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k, well. i'm only 13 and i already have stretch marks on my inner thighs and outter. also on my butt, i'm definetly NOT fat and those areas arent fat either. i don't know why or how i got them but i was wondering is there was ANYTHING i could do to get rid of them. i really really don't want them there and theyre really noticable when i wear my bathing suit. and also if anyone has any information on how a THIRTEEN yearold got STRETCH MARKS i'd be interested.

thanks alot, in advance.

If you go through a period of time where you grow a lot that can cause stretch marks. Dont worry about it everyone has flaws and i know some girls that are a bit older than you with them. Like the first girl said if you want you can use products to help them fade and im sure they dont look bad and im pretty sure no one even notices them! :D Hope i helped!

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i am 16 and so basically my stomach is not flat at all and i would love for it to be flat and i have been trying all these years to make the fat go away.. i have tried crunches and situps but they dont work.. is there anything i can do? and exercise or foods?

Me too. you have to do cardio to burn the fat. sit-uos build the muscle but you wont be able to see those muscles unless you burn away the fat there. running, biking, walking, jogging, things like that. you can search for cardio activities because i did and there is a lot of good info. hope i helped! ;D if you have more questions leave me a message in my inbox!

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I am looking for advice on a rape victim, keep the kid or not?

16 YEAR OLD GIRL.

Really, it's not the child's fault, they didn't ask to be killed because they were concieved wrong right?
But then again, having the kid will be a daily reminder, and ruin her future.

WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
ANY ADVICE?



Thank you for the time!

Well, a couple things. First abortion is killing the child no matter what you say. I understand how it would be hard for the mother though. So first she would be able to be strong and overcome such an event by having the chirl and loving her child more everyday. She shouldn't know the child as a child she didnt want, one that is a mistake. She should think of the child as a miracle. Something so beautiful came out of something so horrible. Someone to love and that she will always love. But also not having a father might be difficult. The best option might be to find a nice, loving family to adopt the child. Make sure to do it legally and check out the parents, home, and such. I think that might be best with the girl being so young (16 still a teen) and not able to handle herself and what shes feeling right now let alone a life to take care of. And if she wants she could still be in contact with her child later in life and tell them what happened and that she still loves them or whatever. Hope i helped and i am terrible sorry. I know how hard something like that is. Its a terrible horrific thing and i cant imagine how people can do that to young girls. or anyone. please rate me if i was helpful and best of luck.

Theymos HOW can u even think KILLING the baby AFTER its born is ALRIGHT?!?!?! That for sure IS murder whethe or not abortion is! And its illegal for a reason!
What is the world coming too these days????????

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Okay well there's this guy and i used 2 lik him in 6th and 7th, and he knew it and he never liked me. Yeah but weve been GREAT friends!!! Now we're in 8th grade and its wierd, i have a bf now, one that he doesnt know cause he goes to a diff skool and my friend seems wierd. we used to NEVER get in fights or anything we were chill and kool. But since ive been dating this guy my friends been acting wierd. He's always making fun of my boyfriend, which he doesnt even know and he's always now playing w/ me hair more and stuff. lik he just started going out w/ this gurl a week ago, and im not jealous but i feel like hes jealous of my bf. he makes fun of him, he's now getting mad at me ova nothin at least 3 times a week, and he's always messin w/ me, hair and stuff. IS HE JEALOUS OF MY BOYFRIEND

certainly sounds like it! good luck and if you have more questions just send me a message in my inbox-i always reply! :D

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im 15 and ive never made out with anyone before.. is this weird like a feel so awkward ive had chances to but every time i get nervous that im going to suck at it so i just dont do it cause im afraid the guy will think im pathetic and does any one have any tips on how to make out?

all answers will be apprecitated thank you in advance!

dont worry! its so much fun! just keep moving your lips and kissing him. its just like kissing only repeated. not too detailed i guess so if you have more specific questions or anything just leave me a message in my inbox! :D

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i was so close to going out with a kid i really like but then he changed his mind about going out wuth me now he wont talk to me and i dont know why what should i do

forget him! maybe he's playin hard to get but if hes gonna be like that why would you want him? he'll just hurt you. anyway just ignore him back. act like you have better options cause you do. you'll be amazed when he sees he doesn't need you and you have the power not him. dont be mean and if he talks to you talk to him back but show him your not some little lovesick puppy who's gonna follow hima round and wait for him to chose. your better than that! i garuantee it! hope i helped! and please rate! (if its good lol)

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alright well every time i shave my legs i always get razor burn on the inside left of my right leg and the inside right of my left leg.. i have tried different razors and different shaving creams but i always get it in those spots.. and i have kinda white legs so it shows up a lot and i dont no why i get it can anyone tell me why i get it? and how i can prevent it? also after i shave i have tried putting lotion and baby oils on but that still wont work either, and i always use a new razor so that cant be it? pleaseeeee help!

yeah the other person is right, do it in the shower and u'll be fine! :D
Ok, I didnt know you shaved in the shower so can you please just not give me a rating because its brining down my rating and you didnt include that so it's not my fault. Thanks!

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lol. i know this question is weird but i dont care. so how? i mean, kissing with tounge??i've never done that b4 so could anyone tell me how? like when to open your mouth and stuff like that? i dont get it. and how to let go? i feel like an idiot. lol.some one please tell me how

Yeah wiseman is right. just kinda open your mouth into an O move your lips a little if you want and playfully move it around with his tongue. then when your done (cause guys never seem to be the one to pull away first haha at least not with me ;D ) just pull your body away a little so he knows and pull your tongue into your own mouth and close your lips. then the kiss is over and your down. easy so dont worry! but if you have any more questions but leave me a message! :D

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Yes I'm going on a date tonight and I want to know what hints can i drop to tell him i want him to kiss me, where both 13 so its not lik were 17 this is our 6th or or somme date, we've kissed before but hes kind of wierd about it. Like at the movies it's no problem, but i think its just wierd in public for him, lik hge doesnt no if ill go along with it, what hints can i drop?!?!?!?!?!

You could playfully bring it up. you could hug him and then look at his face and not let go or/and you could kiss him on the cheek. and if the moments right, dont wait around for him! kiss HIM! boys can be TERRIBLY clueless! my friends and i have a saying "Boys are so oblivious you could hit them on the head with a shovel and they would say, 'what's up?'" haha funny story but sooo true! even if they dont think so. haha our guy friends dont agree but its all of my girlfriends' and i's new quotes. :D Best of luck!!!

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Sorry if in wrong catagory..

So when I fist got my period it was July 9 2007... I had it again in August, but not one at all in September... and now I have one in October 6th...

but shouldn't you get your period every month?
Will I never have a September period?

I'm not pregnant if thats what you think.. I'm a vergine..

Hey! Don't worry! when i first got my period i had it once, then twice, then i didnt have it for 4 months! now its kinda becoming regular (i first got mine last spring) but for september and august ines kinda late. i dont know whats up with it but i know it takes a couple years sometimes to regulate! dont worry every girl has irragular periods just always be prepared and ready! my 1 friend was asking all these girls if they had pads because she got hers early. If you have any more questions just send me a message! :D

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16/F I really am motivated to find a religion that will have me feeling purified. I've already taking some quizzes to see which would suit me, but those weren't of use. Here are some of my beliefs which will not change.
-Against abortion
-Abstinence until marriage
-Strongly against smoking and drinking
-Reincarnation

This is for my own practice and mainly to achieve inner peace. I am very self-aware.

I'd prefer if it were a religion that isn't so common because chances are I've rejected it in the past.

Thank you for your help!

Well, it sounds a lot like Christianity except they dont really believe in reincarnation. if you have any questions about christianity please leave my your question in my inbox! I would love to help!!!

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Okay. My life is like apple pie. I get straight A's in school, am fit, am reasonably pretty (not sounding conceited), have a lot of really nice friends, my teachers seem to love me, I can speak French, and dress well. Everyone says to me how likely I will be to succeed, and that I could do whatever I want. But, I always feel like something's missing. I have no idea what it could be, but there is definitely something that could make me happy and I don't have it. Any help please?

Please dont think its a bf because you really dont need one. now dont think im sum girl against guys because trust me im not. I

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I had no idea what to put this under. I am terribly curious about "Hannah Montana". I had never watched this Disney Channel show, but I have seen the jumping popularity of Hannah Montana on even NBC news. I watched it on ABC Saturday morning cartoons recently, and saw absolutely nothing great about it. I thought that it was actually incredibly horrible acting, and the concept to be terrible. I am disappointed to see that Disney's legacy has disappeared behind this... crap. My younger sister's friend was playing the soundtrack, and I found the singing rather nauseating. Can someone tell me how on Earth this awful, unholy phenomenon has occured?

The reason shes popular is souly because disney is backing he up. she cant sing well and there are thousands who sing better than her, her acting is so bad its obnoxious because shes SOOO dramatic and over the top to annoyance, but girls are going to love her because disney says shes cool and the thing so they believe them. it goes to show how much influence tv and shows have on our society and children. I have younger sisters and i know shes this BIG thing but your right, i have no idea why besides because disney says shes great. the only thing is her songs have good messages, ones you normally dont hear anymore (if you ever did hear them lol) and its nice for girls to be listening to that rather than swear words and profanity things. it kinda empowers girls and has a nice message so parents approve and the girls think its so cool so whatever. i still dont like her singing but whatever. hoep i helped and please rate me if so!!! :D

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im 13 year old girl and thinking of joining kidnation 2.. um do you think this is a good idea or will i regret it in the future?

hey me too!!!! i filled out the questionaire thing but i think its too late to send it in now. sorry! im super depressed too! maybe but im not sure but i think u should try it! i think it sounds AWESOME! :)

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Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months anda half and all we've done is hug and i want us to hold hands and kiss but his really shy and so ami it sucks lol =[ any ideas and i don't want to make the first move

You could talk to him about it or about holding hands when you two are just walking together grab his hand and when he looks at you just giggle and squeeze his hand a little. To show you what to kiss him without talking about it you could just kiss him on the cheek after hugging him bye to give him a good signal. Or even kiss him on the lips if you want depends on what you feel like. you are gonna have to make the first move unless u talk to him about it but its funa nd i dont know why you wouldnt want too. good luck, best wishes, and i hope i helped! :D leave me a message for more help if you need it! Im always here! ;)

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Sorry this is kinda long but i relly need help!! PLEASE!

7th Grade, That time in your life you start to see who is actually your friends. It's only one friend with me. Say her name was... Jane. Jane and I have been BFFs since before preschool. Me and her did everything together. Anyways, in grade 3 i met a girl named, say.. Kelsey. Kelsey lived only a few houses away from me and we hung out a lot. (The longest we've ever gone with out a sleepover starting 5th grade, 8weeks) Kelsey was also a bit spoiled but i didnt mind she was still a good friend. Jane and Kelsey werent the best of friends and never saw eye to eye. Me and kelsey do everything together (I'm going to see Rihanna with her tomorrow!) and i can see how Jane would be a bit jealous. Well ever since before a camp i went to in the summer, Jane has been acting like a bi*** to me. I still wasnt shaving my legs then and she came up to me (out of no where), ran her hand up my leg and said when was the last time you shaved? No not said YELLED! to the whole camp. I also had streaks put in my hair before school started. I kinda went a little beserk and now there's a huge streak of blond right by my face. It looks BAD! Jane points it out to everyone I meet. I HATE IT!!! She makes up secrets about me that sooo aren't true and she tells my true secrets to people! I tlaked to her on the phone the other day and yold her. She said she just wanted to be one of those POPULAR grade 8s next year. I asked her if being popular was more important than being my friend. She didn't answer and i hung up. She done a lot more horrible things to me but if i wrote them all it would take you alll day to read this.
I reallyy need help and im stressing about this 24/7. She calls me a geek and calls me not smart and AHHHHH!!! Please help i sometimes cry myself to sleep. Sorry ity was sooo long but don't take that out of me by not answering the question.



PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Leave her. She is def. not a friend. If you tried talking to her already just blow her off. Don't talk to her, ignore her, look her in the eye when you see her to show your not afraid and can stand ur ground. You realy fdnot need some girl like that. You get older and people change. Friends change. I've had to drop my best friends like last year i dropped my bff but i had to do it. You'll see you will feel a lot better when you do and say to yourself why didnt i do that before? shes holding you back and making u feel bad. Why would you need that or want it? just leave her. I hope i helped! ♥♥♥ and if you have any questions just leave me a note in my inbox! best of luck!

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i have a horrible habit where i pull out my eyelashes/eyebrows. it's been going on for about 5 years now. these days i usually go 2 months without doing it at all & i look great; but then i like relapse & do it once & then i can't stop. like a few minutes ago i just ripped out like 20 eyelashes; & i can't take it. it's not as simple as just saying stop. i usually don't even REALIZE that i'm doing it. & a lot of people make fun of me for it; & if they ask about it i always pretend that i don't know what's going on & then i go home & cry. i've wasted too much time with this. & i know if i keep it up that they'll stop growing back one day. i look like i have a disease; & i know it's so horrible for the people who DO look like this because they have diseases; but i don't. it's not just because of how i look when i do this. i just can't take it knowing that i punish myself when somebody gets me mad or i'm bored or whatever. i put bandaids on my fingers to stop me from doing it; but it just makes everything else more difficult for me to do. PLEASE HELP ME IN ANYWAY YOU CAN!!!!! 14/f.

I think you should see some type of doctor. Like a pysciatrist. I'm sure she could help you figure out why you are doing this and solve the problem. You know, figure out a different way of dealing with whatever makes you do what you do. I sometimes have a difficulty dealing with stress and my anger, you just have to learn how to deal with it and not to hurt yourself. Hope I helped and I really hope you solve your problem! Best of luck! ♥♥♥

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hi i got my hair cut, and i relised that i miss my long hair
Does anyone no what i have to do to get my hair growing faster-not tablets and stuff, but foods, and home remedies and that stuff
(i don't want extenions thou)
PLEASE ANSWER ANYTHING WILL HELP
THANKYOU!

Hey! Im growing my hair too and my hair stylist said besides shampoo there isn't anything, but she said when your washing your hair or whatever for some reason massaging your head is suppossed to help. It won't do anyhting drastic, but its in general good for your hair and scalp anyway so i do it. Hope i helped and please rate! (if its good lol!)

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ive taken like 5 tests within the last month, all negative. got my "period" the other day and went to the doctors today just for a catscan. i took a urine test and the test came out positive for pregnancy and the second came negative. now i have to wait till tomorrow. im freaking out, they said theyve never seen this before and i still could be prgnant even though i have my period and got negative results with the others.

anyone have info?

There are a few things that can make pregnancy turn up postive when you aren't, a few, but rare. It might just so happen that you were exposed to something that made it come up positive. 1 thing is mice droppings and idk the others. Maybe look some up and tell your doctor if that's the case. I would say most likely not, but i guess you never know. Hope I helped! And please rate! :D

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Hey!
Im f/17 soon to be 18!
My question is do you think that and 17/18 year old should be datting a 22 year old... like im finishing gr12.. and he's finishing University...
Is that a really big age diffrence to you?

When your a teenager is kind of does, but when your an adult 4 years is nothing. The thing is he's most likely gone through so much more than you since he's in college. And when it comes to 18 and 22 the maturity can be really different. Now, Im saying CAN because I dont know you guys but if it seems really different or awkward between you two in certain situations then maybe its best to end it. And you don't knwo what he's doing at college and 1 more thing is make sure your not just some cute younger girl amusement for him. Like a pleasure relationship and that you guys actually connect. Hope I helped!:D

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