I am a nurses assistant. Im also a bridal consultant. I want to become a teacher. I moved alot. I have lived in small towns and so i know most of my experinces to be around family and friends. I know much about health and nutrition. I have dyslexisa. I have three brothers. two of which i know and one that ran away. I have been in a relationship for a year and a half... im sure theres more to know about me! but thats all folks.
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Age: 18
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Does it hurt when one donates blood? (link)
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they will.. or should be checking oyur iron. that hurts the msot out of everything.. and.. its.. like.. nothing. but its a tiny little prick. the needle doesnt hurt... make sure your not flexing though when they position the needle.
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hey!
ok, i know this is kind of a weird question..
but i got my period for the first time (13f) yesterday. I wore a pad. Today after school i thought i would try putting in a tampon..
My mom gave my some that are regular sized..I dunno if that will help any though..
anyways i thought i would try to put it in. I have never masterbated or anything so the feeling was all new to me.. and i couldnt even get it in more than like 3 cm without it hurting.. or feeling very weird..
any tips/ ideas on how to insert it without it hurting??
thanks (link)
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im not a big fan of tampons. i am 18.. and.. i still use the little tiny tiny tiny tiny tiny.. tampax tampons.. their like.. purple.. or pink.. they say "lite" on them. but you knwo what i didnt use a tampon till i was like 14. and i started my period when i was 11. you dont have to try everything so fast.. but there are smaller ones insted of the regular sized. try ones with an applicator not like the OB ones. make sure your legs are spread apart while your standing. make sure your relaxed too..and dont force it.. i hope that helps!..
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There is a girl at school, she seems nice. So recently she got a myspace. She tells me "Oh you're on my top so I better be on yours!" so of course that means for me to put her on my top. I'm a nice person, so I did. Now I find out she is not the best person. She FAST in other words. And I do NOT want to be associated with people like that. I want to take her off my page, but what do I say if she asks what happened in the most polite way?? THANKS! (link)
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i get that ALL the time. bugs me... i dont add peopel when they ask.. i hide mine. and when people see that their not on my top friends when they use the computer with me i just tell them i dont rate my friends so its not a big deal..
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i don't know what do give one of my good friends for christmas. i want to get her something good cause she's been there for me 6 years, what should i get her?
15/f (link)
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i know it sounds so stupid at my age (18) but i get my friends little things.. and alot of them.. like.. their favorite movie. pictures frames.. silly string.. candy.. blanket... pillow.. stuffed animal.. calendar... hair ties.. anything that you KNOW they need.. or that reminds you of them or reminds them of you. just the little things matter in life.. and can be a really nice present.
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I am 16 years old and I really want to see a therapist. I just need someone to talk to. I cannot ask my mom because she is simply a bitch and does not believe I have any issues. All she thinks of me is that I am a drama queen. Please, I all I need is someone to trust and talk to.
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most schools have a school therapist. even if youv never heard of one. (my friend sees her and he told me.. and i wasliek WE HAVE ONE OF THOSE??) if not.. you can go talk to a counsilor at your high school
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how old do you have to be to get birth control without your parent's consent? (link)
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13 in most states. alot of dotors ask if you will let your parents know because their insurance will pay for it and they will see what it is. at age 13 you can get it from planned parent hood
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Hey, im 14.f and a freshmen.
alright so finals are coming up, and obviously its my first year taking them.
im very very nervous, considering it counts for a lot of my grade and im really nervous i wont remember anything at all.
But my real question is, What are some good ways to study that seem to work?
because i think, since im in highschool now, i need a stronger technique that will help me remember more information, because seriously, i dont think what i'm doing is helping me much anymore.
i mean i study for tests, i know the information, but then its like i dont remember what i reallly need to know.
I get B's or C's on tests i should ace.
so will anyone pleaseeee spare some good studying techniques or habits?
thank you sooo much. (link)
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this always worked for me. my old hisotry teacher made the class write out allt he notes ro anythgin we thgouth would be onthe test. and i mean.. like.. one peice of paper. write it over and over.. and over.. and over.. and over. on one peice of paper. criss crossing them or whatevr. and i dunno.. i just remembered it from that. that even helped me in college. i knwo thats liek a first grade thing but... yeah it works. and dotn stress about it. itll be okay. finals arent that BIG.
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15/f.
I got really hurt by someone the other day and had a fit of rage. But...i didn't know what was happening to me. I was so full of anger that it felt like I could KILL somebody. It scared me....I started yelling and screaming and hitting myself. My eyes were like all red from the tears and anger.
It was ...its..indescribable. It really was scary. I'm afraid I might do something bad in the future because of it. What can i do? I'm usually a pretty content person :'( (link)
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also you have to look at this a little different. hormones i knwo that can sound purly sexual but its not. it can make you have a surge of hormones and make you be really agressive or mean.. that might just be an age thing.. 13-18 for girls can be a really tough time.. maybe you dont have a disorder..
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havent wanting to live with my family im 14 and i already know what i wantt. i know that i HATEE my family[mom dad sister,17] with a burning passion that cann never be describeed. likee it reallyy wouldnt matter to me if i didnt lived with them anymore. they dont listen to a word i sayy, there always on eachothers siddee, like im neverr everr right, my parents sent me to a catholic high school which i absolutly HATEE ! and they know i dont wanna go there and never did want to, and i have the most amazing friends that i never see besides the weekend. im starting to make friends but i would choose my old friends over everything. i would do annyytthingg for them, and i mean anything. we all feel the same way about eachother. and if i continue to liv with this family and go to catholic school i dont think ill even make it to junior year... watever i just wanna know if theres anyway to have my parents hear me out. on anythingg, on letting me go live with one of my friends, or live anywhere else beisdes here.
oh ps. my parents are divorced but live within a mile of eachother and are SERIOUSLY strict about my grades like if i get lower than an 80-85 theyll flip a shit. they wnat me to be there perfect daughter. and im not like a bad perosn like i hang out with a good group a friends im not underr the influence or anything. ughh i hate them soooooo much. oh and if they hit me, i hit them back cause i could care less. (link)
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i have to agree with the person below.. i think its a maturity factor. i dont think your stupid or anything. i moved out when i was 14 because i hated the way my mom ran the house. to be honest moving out was worse. you have to pay bills, get a job, have school and pass or your wastign your time and youll be stuck at a fast food place making minimum wage. if you disown your family who are you going to rely on when you need soemthing? i think you really need to just hold tight threw all that junk and think of it as.. my parents want me to get atleast Bs.. that is going to help me when i go to college. that will be give disapline, i will learn to deal with people i dont like msot of the time, because when i get into the working world my boss and co workers wont give too much of a shit either. i really think you just need to think about things a little bit more than just HATING IT BECAUSE ITS NOT WHAT YOU WANT.. you know?.. i hope thsi deosnt sound harsh and mean but hating is easy loving takes courage.
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I am pretty sure I have OCD. I have a high amount of the symptoms of OCD. This is not a problem for me. I have a very mild condition, and often simply perform miscellaneous acts, like closing doors on my way down halls, subconsciously straightening books, desks, etc. I have not been officially diagnosed with OCD, though. The problem is, I get great anxiety on whether I have OCD or not. I stress constantly, and check every day to check symptoms, compare my symptoms with other anxiety disorders, and so on. I often get like this, checking over and over again for things like making sure my alarm clock is set, and check maybe 5 times a night. I can deal with this myself, but having to check to see if I actually have something wrong with me? (link)
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i think your normal. OCD is where you do these things because you get a feeling that soemthing bad might happen. or you dont like change and so you do things repeatedly. i think your fine!... next time you are at the doctors you could always ask though..
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i lived in nc for a long time then i moved to pa. i recently came back down and all my friend told me how much weight i had lost. i thought it was really strange because i thought i had gained alot of weight. is it just in my head that i project myself as being heavier like when anorexic people look in the mirror and they see someone who's like 100 pounds heavier than they actually are? (link)
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well.. muscle weighs for than fat.. so if you mean on a scale you think you weigh more.. think about that. and maybe you jsut notice other things about your body than before.. like the peoplebelow "you grew into your body" example: bigger hips doesnt mean your fat, girls are supose to have something like 17-25% body fat.
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I hope this is the right place to put this question, it's the closest place I could find.
I realized recently that most of the problems in my life can be traced back to me not taking enough risks. I need to start taking more risks. Even the stupidest things, I can't do, I freeze up. How do I learn to take more risks? (link)
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haha! this question makes me laugh!.. you are the same way as me. iv probably asked myself this 100 times in the same wording. i would freeze up on telling somone i liek their shirt.. or telling somone hi.. even my friends!... just.. do it. dont think about it. do it. little things.. just do it. i dotn mean go out and steal a car.. but i mean do little things and then when bigger things like.. doign a solo in choir or trying out for a play come.. itll be less of a jump... just do it. simple as that.. i knwo it sounds more simple than it is.. just try to.. and youll feel better about yourself
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around june i went on a diet. i was 5'6" and 140 lbs. i had a little tummy i wanted to lose. i lost 10 lbs dieting. then i came down with mono and i lost another 15 lbs in less than 2 weeks.
my appetite has gotten smaller. i eat like a bird. i keep losing weight without exercising or anything. im actually trying to gain a few lbs now, because i dont think im healthy. im at 115 lbs now.
now ive noticed that everytime i eat, unless its something im craving makes me feel sick.
whats wrong with mee? :[ (link)
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you need to ask your doctro abotu diabeties.. i knwo when i have mono though i lost like 30 pounds and i got sick at everything... it sucked hardcore. but if your over your mono completly and its still happening you need to ask your doctor.. you could even have a stomach worm.
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Lately my school has been talking to us about abortion. They think it's wrong and I'm not sure about it. I'm NOT pregnant, but there are girls in my school who are and each of them has said they wish they would have had an abortion. I think it's wrong, but it could also be for the best if one was to have an abortion.
Please voice your opinions on abortion. I would love to hear everything you have to say about it. (link)
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WELL you have lots of opinions.. and.. yeah. ill just say mine too. I belive in soemthing called "partial life" that just means that i belive that they are alive before their born but their life is not equal to one that is already living outside the womb.. NOT that a fetus is unimportant but if the mother has a high risk of death i think thats the only appropriate time to have an abortion. ultimetly i think its the mothers choice. personally i wont do it unless im going to die and thats positive that i wont live threw the birth of my child. but i dont belive that i should have any right or control over tell someone else they cant have one.
and thats my opinion.
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okay i hope this doesnt sound really stupid, but... a girl in my town just died and everyone is posting bulletins saying "please pray for her." and i feel really stupid because im not sure what were praying for? i mean, if she was sick or injured id be praying for her to get better. and i can see praying for her family and friends that they will be able to get through this. but when they say pray for her, do they mean pray that she'll go to heaven, or what? im sorry, i just want to understand what they mean. (link)
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some religions belive that if you pray for somone while their at their "judgement day" between earth and heaven or hell, it will help them get into heaven. along with what the last person said.. pray for them (or their souls) to be happy or to be in a better place (heaven).
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If I were to say something to my counselor or a nurse about my depression could they talk to my parents without my permission? I've been wanting to see someone about it but I refuse to if my parents have to get involved. If that is the case, who else could I see about it? (link)
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Teachers, nurses, and counsilors are supsoe to keep everythign confidental and only have parents intervine when its a life or death or you might hurt somome else.
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Hey, does anyone know any websites you can order clothes from online? I don't want it to be an actual stores website, because i'm tired of having the same clothes as everybody.
Thanks :) (link)
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if you want tshirts or sweatshirts and stuff. you can custome them at cafepress.com. iv done it they come out really nice... they have premade stuff too.. with sayings and stuff. whatever you really want..
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i'm on my period, obviously, and i'm starting to get really bad cramps. i wake up because it really hurts. what are some ways to make it stop hurting? or help ease the pain? (link)
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drinking water helps ME.. and excersie. i know it seems liek a bad time to do it. i always feel like sleeping or something else. sitting on my butt. but like just streching helps mine. mayyybbee itll help yours
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i have a very long penis (20 and a half cm) which is good for my girlfriend, but it is also very thin, which is bad for me. I don't feel a lot of pleasure from sex. Is there anything we can do to make either her tighter or me thicker? (link)
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well positions help. have you done like doggy style? positions help because it moves her pelvic bones.. so i think you should look up some differnt positions that seem like soemthing youd like to try
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ok. i am 13. 132 lbs, five foot 6.5. i play soccer and basketball and have a 2 hour workout (practices and games)6 days a week. what is a good way i can lose weight? (specific food plans would be appreciated) thanks :) (link)
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Yeah. im really agreeing with all the other people that have replied. i dont think that you need to loose weight. and at your age your body is going to be changing SO much your going to need all the rest and foods you can get. although nobody really should be eating junk foods, salts, and tons of processed foods.. try to just eat healthy and your body will know what to do.
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