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Q: Ok I believe I have a virus on my computer. The sreen goes black and it says "No Signal Input" Then it restarts itself. And this happens all the time. I have McAfee virus scan and when I scan my computer it doesn't find anything. Is it possible that its not being noticed by the virus scan. and if it is a virus how do I get rid of it?
to get rid of a virus that a scan wont fix you HAVE to reconfiguare your computer or other wise know as wiping out the memory.

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Q: my hair is completely recked from straightening my hair everyday. i love to wear my hair straight. so what are absolutely amazing shampoos and conditioners and like soothing milks that i could use to make my hair look unfrizzy soft and silky? and also, fix all my dead ends. please help! i rate 5 just for answering
dove, pantien, or tresemme

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Q: Is it normal to be depressed most the time when your a teenager is that a natural thing or are u soppose to be all happy and shit? i'll rate, just a little curious
everyone feels different but your probaly in a hole but thes always a light at the end of the tunnel!

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Q: I used to see a guy from other country for no more than 2 weeks, i fell in love with him, but he didn't. How can i make him love me, i think he is Mr. Right for me.
love is *cupids* area and cant be broken er...
sorry bout that but you cant make sum1 love you but you could show off for him

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Q: How old do you have to be to get a tattoo? I am a 16/f and I live in WI. If that matters.
im pretty sure 21 but it could be 18

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Q: Ok im 14, 15 in 2 weeks, is it normal that i still hwear a 34A? Everyone of my friends has bigger boobs than i do and when im around them i feel like i dont belong and when were around guys they arent looking at me just because i dont have big boobs. Are they just taking longer to grow. or have i stopped growing and this is how theyre going to stay?
Thanks. =]
they should get bigger and if they dont its not your faught but you should follow close to your moms size

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Q: i heard somewhere that when you have your period you could lose weight..is that true?? cus that'd be pretty awesome haha =)

thanks!!
sorry but i dont think thats true because you regain that blood by your blood cells making more blood

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Q: this will be kind of long but i really need help and will rate high. i basically have no life. i have friends but they all live so far and it's hard to make plans. someone always cancels, or i lose my ride, or something happens. i live in the middle of nowhere and attend a school outside my district. i spend my days and nights alone and i actually got a job so i could feel like i was out for at least a few hours every week. to be honest, i was hoping to make friends at the job but they gave me a job in the back of the store all by myself and that doesn't help either. i try to talk to people at my school and most of them just really don't care what i have to say. i guess i'm just not interesting. three of my friends i have not seen since they left my school and the two i do see are completely disappointing in the sense that they do nothing but emotionally harm me. i need to know how to meet people, and make more friends... i have no idea how to get out and socialize if i can't do that at work and school. i just need some advice because i feel like giving up on life. all i really want is someone i can hang out with when i'm not working to escape my pathetic excuse of a life... i don't understand why it's so hard. :-/ please help me.
i guess become more like the kids at your school and ask for a different postition at work and when your old enough travel!

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Q: Just curious, can birth control pills give you cancer? My mom keeps telling me its true and I actually think that they prevent cancer...
i dont think they have anything to do with cancer but im not sure????

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Q: so there is this guy, and he had liked me for 3 years. I never really cared and just went to a bunch of diffrent guys and would always go back to him when things went wrong (so i kinda took advantage of him) then we all went to Jr.high, and now he has all these new freinds who all hate me. we didnt talk for a while but now we talk more and im starting to really like him but he doesnt like me and says i made him hurt somuch and now he just doesnt htink it will work out, but now i really want him back and stuff and i dont know how to change what happend before..any ideas on to sorta make it work between us?
ok well 1st you cant change the past! you must simpley tell him that that was a long time ago and that youve changded!

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Q: does anyone know where i could find straight-leg jeans? for cheap? i rate.
old navy village discount or platos closet

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Q: I am confused. I am a Christian, and I am trying to figure out, well, what "kind" of Christian to be, like a Catholic, Baptist, etc etc.

My question is, what religion are you, Christian-wise (I have nothing against other religions, I promise!), and why? What are some of your beliefs? Thanks!
i am a Christian
i believe in jeuse, god the holy spirit

Q: does anyone know any good dance music thats hiphop and gets everyone crazy?? thanks ;)
ciara and miss eliot is good pop

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Q: Im 98 pounds, but Im small, too. Im about 5'0. So thats normal right? But, I feel like I look overweight. Everyone in my school makes fun of me (in a nice way?) and is like "omg, you get everything because your a stick." or they'll be like "did you eat today?" I eat ALL the time. But I feel like I look fat. When I look in the mirror, I see a pudgy face, big stomach and huge thighs. I dont know WHAT to do. Ive never acted on it but today in math (I was bored, lol) I pushed my tongue to a point below my moler. It made me throw up a little but i swallow & no one noticed. Then, when I got home I did it again. Im afraid of it spiraling into something more serious what do i do!?
i think you should be more confident in the way you look! maybe go out and get new clothes or a makeover? if someone calls you fat just say "your fatter than me so thats callin yourself fat" thats what i do because I am a stick skinny person!

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Q: Ive known this kid for a while lets call him joe. Me and joe have been on and off friends for 3 years now. He really means a lot to me. But he doesnt really know. Were in highschool now and he has a lot more friends now that dont like me so he doesnt like to talk to me when theyre around. My friend just recently told him i liked him like more than a friend. So now he knows and its weird when we talk now. Last summer he sent me pictures of his dick so he said i owed him so about a week ago he made me send him pictures too. He really liked them but hes still not going along with the whole more than friends thing. We almost hooked up a few times but someone else always comes in the way. I really like joe and ive tried getting over him but i cant forget about him. And its christmas break and he told me that we would hang out but he never did ask me. I asked him a few times but he always said he couldnt for some reson. I dont know what to do. I cant forget about him, i think about him all day. Help please? sorry its so long.
im so sorry! :*(
i dont know anything to tell you except...
straight up tell him that YOU like him your self!

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Q: can anyone give me their opinion on AIM Triton compared to AIM 9.5?? i have both but i juss cant seem to decide which one i like more. they both have good quailities & bad quailities. i think AIM Triton looks cooler & AIM 9.5 is so..90's. what do you guys think??

thanks!!
aim triton

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Q: I really feel awful right now so I'll sum it up. When I got to my last class today a friend told me I was really stained. I went to the bathroom and i had blood on the back of my pants. It's so embarrasing. I feel like becoming a hermit crab. Share your experiences with me please.
no this hasnt happened to me but...
one time in class... i burbped really really loud!
i was so embarresed no mortified

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Q: ok before i start i am 13/m

see there is this girl i like and we flirt alot but somtimes she stops talking to me and then all of a sudden she is talking non stop. Should i ask her out or should i just avoid her or should we just be friends. and what does it mean when she stops talking for days at a time (just stops talking to me)
I will rate you good and leave comments
i think she likes you but doesnt want to make you think shes a talky person! i think you should ask her out!
(please respond to me if she says yes or no to you!)

hope i helped!
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Q: I have a HUGE problem it all started on New Years.....well my mom and aunts and cousins all went out for new years eve and me amanda and a girl named katie from Iowa stayed at my cousin kristies house and she didnt tell her mom (my aunt) she bought some vodka for us and us all three got wasted and stoned off our asses and katie called some of her GUY friends to come over to my cousins house and one of our girls was left out (amanda) and katie and i got the two guys and i got the 17 year old and she got the 16 year old and they were sooo hott especially the 17 year old and i feel really bad because i cheated on my boyfriend but the thing is we barely even talk or communicate so it doesnt even feel like we are going out......i dont know if i should break up with him or stay with him because i REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY LIKE the 17 year old and he asked me to be his girl and i said YES....Please anyone tell me what i should do..because i did stuff with the 17 year old.......

P.S. im 15 1/2 (female)
i think you should go out w/ the 17 year old because like you said you dont talk much with your real boyfriend

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Q: In science we have to come up with an experiment of any kind and I can't find one. We have to make a presentation too in like march when it's due and I have to start pretty soon with like.. no ideas... help?
bolcano!
orginalnial

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