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a couple of sex questions
16-f (this is embarrassing)
okay so my bf wants to finger me and i never been fingered before and never used a tampon because my hymen is still intact...i dont know what to say to him because i do want to go further with him its just the fact that my hymen is still intact then he cant do it i've been trying to break it with tampons, stretching, etc...but its not breaking....any ideas what to do with the whole hymen situation? plus im sick of using pads, but it hurts like a bitch if i try to put a tampon inside
also my vagina is dark pink in the inside of my vulva...but its been like that for years...and i even put monistat on it and clean it and everything, but is taht natural and normal that its pink and has a little bit of that "ricotta like discharge"?
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1. you don't have to break your hymen to get fingered, in fact being fingered is most enjoyable when his fingers are not inside your vagina but on your clitoris. it is a common misconception that your clitoris is in your vagina while in reality it's at the very front of your vaginal area. getting fingered should not have anythin to do with actually placing your fingers inside your vagina if you know what you're doing.
follow this diagram and look to see whre the clotoris is located, that is the place where the most pleasure will be.
2. just as some skin pigments are different for your face the color of one's vaginal area can vary. I wouldn't worry, that's completely normal.
3. as for the discharge, some girls have clumpings in their discharge and some don't, i wouldnt worry about it. Unless you find your "area" is itchy or feels swollen, that may indicate you have a yeast infection and while they are not serious and are easily treated, they can be bothersome. but I'm sure you're fine
i hope i helped <3
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i think it's way normal. &he can still finger you dear. you just have to let him do it. it'll be fine. i first got fingered when i was 16& i neve ever used tampons. not until after i had sex.
pink is normal too, along with the discharging.
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