Whats up? I'm Faith. Ask me whatever the hell you want. I'll answer. But don't expect me to tell you what you want to hear, you'll get the truth, the way I see it, and probably my opinion too. If you want candy coating, that ain't my style.
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I'm fifteen years old and completely in love with a twenty-one year old guy. We have both liked each other for about 2 years now. However, the guy I like has never acted upon his feelings because of my age. He respects me, which isn't a bad thing. But how can I make him see that I'm mature enough to be his girlfriend? How could I coax him to get into a relationship with me? (link)
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I can understand the situation you are in, when I was sixteen I had a long term relationship with someone 20 years older than me. (Trust me, he was a hottie and worth it) But because of age constraints, he was always worried he'd be busted by the cops. So look at it this way, it is really great that he respects you. But give him that SAME respect back and respect the fact that he doesn't want to be looking over his shoulder all of the time for the feds because, yes, honey, more than likely it is a crime to have intimate relations with someone who is a minor in your state. That means you are jail bait. If he has been worth the wait for two years now, it shouldn't be too hard to wait until you are 18. I know it seems forever, but it'll pass by faster than you can even imagine.
The fact that you are looking to coax (a.k.a. pressure) him into a relationship shows that you are in fact not quite as mature as you believe - and not as mature as you want him to believe. Respect his wishes, let him know you are interested, but don't push it. If it is meant to be, it will happen, regardless of age. But don't pressure him or seduce him, that could only push him away.
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female/15 ok this guy that i have been going out with for almost a year really wants to have sex, so do i though. I just am not quite sure if i should be having sex yet...what do you think? i really want to and i love him SOOOOO much! yes or no (link)
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The fact that you are doubting it should be a red flag to you. Do not do it unless you are 100% sure you want to. Just because he wants to doesn't mean you have to. And if he loves you too, he will respect your boundaries and wait till you feel that you are ready. I won't say you are too young, or that you should wait till you are older... Just wait till you know it is absolutely right and you won't have any regrets.
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I usually apply black eyeliner ( just one layer ) very near the ends of my eyelids ( the part where your eyelashes grow from ) . I would like to know if someone taller than me would be able to see my eyeliner . =) (link)
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I'd suggest asking someone taller than you. But the real answer is that it probably depends on your eyes (brow bone, deep set, eyelid) and whether or not your eyes are closed.
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If there are no stupid questions, then what kind of questions do stupid people ask? Do they get smart just in time to ask questions? (link)
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I think a question about stupid questions might very well fall into that category.
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is it just me, or is everyone getting really annoyed with people asking alicia questions. please someone ask a question or put a comment that doesn't involve 'alicia you're so pretty' or 'i want to be just like you'. it's soooo annoying me now, please if you want to ask her questions use email, don't clutter up the site's space with this rubbish!
P.S if you're alicia, please answer because i would like to know what you think of all this. thanx. (link)
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OMG I liek love Alicia!!!!!!!!!!!!
(/sarcasm)
Yes, everyone, please stop addressing compliments to Alicia, start addressing them to me. Thanks.
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if you could be anyone in the world alive or dead who would u be? (link)
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Eliza Dushku or Angelina Jolie
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I have been hearing ( or rather reading ) loads about someone called "Alica" ? Who is she ? (link)
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Don't listen to the voices in your head.
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I'm a 21 year old college student with a male friend, 23, who I have known for 3 years now. He asked me several times for a booty call. I've always said no regardless of the fact that I've had a minor crush on him all along (he knows this). Recently during one of our marathon discussions, he told me I knew him better than he knew himself... Could it be possible that he's put his booty call days behind him? (link)
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Probably not... But there are ways to use your position of 'knowing him better than himself' to your advantage.
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when you shave *down there* do you ever get shaving bumps or whatever you want to call them? i do :-/ i dont know what to do about them (link)
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First of all, shave with the direction of the hair, not against it. This will almost entirely eliminate the irritation. Secondly, exfoliate the area when you are showering between shaving so the hair folicles don't get plugged and cause an ingrown hair.
The more you shave the less irritation will be caused since your skin gets used to it.
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I have had my period since I was 7 I am now 12, I have it for about 2-3 weeks at a time and I hate it!! What helps it to slow down? (link)
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I suggest getting on the pill. This will help regulate your cycle to 28 days. Later in life when you are no longer growing (late highschool and on) there are other ways to speed it up. Asprin thins the blood so it will make the flow heavier and faster, but it will also take much less time, but I do not suggest you do this since you are 12.
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Hey Advice columnist i was wondering if you coud help me with a problem I have.
Okay I'm a 14 year old gurl and have had my period sence I was 12, But I have always used pads. What my question is, there really as many risks to using tampons than just pads? my mother keeps saying that they'er awful and that they can get stuck. I have done my home work and know that they'er is very slim chance of getting TSS. But what I want to know is do they really get stuck? I don't believe that they do but I'm asking this for a reason to make sure.
I'm jsut so tired when i have my period that im wet. EWWW!!! and summer will come and I can't go to pool parties with my period unless Im wearing a tampon.
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Honey, use tampons! They can't get stuck and your mother is following some crazy myths. Since you've never used them before, get some with the applicator first (I suggest Tampax) and follow the instructions. If you mother wants to deal with pads, that is fine, but don't let her delusions stop you from having fun at the pool parties.
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Here is my scenario: I'm 18 and I have only had my period for less than 2 years. I have never had sex. My period has never been normal or regular and it pretty much comes and goes as it pleases. Sometimes I don't have it for months and months at a time. As of now, I havent had it for at least 3 months now. My problem is that I think that when I was fooling around with someone (not having sex) that semen may have managed to go through a layer of clothing and maybe make its way inside me.
Since I havent had a period since god knows when - I have no idea if the little soldiers got in or not. After that night in question I encountered the tiniest bit of blood - barely considered a 'drop' and that was it. That was the main reason I thought it might have been conception.
Recently, I have been eating a lot more but I haven't really gained any weight. My breasts may have gotten bigger but they were sore for at least a week straight.
I'm wondering if these things could mean that I am pregnant. I have been under a lot of stress so I am thinking maybe that is the reason why I haven't had my period for a long time and that maybe my body is just finally deciding to develop which accounts for the breasts thing.
I'm very worried because not only would being pregnant ruin my life and a baby's life, but my boyfriend would clearly break up with me because we have never had sex and he will probably assume I was with some other guy behind his back. Not to mention the cazillion other reasons why its bad.
Are there any tell-tale signs that might help me to know or at least put my mind at ease before going to see a doctor? (link)
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I doubt you are pregnant. Never have I heard of semen getting through clothes and into the vagina. If you are in doubt, take an OTC pregnancy test. However, you might want to consider seeing a doctor to start taking some form of birth control. Not just for the nice assurance of not being pregnant, but it also will give you a regular cycle.
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ok how do i get bigger boobs without having a boob job? i hwear a size 36A and im 13 but my my freshman yeari wantr at least a 38A or 40A so can someone please help me?? how do i get bigger boobs!!!!WITHOUT HAVING A BOOB JOB (link)
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You. Are. Only. Thirteen.
I know everyone else has said this, but you won't have massively huge breasts all of a sudden. Give it time. Some women don't mature until they are out of highschool. You aren't supposed to look like Britney, Christina, Jessica, Lindsey, or Hillary right now. And before you start contemplating sugery, learn about your bra sizes: 36A, 38A, and 40A are ALL THE SAME SIZE. Don't turn to medication to enhance your bust, it is a waste of money. If your female relatives are well endowed, you will be too. If not, in time you will begin to appreciate your own body. And trust me, not all men like big boobs.
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Trichotillomania, a disorder where one pulls out their hair. I havent officially been told that i have it. But i also have never admitted to anyone besides my mom, dad and sister that i have a problem. It started when i was in elementry when i knotted up my bangs and tore away the knots. Now i just pull and pull, usually during class sometimes when im online, just when im bored. Trich is not about self injury, its something someone notices they do or they can do it without being aware. I pull my hair without the knowledge that im doing it. Its a very hard thing to deal with, its more of hiding it untill the hair grows back in the balding spots. I feel so ashamed that im not good enough to get over it, ive read that people go through their whole lives with it, i worry, i dont want to be plaqued with this curse for my whole life.
My habit seemed to have died when school started up this year but then recently it returned. It began all in one class period. I must have sat there the whole class and pulled and pulled untill the hair was very thin on one side. When it comes back it gets worse, because my self esteem becomes very low and that doesnt help the stress, if thats what triggers it.
I am considering going to a counsellor, but im not sure. I dont know anything about if they put that kind of stuff on a record when you want to join a college or get a job. If so will they turn you down because you have a disorder? Will they put me on anti-depressants? I dont want to be put on meds, i just want someone to talk to, maybe even ways to prevent doing it. Any help on how to prevent me pulling my hair out and what happens when you confront a counsellor about a disorder would being very nice. (link)
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I would suggest seeing a psychologist. They cannot give you medication but they CAN give you someone to talk to who might have a bit more background in the field than a counselor. Also, the fact that you have told your family about it means you have a support system, which is the most imprtant thing. And not place of employment or higher education institution will have access to this information. Whatever you say to a psychologist stays confidential with them unless they detect a risk of serious harm to you... Serious like suicide, not pulling your hair out.
The best way to tackle this will be having someone to talk to and a strong support system... Drugs might temporarily cure the symptoms but they rarely cure the disorder.
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Allright, I have recently started taking ADDERALL(ADD drug), which goes against all my beliefs, but this way I can stay at my current school which I love. I have an agreement with my parents if I take it I can stay at my current school. But, today after it started kicking in I heard voices. It started in geography, we were talking about Sharon the butcher of Israel. Someone in my head, who was me but not started telling me about how eyes are made of glass and Sharon took out his victims eyes and put them on a wall. It chanted, "Wall of eyes" until I screamed so loud in my head I was suprised no one heard me. It never shut up, unless I was talking to someone, but once I stopped it started. It's hard to explain, it was like I was saying it to myself, but it wasn't me. It's worn off by now, but I think it is making me insane. I don't want to stop taking it, but it is making me completely diffrent. Should I tell my parents? Should I stop taking it? my grades are better. Is it worth it? (link)
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Stop taking it and tell your treating doctor that you are having severe side effects. I don't think it is right of your parents to have this ultimatum over your head. ALL mental health drugs can be very touchy. In fact, no one honestly knows how they work (I am a psych major so I am studying these things). If you feel the need to be on a drug to contain the ADD, try something else, it may take several different medications to find the right one.
I wish you the best with this. Keep in mind when you turn 18 you can legally refuse any treatment of any kind... Unfortunately, until then, your parents have the say.
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Before having a child i have never "farted" through my vagina. however my child is one and ever since i had him, right after sex this happens to me. i am about to have another child and am wondering:
Will it get worse with another child?
What causes this?
And most importantly
HOW DO I GET IT TO STOP?
it kills the moment and is embarrasing. (link)
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My friends and I call this 'queifing' - not sure if that is the technical term for it or not. It is from air getting trapped inside your vagina. The two best ways I can think of to stop is are keigel (spelling might be wrong) exercises that help strengthen the vaginal muscles. Another way is to try a different position. I've found that the position you are in while having sex can have a large impact on that.
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i babysit this child whom is eleven. She is a very impresionable child, she goes on to the internet to meet boyfriends and cuts herself.what should i do? (link)
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Tell her parents who can get her professional help. Cutting herself is not healthy at all, and is a way to ground herself into the real world. Don't dismiss the fact that she has internet boyfriends either. They may be on the internet now, but she may start to meet them in real life. If she cuts herself to ground herself in reality, she will need to see the people in person as well as another way to ground herself.
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i'm 14 and i've had sex 15 times with 16 different people(threesome) and 13 of them are members of my family(aunts, uncles, cousins, mom, dad, sister, brother, dog, etc.) and now i might be pregnant and i don't know who the father is(obviously not girls) what if it's like half dog? is that possible? HELP ASAP
thanx
write back asap (link)
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I frickin hope this is a joke... Cause I ain't laughing. In fact, I just threw up a little in my mouth. But here is the straight answer in case this is serious:
I think you need to see a therapist. At school or elsewhere not connected with your family. Get a pregnancy test from a free clinic. In the chance that you are pregnant and have the support from people NOT in your twisted family and you decide to raise the child, get a paternity test. Hopefully, you can get the adults in your family thrown in jail for statutory rape., and a therapist for the minors.
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I did it with my dog last week. He's good at it, but can I get pregnant from doing it with a dog? Could my babies be deformed? Could I get sick from doing this? (link)
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It's biologically impossible to get pregnant from a different species. So no your babies would not be deformed. I think you already are sick for doing this.
Go out and find a boy toy, please, for the sake of the human race. Or if you can't get a boy, at least get yourself some vegtables and experiment with those rather than an animal.
I pity your dog, I really do.
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please what is the average and biggest size of penis,and do penis size really matters durring sex? (link)
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From what I have heard, the largest ever recorded was around 12 inches and the smallest was over an inch. As for the average, it is usually 6.5 inches.
Length shouldn't matter. Occasionally girth could be an important variable. But overall it is how the guy uses it, not how he is equipped.
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