about

5'10
130 lbs
16.5 yrs old
had my share of drugs/alcohol. and learned.
16+ piercings
1 tattoo
no regrets




"you know what i still dont get, why are you trying so hard to fit in when u were born to stand out"-What A Girl Wants


!!STAY SiC!!

advice

Alright i like playboy things alot..like things with the playboy bunny on it or just says playboy.. i wanted to no if n e body knows n e websites i can look for bedding stuff with playboy on it.. like comforter,sheets pillow cases and stuff. i already looked on ebay,and on the playboy catalog website.. so if u can help ill rate high thanks alot n advance..

spencers (like one found in the small) seemes to have alotta playboy stuff. Also just search on the internet and see if you can order it!!

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is there anything wrong with being a guy and listing to britney spears.

yeah.
sorry man but probably only 9% of the music listeners population wouldnt think theres anything wrong with that, and those are probably the gay boys.
but theres nothing wrong wtih being a guy and thinking shes hott because most guys do, so, dont be so down. you just have a unique sense of taste for music! &¬hing is wrong with that, sweetie.

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what's anarchy? like will someone explain it to me because one of my skater friends is obsessed with it. he carves it into his walls in his room and his arm. but what is it?

its a band

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i babysit this little boy and i am not so good with cooking. any ideas for cooking for a little boy. he likes chocolate and milk and he also likes cheese, but i don't know what to make for him that he likes or will like. any ideas? i rate really high!

make him grilled cheese and chocolate milk, and then give him chocolate ice cream! if he finishes his grilled cheese

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I just got my earlobes pierced for the 3rd time. The last two times failed because after a week or so of my newly pierced ears, they would always swell up and get infected. It would hurt and itch! Now, I got them re-done at Claire's and now my ears have formed a rash around the earring. I'm cleaning them everyday but they're still itchy! It's red and gross..I don't know what to do! It's my 3rd time..please help and is this normal?

no its not normal. you should go back to claires. theres alotta reasons why your ears are getting like this, youre probably allergic to the earring... Peircing guns are one of the worst ways u can perice your ears, so i would suggest next ttime u want them periced go to a tattoo/peircing place, it will probably be more expensive but its more safer/sanitized/sterilized. the gun they use to perice your ear is NOT sterilized. id explain more to you but it would take all day. sometimes if you have an infection it would be a bad idea to take the earrings out, it traps the infection in your ear. go back to claires immediatly because this can turn into a way worse situation, again i could talk and talk but it would take all day. if you have any more percing questions ask me. i know everything about them.

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okay, i know this is pretty weird, but i read on this health site that if you take your height from when you were 2, and double it.. it`s your adult height. does anyone know if this is a true fact and if anyone has their height from when they were two and you are fully grown .. can you let me know =] thankss!!

i was sposta stop growing when i hit 5'8'' but now im well over that whatever health site that was is a load of crap.

amen.

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help! i was just masterbating and i started bleeding.. is not my period so what is it? and it kinda stings down there thankss

Ew...you popped your cherry you sick freak.

its very common. if you wanna know what "pop your cherry" means just search it.
and youre not dieing.
hopefully.

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looking for a song. i dont know any of the words except . i am pretty fly for a white guy? helpplzz

offspring- pretty fly

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hey guys..i am soo scared to use a tampon cause i'm scared it's gonna hurt or imma put it in the wrong hole or something..lol.. but i reallly wanna know how to use one/ put one in..cause i'm tired of using pads..please help! thx soo much xoxo

theres directions, and buy the slim ones, those r the best ones for starters lol. and if you can find any, find the ones that r designed for first time users. good luck!

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whats a burnout??

me.

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can you please tell me wat love really is?

Hmm. Alot of people have different opinoins on love. Theres love and lust. And then theres when your IN love with someoen. yeah love sucks. but il try to help you.
regular love is just when you care for another like when you say "i love my cat" or "i love my penis".

then theres lust, the worst of them all! lust is just extreme attraction to someone, wanting to do something sexually with them, not to be confused with love.

and then theres when youre in love, like say you and your boyfriend or girlfriend are in love with each other. i cant really explain how that is, but you'll know when you get the feeling.

im not good with love, so, yeah good luck.

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I am a former self-injurer, and I finally stopped cutting at the end of 8th grade (I'm going into 9th). I've been happy since the end of 8th grade and haven't had a reason to cut, or I'v refrained myself from cutting. But that's how I deal with stress. And I'm afraid I'll relapse this year from stress. I've been to therapy, and I write a lot. Is there any other way I could possibly deal with stress that isn't destructive?

thanks in advance!

Recognize the symptoms of stress

Look at your lifestyle and see how it can be changed – at work, home in your family and your
schedule.

Use relaxation techniques – yoga, meditation, deep breathing, massage

Exercise – one of the best stress reducers of all

Time management – do essential things then prioritize the others, but not at the detriment of friends and family.

Watch your diet – alcohol, caffeine, sugar, fats and tobacco all strain the body’s ability to cope with stress.

Get enough rest and sleep

Talk to others – friends, councilors or in a support group

Help others – volunteer work is very rewarding and a great stress reducer

Get away for a while – either by watching a movie, reading a book, or even going away on vacation.

The idea is to have some time to yourself

Work off your anger physically – walking, gardening, spring cleaning

Give in occasionally – avoid quarrels

Tackle one thing at a time – don’t take on too much at once

Don’t try to be perfect.

Ease up on your criticism of others

Don’t be too competitive

Make the first move a friendly one

Have fun!! Laugh and enjoy yourself.

This is the site i got that from
-http://www.penmarric.ns.ca/depr/stressindex.htm

another site:
http://familydoctor.org/278.xml

stress sucks so i wish the best of luck to ya, lad!

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I've been invited to a party by a girl I don't know that well and I can't decide whether to go. One one hand, I know some people who are going, and it should be fun b/c theres no parents or anything.
On the other hand, she knows some kind of... rough people, and it could turn nasty. She is always going on about how many people they beat up etc. Also she is telling everyone to bring someone, and in our neighbourhood if the local chavs (hooligans, yobs, call them what you want) might well gatecrash and beat people up.
So what do you think?

Going to the party is a bad idea.
I learned the hard way.
If you wanna take a risk of going, which i do not recomend, BRING A FRIEND, and one that is prude haha. One that doesnt drink/smoke/sexually active and all that.
Good luck.

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13/f
All the jeans I have are baggy and theyre slim sizes! But if i try a smaller size it will be too short. Does anyone have tips for tighter jeans?

Try express they have good jeans.

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ok i no that this is not in the friendship categlorie but im really having a hard time trying to find out who i am ... like i change my mind alot about things i like and my friends and i want to be original and kool but i always seem mess up ok well i gotta go but all 5 ratings if you answer good! thanks

This question is kinda weird and confusing but i think i know what your saying? Maybe?
Just think about things before you do or say anything. be yourself and dont worry about what others think about how you look, and never do anything just because you think it would help you fit in. Alot of people were born to stand out and i am one of them!!!!
Good luck with you and yourself!

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ok i have a couple questions so here they go..

1. I have sorta bags and wrinkley things under my eyes even though i get a lot of sleep..how can i tighten up the bags or whatever so i dont like so tired all the time? i used foundation but that does work.

2. I guess i have a sorta big nose..what can i do to make it seem like its smaller? like what makeup?

3. I only get about 4 zits (that are pretty noticeable) in one spot. I use everything to try to get it off. I use the mask stuff, tried toothpaste, clean it a lot, and sometimes just let it be to see what happens. NOTHINGS working. is there anything that i can use to make it go away farily quickly?

>>if you try to answer these as good as you can i'll rate your answer a five! thanks!

Okay. Hmm.

1) Get the eye regenerist thing that you can buy at wlagreens or something. its pretty pricey, but it should help, as for foundation;; this is a mistake that most people make, putting the wrong foundation under there eyes. you probably use the same shade as your skin which is a No-No! Always use a foundation one or two shades lighter than your average skin tone! But only but the lighter foundation under your eyes, and use the other normal foundation for your face.

2) Sometimes people think they have a big nose so they try to cover it up, try to focus the attention away from your face. Like make your eyes really pretty with eyeliner and glitter, it always works. i have the same problem. And sometimes getting it peirced adds some prettyness of it. But if you realy really want to focus the attention AWAY from your nose, shave your head and dye your scalp purple, but i dont recomend that.

3) For the zits, use i think its neutrogena On the spot advanatge acne treatment, that should clear it up pretty quickly. Try not to load to much concelear on it cuz that tends to aggravate acne. also, if you dont have the time to go to the store, see yif you have neosporin, that helps, Or mix half baking soda with half water and put iton overnight.

Good luck!

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I just colored my hair and got it all over my face, neck, hands, arms, and just about everywhere in the house. I've tried using hairspray to take it out, but it's not doing much good. Any other ways?

umm use astrigent like sea breeeze, or peroxide. this happens to me all the time, if you dont have any of these products, it should come off in like 2 days, if you shower daily lol. good luck.

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Im a female, and im about 5"10 and my boyfriend is only 5"7...this makes me feel uncomfortable all the time. is this weird?

no its totally horrible and disgusting break up with him immediatly.
or break half of your legs off!

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Lately all i have been thinking about was having sex, and in all my dreams it was me having sex with someone. This is sorta embarresing but whenever i think about sex or anything sexual my vagina twitches or something. I dont kno whats wrong with me? am i sick or something? haha

youre horny, moron. as a teenager grows..blah blah..they become more with their sexual feelings...bblah blah. youre just sexally curious. yeah good luck with that

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I was wondering, even if I'm not sexually active or anything..and I just want to get on the pill (for my period), would I still need a pap smear? Also, what other things should I expect during my appointment with the gynecologist?

they wont give it to you if youre not going to use it for sex
EDIT
dude what the hell u gimme a one for. ive went to get birth control pills to regulate my period and they said it just wasnt a good idea. jeez dont rate me a one just because you dont wanna hear the truth.

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