~~~~~~~ so there is this guy that used to like me and i used to like him 2...and we knew we liked each other but couldnt go out!!!!
then he asked my full time enimy out!!!!!!! ahhh\\\
What should i doo
you have already helped if u reply
aaah, hahaha the same thing happened to me
it's craaazzy.
uhm, right now, just still be really close with him
be friends with him, be there for him, etc.
even say how you like them together
so he knows that you're not a jealous person
and when they break up, cause they most likely will, pull your move
andi know right now that it's probably really really hard, it was for me
but just try to get through it and see if you can pull it together at the end :)
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I have a problem. Ok so everything is going well I have a boyfriend and I was happy with him and our relationship was going well. He's always so sweet with me and I feel safe with him. Ok so yea yesterday we were talking online and out of the blue he writes "its over bitch!". I was so shocked he never said those things to me before. Then like about an hour later I write to him and he writes "what the fuck do u want?!". I thought I was going to die when I read that. Then that person wrote that, that wasn't him it is one of his friend online in his screenname. And then he said he was going to block me and he did!. I don't know what to think. Should I believe that person?. I don't know who it was. And if it is his friend wat right does he have to end our relationship like that?!. I'm so confused please help a.s.a.p. Thanks!
aah, well if it was his friend, you need to talk to your boyfriend. ask him for sure if that was his friend or not, cause you guys should be able to talk about that.
hahah, and no he can't end your relationship
only your boyfriend can himself
so go talk to himmm :)
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my boyfriend and i have been dating for a little over a month.
he's 16, almost 17, and i'm 14, almost 15.
i'm afraid these things are just going to snowball into something bad.
he totally respects me and my decisions, but i didn't want to do anything past making out and it just happened and he fingered me.
i don't ever want to do oral, and he respects that, but all my friends tell me i'll give in and it's just something you end up wanting to do.
and i don't want to have sex until i'm married, because i don't want to get pregnant before then.
i'm just scared i won't have an self control.
advice?
i'm in the same exact situation, except i'm 15 and he's 17
hah, wow
well, i know exactly what you mean, though
i'm scared i'll just end up giving in, and i've lost some of my morals just cause i care deeply about him
have you talked to him about this at all?
that's what i did. i told him that i'm not ready yet for sex, and all that stuff and he said no pressure
like the girl said about being in open rooms, do that. and make sure you're around company but when you're wanting to be alone just... try as hard as you can to fight your urges, even though it seems impossible.
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I'm in my first serious relationship with an amazing guy. My family & friends all like him, and of course I like him very much. The problem is, since him and I have been together, I've spent less time with friends. They have been trying to hangout with me, but for some reason I have more fun with my boyfriend. I feel like a horrible friend because these girls are great friends. Is it so wrong that I'd rather be with my boyfriend at this point in my life? (17/F)
my aunt was talking to me about this the other day, 'cause my friend's boyfriend takes up all of her time.
do you honestly think that this relationship is going to go on for a loonng time? and even if you do, i know everyone says this, but boyfriends come and go and like... friends are really important.
so just try not to cut them out a ton, but hang out with your boyfriend a lot as well.
maybe have them hang out together with you?
lol, i don't know but good luck. :)
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alright, so im 15/f and i want to lose just like 10 to 15pounds. im exercising but i was wondering if weight watchers could help me. i would do the point counting, but idont know how many points i should have a day. i already have how much everything is because my mom used to do it, so i dont need to pay. i weigh like 130, does anyone know about how many points i shouldeat a day?
yeahh i'm doing that now, it helps like... control your eating.
it's great.
and my friend kali did it and in like a couple months she's lost a ton of weight, it's insane.
if you're 130 then your points are from 18-23.
good luck :)
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is talking to yourself healthy or is it a sign of a mental illness? Because i talk to myself a lot. is it healthy
completely normal. everyone talks to them selves, and thinks things through and like... tons of people figure out things and stuff. lol, you know what i mean
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somebody spread a rumors that im bi please help what should i do? i was just playing around my friends all the time and i dont know why some people spread the rumors about im biosexual 100% straight!! help
haha woah. same thing happened to one of my best friends. people will get over it, and yeah just say that they have no clue what they're talking about. everyone plays around with their friends... and like boob grabbing and stuff. but people take it the wrong way. so just try to make sure they know you're not.
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Let's say I take the rest of the year off (until summer) and do nothing but work out, like ATLEAST 3 houres/ day. Sometimes more. How much will I lose in that amount of time?
Another scenario, let's say I run 2 houres a day, for the rest of this month ( + eat healthy/ drink lots of water) would that be better? And would that help me loose the extra fat I have?
okay, i know you're going to be like "shut up bitch " or something, but trust me. 2-3 hours is way overkill forone day. if you do that, you'll only build up resistance to running, and endurance, rather than just burn fat. get up to your target heart rate and keep it there for 20 minutes. so your running should only be 30 minutes a day. then, each week maybe increase the mph by .5 or the incline (if you're running on a treadmil) by .5 each week. that's just the running, but if you want to BURN fat even more? build muscle. strength weight training with just free weights that you have in your house.
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Okay, so there's this guy, he is SO cute, we've been friends all this year. And I fell in love with our friendship.
Silly as it sounds. But I like him, ALOT! He sometimes calls me at night, and one time, he wanted to meet me at the mall and watch a movie. (May I add, he doesn't know I like him.)
Okay, during school, my very close friend, talks about my crush ALL THE TIME. It kind of bothers me cause she says all this stuff like, "Oh, he keeps poking me in the arm, and told me it was a 'Love Tap'" I got pretty sad when she told me this. (Also, may I add, I told her I liked him before she even told me this.)
Last night, she told me that she 'kind of' likes my crush! To be honest, I wasn't surprised since she made is OBVIOUS!
But the problem is, she's ALOT prettier then me. She went out with more guys then I have. And most guys ask her out and everything. I'm just scared that maybe my crush might fall for her, and forget about me. I'm just scared if he DOES ask her out, that she's going to say yes.
I don't know what to do. My crush doesn't know I like him, and my friend likes him. I don't know what to tell my friend how I feel about this. I don't want to ruin our friendship. But it's really killing me. It gets me really mad, knowing that ALL the guys I thought is cute, or had a crush on, she happen to like them as well.
I don't know what to do anymore. Please help.
Sorry for this to be so long. But I need advice.
Thanks, I rate high! =]
oh my gosh! this happened to me. like... exactly. haha tell your friend that for once you want to like a guy without having her barging in on it, and you just want him to like you back. make it a deep sentimental conversation, lol. just talk to her and tell her how much it'd mean to you if she'd 'backoff' just a little bit. don't try to make it in a mean way though cause then she'll just get pissed and think you're trying to control her... that's what happened with mine. but yeah just talk to her, and eventually it'll get through her head. hope i helped :)
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whats a good idea on how to loose wieght?
i have no access to the gym and i dont want to go run outside. Is there anyway of looing wieght insdie myt house?
PLEASE AND THANKS!!!
weight watchers. just go once, get the book, and do it. my friend has like 10 lbs in 3 1/2 weeks and she said it's so easy, and yeahh that's without exercising :)
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does that Hollywood Diet drink that's suppose to make you lose 10 pounds in 48 hours actually work? has anyone tried it or know someone that's tried it?
yeah! okay, so my mom did, not me. but the thing tasted like shit, and it's all water weight. no real fat is actually being lost, and it's only like 4 to 6 pounds, but that's water. sooo it doesn't actually work, but feel free to try it if you're trying to lose water weight :)
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Hey i wanna lost 7 pounds. I weigh about 135-138 pounds. I work out and stuff but then I go and weigh myself a few days later or even a couple and i still haven't lost any weight. Its like impossible for me. Anything i do i cant lose weight. Im in sports but thats not helping i work out 4 times a week. But i stay the same weight. Is there any tips on how maybe i could get more motivated maybe to wanna do this cuz im about to give up because im not losing or gaining any weight!
you're not going to see results immeidately. it takes a couple of weeks, and if you exercise regulary, in a couple of months it'll all like shed off, as gross as it sounds. instead of having three meals, cut your meal in half, and save the rest for later, so you have 6 total meals. this increases your metabolism and that also helps you lose weight. if you do weights to lose weight, you might be staying the same weight, but losing fat and gaining muscle. just wait and it'll eventually start to peel off. haha good luck :)
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ok im a 13 f, and have herd about the things (i think there exames...) that u have to get when they stick a tube up.. umm.. "there" is it an option to refuse to do it? thx! i rate 5s!
please no smart remarks....
haha yeah you can refuse it. my doctor wanted to do it to me and i was like "do i have to do it?" and he said "no it's afree country" and so i said "i'm free, so no thanks" and i don't have to for like... 5 more years. haha.
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((Background info: 13, umm, volleyball and single))
Ok well i got 2 dreams i had them different nights as well and they're really weird and i dont get if they mean something or not,...
First Dream:
Well, i was out on a pourch in my spandex and it was in the evening and the pourch light was on and i saw this old geezer lookin at me with benoculars and i ran back into the house and shut the door and locked it.
Second Dream:
There's this football player i see him like every day (this stuff is real i'll tell ya whenever we get to the dream part) and he's really short but so adorable and i'm almost postitive he's checkin' me out but i only know him a little.
He's the dream
Well, we were some place dark, and i could feel him kissing my lips passionatly and slowly, and him hands slowly going up my shirt to my waist and then they stopped and stayed there and my arms were around his shoulders, it kind of looked like a dance or something but i think it was a closet cuz i feel down and ruined the moment!
I'll rate 5's for some good explanations
well, i can't really tell you what they mean but go to ld4all.com and they can help :)
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I am extremely lonely. I feel as though there is no one left for me. I recently stoped talking to my "crush" because everything changed romanticly between us. I feel as though in my town, there is no one new, everyone has someone, and all the good ones are taken. I hate this feeling. I hate being lonely, I hate `seeing all these couples in school and having no one.
omg, dude! i was just talking to my friend like 5 minutes ago about how i feel the exact same way! sucks, doesn't it? well, eventually, as i heard, someone will come along, even if it take forever. i'm inpatient and hate to wait, so this is goin' to kill me, and probably you too. but just try to keep lookin' for that special guy out there! ;)
good luck!
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hi umm my boyfriend and i will be going out for one week in lik a day n he wants to have sex. but we've known eachother for a long while as more than just frnds ... i think maybe he wants to jus go out with me for sex im not sure tell me what u think
-carly
don't have sex. you're what... 14 or 15? seriously, that's pretty lameass. probably just wants the sex, but who knows, guys are guys.
good luck
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I'm a dolphin.
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i have a question me and this guy are going out and like his family like his parents like arent the fondest of me like she is holding something against me. see me and this other guy went to prom together and the guy im going out with now is obviously pretty bummed about this so his mom is constantly holding this against me and just wont gimmie a 2nd chance! So i plan on writing her a letter. I need some help on what to say to her. Like explaining why i did go. I went because he proved 2 me it was so important and that he wanted to go with me. Well this guys mom (my bf) is obviously protecting her "little baby boy"... well trying. but i cant tell her why i wanted cuz she'd hate me more. So please help! ((i dont wanna do it person))
just write the mom a letter telling her why exactly you went to the prom with this guy. you can't change the past, and neither can the mom. the mom shouldn't have anything to be angry about; you went to the prom with another guy before dating her "little baby boy." it was before you two were going out, so why does that make a difference!? just tell her the real reason why you went to the prom with this dude. :)
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i finally got the confidence to tell the guy i love with all of my heart and not just half my heart but my whole heart that i liked him. when i told him he just said well u know ((its me**)).
i know mabe were just meant to be friends but i cant help liking him and i dont think i could ever just be his friend...
... i love him...
awww like i said before i am SO sorry. rejection SUCKS. but, there's nothing you can do about it. the fear and pain of thinking "well, maybe he'll like me! maybe he'll hate me, what do i do... etc." is all gone! now, you know and you don't have to suffer through all the waiting. next time, don't give him your whole heart. having your heart broken sucks, too. there's really nothing to fix it, other than to accept it...
it'll be okay, i promise.
you'll find someone better.
someone who WILL accept your heart
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hey. umm
i like someone and i really want to tell him. cuz then he might ask me out. but what if he doesn't like me? how can i tell? and also if i do tell him then what if he tells his friends and they all laugh at me. that would not be good. plz help
luv
me:)
hey woman! i think you should tell him- what's the worst that could happen? his friends better not laugh at you!
plus, i'm sure he would never do that...! :)
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