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kittygurl90
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i have like no friends i have friends but like
they all are like in differnt groups and when i hang ou with them im like hte follower and thye act like im not there and i hate it ive been walkignaround the school alone at lunch becuase all of my friends im like followers and one of my friend she is going and gwetting a ride from scotty to go eat and i cant go because there isnt ebnough room i nthe car and she is like in another grade than me and i cant even fund htem at lunch they just leave and they act like im not there to i hate it i even try to like talk and stuff and like im still liek a follower and they act like im not there i need help because i missed junir high i had friends but now they have there sisters that are in older than htem and stuff i juast hate it and my older sister doesnt go to my highschool she got adopted i just feel bad and i feel like i dotn even belong in that school and everybody woudlnt care if i like never went to aschool because thye act like im like invisible they m,ight talk like once to me saying that was funny or something then they turn back around and im like all behind them by my self trying to walk fast and when i like walk with them i get back because all of the people (link)
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your 'friends' dont sound like real friends to me if they are ignoring you and stuff. try being more outgoing and talking to people that you havnt talked to before. because, if your friends are just going to act the way they are then you dont need to waste your time on them. i know its hard but you have to face the facts. im sure you will find better, more exciting friends that dont blow you off. hope i help.
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No sleepovers. No boyfriends. No hanging out with boys. Yadda yadda yadda. My mom is strict and it's really annoying. I live in NY, and I was telling my mom how I wanted to go to Michigan University when I'm older and going into college. My mom got mad at me and told me that I'm not, and that I would go to a college that was close to home so I wouldn't have to stay in a dorm. How crazy is that? I'll be 18, and she cannot tell me what college I'm going to. She told me that even if I got a full scholarship to Michigan, she wouldn't let me go. It made me furious. I don't want to stay home for another four years of my life. I don't want to go to college near home. I want to be able to have fun without my mom breathing down my neck. My dad told me that any college was fine because he actually RESPECTS my opinion. I just don't know how to handle my mom. She's more overprotective than most. She can't control my life when I'm 18! It sickens me that I can't do anything that she doesn't approve of. How do I handle this? (link)
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talk to her about it and tell her that you think her rules are too strict, tell her that if she trusts you then she should trust you doing the things that she wont let you. also, tell her that you know what are bad situations and know how to work your way out of them. i hope i helped!
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i was reading your advice about doing your hair?
could you tell me good hair sytles up to?
detailed without having to use a curling iron? (link)
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just scrunch it like really tight. wet it, but dont soak it. then put alot of moose, and some gel. and if you have curl enhancing moose/gel, then use that. after you put it on, scrunch it and dry it until its all the way dry. dont dry it with a part though, just bend forward and throw your hair over your head and scrunch it, and just flip it around and dry it as you scrunch it so it makes it poofier and curlier, and that way you wont have much of a part. then, pull it back into a loose high messy bun. this looks really good, i do it alot to my hair. and if you have annoying little pieces of hair that keep falling down, just secure them with bobby pins.
another way to do it is after you have it scrunched like i said before, pull like a 3 inch section back from the front of your head, and pull it back about 2 inches, and secure it with bobbypins. it works best if you stick one bobbypin in towards the right, and then turn the other one the oppisite way, and stick it in from the other side. this holds it better. then gather all your hair and pull it into a loose, low pony. not too loose, or it wont hold your hair. do this in the back or on the side. its really cute! its stylish, but it also keeps your hair out of your face and out of the way!
hope this helps. =]
if you have more questions,
hit up my inboxxx!
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I have been trying to figure out how to do an updo, but i'm really challeneged and just can't get it! :P I just want to figure out how you put your hair up and then twist it that cool way. I don't care what type it is or whatever because i know there are tons of different ways of doing it, but just can you give me detailed instructions? And being so bad at it as i am please only tell me easy to semi-easy ones because if it's hard and complicated i will so fail! :P Thanks!!! (link)
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okay, this is how i did it before so i will try to tell you how to do it as simply as i can.
1. scrunch your hair. if you dont know how to do this, first wet your hair, then put some moose in, then some gel. scrunch it up with your hand and dry it as you do this, so it will get curly.
2. pull up 2 inch sections or hair all around your head and use a ponytail holder or a rubberband to secure them where you want your updo to be, like kinda high on your head.
3. once thats done, you should have a curly ponytail. use a curling iron and curl small sections of that hair and use hairspray as you do it. so curl it, and while its still in the curling iron spray some hairspray on.
4. when its all curled, place the curls where you want them and spray on a little more hairspray for extra hold.
i hope this helps. =]] i did my hair like this before, and i love it! if you have any more questions just send them to my inbox!
good luck! =D
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Okay i am a 16/m And me and my girlfriend have been having sex for quit a while now we have been together for a little over a year. But a few months ago she got pregnant but she had a miscarriage and at that time we was wanting her to be but then we got worried because her parents are kinda mean and would probably start a lot of trouble and her dad has a bad temper. But my question is. We have used a condom but we neather one like them. So we dont use them anymore. I pull it out before i actually "Cum" but is it possible for her to get pregnant from just pre cum?.. Please answer ASAP. (link)
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YES, she can get pregnant. the best bet is birth control, or else use condoms unless you want her to get pregnant.
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hi,can you still have sex if the condom dose not fit..cause i got some to day and its my first time puting one on..so can you have sex if it dose not fit??thanks (link)
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not a good idea. since it doesnt fit, it could rip and she could get pregnant. i would buy some bigger ones, but not too big because that could be bad too.
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what types of tampons are there
i know there's plastic and card board is there any other kind
if there is which one is best to use so you won't get tss (link)
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you just get tss depending on your bodys reaction to the tampon. i use plastic ones. their easier to get in, and i like them better. just my personal oppinion though.
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i want to delete that stupid "my photos" album on my myspace pictures. i tried deleting all pictures from it, but it still shows up. any help? (link)
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under it it will have viewable by you, friends, everyone. just select viewable by 'you' and it will hide it to all of your friends. but when you look at your pictures it will be there because you can view it.
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hey
im sick of my boring hairstyle.
i have black hair, wavy-ish, and shoulder length.
i have a round face, and i want to try something new. not DRASTIC POW POW BAM new. just something else. i dont know what would look good on a round face and im not super skinny..but im not fat.
please help! i need change! (link)
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i think curly hair looks good on people with a round face. try parting it on the side, and scrunching it.
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Ugh, im so mad at my friend, lets call her MEL. Recently she lost her virginity last week, to a guy she doesn't even like. (which pissed me off) Then today they were you know in the woods doing it; again except my other friend, lets call her TYE was there with another guy whom she just met about three days ago. Tyes cherry popped and there was so much blood going everywhere. She nearly fainted [i arrived 20 minutes later with napkins when i got the call] I'm telling you there was alot of blood, is that normal??? My friend mel said she bleed only a little bit, not nearly as much as tye. (link)
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that doesnt seem right. you dont normally bleed alot. she should tell her parents and go to the docter about it.
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ok so the people who helped, helped alot.
i messaged him on myspace when i was up at like 4 in the morning haha
so if you wanna see what i said talk to me privately or message me on myspace
www.myspace.com/brianamariee
but i just talked about how shy am, which he knows, and like how i wished i did things differtently and there were tons on awkward moments and that its been bothering me all night so i had to tell him
and of course i wake up this morning
and he read it, but no message back
so obviously that means he doesnt like me or that he just doesnt want to talk to me
and he was my texting buddy and like 1 in the morning this whole summer and it sucks
cause its all my fault
and i dont regret ANYTHING but for the first time in my life i regret yesterday. ahhh
so idk if i should just not talk to him (which is gonna be really hard) and let him talk to me
or what?
i know hes going back to his dads house the tuesday soo hopwfully he will talk to me by then or something.
i hate guys who just leave me hanging like this
any other suggestions.? (link)
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just talk to him. what if hes just too shy to say anything like you are? he could be like that and you might not even notice it. guys are differnet when it comes to girls. talk to him and ask him about the letter you sent him on myspace. ask him if he read it, and ask him what he thought of it and stuff. he may give you what he really thinks, and it could be what you want.
best of luck.
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do guys not like curly hair on girls? i dont have like an afro, but my hair is curly. its really hard to straighten it because it doesnt really work that well. it's just like everyone has straight hair these days, i really wish i did, and i don't know if curly hair is attractive to guys. i don't have like ugly frizzy curly hair, alot of people tell me my hair is pretty, but it is poofier than straight hair obviously because its curly. so i guess my question is - do guys not like that? and i don't want "it depends on the guy" - just give me your opinion or answer. (link)
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Guys will like you for who you are, not what you look like. But since your hair isnt everywhere and fuzzy and stuff, since its under control, then i think guys would like it.
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How long after sex should I start seeing signs of pregnancy? And what are the first signs?? Thanks (link)
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If you dont have your period after a while, if you wake up and feel sick, sometimes you have hot flashes, back pains, stomach pains..
if you have any of those you could be pregnant. It would be somewhere around a month or a little before to know if you are pregnant or not.
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hi im a 16/m and im starting to fall for this freshman girl..shes on my bus and i staretd iming hr last week.we have never talked in person and i want to so bad but i cant bring myself to say hey i feel like im gunna say something stupid i dont know why but i do...so ive imed her alot lately everyday pretty much...so should i continue to i/m her or no talk to her in person then continue...i also have her cell number she gave it to me for when we can hang out...so please help thanks in advance (link)
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im a girl and i can tell you that the girl is somewhat interested in you. You need to talk to her in person, she is just waiting for you to make the first move since you are the guy. Alot of girls do this now. So, just say hi to her when you see her and talk to her on the bus and stuff. Once you do it, it will get easier and easier to talk to her and may eventually start a relationship!
i hope i helped
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hm well i didnt know what to put this under put i have never used a tampon before and i am going to a waterpark this saturday and unfortunatly, i just started my perios =[. i am really nervous because i dont like being tuoched or anything being stuck up my vaginal area, its uncomfortable. my sister said to use ky jelly, does that help? im not sure how heavy it is gonna be but is it okay to start out with beginner tampons? and how much does it hurt to take out, ill probably cry. i get soo uncomfortable down there so if there is any tips please help!
thanks in advancee =] (link)
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tampons dont hurt! it doesnt hurt to put them in, or take them out. and its okay to use beginner tampons, which are regular size tampons, not super. it may a little awkwars using it the first time but once you get that out of the way you wont think anything else about it you will just use them.
--hope i helped!
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I really like my best guy friend who only likes me as a friend. what do i do?
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i am in the same situation. Just start talking to him alot, when you are standing beside him stand closer to him, when you are talking laugh alot, well not alot but im sure you know what i mean. Just start talking to him more. Then, after this goes on for a while and when you two are talking be like "your cute" or something like that and see how he reacts. Call him and ask him what the homework asignment was. Or maybe even call him just to talk. Just keep doing these things and he may realize he likes you. Just give it time.
---i hope i helped!
and best of luck.
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im looking for some new cute hairstyles for summertime. my hair is a couple inches past my shoulders and i straighten it most days but it is wavy and curly sometimes too. i only wear it down or in a ponytail or clip back the front part of my hair. new ideas would be really appreciated. (link)
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i think that wavy hair like that looks cute in a ponytail with the ponytail all scrunched up and really curly. I wish mine would do this!
hope i helped!
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Hey ima 13/f and i these dreams at night ware ima lezbian and dont get me wrong or judge me okay. But i dont think its just my dreams i think its accualy getting to me i think im a lezbian and like for some odd reason i have the erdge to touch other women and i have tolled my friends well kind cuz im afraid that if i tell them that they wont wanna hang out with me anymore but please help me
Love,
think ima you know....:( (link)
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Try flirting with guys and see how you react to it. if you like doing it, then you are deffinatly not a lesbian. But afterwards try flirting with girls. Just figure out with one you like the best and go for the guys, or the girls. but if you like both of the then just go for both and say your bi.
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ok can i get sick if i eat someone out when there on their period??? is is bad??? (link)
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well, you couldnt get sick. but you will get your mouth all full of their blood and stuff, and i think thats really gross.
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okay...I'm seventeen and my girlfriend is sixteen.. two weeks ago my girlfriend and i tried to have sex...(with a condom).. it didn't go to great... we didn't get anything done because she was too tight.. well, a virgin.. we eventually stopped and she got on top of me..(without a condom).. i felt her vagina on my penis, but it didn't go in.. it might have lasted four minutes.. i didn't cum, not even close, but i might have precum.. is there a good chance she could get pregnant? (link)
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yes, she could be pregnant. dont fool around without a condom because you dont know if you cum or not, because you cant feel it. so always use a condom-and yes, she could very well be pregnant.
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