Ask sweetpinkgiggles3!

Advice Column | Ask a Question | View Feedback | Summer

About sweetpinkgiggles3





Ask Me For Advice
View Feedback
Make Favorite Columnist

Website: Summer
Member Since: June 28, 2004
Answers: 89
Last Update: October 5, 2008
Visitors: 5150



Advicenators.com



I am 24 years old and my period is about 10 days late. It never has been this late before. I am trying to think of any other reason beside pregnancy. One thing I think it could be is it that for the first time in my life I started to drink coffee this month. I have been drinking a few cups a day. Could this be cause????

No, anything you eat and drink won't affect when you're period comes but it can affect how heavy your period is. Such as soda. If you drink a ton of soda you usually have heavier periods. If you stress about being late it will throw your period off. Stress is one of the number one factors for late periods. If you have had sex though you are supposed to take a pregnancy test two weeks after your missed period.

[view]


hm dunno if this is a weird question but i dont understand the origins of stds. two virgins who have sex cannot give each other stds, right? the only way to get stds is from someone who already had it and that person prob got it from an experienced older partner who got it from someone else? does anyone get my drift?

Actually you are incorrect. No one wants to hear this but you are approaching std's in a naive way. Two virgins can give one another an std. First off if a mother gets pregnant and has an std it can be transmitted to the fetus and therefore the child is born with an std. With that being said, std's can lay dormant meaning you show no symptoms but you still have the disease. Also, std's aren't transmitted only through vaginal sex. They can also be transmitted through oral sex. When most people say they are virgin's they usually mean they have never had vaginal sex but they don't include oral sex. Spyhillus is a common std transmitted through oral sex.

[view]


Does anyone here take Yasmin? The generic version is Ocella. It is a 28 tablets birth control. I am just wondering if anyone has any information on it from personal experience. In example, side effects, when to get your period and how heavy it will be and how long it will last generally, any problems with it.

I got information online but would like personal experiences.

I have never taken Yasmin specifically but I did take a generic birth control and I had the worst experience with it. I had my period for 11 weeks straight. It was awful. When I went back to my doctor and told him he said that the amount of hormones in the pill was incorrect and he said I could switch back to my name brand (I was on that first but it became too expensive) or he could up the amount of hormone in the generic brand. After he upped the generic I became regular within three months. Three months is the usual time it takes for your body to adjust to the steady dose of hormones. Also, I never had any side affects like spotting or throwing up for anything like that. And I got my period as soon as my hormone pills ran out and I took the white non hormone pills. Hope I helped.

[view]


in the series [book not show]
what is the unmentionable body part
that serena has photographed
and posted all over the city?

It never says definitively however from the context clues it suggests that it is her belly button.

[view]


Please read all of this.

Well, me and my girl broke up a month and a half ago, a week after we broke up, i got another girlfriend. We lasted one week. I knew i was still crazy for her. I cant stop thinking about her even now, it seems like she has moved on though, she had a boyfriend..for a week.

When she broke it off she begged that we should stay friends..

So much for that.
We arnt on speaking terms, she ignores me..
we havnt spoken in so long.
but i need her back.

This is crazy! I am kinda in the same situation. Haha Well if you really want to be with her keep trying. But I recommend not coming on to strong. Try to be friends with her and after you guys are friends than you can worry about getting back together. If it is meant to be it will happen.

[view]


So I've been messing around with a guy for a long time now. Like we're friends but we don't talk about any of the sexual things we do. So I can't ask him.

But we've done everything (let your imagination wander) and he's never ejaculated! Never!

I'm not asking how to make this happen but could it be something with him, or that I'm doing something wrong? And is it really weird?

It could be either or, or it could even be a combination of both. I understand that it would be awkward to ask him after all since you guys never mention it but I really think you should ask him. If you are doing something that is not pleasing him that is the only way you are going to find out. Sex or any type of intimacy is trial and error for the most part. Different things work for different people. If he has never ejaculated then I am sure he is thinking along the same lines as you are. Are you sure he has never ejaculated? Maybe you just don't know he has. You really need to be up front with him but in a very decent manner and be sensitive when you bring it up. This would be a difficult subject for any man or woman when there is a problem in the bedroom. Hope I helped. xox Summer

[view]


I got my first period 11 days ago.
It stopped on day 5 in the evening. Then in the afternoon of day 6, it started again a little lighter but still. Then that evening it stopped again. It kept starting and stopping right up until this morning, and it still hasn't stopped for good.

I know that a period is supposed to last 4 to 10 days, but is it supposed to start and stop like this? It's my first...

It is completely normal especially if it is your first. Your period isn't going to be regular for awhile and even when it does become regular it could still stop and start again. Annoying I know but welcome to becoming a woman :) xox Summer

[view]


when spraying perfume, how/where should you spray it on yourself so that when you hug a guy, he will smell it?

First and foremost don't use too much perfume. It can become over bearing. Also, use approximately three decent sprays and I make it simple upper body middle body and lower body. For upper I do neck region because also since my hair is long it makes my hair smell great too. I spray around my stomach area and then around my thighs. Don't spray too close because it can get on your clothes as well. I usually extend my arm about half way and then spray. Have a great day. Xox Summer

[view]


okay thanks! ya it seems every time i talk about another guy he gets pissed and like i made out with one of my friends charlie cuz me and charlie were hittin it off you kno and corey and charlie both live by me and corey found out (my ex) and got pissed and wouldnt talk to me in like ever hey do you have aim or aol ?

Yeah guys are stupid. Yes I have aim and aol.

[view]


okay thanxs alot but like i am pretty sure he still likes me because he is saying that whenever me and him were goin out oh he made out with this chik that i absolutly hate! and his friend is like no he didnt he is just sayin that to make u jealous and it is working, but he was onl sayin that i tihnk cuz i was tryin to make him jealous by talking bout other guys and i think he was trying to do the same like okay yesterday we went to six flags with me and his friend and him and corey was payin so much attention to me and not to his friend! and he said lets ditch his friend so we did! then when we were in line 4 sumthing he would always stand really close like to where he would touch me and then he would always want to ride with me

Yeah guys do that a lot. he may like you which it seems like it but it could also mean that he just doesn't want anyone else to be with you either. My ex did that to me. He's like I don't want to be with you but I don't want anyone else to be with you either. Which is so retarded but I guess thats the way their mind works. I think everyone trys and makes their ex jealous at some point in time. I know I have done it by talking about other guys. I think the reason I do it is because when they get all pissed it shows that they care. You know? But maybe you should just sit down and talk with him and he like listen I know you haven't made out with other girls and that you are just trying to piss me off and it is working and see what he says. Hopefully he will admit it and stop being such a butthead. Giggles Hope I helped. If you need anything. I am here. Hugs n kiss*s xoxo *Summer

[view]


Hi, i'm just going to get straight to it.

Im over weight.
I have acne
I think i have a big nose
Im not exactly your average prep
I have a reputation of not being "nice"
Im starting over in highschool, i realized preps arent the only popular people because the punks are getting quite popular. I dont want to be popular i just want to be a normal me. Im kinda like Hilary Duff In A Cinderella Story.
Any advice to any of the problems I listed?
Will Rate 5. Thank you!

Okay for problem #1 Cut down your portions when you eat and eat healthier. Make sure you excercise. Just start out easy and your body will start to build muscle. Problem #2 Ther eis this stuf fyou can order off the tv called proactive. It is liek a 3 step acne medication and it runs for about 40 dollars. It works really well. try and stay away from junk food. And kinda monitor what you eat and find otu what make syou break out and avoid that. Hugs n kiss*s xoxo *Summer

[view]


sorry if this gets long, but i really need some advice on my underarms, i have been shaving since like 5th grade, and everytime i shave my underarms it still looks unshaved, and the skin gets really irritated and the skin doesnt look so good either, and it never really looks shaved, what can i do to make them look better and shave them so that they look awsome, i am really emberresed because of this, thanks in advance!!

Well get a better razor and use the shaving gel. Then put lotion on an duse a deoderant that has aloe in it. It should help. Make sure when you do shave you always take your time and shave down your under arms to get the hair. Hugs n kiss*s xoxo *Summer

[view]


i dont know what i'm suppose to call my sister in laws parents.. i mean i dont if i call them be mrs and mr.... or by first name?

Well start out by Mr. And Mrs. because that is polite and they will most likely tell you to call them by their first names. Start out with Mr and Mrs. though. It is just a respect thing. Hugs n kiss*s xoxo *Summer

[view]


going to a high school almost all my friends hav done stuff that r not "prent approved" i lov my friends to death but will alot of people classify me as a "bad" person for hanging out with them??

hope i dont sound dumb

Well being associated with people that do bad stuff you will get that repuatation too. That is stupid to judge people byt heir friends though. If your friends are good to you keep them. Asl ong as they don't pressure you to do anything you don't want too. Who cares what other people think. Hope i helped. Hugs n kiss*s xoxo *Summer

[view]


does anyone know any good websites for cheer music ... like you can make your own mix

Umm you can do a google search. I always make my own cheer music. But just do a google search and they will give you a lot of sites. Hope I helped. Hugs n kiss*s xoxo *Sum

[view]


I'm always looking around the house for candy, and chips and all that unhealthy stuff...so how do i stop myself from wanting it???

Well if your a female you maybe getting your period. Most girls crave junk food. Umm just try and distract yourself and try and eat healthy food when ever you want junk food. Hope I helped. Hugs n kiss*s xoxo *Summer

[view]


okay my ex boyfriend (my first love) broke up with me about a month ago! supposably he doesnt like me any more. But every time i dont see him for about a day or two he is always flirting with me like grabbing my butt, asking me to sit on his lap, hugging me, and/or cuddling with me. Every one says to give him time he likes you he just wants to see if your the one so let him date other people and he WILL come back to you. i dont know if he is trying to get me back by this or what he tells everyone that he dont like me but everyone tells me that by the way he acts around me and the way he gives me special treatment! i dont know please help me

BOYS SUCK!!! They are so confusing. I think he likes you. Guys get freaked out by committment very easily. He probably just freaked out and broke upw ith you even though eh still likes you. Everyone is right though just give him time. If he isn't the right guy for you or vice versa why do you want to be with him anyways? So just give him time and if your the right person for him he will come back. Hugs n kiss*s xoxo *Summer

[view]


no serously im male and like im bleeding like crazy when i take a crap is their something wrong with me or is it normal or something i ate i need to know it looks like my sisters peirod when she 4gets to flush its gross....

Yeah you need to go to the doctor immediately. Something might be wrong with you but you need to go to the doctor just to make sure. Don't panic though. Hope I helped. Hugs n kiss*s xoxo *Summer

[view]


Does size matter?

Size doesn't matter as long as you know how to work it. Hugs n kiss*s xoxo *Summer

[view]


i was with this guy for almost a year and a half. we were so in love. problem was, we never saw each other because of his parents. but we stuck through it. we started going to church together, but his family decided to change churches about two weeks ago. so i started dating another guy, mostly to piss my ex off. but it didn't work. my ex and i started talking today about how we love each other, etc. but we got in an odd fight online tonight. i don't even know how it escalated. but we blocked each other on practically all of our screennames. and he told me he was gone forever. i want to move on, but i love him so much i just can't. i don't think any of you can help me, but it feels really good to get everything off my chest.

It will take time to get over an ex. Especially when you guys have been in love and been together for a long time. Don't date just any guy just to get back at your ex. That is so immature and that doesn't show you care. I would unblock him and apologize because the fight sounds stupid. Hope i helped. Hugs n kiss*s xoxo *Summer

[view]




<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker