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So I'm in a relationship for the first time, and on top of that, my boyfriend was my first real, major crush. I've had a crush on him for a few months (pretty much since I met him), and we've been going out for three weeks....so these kinds of feelings are rather new to me, and I guess as for most people / teens, they can be pretty...intense, shall we say...and I'm wondering if it's better to let myself get caught up in it and completely enjoy the experience or to stay attached to the earth and realize that as a teen, I'm a naive, hormone-flooded being and keep in mind that teen relationships are usually basically purely for fun, and therefore not take to seriously what I think I feel at any point, because it probably isn't "really true." (link)
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I have to say that you should be aware of both but, never think become someone tells you you aren't in love or you cant be because of age or naiveness or whatever it is. that is not true. love is something that only the person who is feeling it feels and knows. no one can tell u how YOU feel. I think it is great you are having these feelings. always enjoy yourself because there is no greater time then the present and you don't know what is going to happen later. but also be aware that he is a guy and his feelings may also be strong but also different from yours. girls tend to be more emotional so just keep in mind that you will be playing with your feelings and exploring love. but don't let that take away from your experience. also keep in mind, you don't have to jump to being in love. as i said i think you should just be a little cautious, have fun and be into it but also just have that reminder that you are a teenager and feelings change and he is a male lol. have fun i hope it all goes well
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my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 3 years on-and-off and this time we've been dating almost 11 months. recently i've been questioning if i still love him or not. he still loves me a lot, but i think he might too much. lately he's getting more and more overprotective and it's really annoying me. when he kisses me sometimes i still feel a spark, but mostly i don't. my friends constantly tell me we are like a married couple but i'm only 17 i don't want to be like that yet! i still want to be young and party and be a teenager before it's too late. at the same time i still love him and he makes me feel safe. my emotions are really mixed up and i can't figure out if i should move on or if i should stay with him. (link)
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.the down part about ending it is that you might loose him forever. think about that. i know that you are a teenager and want to have fun and you should but if you love him then he should be fulfilling the fun aspect. can u have fun with him? i know you mean with other people and being free but maybe you should reevaluate the relationship and think am i only in this because he is in love with me or do i really love him and cant live without him. It has been a while maybe you should tell him how you feel. the truth is always the best. he may understand/ u have a right to want to expereince more but it might break his heart and later you may be wanting him back because he is your security.
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17/f & 17/m ..okay so i've been going out with my boyfriend for over a year now and we still have stupid fights. is this normal? it seems like we can't go a few weeks without something stupid happening. and we both hate it so much but we don't know how to stop it. any suggestions? what do any of you get fights in about with your bf/gf? and how do you get through it? anything will help thanks! (link)
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hey i wouldn;t worry about it
i went out with my boyrfriend for 10 months and we would fight about really stupid things. maybe these stupid things could be avoided like talk to him about it and tell him lets not get into thses anymore its dumb.. but as long as after the fight and during the fight he is respecting you, then you guys are both okay about it and nothing bad happens within the fight. your fine. it is perefectly normal for couples to fight. while its is happening recognize it and be like hey this is so stupid that's how i would get through it.
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i'm pretty stylish as it is. but i wanna be, really stylish, and im sick of wearing abercrombie,because im dressed just like everyone else. so whats some good stores, where i can really express how i wanna dress? but isnt like really expensive. idc how much it is, as long as its not much more then abercrombies stuff..
any ideas?! (link)
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try forever 21 and urban outfitters. their stuff are realy cute and not to expensive. also at bloomingdales they have really nice sections like c&c and free people those are a llittle bit more expensive.
hope i helped
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just wondering. at what ages did you guys have your first kiss? and where was it?
i'm just wondering because i'm 15. i'll be 16 in september and i still haven't had my first kiss. (link)
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i had my first kiss when iw as very young i was 12 and i ended up going out with that guy for 10 months. that doesn't mean you should of had yours around that age. everyone has their timeand i know you problby dont like hearing that but it is very true. You don't want to waste it on some scumbag. Im sure your first kiss will be special and romantic.
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I have a boyfriend that I've been going out for almost 4 months. Yet, I still have feelings for my "first love". We went out for 14-15 months [8th grade into highschool] It ended due to some problems. A big one was not being able to see each other because we are not in the same grade or school. He was still in middle school when I went into high school.. so he had limits to hanging out with me. Now he doesn't. He still likes me..
i really don't know what to do. I do like my boyfriend, not love.. because that is too soon [in my book] He's probably the best one I've had because we are in high school and there's no middle school drama.
Whenever I see my ex.. I get happy and I want to hug him.. never let go. I'm afraid of what may happen. I did kiss him while I was with my boyfriend. I have a feeling it might happen again.
I don't know what I have is infatuation for my ex or for my boyfriend. Maybe I'm blind. How can I solve this problem?
I'm afraid to go back to my ex because we were on and off about 3 times.. but those problems are fixed now.. Is it too late? (link)
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it is never too late and it's better to break up with your current boyfriend now then to be with him and be unfair to him and have those feelings for your ex. i went through the exact same thing and im still in love with him. It is never too late especially if he wants to also get back. If he's a good guy and you think you can really make it work out go for it. There must have been something special hence you guys went out for a little over a year. I would recommend breaking up with this guy your with it's better to be fair to him if you're still in love with your ex.
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ok so im making my boyfriend for our sixth montha a journal of us. like im putting in things that weve done pictures a couple poems and a couple pages of the things hes done that makes me love him. i was just wondering if anyone had any other ideas of what to put in them. any ideas will help and be greatly appreciated :) (link)
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hey maybe some stickers liek if you guys spent holloween together you could get some hooloowen pictures liek pumpkins and if you guys graduated together then gradutation stickers. inside jokes you had maybe right on the corners of the pageds or on the border. i think your idea is really cute and he'll love it
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ive been getting more acne everyday what do u think is making me brake out more (link)
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it could be many things
one could be stress
another could be eeating sweets
another could be if you are on your period and your hormones are forming the acne
or if you are sweating and your face is oily.
there's many other but there is a few. Wash your face every morning and night
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Ok so today 5/20/07 is me and my boyfriends 6 month anniversary and on thursday I had a break down because he was spending to much time with his best friend (who is a girl) he stays over at her house and sleeps in her bed and it pisses me off. So I flipped out on myspace and they got pissed. me and my boyfriend fixed everything and he spends more time with me now. He asked his friend if she would let me be involved in activities that they do and she keeps saying "yea since she's so jelous " blah blah blah....
She keeps dragging it out and doing stuff to make me jelous.
my first question is
1.) How do I piss her off more?
2.) How do I tell her to quit dragging things out like my 5 year old brother and grow up? Without punching her in the face? (link)
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heyy..
so one. i think it was really smart of you to talk to your boyfriend about it. if it continues you might consider breaking up with him but im glad he understood and stopped a little. two. shes just jealous because YOU have HIM. shes jealous of you. you should be honored lol. if you really want to make her jealous dangle him in front of her but also the more she knows u hate her the more shit she'll talk about you to your boyfriend so be careful
if you need anything else let me know
goodluck and enjoy your time with your boyfriend!
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what works better? straighteners with ceramic plates or those brush ones? my hair is pretty thick and curls up at the front, the rest is wavy. i would just like to know what you think would work better?. thanks in advance. (link)
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i have a ceramic straightener and its great. its black grey outside and blue inside its soo goog.i would recommend that one
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what are good songs about friends like im making a slideshow of my friends and i and i need a good song about friends but nothing gay (link)
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time of your life -green day
best friend-toyboxx
i love those to
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Hi my name is Jackie, I am a girl and i am 13 years old.
okay so my boyfriend is really good friends with a girl that constantly bullys me. She says bad things about me to his face but he doesnt defend me. Once she even kissed him just to make me upset. Every time me and my boyfriend fight, its about her. What should i do? should i brake up with him?
I've thought about braking up with him but i like him way too much. we have been together for almost a year and 2 months. I really need help. (link)
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hey jackie..
i went through the exact same thing last year. i was going out with a guy for almost a year. i was totaaly in lvoe with him and i mean in love. the relationship was great. but his ex this girl would always try to ruin our relationship say bad things to hima bout me bully me liek crazy and reli she was the only reason for our break up. im not sure about ure sitaution but for me we broke up about 8 months ago and im still totally in love and i had to let him go. he ended up lieing to me to go with her and tehy went out after we broke up. it broke my heart and it took a long time for us to becoem friends again. the girl who is friends with ure boyfriend is just jealous cause you have him. i think you shoudl talkt o ure boyfriend tell him how you feel and how it hurts when she says all thsij shit about you to you and him. tell him how bout if a guy woudl come up to me and sya all thsi shit about you and tell him that you dnt kkno if its goan work out if he cant sand up for you. just talk to him if you feel comfortable. a relationship is all about communication
good luck
hope i helped
let me know if you need anythign more
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there is this boy named nick he broke up with me. a mouth later he had a nother girl named abby what did i care but untill my friend came over and said you know abby he really wasn't going out with her. my friend said that he was tring to make me jealous. which was oveis.
what should i do
(i'm 17 and female) (he is 18 and male) (link)
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u should be honeored hes tryign to maek YOU jealouss
it just shows he still cares about you and its his stupid way of showing it
dnt get upset over it because its a good thing let him be for a while and se eif u can maek a friendship
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okay what are some fun things to to while making out? could range from using Poprocks to.. well anything. im open to anyyything. thanks ill take all the advice i can get! (link)
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hey..
i would bring my arms underneath his shirt up and down his chest and stoamch area and just tease him a little and myabe have my hands in his hair or aroudn his neckk
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iam 18 years old and my boyfriend is 16 years old and i just found out over the weekend that he kissed some whore named kelly and i've been cryubg over him for 2 days and i don't think that i can take it anymore what should i do? (link)
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aw im so sorry
well first does he know thaty u kno he cheated? if he doesnt confront him sit him down tell him how hurt u are out himn on the spotlight se ehwo he reacts if hes a total ass and oesnt even show any inetrst to fix it DUMP him.
my boyfriend cheated on me and i had to dumo him and im sitll in love iwth him but it was the righ tthing to do
i kno this is a hard time in you love life righ tnow but just talk to him about thats all ic an say
depend ure desicion on how the talk goes
if you need anymore help dont hesitate to email me
goodluk sweety
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what are some cute things i could make/buy for my boyfriend? for example he made me a cookie and wrote *his name* loves *my name* it was adorable but i just can't think of anything to do for him like that. any ideas? (link)
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i think if you coudl do like a picnic thing
if you wnat
its reli cute
well if you do or not they have thsese cookies wih hearts on it and you could bring strawbrries n cream and itll be reli cute
write him a a very meaningful card
maybe if you guys hve inside jokes get something that has to do with that
maybe ven soemthign from color m e mine lol
i hope i helped!
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hmm... i love to work out then relax by tanning.
what are some songs that i can download onto my ipod
that have an upbeat like:
"bounce" by timbaland and
"breaking the habit" by linkin park
that are relaxing like:
"how to save a life" by the fray
"faraway" by nickelback
"dont wanna say goodbye" by jagged edge
i like rap, rock, hiphop, etc. (link)
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i have some reli good ones
umbrella by rihhannah and jay z
buy you a drink by t pain
i will follow you into the dark by death cab for cutie
beautiful liar by beyonce and shakira
pop the glock by uffie
all of imogen heaps songs
dangerously in love by beyonce
pop lock and drop it by baby huey
chasing cars by snow patrol
collide howey day
hope u like them!
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I am SUCH a huge fan of Plain White T's. They're my favorite band ever! Does anyone know of any bands like them?
Thanks. (link)
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you may like
death cab for cutie
yellowcard
simple plan
panic at the disco
the fray
hope u like them
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What are some songs that talk about like, not fitting in, not belonging, being alone, not having anyone, or just kind of depressing songs?
Thanks.
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imperfections by saving jane
hurt by christina agulaira
i hate everything about you by Three days grace
here without you by 3 doors down
nobodys home by avril lavigne
hope you like them
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Hey guys I really need help about this!!!Well theres this guy(who turns to be my best friend)that im MADLY in love with.But he has a gf(...)so I figured the best thing to do is to move on on and let go...but I dont know how!!!plz HELP..i really need to shut my feelings for him because it hurts to watch him being in love with some1 else while im sitting here waiting on him.so please tell me what to do so i can 4get about him.i really have to.i cant stop thinking about him and it makes me cry.i cry almost every nights...please tell me what to do but,please dont tell me to do activities because theres not much to do where I live.just tell me what I should do toward him and stuff!
im waiting for your help.
thanx in advance
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aww honey thats my lie excatly and ims till not overhim
all i can say is that for now it sux tahts being honest but with time and i mean as much time as your heart will give you you wil lget over him
dnt give up so fast
u have to say to ure self that u dnt needhim and that there aer other people and things out tehre
seeing him make syou want him more so try not to see him as much
hang out wih friends alot and focus on school and family
a great guy will come alomng and will make you very happy
crying is wat i iused to do at least 3 times a day
and to me it woudl just make me more volnurable
so wen you see ure gonna cvry stop ureself think about somethign play a game reada book go online occupy ureself so you dnt feel the pain
im reli sorry that ure going through thiss
let me kno how your doing!
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