Hey my names Kirsty and im 14 yrs old as you already know. Im here to help and can usually relate to most of the questions i answer so hopefully my answers will help. Feel free to ask me anything and ill try my best to help you as best as possible. ive had accounts in the past but i forgot the passwords so i started a fresh and kept record of the pass so hopefully im here to stay. Feel free to add me on MSN for further advice or chat.
E-mail: kirstyxluvsxsum1@hotmail.co.uk
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Age: 14
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hery girls umm i just got my period and it sucks but i wanted to know how many days u have ur period in a month
kk ty (link)
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Hey hunni it every girls period is different so its hard to say but usually around 3-10 days but..
sometimes girls have there period for a few days then it stops then it comes agen for another couple of days so make sure you carry padz/tampons round with you for a few days after.
for more information check out one of these..
www.beinggirl.com
www.beinggirl.co.uk
hope i helped x
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How long do you get discharge before your period? (link)
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Hey hunni
everyones different so its hard to say. but i know that it can b a couple of months before or a few days before. i know somegirls who got it for ages before they started.
if you wanna check it up or find out more visit
www.beinggirl.com
or..
www.beinggirl.co.uk
i hope this helped.
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okay so im 16/f and there is this guy at my school and he just always stares at me whenever i see him. weve never talked or anything but weve had classes and i was just wondering does it mean anything that i always catch him staring at me? guys or girls advice on this would be great! (link)
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Hey hunni
he either likes you but is shy to approach you and tell you so maybe you should talk to him or
maybe he would like to be mates with you so again try talking to him. he might just think your good to look at?
hes either in love with you or wants to be mates or maybe he just stares at people but i think thats unlikely so i think youve got yourself an admirer hunni and if you get to know him something might come out of it? you might become friends or maybe date so its worth a try
goodluck hunni
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okay so im a virgin but all i can think about is having sex with my crush. its always on my mind. is there something wrong with me?! or is that actualy normal.. (im 16/f) HELP :/ (link)
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Its perfectly normal hunni.
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this may sound stupid but...how do u rephrase "PMS" like if u were to tell a guy its PMS... w.o wanting to say its PMS..and scaring the crap outta him? hah thanks (link)
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Hi hunni you've kinda confused me with this but ill have a go at answering lol.
if your tryna explain why your so moody, touchy ETC. then you should just say "its the time of the month" or "its the girly problem" he's bound to understand it works with me lol.
or if thts not what you mean then use one of these...
- hormones catching up with me.
- im not feeling myself right now
- im having a off day
i cant think of anything else hunni sorry but just say it like it is. whatever it is he'll understand.
i hope this helped hun if it didnt im sorry n if i misunderstood your question or you want to ask anything else leave me a message or email me or somethin n ill rephrase me answer xxx
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there is this girl that acts like she likes me and askes me over to her house all the time. anyway when ppl make fun of me she will laugh right along with them. Is she a true friend? (link)
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hey hunni
no she isnt a true friend. A true friend would never do that!!
maybe she was trying to look cool infront of the other people but still thats no excuse.
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What's the difference between dating and "going out"?? Thanks! (link)
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dating is like getting to know each other, first stage of a relation ship.
going out is where your boyfriend and girlfriend. Closer to eachother and sort of official.
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i got my period over the summer for the first time. i skipped a month, then i had it last month nd this month. i know that is normal. is it normal that i had my period last week, then i got it again today & it is really light color? could it be because this week i started basketball for my school?
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Its all normal. it'll take a while to settle and sometimes you come on, then have a few days off then come on again.
if your still not sure about this and want more reassurance visit
www.beinggirl.com
www.beinggirl.co.uk
or ask your mum, teacher, aunt, friend or someone you trust and know has had there period before.
but from experience... its perfectly normal hunni
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How do you tell your parents that you are bisexual? Please help me!!! (link)
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Don't hold back, if they love you they will understand.
just say something along the lines off...
Mum, dad i have something really important to tell you, you may not approve but its the way i feel, im attracted to people of both sexes, im bisexual. i know you might be a bit shocked right now but it makes me happy, its me. it wasnt exactly easy for me to tell you, i couldnt find the words but hopefully youll understand and stick by me.
you dont have to say that its just all i could think of to help. im sure they'll understand though hunni so good luck with everything xx
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is there any way yu can make yur boobs look smaller? (link)
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sports bra's
baggy tops
experiment with different types of tops. Like plunge line, round necks, strappy, v neck ETC as they sometimes have a different effect of your figure.
good luck hunni xx
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I recently babysat for one of my husband's coworkers for a few days. After seeing a few warning signs, I'm beginning to think that the children are not being taken care of and that she may be abusing them.
This woman brings the children out in freezing weather with no jackets. She drops them off with no supplies. The children don't appear to have been bathed. They have severe, untreated diaper rash which leads me to think they're not being changed like they should. I've also noticed bruises on one of the children. It could be from bumping something, but from the look of the bruises I suspect the child was hit. When I feed them, they act like they haven't been fed in a while.
I've tried talking to her, but she told me it was none of my business. I'm worried what might happen if I don't do something. Should I call social services and report my suspicions? (link)
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Yes! report it, from the sounds of what you said it shows clear signs of child abuse! Put a stop to it or get it investigated.
You have every right to report this regardless of what the mother says. You sticking with your instincts and doing what you think is right. Get it seen to and sorted.
goodluck let me know what happens xx
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Hi, I have a kind of embarrasing question. Well I just got my period and it's always really heavy the first day I get it. The problem is I have to be at work tomorrow, and my boss told me that we're only allowed to go to the bathroom on our breaks, which is every two hours. Well I'm going to have to be able to change my pad before two hours!! What am I going to do? (link)
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Hey,
Either explain to your boss about the situation of you being on a heavy period and needing to go to the toilet more regularly or if your boss is a bloke and dont want to do this use tampons.They may feel uncomfortable the first time you use them but youll soon get used to them.
im the same, i used to have to explain to my teachers and they understood and let me go so dont be embarrassed about it just state your problem.
Hope this helped if you want any more advice feel free to email me on kirstyxluvsxsum1@hotmail.co.uk
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I got some hatemail in my inbox today. What would you say to the jerk who sent it if it was sent to you? The jerk said I was gay and ugly. Can you help me?
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hey hunni
was the comment based on some advice you gave? if yes...
i'd just say if your not happy with my advice just say so but is there any reason to bring what you think of my looks in to it? this is an advice site not a picture sharing or bitching site.
if no....
ignore it. people like that are not worth your time. They obviously have nothing better to do than to critisise you.
or you could...
send back a sarcastic comment to them
But most of the time when people like that leave a message about looks ETC they are out to hurt your feelings or get you to write back to them.
hope this helped if you want more hel feel free to email me on kirstyxluvsxsum1@hotmail.co.uk
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ok im 13/f and usually have really good eyes.... but latly when i look up after reading and stuff every thing is all blurry! puleez help! (link)
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hey hunni
how long does this blurryness last for hunni?
sometimes after having your eyes focused on some thing for a long while can make your eyes seem blurry or out of focus after looking at a book or telvision. so i dont think its anything to worry about.
but if you seem to be experiencing a strain behind your eyes or head aches then i advise you book an appointment with an eye doctor just to be on the safe side.
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i hope this helped for more information email me on kirstyxluvsxsum1@hotmail.co.uk
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Hi,
Well isn't pretending to be a police a crime and you can go to law pretending to be a police??
Well then if that's correct how come on Punk'd they have fake police all the time isn't that aganist the law?? (link)
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yes it is against the law to immitate police officers but on television they get permission or a licence. if they didnt then what would happen in the soaps we watch or television shows we see?
its only a crime if some one did it in real life. like say if i dressed up in a police outfit and pretended to arrest some one, i could get sent to prison.
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I was fingering myself for the first time, and inside of my vagina, like I feel bubbles. Like the vagina walls. What exactly should they feel like? Thanks. (link)
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hey hunni
everyones vagina is different so im sure its normal if your still worried see your doctor of go to a website such as
www.beinggirl.com
www.beinggirl.co.uk
you can ask questions on anything to do with girls and puberty etc so im sure youll find more advice there xx
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what does it mean if u dont have a period for more that a month or 2? u think its serius? (link)
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hey hunni
if you've only just started your period then its most likely normal as they take a few years to settle into a pattern.
if youve been getting your period for a while and its always been regular before go see your doctor, he/she will give you advice and tell you what is wrong.
other things that could be causing this are:
- if you are eating less
- weight loss
- diet
- excercies
- stress
im sure its nothing though but its always better safe than sorry.
for more advice email me on kirstyxluvsxsum1@msn.co.uk
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I am a 27 year female and I'm beginning to think there is something wrong with me. Well for one thing I"ve only been with one guy my whole life. I dated him for a year when I was 21 and it was a horrible experience. He just used me and treated me like a sex object. I never dated all through highschool, guys just were not interested in me. SO when I met my ex even though he was a loser, I went for him because he showed me attention. Well that was 6 years ago since I've been with him. I havent been with any other guys since. I've had lots of guys ask me out but I turn them all down. I get really lonely sometimes, and it seems like all my friends are getting married and I feel left out. I'm not a lesbian, and I do like guys, so what the hell is wrong with me? (link)
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aww hunni i think your feeling afraid of this happening to your again!
when you meet a guy that seems interested in you chat to him and if he asks you out, take things slow, dont jump straight in and tell him how you feel.
if he likes you hes bound to understand. take it step by step, get to know each other and gradually go out on more dates, hold hands, hug. soon enough you'll be happy with him and get your confidence back.
maybe the fact that your ex treated you bad and hurt you is why you feel like this. Im sure youll find happiness soon and i hope it all works out great xx good luck
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What does it mean to make a move on someone? (link)
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to show/tell some one your feelings for them
or
kiss them, hug them
basically show effection to them
hope this helped xxx
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Im really really scared about getting my perdiod i have no idea when its comming like no idea. Im scared one of my friends will find out or i will be the last one. My crush is in like all my classes. And the nurse had pads and tampons and stuff but Im scared when im gon aget it (link)
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Heyy hunni dont be scared!
if your in school in class and you start its unlikely to be heavy just very light. sort out a few pads or pantyliners and put them in a small make up bag and pop it in your school bag so your fully prepared. or go to the nurse they always have pads and stuff and they can advise you aswell. when you do start you may notice... a bit of wetness in your underwear.
signs that your period is on its way may be...
1. you get discharge a couple of days before starting
2. cramps in your lower tummy
3. back ache
if you do start in class and need to tell the teacher its unlikely that any one will see anything as it'll most probably only be very light. dont be afraid to tell your mates! remember they'll go through it to!
dont worry hunni youll be fine if you want more advice add me on msn or leave a message in my email inbox xx take care
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