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Hey! my name is Andrea but I like to be called Andie* I am 14 I love helping people out with there problems. I'm SpUnKy . BuBbly . outgoing . trustworthy . responsible . and fun to be with! Please dont hesitate to ask me anything! I understand that teenage years will definatly be the hardest to go through..it has for me at least...Boys*Friends*Family*Death all sorts of stuff so I will answer every question you have! I hope I'm helping you guys out! ♥Andie

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HEY andrea! im really mad cuz my parents think im fat. they make me see a dietison (or w/e ) i really hate it ive tried taking to them it doesnt work.

thankee

ps:if ur thinking that they dont think im fat ur wrong they call me fat and other names every day

Hey! ik how you feel my parents do the same, but I think that your parents care about you soo much that they will bring you to a dietison..not many parents will do that for there kids..(like mine :() ALSO! I think that you shold sit down and tell them taht if they have nothing nice to say to you..then dont say anything at all! taht is what I told my parents and they were like..wohoo.ok..and kinda backed off b/c they realized that I didnt like it so ya I hope I helped *Rate me* If you have anymore questions drop one in my inbox! Love-Andie

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Ok I am 13/f and i dunno what to be for halloween,
a fairy or a dead bride? I already have fairy wings, but i think it would b cute to be a dead bride. what do you think? thanx.

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I think that you should get one other friend and be mario and lugi ( that is what me and my friend are doing) its really kool or dice with someone...take a cardbord box and spray paint it..real cheap at a craft store..but if you want to be a dead bride I say sure! lol hope I helped! *rate me* Love-Andie

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Hey andrea!
Well i really like this guy. But he is a year older then me. Is it right to date an older guy? I have asked a lot of people, some say yes some say no. Eventhough we are in different grade, i no i will still see him. I really like him, and i no he likes me. Is this okay? What do u think? I LOVE YOU

I think you should go out with him! lol Ik it might be werid for some people (middle school especailly) think it is kinda werid if you are like a 6th grader wanting to go out with like a 8th grader, but I think it is perfectly fine! and i mean..he likes you should go ahead! I love you too! I hope I helped! Love- Andie

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Dear Andie,
Well me and my b/f have been going out for liek i t hink 3 in a half weeks. And he never talks to me, never calls. And now i realize that i dont really love him. I dont even no the kid. But if i dump him i no that he will make all the guys hate me. SO i am scare to dump him! What should i do? i no i shouldnt be with him. How should i brake the news?

Yes, I have to agree that this is a very hard question! lol..but I hope I can help! lol! well I think that if you really dont like someone, and you know that they arent the one for you, that you do have to break it..and I'm happy that you know you should.I think that you should tell him right to his face or call him and tell him everything..But the hard part is that he will make all of the guys hate you..but, if you tell him that you still want to be friends maybe he wont be mean..I mean this has never happend to me before, but some of my friends have gone threw this..so i think that IF he does tell the other guys to hate you and they are your friends they wont hate you..because they will realize that he is a jerk and no girl should go out with them if he treats you like this..so I Hope I helped if you need a better answer drop one in my inbox! Love You!

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Well u see i have a problem one of my boobs is "A" and the other is a "D" is that normal. Then there is this guy that i like and he wont go out with me because of my problem. Please help me because the docters have done all they can but its the fact that people look at me funny because well u know. PLEASE HELP ME I NEED IT!!

No, I dont think that is normal I think you should go to a speacialist and ask them. I think that if the guy you like wont go out with you because of your problem..I think that he just isnt the guy, he should like you for you..not because of your problem that you cant control Well I hope I helped!

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im 15 and never kissed a boy...is this bad?

no! not at all! you just haven't foudn the right guy yet! trust me when you find "the" guy you will be happy that you had kissed him rather than a guy you didnt really like! Hope I helped!
-Andie

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Andrea,
Please help me! Im 13 5'2 and weigh 150 pounds and am a size 9 in juniors....im realy fat. how can i loose alot of weight really fast? also i really like this guy but he is soo perfect and i think im too immature for him how can i mature? PLZ HELP ME!

I think that if you feel that you are fat then do something about it! lol i am big for my ago too but anyways i think that you should start a running excersise everyday for at least 15 minutes. or use the winser pollities excersise i just started and i lost like 5 pounds in like 4 days and start eating salads instead of cheeseburgers and about the guy thing i think that you should start talking to him more. I think that you should start saying excuse me in frount of him if you burp ( just an example) or something and ya lol i hope i helped! -Andie


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recently i've found out that i truly like this certain guy, problem is half my friends hate him. I feel like i cant tell most of them because of what they'll say, the same problem goes for if i were to ask him out. On top of that I have NO CLUE if this guy likes me or even if he's worth going for! what should i do?

I think that just because your friends doesnt like him..doesnt mean that you cant go out with him! Go out with whoever you want to that isnt other peoples decisions, its YOURS! i Think to find out if he likes you to..ask one of his friends to ask him and then youll know..every guy is worth going for so..GO FOR IT! lol i hope i helped! -Andie

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i feel sooo fat!!!! i am 13 years old 5 foot 6 or 5 foot 5 and 113 pounds. evry1 tels me im not fat but i think i am. wat should do??

I think that you are perfectly fine! lol but if you arnt confident with your self then i think you should do something about it! lol like eat salad instead of McDonalds (just an example) and run! it helps alot and start doing some excersises! i hope i helped.!.! -AndreA

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I had a boyfriend, me and him were really close and we went out for like nine months. Finally one day i said it was over, over for good. Now one of my friends is going out with him and i miss him so much, and everytime i see them together they make me jealous. I still love him, and i dont think my friends like that too much. Sometimes i think he still misses me too. Its werid cuz one day we just stoped talking completly and it was such a big change it felt really werid. He usually is really nice to me, but them sometimes he can be a complete jerk. It feels like he is just trying to make me jealous..... why is he doing this? Thanx for you help

I think that you should tell him how you really feel. and tell him and say this..ik you are going out with ___ but i still have very strong feelings for you. i think he might be acting like a jerk because he might still like you and is trying to be mean to you just so he can get you off of his mind..and besides guys can be assholes anyway so he might be doing this just to be a jerk. tell him that it hurts your feelings when he is mean to you. i hope i helped and tell me how it goes! -Andrea

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Ok, well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 2 or 3 months now. hes really nice to me and hes really funny. i luv him, and he really luvs me. he always calls me, and he always wants to do something wit me. its great, but the problem is that my friends hate them. ik that they say that they dont, but ik that they do. he used to b mean to my friends, but i asked him to stop, and he was nice enough to call all of my friends that he ever made fun of, and apologized to them.i dont know why they dont like him, he is really nice to me, and he is so funny. they sometimes make fun of him, and he doesnt make fun of them anymore. just like the other day sum of my friends were like "Ewww, look at him, he has long hair, dont talk to him" him being my boyfriend. its like they dont make fun of other ppls boyfriends. and then they say "oh opps, shes here, sorry" she being me. and they say that all the time, like if they say something mean bout him their just like "opps, shes here, sry." and again "she" being me. ik that my b/f isnt the most attractive guy in the world, but i dont think that it should matter. they really hurt my feelings, and i dont think that they know that. and i'm sure that they talk about him behind my back too. i'm not sure wat i should do. if i talk to my friends about it, they'll be mad at me. do u think that i should dump my boyfriend? oh yeah, i forgot to tell u, that sometimes i dont feel like i should be wit the boyfriend that i have now. its like i dont think that we should b together sometimes, so what should i do? talk to me friends about it, but if i do they'll get mad. should i dump my boyfriend, cuz my friends dont like him, and i feel like we shouldnt b together? plz help me andrea!

I think that you only think that you shouldnt be together with him is because your friends say it too much! and it is starting to get to ya. And if you and your boifriend love each other i think you should stay together and it seems he really cares for you! lol that is sweet! lol and i think that if your friends cant be happy for you then well i think you shouldnt be friends with them, or just talk to them that it does hurt your feelings when they talk about him infront of you. You should have respectful friends that are happy for you when you have a boifriend that you really love. i hope i helped tell me how it goes! -Andrea

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Andrea,
My older sister is going to college in 2 weeks and i am really really upset. She is like my best friend. I know i can visit her, but it hurts so bad! I've become very depressed at times and i sometimes start crying for no reason after she leaves with her friends or something like that. Its really bad and I'm not quite sure what to do! I told i'll miss her and stuff, but i still am upset. Do you have any ideas on how i could keep my mind off of my older sister?

This is kinda hard for me because i dont have any older siblings that are going away and that i am that close to. but i think that you should just get out of the house for a little bit and think about other stuff. Have a party wtih your sister and her friends and some of your closest friends and just have a big blow out and go shopping with her or something and ya and then to get her off of your mind i suggest you hang out with your friends more and start moving away from your sister (ik this might be hard but you will learn that she is away)and start hanging out wtih your friends and start to act like she isnt home. i hope i help!! -Andrea

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I have this one friend and we have alot of fun together, but once in a while she will get really mean and im pretty sure she always talks behind my back and tells all my secrets. And every time i have a boy friend she has ruined it.
So do u think that i should keep being friends with her!!i dont know what to do please help!

I dont think you should anymore because a true friend doesnt talk about you behind your back. and most definatly because your "friend" shouldnt ruin a relastionship with a guy that you are going out wtih that is very rude! lol well i hope i helped! -Andrea

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I have this poem about a broken friendship, and my best friend read it. she asked who the poem was for, and i told her that it was for different people at different times. then she asked me if it was ever for her. and it was, but i said that it wasnt. is it ok that i lied to her, so i wouldnt hurt her feelings? should i talk to her, and tell her that i did lie, and that the poem was for her at a certain time? i'm just afraid that if i do tell her, that she will think that i dont like her, but i really do. i am not really sure wat i should do. so, wat do u think that i should do? i would really appreciate some advice, thanks.

Ya that is kinda hard you should have told her the first time she asked, but i thought that was a good thing to care about her feelings but if you guys are really friends you should talk to her right away and tell her that it was a mistake that you lied, and tell her you were just out looking out for her feelings and explain to her that it was a while ago and that you no longer feel that way. i hope i helped! tell me how it goes! -Andrea

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Hey I am a 13 year old girl im 5'3 and i weigh 106 am I to light or to heavy?

No that is fine! the rang for gurls that age and height are suppost to be between 103 and 120. hope i helped!!! -Andrea

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(im a girl)I personally think the only way I can possibly get a flat stomach is to do crunchies and stuff. I kind of want a 6 pack or something but idk.. it will look weird on girls! Do you think I will look weird if I get a 6 pack?

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(im a girl)I personally think the only way I can possibly get a flat stomach is to do crunchies and stuff. I kind of want a 6 pack or something but idk.. it will look weird on girls! Do you think I will look weird if I get a 6 pack?

It is fine for girls to have abs but it looks kinda werid if you have those kinda abs that male modles have. i hope i helped! -Andrea

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im not sure if you got my other one, but ill just send it again. im 13, 5'4, and 97 lbs. i have a high matabalizm and i eat like everything! all my friends say im skinny and the right weight, but sometimes i think that i am a little to skinny. do you think that my weight is fine or if i am to light. and if you know any ways on how to gain a few? please answer! thanks!

look at my other answer*
-Andrea

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hey i am 5'4, 13, and 97 lbs, every1 says im so skinny but sometimes i think im TO skinny. i have a high matabalizm and i eat like everything. do you think i am to skinny for my hight and age? and can you give me some suggestions on how to gain a few pounds?

No i think that you are fine for your age and height you just have a really good metablilisum. Use it while you have it! If you wanted to gain a few pounds do whatever but dont be a "couch potatoe" and dont over do it because your metabilisum might get use to not working fast anymore. so that is my advise to you i hoped i helped a little! -Andrea

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Hey, I have a problem. I've never used tampons before, and I just got my period about a year ago. A lot of my friends say its the way to go, because you can go swimming and stuff when you do have your period. Well, I go with the saying "I don't feel like sticking anything up my ass!" even though technically its not sticking it up your butt. But seriously, some of my friends say the first time it hurts like a 'mother fucker' because your linings aren't stretched out yet. And I know you can't take it out if its dry or it will REALLY hurt. Help! Tampons or pads?

i would say pads because i have never used tamponds before and i am also living by your saying i dont feel like sticking things up my ass lol but yes i have herd that they are better to use but if i were you i would use it when you are ready and comfortable with using one tha that is what i am doing lol
-Andrea

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