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Hey...
just got a new laptop (dell) with windows vista and im wondering how to get all my songs onto itunes. i downloaded itunes off the internet but i cant get my songs to import. i tried doing the same process that i got info on for windows, but windows vista is different and the process doesnt seem to work.

help please? thankk you! i need my music. (link)
Make sure you have the vista itunes update, first.
Then try importing the songs.
I have windows vista, and I had no problems with itunes.
However, i only used music from cds i had because i could not get other songs to work.
Try getting the update then uploading a few cds, that's what I did and it worked perfectly fine.
Good luck.


How do you if a girl have a crush on you?why do some girls just stare at you and dont say nuthang? Umm sometime they just look at me for no reason don't laugh I could sense it.maybe becuz I'm ugly? Im preppy I guess polo a&f ae old navy gap
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You'll catch them staring, but they will look away when they notice you looking.
They smile when they see you.
Their friends know about you.
They play with their hair when they talk to you.
If they act different than they normally would, bascially.
As for not saying anything, alot of girls believe a guy should make the first move.
If you see a cute girl who seems to be staring at you, bring up something that will be easy to talk about. It should start a conversation. If she's interested, she'll try to keep the conversation going. If not, she'll just end the conversation after a little bit.


Here's the deal I have NEVER made out with a girl. I am out of highschool and when I get a girlfriend that actually will go through with her non sexual fantacies I want to give them to her. so I need tips on how to seduce her, turn her on, make her melt, and be mine.

Help blind guy (link)
Well;; here are some of the things I love and hopefully will do you some good.

Starters (& random)::
we love when a guy holds us. (cuddling, hugs, arms around her, whatever)
Never ever lie to a girl. (we do find out)
Try to realzie when somethings wrong. (it shows you care)
Kisses on the cheek and forehead are cute.
Offer her your hoodie when she is cold. (&& hold her)
We love kisses. (whenever it feels comfortable to you) (rejection hurts but shell probably kiss back)
At the movies- put your arm around her.
Compliments =]
Surprise her. (plans aren't always the best)
Call her randomly. (just to say hi, how was your day..we love it)
Little things DO mean alot.
Always listen.
Smile when you see us.
Make eye contact.
Let her know you just don't wanna have sex.
Ask her about her life.
Tell her about sweet parts of yours.
Don't forget her birthday.
Tickle her. (if shes ticklish)
Pick on her sometimes. (it can be cute;; just dont be mean)

Once you have her..
Keep up with the things above.
This is where more sexual things can come into the mix.
Make sure you have permission before you just do something.
You can become more passionate or agressive (sexual) with your kisses.
One day when your cuddled up, you can tease her a little bit (sexually).
By this i mean.. rub down there through her pants a bit. (usually turns a girl on)
She may ask for more.
If she seems to enjoy it, you can slide your hand into her pants a bit and see how she reacts.
If she does not seem to want you too, stop. (she might be afraid to say something)
If you want you can finger her.
Teasing can lead to alot.
As for eventually having sex..you should be able to tell when the time is right.

Good luck. Hope this helps.. if you want to know more.. message me



What do it mean? This girl I know for 6-7 months decide to write me a note because she was leaving for a couple of months here the letter-reson why I'm writing this note becuz I'm leaving I don't know what to say but I know ill miss you I love talking to you your crazy becuz you make fun of me. Surprisingly I don't mind.none of my friends gets to me like you do. (that's a good thang ( I think(hmm)-im clueless by this note. She know I got gf
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Well it could mean one of two things.

One: She likes you and wants to let you know before she leaves. (probably this one)

Or

Two: She means you are one of her best friends and wants to make you realize that.

The fact you have a girlfriend can't stop a girl from liking you.

The way I see it;; she wanted her feelings out there before she was gone and didn't have the chance to tell you


Ok so i know this guy lets call him J. And me and him used to talk and flirt and stuff and i felt a really strong connection. Ok so months passed and he got a girl friend w.e so i stopped talking to him because i was hurt. It took me a really long time for me to get over him but i finally did. Now his brother is intrested in me but idk if i should flirt with him and stuff since its j's brother and i even told j i loved him once. i dont know what to do..= / (link)
The way I see it-
If you like him, go for it.
If J says something to you, that could be a sign that he still likes you. And then you'd be in a hard position.

But I'd say go for it.


Do vegetarians drink milk?
eat eggs?
and eat fish or shrimp? (link)
Vegetarians normally just eat no meat. (maybe a few things on side such as milk- if they don't like it or just dont want to.)
However, vegans- eat nothing that comes from an animal. Meat. Milk. Eggs. Etc.


hi, i know this might be a little too much information but i AM pretty nervous for some strange reason. First off i NEVER had sex in my life, i have done other things but sex isn't one of them. anyway. i am really nervous because my period the past 3 months has either been on the 7th or 8th day of the month but its now the 14th almost the 15th and i still haven't got it is that normal for a 15 year old girl?

now although i havent had sex im still REALLY nervous like if there is something wrong with me.

please help asap. thank you =]
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It's pretty normal not to get your period once in a while. Irregular periods are very common actually.
I would let this month go, and if it doesn't come next month, take a pregnancy test.


If guys get boners then what do girls get? (link)
Girls get wet.


i gave my mom a page in seventeen where there were hair products I wanted her to buy. she lost the page now I dont know what the hair products were. Well if anyone has the seventeen issue with ashlee simpson, can someone please find the page that shows you a week of hairstyles for back to school, and look at the first hairstyle. please tell me exactly what the directions were for that hairstyle, and what products you use! if you answer this you are so nice and thank you so much! (link)
To get your hair looking long and gorgeous, apply an antifrizz cream to damp hair and blow dry. Use the flat iron, then finish with shine spray to make it perfect.

The product is Garnier Fructis Style Sleek & Shine Smoothing Milk ($4 at drugstores)

I actually use this product and it smells good and works well. Good luck!

Need anything else my inbox is always open


i got a new fish (tropical) and its looks like an eel slash worm... i forget the name but anyway it is really fast and it swims around the tank non stop like i mean speedy gonzales! i think it has to keep swimming to breath or something i dont know but the point is i want to call it something to do with how fast it is and something to do with its speed... what can i call it? im up for anything... put as many suggestions as you like but not speedy thanx xx sal (link)
Lightning would be my first pick and favorite.
But another is
flash



I'm going back 2 school clothes shopping soon. I think I'm going to order stuff off line to... the look I'm going for well its not a look I just want shirts that will show off my cleavage. I want to get cute shirts that are low cut. Where would you suggest i shop at? I have already looked at forever 21, hollister, american eagle, abercrombie.. so not any of those...


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Jc penny
www.jcpenny.com
Walmart
www.walmart.com
Wet Seal
www.wetseal.com
Alloy
www.alloy.com
Delias
www.delias.com

Good luck


My boyfriend and I are going camping and I havent seen him in a few weeks, and I know we will be having sex. I will be able to get a shower in the morning but how can I stay clean during the night when I can't get to the showers? (link)
I doubt you're going to be that dirty over just one day. Baby wipes are a good idea though. And if there is a lake or anything you could always jump in. Good luck and have fun.


Well i use to date an older guy, not like creepy old, but you know. And we dated for a long time and we had sex. and he had a big you know what, and after we broke up i started dateing a kid my age, and well he has a small you know what. and we tryed to have sex before but i didnt feel anything. these are the only two people i'v had sex with before so its not cause im loose. But now i feel awkward touching him down there or if we had sex because hes small. and i cant be the only one to get pleasured. so what do i do to fix this?
anything is apreciated.
thanxx. (link)
Hm. Well since the guys you dated before were older, they've had more time to develop. The guy you are with now could still grow. And if not- there are always enlargement pills. Sex is not what a relationship is about- its just a fun part- so don't base your entire realationship on this. If it is all your basing them on- find a guy with a bigger one. ha good luck


First of all.. we are broken up now! But, when my boyfriend tried to kiss me, I pulled away. He tried so many times and i did the same thing. I really wanted to kiss him, but I guess I was too scared??? Why did I do this?? & What can I do about it??? Please help, I dont want this to happen again!! (link)
Being a little scared for a first kiss is normal. But if you really want to do it, just lean in and do it. You're probably thinking about it too much and that could be whats screwing you up. Don't think as much next time, just lean in and kiss. No big deal really. Good luck.


okay so i had well tried to have sex with this boy. He was really small which i highly doubt is normally small. But anyway we tried to have sex and the condom broke before we even started. Then he asked if i wanted to try without one and me being really drunk i said okay. It wouldnt go in so he told me he was going to go to the store and get one He got pulled over. So he never ended up going to the store. We never tried when he got back. And i havent talked to him in days. Why it wasnt my fault. I have a strong feeling he was on coke and couldnt get hard or something. Why wont he talk to me? I didnt do anything wrong. Is he embarrassed or.. ehhh i really like him what do i do (link)
I would say to get ahold of him.
Maybe he thinks you are avoiding him because he wanted sex and it never ended up happening and that he stood you up.
Who really knows exactly how a guys mind works.
So I'd say just call him or whatever. At least you will know whats going on.


14/f

well me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost about a week. But the problem is, we could never have a decent convo on the phone. so my question is, i want some good topics to talk about on the phone. i already know all the basics about him...so please don't write that..

THNX IN ADVANCE (link)
Heres just a few::

Ask how his day went.
What all he did.
Any interesting happen?
If he says something that reminds you about something funny or cute that has happened to you- tell him.
Tell a joke- it may spark something interesting.
Play 20 questions.
Ask him what he's thinking.
Random topics can be fun.

Good luck.


i am so confused. i have this friend hes a boy. i am 15/f. i know i have time before i can find my true love but still. liek when im just friends with this boy i have so much fun and i just like like him soooo much. everytime. but when i date him i cant stand him. please help. (link)
You answered your own question. He's not your true love. But who knows things could change. I pretty much used to be in the same situation with my boyfriend and now I never wanna lose him after we gave up for a year or so. Good Luck.


I'm going to volleyball tryouts for my freshman year the week of August 13-17 (school starts on the 16th). I've played soccer before on a rec. team but I'm not like the ultimate sporty girl. The only time that I've played volleyball was during the times that we played in gym. I have a really great advantage, though, and that is my height (5'8") and the ability to jump up and like set the ball.

What should I expect on the first day of tryouts? The sheet just basically says dress in a shirt, athletic shorts, clean tennis shoes, and hair must be put back away from the face. I've never really played volleyball for real, I'm a little nervous. Do you think I will be good as an actual player on the team? (link)
Volleyball is my FAVORITE sport so here are a few things i would guess are going to be going on at tryouts.

1. Bumping (passing with your forarms).
This will probably be with a partner back and forth with the coaches walking around to start. Then maybe some excersizes they set up to watch more closely.

2. Serving
Probably get some practice in with the coaches observing a little then possibly a game or warmup for closer observation.

3. Setting (passing the ball up with your finger tips, usually in order for someone to spike)
Same as before

4. Diving
5. Blocking
6. Spiking (the hardest of it all..for most people)

7. "Ready position" ALWAYS be ready. This means close to the ground knees bent arms extended watching the ball.

Good luck..any more questions..inbox is good


I am about ready to have a daughter anytime. But I am dreading it. Not because of labor, but because of the question "Whats the babies name?" I have her first and middle name picked. However her father and I arent married (yet). I want her to have his last name. So does he. But my parents are threatening to disown me if I dont give her my last name. They said not giving her mine will make things complicated for me (Like doctors, and legal things.) if he and I split up.I dont know if I should believe them or not. But they will scream at me if I dont give her my name. I wont give her 2 last names even though I could. I just want her to have his last name. He is her father and thats how it should be. Im so frustrated and stressed over it. Its stupid that they would make me feel like this about it. I try to talk to him and my parents, they both get defensive and mad at me just for bringing it up. I cant have them talk to eachother about it, because it will just be bad. He feels like they are trying to take his little girl away , and take him out of the picture. And I can understand why. I can't just tell them no. They do a lot for me and to lose them would break my heart. I dont know what to do about it. (link)
My suggestion would be (even though you dont want to) use both last names. His then yours. That way his is the main one. And you can ignore yours unless it is needed. Good luck.


hey. well, i'm getting ready to go into high school. and i'm sooo scared. i'm scared about all of the upperclassman, but the most thing i'm scared of is the work. i know it will be much harder. and i get soooo nervous on tests and stuff, and i'm really scared for finals. i HAVE to graduate. i can't fail. what grades do you have to get to pass classes? can it be an A,B, or C? cause i always thought that if it was D or lower, you couldn't pass your class. in middle school i always got A and B's, but i don't know how, cause i never really understood the work. and i don't remember stuff very well, so everything that i learned in school, i probably won't remember a lot of it. i really don't want to go to high school. on a scale of 1-10, how hard is the work?? i'm not smart, but i'm not dumb eathier.lol. and, i can't figure out my schedule at all. i've asked my cousin,and i'm going to ask my sister when i see her, but i've already asked a couple of my friends, and they don't know eaither. what do i do?!?! i'm freaking out right now! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! thanks! (link)
High school is really no big deal.
I know each school is different, but i'll give you the basics of where I'm from:

Upperclassmen: really no big deal. just don't be annoying & stupid. and seniors, yes they are usually allowed to jump the lunch line.

Passing Grades: it may be different there but you can pass the class with a D here.

Work: personally I don't think it got much harder. sure it's a bit more work but as long as you try your best you should be fine. a lot of teachers here grade for complete homework not correctness.

Taking notes: helpful. usually if the teacher takes the time to put it on the board- its bound to show up somewhere on a test or quiz.

Good luck. Any more questions. Inbox is good.




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