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whats wrong with being a catholic girl..
Nothing.
ok there is this guy i like named Chris, and i love him so much, and we have talked a lot and all. but i asked him out and he said "no". but i got so attached to him, that when he turned me down i started to take razors and cut my arm, and i still do. and i want to stop but it helps to controll pain. how do i stop?Note:i am 14/female. i rate 5 to anyone who answers!
Don't hold the emotions in, thats whats making you cut yourself. Move on. Get interested in another guy, stop obsessing over this one that doesn't give you the time of day, MOVE ON!
Okay, question! How do you ask someone out without being totally obvious? And is there any way to get someone else to ask you out first? (A trick maybe?) Because, I can't be one-hundred percent sure he likes me back, so I don't want to completly embarras myself. We only really see each other in school, and don't know each other very well, but there is some sort of spark. Please help?
Take Nike's advice: Just do it.
Okay, I know I shouldn't have but I did!! Everyone told me not to do it but I did it anyway. I popped about 4 pimples because they were huge and just staring at them made me feel grossed out. When I popped them it swelled up and had puss coming out of them. Is there anything you can use to make the swelling stop and to shrink or not to show real badly. Please don't tell me to use coverup, makeup and all those acne scrubs. Tell me an ingrediant something you can put on the pimple that you can make out of everday items. thanxz, please hurry!!
The guy isn't interested in 4 pimples you popped, he could probally give less of a shit. Don't worry about it and wear makeup or whatever you girls do. It's not as big as you make it out to be.
ok...for the last day of school, before break, i wore white pants...because they were white, i work a thong...im not a slut, so i dont let it hang out, and i usually wear a belt with my pants, but these were nice pants that i didnt need a belt for...well during lunch, i was walking up to my friend and my guy friend wanted to hug me from behind, but ended up steping on my pants adn everyone saw i was wearing a thong. he didnt pants me, but some people saw the string...i know its not bad to wear thongs, but that was a pretty embarassing situation, and i didnt want everyone knowing. tommorow i go back to school, and i dont want everyone laughing at me...what do i do?
They've probally forgot about it. It's not a big deal, so they saw your underwear, no big deal.
ok.. i dunno what to do. me and my bf well he used to live here, and he moved to florida. and we talk all the time, every free minute he has, we are talking. and, he has been talkin to me bout movin to florida when i graduate this summer. and i dunno what to do. i keep thinkin bout it. but all that comes out of it is negative things. like.. what if he dont wanna b with me no more. b/c i dont have a car or anything and he said he would put me on his insurance, and help me find a job and stuff.. but then it just worries me that he will like a girl that looks better than me. i dunno what to do.. there is alot more but i dont feel like sayin it all
Trust is the foundation of a relationship, if you both don't have it, there is no relationship. Unless you have previous suspicions of his infidelity, you shouldn't think he would leave you for the next girl that comes along.
i like this guy.. and he likes me too.. well see he says that he likes me but he doesnt want to get together.. whats wrong with him!?!?
Don't ask us, ask him.
MI go to Texas like, every summer. And two years ago my older cousin met a boy (let's call him ****). He hung out with us, and I didn't think much about him. This year they became A LOT closer. They love each other. And now that I think about it, **** is really hot and funny and nice. I LIKE him. And my cousin has him, what do I do??
You don't do anything. Simple as that.
i have a boy that i dated. i'm so hurt by the break up i don't no wnat to do.I'm a 13 year old . as soon as we broke up he went straight to this little nobody that i hate i wish i could break her arm but it shouldn't be her i'm mad at the boy.what should i do to get back at him?
Simple asnwer, don't get back at him. If he sees you try to get back at him, he will be satisfied that you are upset over the breakup. Best thing you can do is leave it be and go on with your life like nothing happened. It's hard, but not impossible.
whats being Molested (or however you spell it)??????? Please answer!!!!
Being sexually touched/abused by an adult.
when it comes to asking ppl out...am i wrong to think that guys should ask the grls out? be serious plz..
Guys ususally do ask girls out, but it always catches us guys by surprise when a girl turns the tables and asks us out. Some guys are shy and for that reason don't ask a girl out. Thats when a girl should take iniative and ask him out.
I have a friend, sarah, and she has a boyfriend, john that I'm good friends with. Suddenly though, shes using me because her parents wont let her see john! i became some sort of lifeline, i call and she tells me what to say to john, she can be demanding, and im so f'ing sick of her shit. Should i ditch her? and also, i'm one of her only friends, people talk abotu her behind her back and stuff. keep her or lose her? any tips on making new friends? also, i dont want to end my friendship with john, he hanst doen anything wrong, but im sick of being used by sarah
thank you in advance, I'll rate you all
~Allysa
Have you tried talking to Sarah? Once it is brought in the light that she is using you, she may apologize and you will still be able to keep her as a friend. Talk to her, its the best thing you can do.
If that doesn't work, then you can always just tell her that you aren't her friend anymore.
Sorry this is long, i rate high though! :)
The guy i used to date over the summer on and off started REALLY hitting on me last night. He practically offered for me to have sex with him (dont worry, i wouldnt have sex, but i could tell he wanted to do something with me) Then he told off this person for me that was pissing me off. And he said i owed him one. And I asked what he wanted from me. And he said he wanted to make out with me. (Keep in mind this was online so we couldnt have made out right then and there) So i said ok, because i still have feelings for him. Then a little later i asked if he liked me, or just wanted to make out with me. And he said "I dunno, never thought about it..." What do you think about all of this? Should i go for it?
No no no. You shouldn't go for that, can't you see that he is just using you? Don't even think about giving him what he think is "owed" to him. By his answer when you asked if he likes you, you can tell he is just some scumbag who wants some action. Find yourself a guy that won't do that to you, one that respects you and treats you nice.
This is a pretty long question, but you can look at the last paragraph which basically is the question. The rest is background information.
When I was 15, I was diagnosed with Anorexia Nervosa and had to go to a rehabilitation centre to recover. When I entered rehab, I was 30 kg (Around 67 pounds). When I left, I was 45 kg (Around 99 pounds), which I maintained as my weight for 2 years.
Now, I try to take care of my body more. I've always been pretty fit since I've been taking dance lessons since I was 4 and yoga since I was 11. I recently took up pilates and joined my school track team. And lost 3 kg (Around 7 pounds).
My mum is now convinced I am still anorexic and is going to send me back to rehab after I turn 17. I don't want to go back, but my mother won't believe it when I said I wasn't anorexic. She refuses to reason or even listen.
I have tried to eat more to prove her wrong, but she just believes I am binging (eating large amounts of food now and starving myself later), which is completely false.
I also have a therapist who notes what I eat daily, which I think is pretty extreme. And, basically, all she does it force me to eat more and more.
I'm scared I actually will gain weight to the point where I resort back to anorexia, which I do not want to happen. Please help to make my mum see I am not anorexic without giving up the physical programs I love or stuffing myself silly!
Your mom is just trying to protect you. She is afraid of possibly losing you. If you know deep down that you are not anorexic, sit her down and tell her. If she doesn't listen get your therapist to reassure your mother that you are no longer anorexic. Parents can be overly-assuming many times, and this sounds like that kind of case.
I have this boyfriend, he's a great guy and everything but hes REALLY shy. He hasn't held my hand or anything. I know he likes me a lot and I also like him a lot. His shyness is hard to deal with because I am completely opposite. All of his friends have told him that he needs to be less shy and I told him there is no reason to be shy around me because I'm not going to get mad at him or anything but he is still shy! Its killing me!! What to do?! Thanks for the help!!! Have a nice day! :D
Hah, sounds like you're talking about me. Im a very shy guy, so I know how it is to have people telling you to stop being so shy. For us, it's just hard, it just takes a little time for us to suck up the courage inside of us to get out of our comfort zone. But it will happen, trust me. It just takes some time.
Best thing you can do is be assertive, you start making some moves, us shy guys love that.
ok im 18 years old and im a guy. my question is ... when am i gonna start to grow a beard? my beard hasnt come in at all and ive never shaved ever in my life. Its kinda sad really, shouldnt it be in by now? All my friends shave all the time. any ideas?
Don't worry about it, consider yourself actually lucky you don't have to shave every day.
Then again if you want facial hair, then I can only tell you to wait. I didn't start to get mine until I was 16, and even now, its mostly peach fuzz that I have to shave off, not for growing beards and stuff with.
To all the guys: why is it that you like girls/ what is it that makes you ask them out?
i think right now i just need to know that not all guys are shallow.
I'd like to think of myself as not shallow, so I'll give you my opinion.
The initial thing I notice is her face, one of the greatest physical features of a girl is her face.
The second thing I notice is her personality, a girls personality is the single most important thing she has, and it decides whether or not I ask her out.
All of the other stuff isn't really important I'd say. Anyways, good luck!
hey im sorry but this is guna sound SO GROSS but just hear me out and if u can help, plz do hehe:
okay its thursday and Ive been dieting since last sunday..i eat 3 healthy meals a day..breakfast around 7 in the morning, lunch around 12 30 n the afternoon, and an early dinner around 5:00..so its a good diet..but the thing is, in the past 4 days, Ive only gone to the bathroom [number 2] like twice and ive been kinda constipated...is there a problem? sorry i know this is nasty..
Eating a lot of bread in your diet (I think) causes constipation. You might wanna put a little more variety in your diet. Don't eat more, just eat a larger variety of foods.
I didn't know what to put for this catagory, but I wanted to tell you that you have really pretty eyes!! xokaylanicoleox
Thanks
ok well i usually dont write on these things but theres this guy in my class and im not sure how to tell what he thinks of me. he looks at me sometimes in class and he smiles at me when i look at him. and sometimes when i turn around hes looking at me and then we both kind of look away. hes really cute and id love to know if he likes me back. yall please tell me some signs so i can figure out what hes thinking. i know im not ugly .. actually lots of guys think im hot (not trying to make my self sound cool or something) but i just want to know what you think about why he always is looking at me and smiling.
That usually means that he likes you, confront him and ask him, guys love that.