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hey i'm courtney! :)
i'm nineteen and i live in ohio. i am currently not going to college, and just working fulltime.. i'm single and not really looking but,i love to go tanning, shopping, and seeing friends. i am very social, and love to listen to problems and help the best way i know how. i am a very happy person, and willing to be there for people who need me most, and i care for most in life. that's a bit about me heh.

advice

does anyone know when the next season of degrassi and greys anatomy start?

thanks! xoxo

degrassi premieres oct. 5th at 9.
greys' premiers sept. 27th at 9.

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started talking to rob two months ago. he moved an hour away but we manage to stay together, and hang on weekends. its ben rocky lately because hes extreely jealous. i was thinking about getting him a few nice sweatshirts or whatever. is it too soon, would he be weirded out?

thanks

it's not weird at all. buy him some. but maybe make something from the heart. write him a sweet letter 'bout your feelings. :)

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I am freaking out again, I gave her the note and when I hand it in she said nothing but she open it right in front of me I got all red and told her to not read it yet she said “okay“ and she put it away. I gave her the note on Thursday, I will see her on Tuesday at math class and I don’t know if she will tell me or hand me a note. I am afraid of her answer I am afraid she might not like me more than a friend and/or might like me more than a friend. If it is yes she does like me what shall I do? I am never a good romantic and I know I will laugh if we do get in that stage (nervous laughter). But if she doesn’t like me than I will try to get over her and move on and be happy for her when she meets someone that will love her. What ever the answer is I just can’t wait to find out. I just hope that we will still be best friends no matter what the answer will be.

Before I gave the note last week on Monday she called me I wasn’t near my phone but she left me a message saying “I had a bad weekend but it was still okay, I cant wait to see you tomorrow” on that Tuesday I ask how was her weekend and she said “boring” and that was the end of the conversation well I guess she couldn’t wait to see me.

Ps I will keep you updated, thank you again

just don't think about it as much until you get her answer back. and when you get her answer, then decide what you'll then do. it's fine. don't be nervous or afraid. :)

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started talking to rob two months ago. he moved an hour away but we manage to stay together, and hang on weekends. its ben rocky lately because hes extreely jealous to the point where he is just so mean. he assumes i go out/get drunk and hookup / flirt with guys. its so bad that i cant even go out anymore. i like him so much and every night i go out that im not with him, he makes me so upset when he calls and i end up goin home at like 9. my friends are sick of it because i am now depressed and dont do anything, but i just cant imagine losing him. he was never like this when he lived 10 mins away. hes 23 and im17 so there is an age difference but it just sucks because what am i supposed to do since hes not here, completly lose my social life? we are going away this weekend together and i was thinking about getting him a few nice sweatshirts or whatever. is it too soon, would he be weirded out? and what do i do to get his trust?ive already deleted all the guys in my phone and he still checks it, he also has my facebook name and password and had me delete my myspace

thanks

he needs to be a man and grow up!
i mean you're not acting all possesive and psycho towards him. you're not mega jealous, because you trust him! he needs to just calm down. you DO need a social life and to hangout with friends. He's got you locked up in a cage. tell him to trust you . it's all he can do dear. and if he can't seriously find a guy who can. love and relationships are based on trust and honesty. and you shouldn't have to delete anything just because he's insecure about himself. sometimes people are so jealous because theyy know them-selves aren't behaving. try asking him what he's doing all the time. see how he likes it. but really sit and have a talk with him. it's rediculous for you.

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There is this guy that I have liked for atleast nine months now. We used to hang out but then we sort of stopped. Recently i have been seeing him before school and he would come over nd we would talk.

Now I wont you to know right now that he is not one of those godly guys. He is a bit of a rabel and I hope most of you know what that means.

Now I know he is somewhat atracted to me but I was wondering if you guys had any ideas on how to make him really want me. sort of like how to real him in until i have him hooked and also some ideas of how to get us to hang out.

please help i rate high.

all you got to do is be yourself.
flirt more. drop him little hints.be cute. wear his fav color perhaps. compliment him. but don't crowd him too much sweetie.make sure he knows your available. :]
goodluck, godbless.

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Okay so my boyfriend and i have been pretty serious for about 8 months.. and we say i love you to each other and stuff like everyday... but im IN love with him... and when i ask if he is with me he says he loves me but he doesn't know if hes in love with me...
but to me there are two kinds of love.
loving someone like a good friend or family or something like that.
or being IN love with a girlfriend/boyfriend that you've been with for a while or known for a while.
and i don't know why he isn't... but lately when I've talked to him I wont say i love you back to him.. and i think he's getting the point.. because he knows that i love him... but he also knows that it hurts me.. but if you answer this don't say anything about me not saying it back.. i just want to know what you think because I'm really IN love with him. and he acts like he is with me.. but he wont say it...
as many answers as i could get would be great.

just give him time. maybe he doesn't want to rush his feelings for you. and wants the inlove to mean something when he tells you. even tho you've been dating for awhile now.
and i'm sure that he will be inlove and just doesn't realize it yet.
don't fret. things will be alright dear.
godbless and goodluck. :]

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when my boyfriend fingers me, like a lot, i usually tend to bleed...but when we have sex, i don't.
why is this?


and its not because of his fingers nails, they are really short..

sometimes i bleed when my boyfriend fingers me and then not when we have sex. it isn't unusual. so don't worry about it. but i can't tell you why. sorry.

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15/F

Okay so one of my best guy friends and I are always together. ALWAYS. He's like my brother but he likes me and sometimes when we play around, it comes off as flirting. Well there's this other guy I like who always runs into us in the hallways and he always sees us together so would it be a turn-off for him to see that I'm always with someone else and "flirting" or would it make him more competitive and want me more?

it's hard to read guys. they are just as confusing as us dear. you should decide which guy you really want, and then flirt with that one. alright! :]

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I was walking in the mall today, and these salespeople for T-Mobile stopped me and tried to convince me to switch to their company, even going as far as to say that T-Mo now has a phone similar to Cingular's iPhone. Is this true? And if so, what make and model is it?

(I tried going on the t-mobile website but couldn't find any information on it)

t-mobile rarely gets service. i had it for two years. and it succked!
cingular is way better hon.

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im friends with a shmuck. he's my best friend but he's a manwhore basically. he got back with his ex girlfriend and while they were on a 6 month break me and my guy friend hooked up quite a few times. now that they're back together me and him are both having trouble resisting temptation of hooking up again. we have not been physical at all in the month that they've been back together except for one hug. here's the thing though. we always talk dirty to each other and i feel bad about it and afterwards im almost sick to my stomach in guilt but he's like an addiction. he's the first guy that i've been sexual with if that makes a difference. i really want to stop this because i feel bad but everytime we're around each other our conversations turn sexual and sexual towards each other. don't tell me to talk about something non-sexual because we could be talking about frogs or something random but it'll still end up that way.


pleeaasseee help me, i can't just stop talking to him because he's one of my best friends

if you cant keep from talking to him set up limits. or try to not talk as much. he needs to tell his girl if he wants you still. he seems not ready to settle down yet.

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well ive been dating my boyfriend for like three days now and i really want to french kiss him cauz kissin is the best part of any relationship with a guy....well besides sex but i dont want to do that with him, well not yet.....but when would be the appropriate time to kiss him?

one more question i kind of bragged a little about my kissin skills so if theres any pointers you could give me i would appreciate it! thks

kiss him when the time is right. you can't just plan it out. that won't work. but don't do it if you know he's not ready.

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Okay well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month and everything is going really good.
but well we have been trying to kiss for the last week and well im ready for it and i told him i could kiss him but he said he wants to be the man...but evertime we are about to do it he backs off and we sit around joking about how we cant do it..
does it mean anything bad or....

i think he's just nervous. maybe just do it yourself. you can't wait forever. it's always awkward at first. its your first kiss. so just do it next time, if he doesn't.

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well i just got a boyfriend to day and i instantly cheated on him but i dont know if its really cheatin cuz the only thing i did was feel on someone else's dick but i don that to this guy all the time....lie on a daily basis! so is it still considered cheating?

yes, grow up.

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I moved to a new school this year and i met about
10 new friends and we are all in a group.
But i've got really close with 2 girls from the group ( i'll call them maria and jen )
but maria told me she liked this guy who is sadly in all of her classes. i've known him since 1st grade and honestly, he's really stupid. she only likes him because she thinks he's cute, well he is but thats a different story. Well now shes been going all crazy and saying i need a boyfriend soo badly and i told her it won't go far but she doesn't believe me. she won't stop talking about boys and how bad she wants a boyfriend. its really annoying. i want to keep her as a friend because i love her a lot, but how can i prove to her that this guy isn't right for her? =\

let her do it.
she needs to learn from her mistakes.. just be there for her, friends do that. :]

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This might sound wierd but hey...who cares :-D
Do you know any tips for masturbating...like sorts of ways to do it to make it good?
Im a girl by the way before you start giving me guy techniques lol.
shan xx

it depends on what your into.
what you prefer. try imagining something that'll turn you on. it's what i do. or watch a porn lol.

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16-f (this is embarrassing)
okay so my bf wants to finger me and i never been fingered before and never used a tampon because my hymen is still intact...i dont know what to say to him because i do want to go further with him its just the fact that my hymen is still intact then he cant do it i've been trying to break it with tampons, stretching, etc...but its not breaking....any ideas what to do with the whole hymen situation? plus im sick of using pads, but it hurts like a bitch if i try to put a tampon inside

also my vagina is dark pink in the inside of my vulva...but its been like that for years...and i even put monistat on it and clean it and everything, but is taht natural and normal that its pink and has a little bit of that "ricotta like discharge"?

i think it's way normal. &he can still finger you dear. you just have to let him do it. it'll be fine. i first got fingered when i was 16& i neve ever used tampons. not until after i had sex.
pink is normal too, along with the discharging.

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PLEASE HELP IM DESPERATE!

I'm so pissed at all my friends. Like I can't even find the words to explain it. Michelle and Hana and I all had this thing were we slept over Hana's house and snuck out with this guy. They just did it yesterday and didn't invite me, even though weve only done it once before it annoyed me.

Michelle is kinda like the "leader" of our group and everyone listens to her. She like makes fun of me for being tall and it pisses me off. And everyone is obsessed with theses people and I feel left out. Some times I just want to cry. Im pretty and everything but im not loud and outgoing and people just dont listen to me. What can I do to make them like me and be in the middle of things? PLEASE HELP! Thanks so much. Anything helps. %%

try showing them your there. make them notice you. if you want to go all out, tell michelle she's NOT the boss of everything or everyone. don't let others put you down so they can make themselves feel more important. screw her. and you're tall, so what. tell her you're a better person b/c you don't sit there and point out people's flaws. and in my opinion, flaws are a good thing. they are what make us different and who we are. they make us beautiful. :]

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17/f

okay so i have a crush on this kid jimmy in my math class. he's in my grade i just never had any classes with him so i've never met him..until now. he's sits diagonally behind me so i talk to him during math along with this kid joe that sits behind me. some of jimmy's friends are friends with my group and hang out with us all the time. so what would attract jimmy more to me? like how do i get him to become interested in me.. and how do i slyly get either my friends to invite him over or for me to invite him to out hang outs? i just have a huge crush on him and i want him to like me back but i don't know how to do that. thanks

pass cute notes in class. you won't get caught as long as your careful. mabe try sending him a little bit of flirty messages. :]
give him the signals you like him honey.&tell some of your friends you got a crush and have an idea to go to a bon fire, or the movies as a group.

goodluck sweetie.

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its my sweet 16, and its a Halloween costume party but i want to wear something like gorgeous, and if i just took off the acessories i could go to say a homecoming or something. i was gonna be marilyn monroe but all i can find online is cheap costume dresses. any idea on what i can be?

ou could go on e-bay &look up some marilyn monroe costumes. they might have better ones. i say, go as a Princess or something, you get a crown and a kiiiller dress. :]

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One of my friends back in 5th grade who is still kind of my friend now, well he acts as if i was not even in his presence. Also he used to like me in 5th grade and then he like me now,but when he tells me and he becomes my boyfriend, he breaks up with me the next day because he claims that he like another girl....
What do i do?

he seems like he's just laying games. ditch him. go find a guy who will respect you& your feelings dear. or, if you reeeealy are into him, try and talk to him and work things out. ask why he's being so different now& confusing.
but it seems like to me, you deserve a better guy hon. ;)

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