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well i havn't used this site in FOREVER!!! but i use to give people advice every single day i love it and i hate it when i can't help the people.

well i'm 14 years old i'm short lol 5ft 1in. i have brown hair and brownish goldish eyes. i have some freckles but they fade out in the winter.

on the weekends i like to hang out with as many people as possible. i usually go to the movies bowling the mall or anywhere else that is fun. but of course if i'm there its gunna be fun!!!


well i don't no what i am i dont' like to label myself but i would have to say i'm out going crazy hyper loud. i dress preppy and skaterish depends on my mood.

my fave color is pink it deff. describes who i am.

well thats all i can think of right now so i'll talk to yawl lata

advice

I'm 15 female
I can't stand my family, my dads an alcolholic,my brothers a pot head and has been locked up 3different times on his way of getting locked up again, and my mom is working her way to become an alcolholic, my other brother is in the marines and i don't speak to him. It's like I'm the only one is my house that's normal that doesn't smoke pot or drink barely get in trouble. I'm just so sick of it. I'm scared that pretty soon im going to be all by myself. Like my whole family is going to die either from doing drugs or drinking to much alcolhol. How do i deal with this...make it all go away and make it where it doesn't bother me anymore.
Thanks in advance.

hey
well my dads a alcholic and my moms also on her way of becoming one my brother has nothing to do with it and he lives with his wife. my sister is never around b/c shes got 2 kids of her own and has gotten divorced soo shes all on her own. my other brother could carless about my dad or mom so i'm also on my own. all i have right now is my dog and my bestest friend. you will never be alone if you have your friends but i no your scared that there going to die. if i was you i would sit down with them when there sobber and not high and try and tell them how you feel. if they don't listen and act like they don't care then i would just go to god and pray and he will do what he thinks is best. whatever you do just don't end up like them and don't let it mess up your grades. its messed mine up and i have summer skewl.
it will always bother you b/c you care about them way too much.
i hope i helped i havn't done this in forever and your my first one to answer in like a year soo if its kinda bad i'm really sorry.
love
tInkkk

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Hi, im 13, and i REALLY want my belly button pierced. Im not scared of the pain, because people say it doesnt hurt. But the problem is my mum. She says I cant have it. But i REAAALLY want to. Can i do it at home somehow? Please help me I want my mum to say yes, so I can have a belly button ring. Alot of my friends have it.

hrmmmm well i wouldn't do it myself it could get infected and then your mom really won't go for the idea. i want one too but my mom said i have to weight. ask your mom why you can't get one then try and reason wit her. tell her its no big deal and if it gets infected it won't kill me. but don't say all my friend have one yeah they don't go for that they will just be like i don't care about all your friends i care about you. yeah there weird like that. just ask her why you can't have one and if she says its your age then ask her when you can get one and don't get mad it'll just make it worse.

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If someone is 17 is it illegal for them to have sex if his girl friends is 12 1/2 .. the age is crazy but they are in love and just wondering about that question...

its only illegal if he is 18 or older so no its not illegal YET!

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k this guy asks me out then like he doesnt call me for 12 friggen days then he calls me wat should i thikn of this guy hes really hott and i like im a lot and he claims he likes me wat do i do?

it sounds like hes just shy you probley need to make the first move call him don't make him call u hes probley just shy thats all.

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y did your frend do that
y did you help
y am i the 1 thay all ways pick on
this is kingdrew825/drew

i don't no i didn't help i don't no an ok but i really don't know so don't ask me drew b/c i can't help you b/c i'm not the one who idd it

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well my mom wont really let me see my g/f any more soo im really sad cuz i really loved her and i still wanna see her but idk help me please help me

your mom has no right at all telling you that you can't see your g/f. sit down with your mom and ask her why she won't let your g/f anymore. and if she doesn't answer then i would go and see her.

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I need major help!! Ok....This boy named Rylee he has liked me sence 4th grade and i never liked him untill this year...which im in 7th grade now...well We have went out 4 times now!! Well we were going out for the 4th time now for 2 months and i dumped him because i was being dumb!! ANd i still like him a lot and love him!!!! I dont know what to do!! I think he hates my life...but IDK...I really wanna go back out with him...and he is like the ONLY person I like...SoOoO What should I do?? Give it time....Or talk to him or what?!?!?! PLEASE HELP!!!!! Katie Backus

well if i was u i would talk it out with him and find out if he really hates your guts. you never know until you ask. to admit it i learned that today and i found out that my b/f wasn't ignoring me. so just ask him.

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i babysit this 11 yr old boy, max and i am 13/f he is taller than me and is quite mature for his age. the thing is latley he's been acting really strange. he asked me if i had my period yet and i tried to change the subject but he was persistant. oh, and the other night we were watching a movie at his house (lion king) and he is younger than me so he like layed down on me and pretended to be asleep. then i fell asleep too. when i woke up he was like all over me and touching my boobs. i dont know what to do. his parents pay well and i need the money badly. should i tell his parents, will they hire me agian? should i talk to him? HELP!

well i think hes just interested hes at that age that all guys go through. i would sit down and talk to him. don't tell the parents until you sit down and talk to him and if he doesn't stop acting weird then tell them.

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Hi, Advicenators. Normally I make up my own mind, but I need a little help. If you're going to be sarcastic or rude, don't bother.
Gender: female
Grade: Eighth
I have a problem with my Sunday School teacher. You see, I honestly believe that I have more Biblical knowledge than her. I know that sounds conceited.. but it just seems like it! Yesterday (Easter Sunday) our "lesson" was on miracles. This is what the conversation was like:
Teacher:Who can preform miracles?
Teacher:Only Jesus can preform miracles! No one else can!
Me:*raises hand*
Teacher:yes?
Me:But Jesus isn't the only one who can preform miracles.. Paul, Elija, Elisha, the Devil, the Twelve Disciples.. they all preformed miracles..
Teacher:No, no, no. That's not what I said..
Me:You said "Only Jesus can preform miracles".
Teacher:Anyway, girls, as you see.. blah, blah, blah.
At this time, I'm feeling pretty screwed over since she just blew me off. All of that conversation is an exact quote. This was the third time that I was able to correct her (and the third time I got blown off) yesterday alone! It happens every Sunday.. she doesn't know the lesson, she doesn't know what she's talking about.. It makes me mad!
I know that I am much, much more mature Spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and in my knowledge of the Bible and Christ.. (not trying to sound conceited..) but the lessons are never fufilling! I could gather more from my eight-year old sister's Sunday School lesson. Get this: I was the only girl in my class of seventh and eighth grade girls that knew what the Rapture was! Oh my gosh! How dumb?!
So, I was considering talking to my youth pastor about this. I'm naturally shy, and I don't like to put myself in that position.. but this is so annoying.. and a waste of my Sunday morning! So.. do you think I should speak to my youth pastor about this?
PS - I don't really get along with my teacher, I'm nice to her... but we don't get along. :\
PPS - Sorry it's so long! Thanks in advance..

yes i totally think you should take this to your youth pastor. she just blows u off? thats rude and she doesn't belong teaching. i'd freak out if i was in your posision

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What kind of dog would you reccomend that is small and you don't have to worry much about its hair?

picka poo they have long hair but you don't really have to comb it or anything and its not that long i have one and i never comb it and it never gets a trim. a picka poo is half pickanees and half poodle yeah i no it sounds like a kinda dog you have to worry about there hair but you really don't! its so cool i love my dog shes wonderful! hope i helped

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im nice and a sweet guy and all, but i tend to get real mad about little things. i punch holes in my walls and break all kinds of stuff in my room and i even put my head through a window once over a real dumb reason. so what i wanna kno is if i should look sumthin up to calm my anger or to get anger management? (after all im only 14) i just want to stop myself before i end up doin sumthin crazy

yeah i would go to anger management its better to get help this early in your life then to wait till you 30 and by then you could hurt someone or yourself

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Hey i'm 17 years old and i've been going out with this grl for 4 years and we were talking about having sex sometime soon. she's given me oral and she's afraid to have sex cause i'm "too big" for her if you know what i mean... well, i dont wanna preasure her but i love her alot and, lets face it, im horny. i dont know what to tell her. you have any advice?

well the good thing is that she wants to have sex hehehe but i thought gurls liked big well i no i do. does she think it will hurt or something? of course its going to hurt the first time. even if it was small. try to proswave her. don't like beg that makes u look bad. just try and tell her everythings gunna be alright. and also be like lets just try it and see what will happen and if you wanna keep going we can if you don't then we can stop.
hope i helped
airhead

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Hey guys and gals, i was wondering if someone would be considered anorexic if they only ate once a day, or even nothing all day and maybe once the next?
Thanks

no not really sum peeps just don't need that much food to fill them up

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Hey!
What are your favorite names for guys and girls??

Middle names are always appreciated too!!

:)

Thanks!
*(no worries, Im NOT having a kid anytime soon!)*

*-KeLs-*

well i don't no about middle names but i like the names
for gurls: skyler, heart, start, roxie, carrie, and cloey.
guys: matt aaron ryan seth drew bret greg and thats it.
i'll try middle names
nicole is my all time fave thats all i got or something like tink haha don't do that

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Okay well i really like my best friend and idk if he feals the same what do i do?
xO, Disaturis

well since hes your best friend then it really doesn't matter if you just tell him how you feel. if yall are such good of friends he will totally understand. and he may even like you too. take action now before its to late. so ask him if he likes you!

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hi im 13 and my mom and dad have been divorced for like ever and i have always lived with my dad and have really good friends where i live now and my mom wants me 2 go live with her but i dont want to leave my friends. i hate my dad hes an ass hole and the only reason i want to stay is to be with my friends and i want to live with my mom but i would have to start all over with skool and friends and im not shure what to do can u help me out
THNX

well if i was you i would stay with my dad because right now you need friends. if you start over at a new school it could end up disasterous. its very hard to find new friends when your use to the same old friends that you can trust. your dad may be an a** but i would fight through that and treat him how he treats you. so stay with your dad and your awesome friends. thats what i would do.

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i kno this is a dumb question but what does skimpy mean? thanks appriciate it.

were you show a lot of skin and its like really tiny like a shirt is like 10 times to small and stuff like that

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wat do i do if i like sumone but they dont like me

HMMMMMM well you can't help it if your not his kinda girl/guy. it would help if you gave me some details.

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What do you guys think of a 18-year-old(f) dating a 24-year-old(m). And don't give any of that "age doesn't matter crap" bcasue it does. What do yall think of the maturity levels?

The biggest problem I see... The 18-year-old is still a freshman in college and the 24-year-old graduated 2 years ago.

well i think that if they can make it work out and that they are happy then thats fine since its not illigal

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A girl in my group of friends who i HATE is moving ..all my friends are like crying but i cant wait till she moves -is this wrong of me? Im kind of confused and its hard to keep it from my friend but i know if i told them i was happy theyd think i was a bitch ..what do i do??

keep it to yourself and no its not wrong you can't like everyone its a givin fact of life.

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