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ok im pregnate and im only 13! and i did use a condom.. but my question is: How shoold i tell muh parents and the father? and i dont belive in abortion and i dont want to give the baby up for adoption! -confused p.s the father is 16 (link)
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woahh buddy .. um first of all maybe u shoodnt b doing that kinda shit when ur only 13.. if u look back, u can see u cant even spell pregnant. the only thing u can do is just tell ur parents.. let em no u no that u made a mistake that u oviously cant take back with just a sorry but u need there support all the way cus now ur in such a mess thats not easy to get out of .. well i hope i helped? =/ good luck
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hi, i'm 13/f and this boy who is 16 likes me a lot. idk what to do, i mean i've went out with him twice before, but i think it's enough. i kinda like him but not enough to go back out with him. what do i tell him? (link)
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if you really dont like him enuff ta go out with him.. dont. someone will end up getting hurt, most likely him. just dont
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i have a problem..i talk to this girl online and on the phone all the time and even though ive never met her before i think i like her... is this possible? it is possible for me to like someone who ive never even seen or talked to in person before? we live far enough away that i cant see her very often, if at all, but i just want to know if you think im wasting my time having a long distance relationship (link)
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your most definitley not wasting ur time. im sure it sucks not being able ta be with her n all cus im in the exactttt same situation as your in. but theres noone in the world that can convince me im wasting my time on him. yeh its def possible to like someone online.. nothing rong with it at all in my opinion.. hope i helped
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okay, this mite be weird, especially cuz i can't think of all the lyrics and i mite get them messed up, but does ne1 kno this song..
what would u do if ur son was lyin at home all alone cuz he's hungry, and the only way to feed him is to....
im pretty sure i messed up the lyrics, but it's just been drivin me CRAZY!! thanks in advance!! (link)
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wut wood u do if ur son was at home, cryin all alone on the bedroom floor cus hes hungry and the only way ta feed him is ta sleep with a man for a little bitta money .... ? that onee? thats what wood u do by city high. hope i helped
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I am 15/f and I always end up liking younger guys. Usually guys that are 14. Is there anything wrong with that.. cause some of my friends think it's a lil weird. (link)
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nope .. theres nothing rong w/ that.. one of my best friends was a senior this year and was going out with a freshman and as far as i know still are .. 15 n 14 isnt bad att all .. im 13 and i reeele reele like a 16 year old [ he'll be 17 in december, late birthday ] theres definitley nothing rong with that. ur friends can think wut they wanna think, it wut u want -_' hope i helped
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okai well i got this cousin or second cousin and i dont knoe if its ok to think hes cute or not.....because when I see him i dont kno i think hes cute is it wrong to think that some1 in your family is cute? i dont want it to be disturbing but i wanted to knoe if its wrong to think someones "good lookin" if theyre your 2nd cuzin or just cuzin...pleasee help (link)
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well if its not right, ill b rong with you '_- i got some cute cusins.. im not gonna lie, its true. but there just cute .. its not like anything more - AT ALL . eww haha .. thinking ur cusin or 2nd cusin or w/e the case may be is cute is fineee .. its just like going along on the street, seeing some kid, and being like oh hes cute. thats it haha .. when i was little i was like obsessed with my 2nd cusin? lmao .. but then agen i was like 6 and yeh.. anyways hahaha.. no its not rong ta think there cute.. definitley not. hope i helped
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okay well this guy is ma best friend and weve been close 4 lyk a few yearz now nd we hung out the otha day n he was hugging nd kissing me a lot and touching me nd we were cuddlin nd i loved it. but he haz a g/f nd im inlove with him nd i mean INLOVE itz not juss a crush. nd he likes me but hes "inlove" wit his g/f, i dono wut to do! he told me the onli reason me nd him arnt together is cuz hes inlove nd he told me he thinks if the grl ever dumps him he wud fall inlove wit me, i reallli lyk him nd i want the grl to break up wit him! im so scared to tell him how i feel what shud i do? (link)
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hmm .. wel it sounds like theres a definite possibility between you t0o ... in the f u t u r e . he has someone right now so theres nothing u can do about that .. just like i cant do nething bout the guy i like going out w/ someone else =/ haha .. but yeh just keep ur options open and wait for him .. im sure this isnt gunna b his ONE for the rest of his life if hes telling you you two have possibilities. haha so just wait .. hes worth it, isnt he? '_-
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Alrite I need some help. Basically here's how it goes. My bestguy friend and me are very very close. We hang out like everyday cause we are practically neighbors. And I've known him 4ever. Alrite so lately I notice that he has been like touching me & my bestfriend alot. Not really sexually just putting his hands on us(if you know what i mean)He has touched me before though on my leg and touched my boob on 'accident'. So whenever he goes to touch me, even if its somethin small I tell him not to put a finger on me. He will always go why, why, how come other guys can touch you? So I just needa know if the problem is like me getting older and beingm more 'touchy' about this kinda thing, him going threw puberty, or he might kinna like me! pLeAsE hElp if yOo caN! thanks ;) (link)
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haha it may b any of those choices .. he might like u tho. idk if thats a good thing or a bad thing but even if its a bad thing.. like u dont like him like that ta go out with him, its always fun ta have a best friend whos a guy that u can kinda just like fool around with but never have nething serious with if u no wut i mean? cus if u dont reeeele like him u dont wanna screw up ur friendship by going out with him but its always kewl ta have a friend like that. if it reele gets anoying and he keeps doing it tho, and ur not feeling it lol, then just b like listen .. i dont want u touching me like that and if u dont stop, im not even gonna come near u. haha nd if u like him, u can always get someone to ask if he likes u -_' well i hope i helped..
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Ok..my friend always talks about her ex BF. Ive heard about him soo much and im tired of it. i mean shes not dating him nemore! I try to laugh it off and say..oh no ur talking about justin again but it doesnt she just keeps talking about him!..what should i do?
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just tell her.. that if she wants ta talk about him sometimes, thats kewl but when shes constantly talking about him, specially when there not even going out nemore .. it can just get out of hand and very anoyying .. thats all. and im sure she'll get ur point n reealise she has been over doing it. and if she dusnt see that, and she gets mad.. im sure shell get over it and ull end up being friends agen. if u were ment ta be..
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My parents and my bro dont get along at all. My parents have disagreed with my bros choices for years. My mom and dad dont want nething to do with him really. They are tired of him expecially mom. But my bro still wants to have a relationship with me (sister and bro). Should i stick with my parents or form a relationship with him.
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have a relationship with him.. i mean put urself in his spot.. if u dint get along with ur parents, ud atleast want ur brother ta get along with you.. so that way u have SOMEONE ta go home to and talk with .. insted uv having no family. ya no wut i mean? no, definitley dont just exclude him out of ur life just becus ur parents dont agree with his choices.
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ok , i dont kno what to do anymore . im babyysitting this 4 yr. old little boy . i came at 9:30 this morning and like 10 min. after the mom left for work , he's throwing his toys at me , one hitting my chin , then he took some statue thing the parents hav and starts biting on it . nd i cant control this kid . can u help me pleasE (link)
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hahah.. i babysit a 3 n 6 yr old and the 3 yr olds a boy.. hes not thatttt wild but he doesnt no how ta listen if ya no wut i mean .. tell the kid ur gunna call the parents [ wich ever parent is stricter ) and if they dont listen.. pick up the fone.. pretend ta start calling and if they stil dont care have a fake conversation and pretend ur actually talking to them and make stuff up -_' it works for me haha.. or giv the kid a time out.. the kid i babysit ussually listens to me now cus he hateeessss time outs and when he dusnt listen, i giv em hehe.. hope i helped
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okay well i have this rly rly good friends and she is like the only one who understands me and can help me w. my probs...but...my mom absolutly HATES her and wont let me hang out w. her and doesnt want me on the phone w. her that much any more becuz she thinks shes a " bad influence" or some shit like that but i didnt tell neone this to my friend cuz she is the truest friend i have and i dont wanna stop bein friends w. her....wat do i do? (link)
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tell ur mom wut u just sed.. shes about the truest friend u have and u dont no wut u'd do without her.. tel ur mom u dont understand why she wood think shes a bad influence but shes not bad at all .. tel ur mom if she wants u to have good friends, ta let u have this one -_' hope i helped
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I really like this guy and he really likes me. The problem is, he lives about 3 hours away. So if we did go out I wouldn't be able to see him very often. I talk to him on the phone and online everyday. I'm thinking about just asking him out. Do you think our relationship could last? (link)
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if you guys reele like eechuther enuff, itll definitley last. you cood find time and make sure u guys can see eechuther more, 3 hrs away or not. go for it hun, ask him out. if u dont.. u never no wut ur missing out on
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Recently, I broke up with my boyfriend because I was always thinking of someone else. I know it's a lame excuse for breaking up with someone, but, that's why I did it. Do you think it was wrong to do? Because..my ex still wants me back. Believe me, he's tried everything he possibly can. I just..I can't do it. I know that if I go back to him I'll never be thinking about him, but another guy. And to be honest, I'm not too fond of my ex, but he's disgustingly obsessed with me. Oh my god, seriously. Lmao. So someone help me, here. (link)
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well.. its ussually okay ta think about someone else even when ur going out with someone, just as long as u dont do nething with that other person. buttt id say it is good u broke up with him just incase people end up getting hurt and all .. and if ur just gunna b thinking of a totally different guy while being with ur bf, i dont think theres reele any point to the relationship hah.. nah i think u did the right thing
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What would you say is a good 'diet' type of deal to go on? One that might actually work and wont make me die cuz it aint healthy or w/e. And, what do you think would be a good exercise routine, as far as like things to do everyday and such. Any help, comments, w/e are appreciated. Unless you have the 'get off your butt and computer and do something' comment, i didnt ask for smart remarks! :) (link)
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well i dont no if u have a tredmill but if u do, go on that everyday. thats wut i do now.. and i dunno if u have like an exercise bike or somehting but if u do, try that also.. or u can take walks around the block or ride ur bike aroundd.. or it helps when u have a place walkable near u cus then u feel ur walking there ta get sumthing.. and while ur doing it, ur losing weight hehe.. also just eat better, not as much junk food if u eat alot.. thats my advice for u '_-
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hey im 16 and im a male, girls.....this one is for you, is a guy being to nice to you a good thing or a bad thing, nice to a point where hes a real gentleman, opening doors for you, wlaking you to the door step, paying for your ticket and maybe sometimes dinner, depends on the occasion, is that a turn on or turn off about a guy, i thought it was a turn on??? (link)
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aw.. wel its reele cute ta do that and for me itd b a turn on.. people are different tho. some people dont like it and some people think its sweet. its just you dont hafta get carried away cus then its not cute anymore. when you act like the girl has no hands and she cant open the door by herself.. cute is one thing, but when your still doing everything for her even after a cuple weeks n all, then its just anoying.. hope i helped?
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Me and my gf broke up and like a week after we broke up she wrote this really sweet note in her journal to my future gf telling them basicly that they should never let me go and that i was this really sweet and awsome guy. was it wrong for me to break up wit her sometimes i get confused. (link)
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well i guess i guess it depends on why u broke up with her.. it seems like she reele likes u tho and she reele misses u so going by the journal, it seems like u shood go back out with her. but again, it kind of depends on wut she did. if its something serious and way outta hand, then u did the right thing. but if u dont reele have a reason ta break up with her.. definitley go back out. it sounds like ur missing out on someone who loves you -_' hope i helped
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well all year this girl has wanted to fight me but she never duz....she always called me a slut and everything well now she has my number and she calls me all the time bitching and threatning to beat my ass and i dont know what to do...i want to leave this town im just not happy here anymore plezz help me (link)
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eh.. i say get ur number changed and tell ur parents if u havent already. im sure this girl is all talk anyways cus if she were ta beat ur ass or w/e she sed, she wood have alredyy. but if shes really scaring you, you should change ur number and tell your family and all .. hope i helped!
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My name is Trish, And Me and my friend Mariana got into a fight over the stupidest reason and I really don't want to be in a fight with her. We were really good friends and I talk to her everyday and laugh about everything with her but she took our argument a little too seriously, I do not know what to do to make her forgive me because she seems like she does not care that we are not friends. What could make her want to be my friend again? (link)
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aw .. im actually going through a very very very similar thing with my friend. im sure she dus care alot about being friends with you.. its known that the people who take there time arguing with you, are the ones who care the most about you. im sure u got the rong idea and im sure she dus wanna b ur friend. things get sed when people are mad so maybe thats why u got that impression. what cood make her wanna b ur friend again? TALK TO HER. thats all u can do.. tell her u wanna b friends and u think fighting over something so stupid is getting way outa hand. hope i helped
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hey there is this boy that i really like but he only like me as a friend and i have knowend for like forever! and so what can i do to amke it all better?
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honestly, theres not much you can do. if he only like u as a friend, well you can look on the bright side are remind u ur atleast friends. maybe over time things will change but for now, theres nothing you can do besides not b urself and u wanna b urself, k? hope i helped
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