Here's the deal I have NEVER made out with a girl. I am out of highschool and when I get a girlfriend that actually will go through with her non sexual fantacies I want to give them to her. so I need tips on how to seduce her, turn her on, make her melt, and be mine.
Starters (& random)::
we love when a guy holds us. (cuddling, hugs, arms around her, whatever)
Never ever lie to a girl. (we do find out)
Try to realzie when somethings wrong. (it shows you care)
Kisses on the cheek and forehead are cute.
Offer her your hoodie when she is cold. (&& hold her)
We love kisses. (whenever it feels comfortable to you) (rejection hurts but shell probably kiss back)
At the movies- put your arm around her.
Compliments =]
Surprise her. (plans aren't always the best)
Call her randomly. (just to say hi, how was your day..we love it)
Little things DO mean alot.
Always listen.
Smile when you see us.
Make eye contact.
Let her know you just don't wanna have sex.
Ask her about her life.
Tell her about sweet parts of yours.
Don't forget her birthday.
Tickle her. (if shes ticklish)
Pick on her sometimes. (it can be cute;; just dont be mean)
Once you have her..
Keep up with the things above.
This is where more sexual things can come into the mix.
Make sure you have permission before you just do something.
You can become more passionate or agressive (sexual) with your kisses.
One day when your cuddled up, you can tease her a little bit (sexually).
By this i mean.. rub down there through her pants a bit. (usually turns a girl on)
She may ask for more.
If she seems to enjoy it, you can slide your hand into her pants a bit and see how she reacts.
If she does not seem to want you too, stop. (she might be afraid to say something)
If you want you can finger her.
Teasing can lead to alot.
As for eventually having sex..you should be able to tell when the time is right.
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