First of all.. we are broken up now! But, when my boyfriend tried to kiss me, I pulled away. He tried so many times and i did the same thing. I really wanted to kiss him, but I guess I was too scared??? Why did I do this?? & What can I do about it??? Please help, I dont want this to happen again!!
partychick101 answered Friday August 3 2007, 8:34 pm: Being a little scared for a first kiss is normal. But if you really want to do it, just lean in and do it. You're probably thinking about it too much and that could be whats screwing you up. Don't think as much next time, just lean in and kiss. No big deal really. Good luck. [ partychick101's advice column | Ask partychick101 A Question ]
Volleyball2150 answered Friday August 3 2007, 2:51 pm: How can you want to kiss him, but be scared?? If you want something, you go for it! No questions... just do it. When he goes for it again, just close your eyes and lean it a little... then eventually your lips will touch. You don't even have to do anything, just let him work the magic. A lot of people are scared for their first kiss, and then yet, they want to rush into it. If you feel like you're not ready for this, then take it slow and don't rush into anything you don't want to do. However, If you feel like you really really want to do this.. then you just have to trust your instincts and tell yourself that you want this, and you'll do it. I know it is hard, but you have got to have courage. Without courage, this world would be a bunch of scardy cat people... and you're not one of them now, are you?
have faith that you can do it! and don't rush into anything, take your time and have fun. This should be a fun moment, not a tragedy.
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