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It seems like my husband has been putting me down a lot from the way I grocery shop, cook, put grocery's in the car, in the house. He makes fun of my feet because they are cracked, my hands because I bite my nails, and he is constantly joking about stuff that is not funny. I'm to the point where I'm embarrassed about when he opens his mouth if we r in public. I have withdrawn from him and even though we have sex there is absolutely no emotional connection. I love my husband but I'm scared that we are growing apart and he doesn't even see it. I have asked him directly to please keep his jokes to himself n that jokes are not on me and then he tell me I don't have a sense of humor. What do i do to get him to see that this is not healthy in our marriage. I'm no saint and I think that I'm really angry inside n I do want to not be around or talk or communicate at all anymore and that frankly scares me. (link)
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Tell him what you think right now and then see what happens and say that you're not happy with the way he is treating you and you want some more respect. Talk the whole thing through.
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okay so theres this boy that my friend is trying to hook me up with , iv never met him we just talk on facebook , i really like him i know it sounds weird that i like him since iv never met hiim buuut , we have alot in common , we both sing , draw ,like poetry , and hes pretty cute based on his pictures , and i know this safe because my friend knows him from her school , hes not like a 30 year old petaphile or anything .
anyways we wants to chill with me and i dont know what to wear ? what should i wear if im meeting him for the first time ? (link)
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Wear what you always wear casually because you don't want to wear something as if your a completely different person DONT CHANGE YOUR STYLE. And you have loads in common so just let it ''go with the flow'' if you get what I mean, don't spend too much time on how you look. Wear whaat you always wear unless its like a formal occassion or something.
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What kind of hugs can tell you that some likes you? Is it a usually tight or loose hug? (link)
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I think that tighter hugs usually mean that someone likes you. But hugs cannot define if a person likes you or not.
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Recently, my friend has been talking about how hot he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room having excuses just to walk by her and at the end of the day waiting to see her leave, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and at any pictures of her in them, saying "pictures of my hot teacher are like what pornography is to other people. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to rape him he'd be all for it, and he also said he hopes her boyfriend dies. This sounds kind of funny but also weird to me. I guess you could find a teacher hot, but still. Is this normal, or has he gone too far?
friend is 16 teacher is about 26 (link)
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It's pretty normal for a guy to fantasize about his teacher. Some of the things he has said are a bit over the top. You should stop and bring him to the real world and tell him that shes an older teacher and shes already going out with someone, and she should just stay friends with him.
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\'m 15 years old
and i\'m currently in a relationship with this guy ! hes really something special to !
ireally don\'t deserve him but hes means the world to mii ,
but i\'m still and love with someone else !
weve been talking for a while !
and i gotta admit we really got something !
hes more of a hustler so hes always and the streets !
he calls mii and text mii and tells mii he loves mii every chance he gets !
hes very popular so everybody knows him !
alot of girls like him !
and hes kinda a player !
i worry about who hes with when hes not with me ! but i spend most of my time with him!
ikant really get upset about the things i here !
kuz he doesn\'t belong to mii !
and i have the boyfriend ! loll
hes been trina be with me but i keep pushing him awway !
now i realize i\'m so in love with him !
&& ikn0 its weird but ikn0 h3 l0v3s mii to !
honestly ikan see it && his eyes when he looks at mii !
hes the type that doesn\'t get all crazy bought a girl !
like i said hes more of a player !
but hes crazy about me i think about him everyday !
and i get all excited when i hear his ring tone !
ikant live without him !
but iam in a relationship with someone else !
iknow its crazy but ilove him too !
hes more of a player and a hustler too !
so he stays in the street !
ive kinda changed him to kuz hes not the loving type but some how imanage to make him fall for mii !
some how i just have that talent ! lol
but im really and love with him also !
i jus dont understand how somebody as special as him can actually love me !
it jus seems to good to be true !
ii get emotional every time i think about him because!
i kant believe he chose me ikant believe he loves mii !
i kant believe im in love with the most best boy and the world !
outta all the girls who likes him !
and the bad part about it is i dont even deserve him
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because as yew kno hes not the only person ilove !
he knows about the other guy && he hasn\'t called since then and that was two days ago !
he been knew about the other guy ! but he trusted me ! but he just found out how ireally feel about this guy !
iguess ireally did hurt him
rite before this happen
he told mii \\\"i was the best thing that happen to him\\\" !
he said \\\"before he met me the only thing he had was money
im not gonna lie
i jus sat and the dark and cried
\\\"he told me he never felt this way about a girl before !
and from what i heard he hasn\'t
like i said
he was more of a player
im torn between two
ilove both of them
and both of them love me
but both of them kno about each other
idnt kno
but anyway
he always takes mii back
but this time.....
maybe hes not comin back!
and when i think about him
i jus cry
kuz iknow that ive hurt him so much
and i wana b3 with him
but i just kant l3t g0 of that someone else (link)
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Stay with the person you love the most :]
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so i snowboard a lott. and i always see a bunch of cute guys there. i want to strike up a conversation with them but i don't want it to look like i'm desperate you know? so what can i say/do? (link)
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Fall infront of them on purpose? try to attract attention but don't hurt yourself xD
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I've been in an exclusive relationship with this guy for three months. He's perfect and amazing and our relationship is great. In addition to the emotional aspect of our relationship (we connect really well), we are extremely attracted to one another... so we usually end our dates with an intense makeout session accompanied by other stuff at his house for hours at a time. He's focused on pleasuring me and asks for nothing in return. He only does what I'm comfortable with. Thus far he's fingered me and felt me up, both through my clothes, in addition to some other stuff not as sexual. I am saving myself for marriage and he knows and is fine with this but I'm just afriad we're moving too fast, that we'll do everything there is to do outside of sex before the relationship is close to ending-- we're both very happy and have already made long-term plans that stretch into next fall.
I do enjoy what he's doing and it feels so good that its honestly hard to say no, and he makes me feel so comfortable... should we slow it down? I'm 16, he's 18. Thanks :] (link)
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You should slow it down because one day you're just gonna do it and you won't even realize. If something is nearly getting out of hand then remember to STOP and remember your promise to yourself to save yourself for marriage :] hope this helps..
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I'm 16/f. My boyfriend is 17.
God, I love him a whole lot. We just started dating, but we've been friends for so long that it's just like what was supposed to happen.
Except...
He lives an hour away from me.
I'm trying to be realistic here, because I'm only sixteen years old, so how does anyone expect a sixteen year old to even WANT to make a long distance relationship work.
It's just that, all the guys at my school are total jerks. And he's tired of all the girls at his school because they're kind of sluts. And we just have liked each other for so long.
It would've been easier if he still lived here, but he moved about a year ago.
I don't know what to do, if I should bother having this relationship or just stay friends. It's hard to make that decision because he's just so sweet to me, looking out for me. And it's so nice to actually have a guy care about you for a change.
Has anybody ever tried a long distance relationship before? Worth it or not? (link)
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If you love him so much than its worth a long distance relationship. An one hour away is NOT far away. Many people live in different countries on the other side of the world and still love each other. You should stick with him but it's your decision..
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what does it mean when someone says: my mind's on overdrive.
like in a sexual kind of way. when you see someone that you really think is hott or something xD
thankies
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Normally it means when your mine is so overdriven about soo much love.. in your life
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does anyone know what drink ashley is drinking in this picture? It would really help! What is it called and if you know where i can get it?
copy and paste the link: (it's one big link)
http://www.zimbio.com/pictures/HYAac8H95Jq/Ashley+Greene+Shopping+Los+Angeles/rCx5nNyRyFu/Ashley+Greene (link)
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Apparently it's a raw homemade drink..
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Ok, so I'm a freshman.. And the guy I really like Is a senior. He likes me to. It's just hard to get him to be 'mine' because of the age distance... And he has never had sex so he is not just using me or anything.. And I really trust him but.. How can I get him to be mine?? Were in the I like you you like me stage and we have been for like 2 months... Just any advice would be good! (link)
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Just take your time you'll come to it. Talk to him more, play with him more :] Ask him what is happening between you is it real or not?
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Okay, so here's my story.
Back in 9th grade (The summer before that, actually) I was dating this girl. We'll call her "Jane".
“Jane” is a year younger than me. She’s an A-B student.
So, anyway. We went out for about a month. We were pretty close. By the end of the summer, right before school started, her best friend told her that she was moving away to Kentucky (Or Kansas, I don't really know anymore). So we through her a big moving away/we'll miss you party. That evening we were sitting on her couch in her basement watching some stupid old movie when she comes out with the whole "I can't be seeing you anymore, I need to be with my best friend before she moves away" thing. I understood (For the most part) and we split up. She said she would always like me. I was pretty upset, since not many girls would even look at me. (Which is weird because I don't look much different and now girls won't leave me alone! Cocky, right?)
Okay, now we go ahead a few years.
So, after that, I went about 3 years single and I met this girl. We'll call her "Judy". She said she liked me, and (I'm pretty sure out of desperation) I said I kind of liked her, too. So we went out for about a month. We weren't very close. But by the end of that month, all I could think about was "Jane". So I told her that I wasn't feeling the "magic". (No, I did not get laid.) I have turned down more relationships than I can even remember. I was getting depressed. Not only could I not look at another girl without seeing "Jane's" face, "Jane" was now seeing a guy that didn't treat her with much respect. (I know, I know. Coming from the ex boyfriend who still likes her.) But he really doesn't treat her with the respect she deserves.
And here's the proof.
I work at the beach in my neighborhood. One day “Jane” comes crying to the beach because she found Mr. Perfect making out with another girl. So, my friend Nick and I were there to comfort her. And yadda yadda yadda she goes on about how he's an ass.
I find out 2 weeks later, she's back with the asshole. And I'm hearing from all of his friends that he's just trying to use her for sex. And other things and so on and so forth.
So, pretty much, I find out this guys a real jerk.
But the fact that she thinks that he's anything more than an angel is beyond me.
Hang in there guys, I'm almost to the question!
Right now I can't live a day without thinking about "Jane". It’s depressing me to the point where I don’t leave my house for months on end. And I really don't know if she knows it or if she even still likes me. I just want her to have what she deserves. If I wasn't right for her, fine. As long as she's not with that jerkass douchebag of a boyfriend she's with now.
My question.
Is there any way I can find out if she still likes me? Or anything I can do to help her find “Mr. Right”? Should I drop little hints? Or should I just tell her straight up? We haven’t been talking much lately, but I want to.
Any information will help!
I really appreciate it!
–Bartol Babich (link)
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Hey at first you should drop a few little hints and see how she takes it. If nothing happens then go straight to her and ask her what she feels like about you. Then everything will get out of the way. If she doesn't like you, you'll take time to forget about her and see other people =] Hope this helps..
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sorry it's a little long.okay i work with this guy. i've known him for two years, im 18 he is 20. we have always flirted with eachother at work and this past summer we finally just started hanging out and "dating" we hung out and dated for about a month and after a month he told me that he was confused about stuff and wasn't sure what to do. before we started dating we were really good friends and he would always come to me with his problems. but when i asked him to talk things out with me, he said he didn't really know how to explain things. in my mind, im thinking that he doesnt wanna get too attached to me since im leaving this summer for college.
so i stopped talking to him, still seeing him at work almost everyday so its so hard for me to get over him. and at work, he acts like he always had.he still talks to me, flirts, and even gives me hugs sometimes before i leave.so just about two weeks ago, he texted me and ask me to come over to his place to watch a pens game. i went over and hung out with him and all his friends, which im friends with all his friends too. so we ended up hooking up after watching the game and after i left he texted me and we were texting all night but then after that night i haven't really talked to him. i really like this guy and i havent felt this way about any guy before. i just really dont know what to do cause obviously i still like him and still want to be around him, but im going crazy inside cause one minute he is into me and then the next he isn't. i try so hard to move on, but i just cant get over him. whaat should i do?!
thank you in advance! (link)
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Stop and talk to him and get everything in the clear. If he doesn't like you then just be friends, if he does then YOU tell him how you feel. Hope it helps....
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i'm seventeen and i'm just living my life. going out to parties, hanging out, you know just living.
what are some songs about being young and just living life?
stuff like seventeen forever by metro station and forever young by we the kings.
i like really soft music. some of the favourite artists are: jason mraz, john mayer, nevershoutnever, owl city ... you know stuff like that. (link)
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Listen to 'Ke$ha' she has some amazing party songs and being young and living life ;] its hard to get party songs with soft music... Hope this helps =]
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Hello im 18/f i want to become more healthier right now i eat alot of fast food and i drink a ton of pop and little water. I'm 5'6 and 143 pound and i want to lose a few pounds and not just lose weight but become healthier. I'm just wondering what are foods that are very good for you when you're trying to diet i've heard high protein low calories and carbs. Any examples for food that i could eat regularly would be appreciated! Thanks I rate! (link)
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Always have breakfast in the morning. Eat fruit or something healthy. Always eat fruit and vegetables, all kinds. Drinks lots of water. Do exercise and do a sport. Running is really good for burning calories. Hope it helps..
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what are some ways to turn a guy on with out taking either of our clothes off? haha.
thanks for any advice. (: (link)
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Wear shorts or revealing clothes or shake your hair a lot. Look at him in a sexy type of way, Lick your lips?
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i go to a small high school and i pretty much know most of the people. me and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up about 3 months ago and i think its time for me to meet new people....but idk how to do this? like you don't just go out on the road and yell when you see a goodlooking guy and i don't wanna seem desperate...so how do i meet new people my age? and i dont know of any underage clubs or anything.. (link)
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When your at the cafeteria or in the toilet just started talking to someone. It will be totally fine or say '' oh i saw you the other day.....'' and then you would start a conversation and then you could add them on facebook, twitter etc.. and then a whole new relationship could start
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So me and my high school sweetheart broke up my freshman year in college but have always remained friends its been about seven years since we were last together he came in town to visit his brother for christmas and I saw him and we kissed and now all these old feelings have came rushing back to me we spent our time together laughing and remembering old times he keep looking in my eyes and kissing my forehead and were holding each other but didn't have sex do u think he still loves me because I really miss him (link)
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Well obviously he still has feelings for you. So tell him about it and talk to him =] it shall surely help and get things cleared out of the way
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I own a dell laptop and when I go to the start menue and click shut down, log off,lock, restart, sleep, or hibernate nothing happens. Then to turn it off I have to click the power button everytime. But once I turn the laptop back on, it has the same time and date as the last time i was on it. Will someone please let me know how I can fix this? Thanks (link)
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Take it back to the place you bought it. It would certainly help =]
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I like dirty Spanish music. The kind that when its danced to its considered "sex on the dance floor"
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Listen to Pit Bull
I Know You Want Me
Hotel Room Service
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