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Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship.

Cause most guys really do only want sex and every girl who has been with more than one guy prolly has atleast once been with a guy who only wanted sex...
hope i helped

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well i want u to know that i told my mom about john on thursday after school. i knew she had to pick up my brother so i told i had to tell her something important when she came back and she asked me if it was good or bad...and i said good.

My mom just said that i better be careful with him since it's considered rape. But other than that my mom was ok with it. But my dad on the other hand was kinda like he better not hurt u or anything so basically my dad is being very protective of me right now. So my parents are happy for me and arent forbidding me to not see him. so i figured id let u know what happened since gave me advice.


thanx much!!!

Crystal

thats good im happy things worked out for u!!
if need ne more advice im here for ya!!
~Kerri

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I met this guy that my friend j and her fiance r wanted me to met. so i was ok it couldn't hurt so i ended meeting him september 19th. He's 21 and i'm 17. so we all ended up going bowling. I talked i him a little bit.
that next week we all went to roger's house to watch movies. J and i ended up getting there by 7pm and we did our homework until 8-8:30pm. We finally started watching movies at about 8:30-9pm. We watched star wars. John(the guy i met) started explaining the movie(s) of star wars since i had never seen any of them before. Which was very sweet of him to do? anyway i didn't get home until almost midnight. This time i got to actually talk to john more and flirt with him cuz i was much more comfortable with him. Do u think we're dating, seeing each other, or being friends? What do u think about the age difference(17 and 21)? should i tell my parents about him (i haven't told them anything yet!)? how do u think the relationships going? should i tell my parent's about john even though we're not dating or seeing each other just friends? Because john and i have seen each other twice now and so should i tell my parent about him let me know? if john ever became my boyfriend in the future he was be my first boyfriend ever? should i still let them know about us?

today also jeni was telling me that john really needs some help and i was like me 2; but j's like he doesn't have anybody. and later on i was feeling so stressed out i was like i really need him; but it seems like he needs someone too. so help me out here. she also think that we would make a great couple. I actually trust him a lot more cuz my friend set me up with him.

also john didn't start dating until he was out of high school

ok well idk if u'd consider it dating yet unless u guys have like made out nd stuff yet, cuz just watchin movies nd talkin is more like frends, i dont think the age difference that bad but thats just my opinion some people mite think its like a big difference or something. i dont think u should tell ure parents until ure sure its a relationship nd ure pretty sure everythin is gonna be good cuz if u tell them nd then u guys end up not workin out parents usually get all weird about it. the relationship sounds fine like with the way its goin just dont do ne thin ure not ready for nd have fun lol he sounds cool!
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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This strange girl i know gets realy creeped out by the king from burger king commercials. I love making fun of her like wen i sent her pics of spiders (her biggest freak out) so im wondering if i should dress up as the king for halloween and show up at her doorstep..Keep in mind its real fun to torture her

haha dont dress up as the king nd scare the shit outta her but itd be cool to randomly show up on her doorstep ;-)
.:Keryn:.

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Okay see I like this guy..alot. We talk on the fone almost everyday and sometimes we talk at school. My friends asked him if he liked me but they wont tell me what he said. So i asked him myself and he sed that he likes me in the middle 50% like 50% just friends. I want an yes or no answer from him tho nd i want him to say yes! what can I do?

just go ask him out! but dont hav ure frends do it u do it ure self nd wear sumthin cute so u kno theres no way he can say no lol
hope i helped
.Keryn.

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Well, there is this boy in my school named Greg and he is going out with a boy named Shannon. I really like him and we are becoming really good friends and stuff. He is telling me stuff so i think we are on the right track. I have had a hige crush on him since 6th grade and we've yet to go out. I don't know what to do. Do i need to change my looks to get him to notice me?

Signed,
A girl in desperate need!

well if hes goin out wit a boy then wouldnt he be gay?? so unless u like sudenly become a guy i dunt think that would work out too well lol
.:Keryn:.

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ok...my best friend Bethany gets really annoying sometimes and she always makes up lies to make her life sound cool and exciting. She told everyone that shes smoked weed...and she hasnt. and she told everyone that she's not a virgin, and she is. and she just get's really annoying and i get mad at her easily cuz it bothers me and i jus say whatever comes to my mind and most of the time, its not very nice. and i wanna be friendz cuz shez awesum and i love her, shes muh bestest friend ever, but if i keep sayin wut comes to mind, i*ll lose her. PLEASE HELP ME!!!

that sounds exactly like one of my frends!!! omg its like scarey!! lol yeah i just ignore her lies nd try really really hard to keep my mean comments to my self nd if they slip out i say like madd sarcastically so they dont htink im serious wen i am its not really the nicest thing but i get away wit it lol hope that helps

.:Keryn:.

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I feel like my life is just so useless, like there is nothing good going on for me. I'm always crying. I feel like I cry everyday. I've felt this way for a while, and I know I'm depressed. Now it has come to the point where I am depressed with being depressed. I don't know what to do to feel better.

that happened to me over the summer. it got to the point where i wouldnt leave the house or even my room nd i wouldnt go one day wit out cryin atleast like twice but things got better i started feelin happier cuz i would talk to my sister nd start fakin to be happy nd eventually i wasnt fakin it ne more nd i was happy just try talkin to ppl nd fakin it
hope i helped if u need ne thin else just leave me sumthin in my inbox thingy
hope u get better

.:Keryn:.

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im 5'4 n i weigh 90 and my friends and family are always telling me that i look like im loosing weight but i think im fat! i havent eaten anything in like 5 days and i feel really sick. what should i do???
xox rica

you could try eating more, that could work, nd take vitamins to help u feel better u shouldnt stop eating ure definately not fat! ure madd skinny!!!! try to eat more and maybe gain some weight if u need more help just ask
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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I know this might be a dumb question but waht does idk mean?

:I: :D:ont :K:now

hope that helps

.:Keryn:.

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a person that thinks they are or can be perfect is a mental person and its not a good thing... if anything that i am perfect thing u typed would freak ppl out... it would make them want to go to you to ask questions.

Joke Much? lol!!! i mean really!!! ;-)
.:KeryN:.

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Ok..here I go...
I was going out with Aaron, and dumped him for his best friend, Josh. Now since his Josh hates me(we went out he dumped me), Aaron wants to go back out with me...and i said yes...but it's a long distance between us. Is it a good idea? Or no? Please help me!

well it matters, if u dont mind havin the long distance thing nd u talk to him a lot nd see him wen u can nd u want to get into sumthin like then its a great idea but if u dont want something like that then fuck it dunt do it
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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Theres this girl from plymouth that i like alot but she sez she can beat my ass wen she deffinitely cant and that she wins wen she would never beat me....should i prove her rong?

just dont hurt her... nd yes she does win!!
go try nd prove her rong!! ((but dont hurt her that would hurt!))
.:KeRyN:.

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What would you do if you were at KFC and Ashlee Simpson walked up to you and sed hi?

thats a stupid question..
id fuckin beat her ass nd then brutally murder wit a fuckin spork!!! nd then id kick her in the face!!! nd keep beatin her til sum big strong guy had to rip me off of her to bring me to prison!!!

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my lil bro had a bbsitter cuz i waz out... and when i came home she was screemin and yellin @ him. She grabbed his arm and he said to our dog.. "Daizee help help! Help Daiz!!!" the dog didnt do ne thing... but ne way.... shud i tell my parents?

umm yeah thats so mean! u should fire that baby sitter!!
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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I was wondering if any one knoew some good songs. It can be anything but no rap please! Thanx so much!!
Luvz,
*KrIsSy*

signing emo- mc lars
getting away with murder- papa roach
noise and kisses- the used
cute with out the e- taking back sunday

theres just a couple
if u want more just ask me!!
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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Okay...so i've liked this boy secretly since like sixth grade. (im goin into 8th) and I flirt w/ him 24/7 and he flirts w/ me too. but like he had a relationship w/ my friend sierra but they are good friends now. And she thinks i should go otu w/ him but im sooo scared he'll say no cuz im taller and like i dono. Hes really hot and he might not like me.But I dono if i should wait and see if he says anything cuz i've heard he lieks me but I just dont know....so what do i do?

i think u should just go for it, ask him out girl! lol! if he was really as cool as u think he is he'll say yeah! go for it!!
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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Everytime I get bit by a mosqitto (i know i spelled that wrong lol) I always scratch them. And eventually they start to bleed, and turn into scars. And this summer i was bit by a lot too. And now I have all of these scars on my legs that are really embarissing. Any way to get rid of them???PLease help!!

i hav scars too i use this scar cream u can get at cvs or sum place like that
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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i want to sleep with this guy, im a vrigin and im lil nerveous but i know im ready should i?
i rate good

its all up to u if u want to nd u think ure ready go for it just do wut u want to do
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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You all have helped me with answerin my questions.. but this one is kinda difficult.. All your advice has helped alot.. but I can't picture myself with out my EX kevin.. But when I think about it i'd be better off with someone else.. Kevin is a great guy and I still love him so much.. he tells me all the time that he still loves me but I don't no if i can believe it! I don't know what to do.. I don't know if I should just forget about Kevin and move on or If I should give kevin anonther chance..

HELP ME PLEASE!

*~SO LOST AND CONFUSED~*

if i were u i would move on nd everythin cuz u dont sound like u really want to go back wit him if u really really want to then u should give him another chance but dont give him more than 2 chances that never works out just do wut u feel u wanna do
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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