pretty bad pimples and it cleared her right up.

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Do you get tested for HIV/AIDs before sex or after sex? or both? plz help!

You could do both. Just to be safe.

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