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i am 15 years old and i have a boyfriend and i dont take other peoples boyfriends away (like lostgrl616 thinks i do) man what a great friend she is?but i have a newphew and he is 2 years old and i have one brother and he is getting married in augest which his soon to be wife also has a child and he is also 2years old i like to play softball and hang out with friends and ride my four wheeler look at cars go to the movces shop and i have 9 piercings all im my ears and i want my nose pierced and also my belly button but i hope you can understand a little bit more about me and people call me desirae or desi or des

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14/F I seem to get pimples on my back. I hate them allot if I wear a low cut shirt in the back the show. but the thing I am worried about is that at school we a formul dances when we have to wear nice dresses but all the dresses come like rite above you butt so my pimples show and my hair is always pulled up because me hair looks bad if it is down so is there any thing like cleanser I can use to get red of the pimples on my back asap I will rate 5 if you actually try to help

umm you can get proactive but tht cost like alot of money but there is this thing that is the exact same thing that you can get at walmart or target calledacne free and it comes with a cleanser lotion adn mostirizer and a thing for black heads thats what i use you can use it on your face back and chest

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If you had a choice would you get a BMW or Corvette?

corvette all the way they are such hott as cars

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I have really wavy hair, and i straighten it everyday for school. does anyone have a straightener that would straighten my hair easily and not damage my hair

welll you can by this straigting hair stuff when your hair is damp put it in then blow dry it and they if its like fuzzy or sumthing you can straighten it but i have a new straignter from walmart cost 25.00 and you can straighten your hair when its wet or dry it works on both and it dont damge as much as all the other oones

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14/f
summer is coming up and i am going to be swimming ALOT. i got my period at the very end of last summer so i didnt have to worry about swimming. but now that this summer is getting closer i am considering tampons so i can swim whenever i want. my questions are what brand of tampons are best and should i start now so i will be more confortable or will it matter?

thank you.

Tampax is the way to go!!!!
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Hi,
I get a LOT of pimples on my chin and it like sucks loads! I never ever pick them or anything but they always scar, no where else on my face, just my chin. Why is this and what can I do to get rid of the scars? I don't wanna buy loads of expensive treatment things.

ok this may be expensive but it works proactive i have heard from alot of people it is the best maybe you should try it or wash your face every day that may help to
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I have been off and on with this girl named Lindsey for about a year we really loved eachtoiher but me being a guiy screwed everything up.I broke up with her because she likes another guy i still love her but her and this guy may go out i dont know what to really do i love her and she doesnt know if she loves me or not help me

well if she doesnt love you that is her fault ok and you did they right thing breaking up with her she isnt being fair to you if she says she loves you and likes another guy but i think that you can find a better person then her if you ever need to talk about it im me at behindblueyes409 muh email is behindblueyes409@aol.com i hope i helped and things worked out
desirae -drjwlc4
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Alright well last year I was on two leagues. I played softball for the school and for southside. When I played last year i got SO sick of it and I wanted to quit one league I never did. Now since its winter and like cold out ive been DIEING to play softball. I have one brother but hes never home, so I cant play catch with him and I have one friend who likes softball but can hardly ever hang out.And I took socks and rolled them up together and Im a pitcher, so I put a target on my wall and was pitching to my wall for an hour but it got boring , but i stil want to play catch or hit the ball or something what can I do? Sorry if its long.

hey ok i kno what you mean i play sball to and our team won state 3 times and dont think i am guna play nemore like winter i want to play in the summer i dont so i am not sure what to do but for you go to awlmart or sumthing and and buy a net you can play catch with that it will throw the ball back to ou and it works good one of muh friends has it but i hoped i helped and i hope that you kno what i am talking about!
-desirae-drjwlc4

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i need suggestions for the use of self tanner. like, my face and neck, should i do those? i mean... if i dont it will l;ook weird and if i screw up it will look weird, u know? my mom got me this spray gun thing i dono how to use it! o man, i need help right now! please. : )

well you can go to walmart and they have really good ones i dont know the names but they have like instant bronzer by like the deodriants or make up they work really good or you can go to sally buety supply they will help you also hope i helped rate me
desirae drjwlc4

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Hey does anyone know of any great websites that I can make my own free website but as good as this awesome website or as good as www.bored.com?I will rate a five for everyone who names a website for me!!!

umm yeah you can go to www.freewebs.com and its a pretty good website thats were i made mine hope i helped rate me
drjwlc4_desirae_

ok i deleted mine but here is my best friends have a look at it www.freewebs.com/kadenza

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My like bff asked me out and I cant picture him as my bf but i dont want to say no but i dont want to say yes so wat do i say?????

hey well u need to just say you like beging friends better then bf and gf because u dont want to hurt him so just say that!!it will work he will understand!!hope i helped rate me
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Ok, i found out my boyfriend may have been doing drugs. he told my friend he did but im hopeing he didnt he told me he didnt dot hings like that.im trying to figure out how to talk to him about this but im not sure how to.
(Erin if you can help me talk to him or holly please do)

well he can be telling you that he doesnt do drugs but then he will tell his friends that he does cause he if tells you he does he thinks that you will beak up with him and he doesnt want you to break up with him so just keep asking him i am sure he wont lie and he could of told your friends he did because he wanted to look cool
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Alright, theres this guy and we were talking and i was like what are you doing this weekend? and he was like nothing.. then he was like you? i was like nothing.. then i was like do you wanna do something this weekend? he was like yeah sure! so we are going to the movies and we are inviting friends and all but.. he seems like his is into me and stuff but on his profile it says "looking for a valentine" i mean hes always like i cant wait to go to the movies so i can hold your hand or i cant wait to go to the movies so i can kiss you and stuff.. WHAT DOES THIS MEAN!??!

it means that he wants you to be your valentine but he may ask you when u go to the movies or on valentimes day if you will go out with him hope i helped rate me
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hey okay...i need help BIG time! ok well like i like this guy he is in 10th grade and i am in 8th grade and we are neighbors and have been friends but like we kinda are goin for the more than friends kinda thing but like this guy i went out with in like october likes me again but he hurt me really bad and like..idk who to still go for or just ignore both or wat?? PLEASE HELP!!! IDK!!!
love r

well if that guy hurt you then you need to go for they other guy i am sure that he will treat you right hope i helped
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this is my first time to put a tampon in and i was just wondering if i can pee while having a tampon in. please help!

read the instructions they tell you every thing hope i helped
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i have a best friend and my best friend likes this guy but i like him 2 but she dosent no i do. what do i do? if i like him and he likes me i dont no if she would be mad.

if you want to stay friends with her then i think that you should back off the guy but if the guy dont like her then you find out that he likes tyou then you can go for him because you dont want your freinds to be mad at you
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I don't know what to do!! i have till thursday to decide whether or not to play cello in 9th grade. Cuz registration is on thursday. My stand partner wants me to stay in so she wont be the only girl...but i hate practicing.. So i don't know what to do. Help me!

dont play if you dont want to i would play a differnet insterment hope i helped rate me
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I was invited to a black tie event for the first time my escort is wearing black and white so what should i wear im 5'5 132 pounds should i go with a short dress or long one please help.

i think that you should wear a short black or white dress its the way to go
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Im going to make this shrot I want to get him a cookie that says kiss kiss on it and i dont know if that is a good idea. I just want something that noone really does im not wierd or anything I just dont want the old hear is a box of chocolates happy valentines day i want a haha a cookie. funny. sort of memorable thing. But i still want it to be thoughtful. I was thinking a card, cookie, and a small box of chocolates. Dumb idea?

that is a very good idea i think that he will like it i think that it is cute well hope that i helped
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im selling my house through buy owner and they gave me a standard agreement for sale form. I dont have a clue how to fill this out. Is there somewhere i can get free help?
Thanks so much

well you can probley go to google .com i am sure that they will help you out with like a lot of stuff so i hope i helped you out
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my dog bites alot, we can not stop him. sometimes he is good somtimes he is bad. how do i cure his problem?

maybe if you get like a newspaper rwrap it up with tape and smack him or show it to him if he tries to bit you again or get him a muzzle well i hope i helped rate me
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