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whats a song thts about liking someone buut being too afraid to tell hiimm? (link)
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I think 'Tangled up in Me" By Skye Sweeten is one
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I was thinking about getting a gophone and I was wondering if they had actual music ringtones you can download instead of just the polyphonic ringtones you get through tracfone? Plus if anybody has any recomendations about prepaid phones, that would be great :) Thanks (link)
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Gophones are wayyyyy better than Tracphones. Because with Gophone the cards are only about $20 (the lowest price) and the lowest price with Tracphones are about $30 and they can go a lot quicker so you'd be wasting your money faster
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what does "I know, I am hung like a mouse" mean? (link)
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I've honestly never heard the saying, but it sounds like if somebody would say it, it would mean they're stuck or they've failed.
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ok so I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago and I told him I just wanted to be friends. now I am going out with someone new, but anyways he is always saying how he misses me and wants me back and how he loves me. I think love is a very strong word.We were dating for like 3 weeks and he told me he loved me the 2 week. That kinda freaked me out. And he always wanted me to send naked pics and have sex with him. I never did and that is 1 reason why I broke up with him. He says since we are not together he wants to kill himself. What can I say to cheer him up and help him? (link)
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If he was like really pressuring you to have sex then don't go back to him.
And with the whole suicide thing, he is really just doing it for attention, BUT you should help him because he really is capable of doing it. Call a crisis hotline or talk to a responsible adult who you can trust.
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i have been dating this guy, Jay, for about 3 months now. im not really counting, but anyways...
before we started going out? i was having second thoughts about the whole thing because he did something with another girl. i dont know the whole story. his mom grabbed me aside one night and told me what he told her, but none of it made sense. i have a lot of questions about it but i dont want to ask him because its a very sensitive subject for him. (he was basically raped...and then for some reason the chick told everyone that he raped her. i know, its awful) well, at least by what his mom said, he was kinda raped. he only told me they had sex. i havent talked to girlie girl yet cuz i never talk to her. but. ok, im getting confused....
i know i should just kind of get over this and move on? but its all i ever think about anymore. its giving me nightmares and i keep picturing what it might have been like in my head and i want it to STOP but it wont! i just have to know! its one of those things...but can someone either tell me HOW to get over it or how i can ask him without...i dunno...making him CRY???? (i asked him before and he was close to tears) (link)
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LOL!!!! Okay, first of all I have to say that I highly doubt he had kinda had sex with that girl against his will, and that he raped that girl because she sounds like she talks out of her a**. Don't listen to what his mom says, because what he actually might be twisted around so her little version suits her more.
You should confront her, but don't be all I'm going to kick your ass, or you'll never get the air cleared.
After everything is sorted through, just move on. And those so called are most likely fake, so I would just tell him to suck it up and quit whining.
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So I have a boyfriend and we've been together for almost 4 years. And we have a kid together. He had a bad anger problem so he went to a counselor and got medicine. But he still doesn't have a job. He'll only keep one for 1 week and then quit. He refuses to change a dirty diaper and mind you our daughter is now 1 year old. I feel unappreciated but I don't know if I should break up with him or not? Some days he's really sweet, and then hes totally not. Any advice? (link)
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You should. He refuses to change his own baby's diaper, and he won't get a job. You should tell him straight that if he doesn't start pulling his weight, then he should just leave. You deserve to be treated better like that, and he's really just a person that you don't need in your life.
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what are some other sayings for "smoking weed" (link)
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I think dancing with Mary Jane is one.
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I am dealing with a huge weigh on my shoulders. Last year I went through the hardest time of my life. I had been with my ex-boyfriend on and off for almost a year and a half. He moved away for school but we hook up when he would come home. I ended up pregnant and he made me feel like there was no way to keep the baby. I was in a horrible state with my hormones running wild and all the added stress of school. I was 2 months away from receiving degree. But I knew it was going against everything I believe in.
I feel totally depressed. Its been a year and I still have the pregnancy weight, I feel totally guilty for what I did. It kills me inside to think about what I did. I have no one to talk to because its such a sensitive issue. My friends haven't been through this and I dont want to dwell my issues on them. I lost all my confidence i feel fat and ugly because of what I did. I dont know what to do anymore. I feel totally alone :*( (link)
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I'm only 14, and about a month ago I was about two months pregnant but he/she died because of the medication I was taking after my tumor removal. I know it's not the same in a way but it still hurt. Losing the only thing that belongs to you hurts whether it's your choice or not.
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on tyra banks -
"She is somewhere in her 30s (I think its 34 but I'm not sure) and models retire at a young age (about 25). She is too old to model now."
a girl said that is it true that they do retire?
how come i see other old models like 40s or maybe they just look old
is it possible to be 40 and be a model (link)
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Well yeah because you never really have to retire from being a model, unless you have another type of work you want to do, it's a choice not a requirement.
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Okay before i begin let me just say i am not a boyfriend stealer and i will not take action if he has a girlfriend at that specific point and time...
Okay everyone that i have asked this has not really helped me...so maybe you can...
I live in KY, but my dad lives in IN and i visit him every 6 weeks, and there is a boy there that is friends with my brother. Well this boy got into a fight because some kid was going to stab him, so now he is grounded and his brother, who helped him, is in a detention center. I know it sounds bad, but i dont really think so.
And he has a gf...but from what i hear he really likes me, like a lot, and wants to hang out with me this summer. And people are telling me that because he thinks im cute and stuff and he has a gf he is a player, but i dont neccersarily think so.
So my questions:
1--Do you think he is a player??
2--What should i do about this situation??
And like i said please dont tell me that i need to leave him alone if he has a gf because i know that and im not gonna do it..i dont play that game...or say that its long distance or anything like that...i know its hard but chances are if anything were to happen it would be for three weeks only..while im there..
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Hmh hmh hmh hmh hmh.... well I do think he is a player in a sense that he does have a girl and he's flirting with you, but that's kinda minor to what else could happen if you know what I mean, but then again it's his right to flirt with you. You should hang out with him this summer because there is no harm is doing so unless you know you guys have sex or something. The way he talks about you he's sounding like he's really interested and the way these things usually go he will probably soon break up with his girlfriend but you can never be sure. So the thing you should is that you should go ahead and hang out with him, but if he's not broken up with his girlfriend, don't do any sex related things (just to clarify) because that can bring up some big problems. If I missed anything, send me more questions and I'll answer them. Thanks :)
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Well i ask my friend to hang out everyweekend but everytime i ask her she says soething like "i have to babysit or i have to clean?" and like i really think she doesnt wanna hang out with me but the next day she can hang out with anyone and i dont get it?
(female, 14)
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I'm basically going through the same thing, and I think she is doing it on purpose. If you think she's avoiding you for some reason, don't be afraid to confront her about it. And if she keeps on doing this, then just drop her like I did to my friend. If she's going to act like this then maybe she shouldn't be friends with you at all.
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i have alot of thigh fat, and some belly fat.
I really want to get rid of it within 3 weeks please:]
whats good foods to eat (try to be specific )
and work outs?
I do track after school, so what are some good things to do? (link)
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Well a good thing to do is to do like weight lifting instead of just doing cardio alone and try to go to a sauna a few times that will help you receieve more energy so you could work out a lot more. Another thing to do (and probably the hardest) is to go on this like detox milkshake diet for a month, like nothing else but health shakes.
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help!!!!!
i can't help it! but i am in lov with my prof! he is so smart and witty and he is very warm and kind hearted...... i know many think its wrong but my college doesn't prohibit teacher/student relationships if the student is over the minor age -which i am... WAYYYY past- and if he doesn't teach me (and i just finished my finals!! :D YAYYY)..........
i really really really really really really want to do this... i just don't know how to hint it out... and i know i have to be persistent because professors are more likely to brush off any passes they get for the sake of peace of mind and due to habit... soooo how do i make him feel i am worth it.... class is over now so there is no homework or anything i could take to his office... plus i did that just to make sure that i am in his radar.... i am honestly even considering doing my masters and finding a way to get him to be my supervisor if all else fails.... I DON'T want to wait till i graduate because i am just as good as that (i have one credit to go but am taking 4 extra courses for another degree -i have 3 majorsand a minor!.
i was thinking of writing a thank you email explaining how i liked the course and enjoyed it fully and how i knew i could do better (my parents had problems all through and i had to go to the hospital for some serious health concerns -he knows) and that i hope to see him in future classes....???
this sounds to cheesy i think... what should i do!
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Hmmm if you're asking ways to find out how you could see him more often, then you could possibly apply for an internship of some kind in that area that he teaches.
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Ok, heres the problem. I feel very comfortable with older people then I do with people my own age. The trouble with that is I'm 17 and the people I get along with are like 34-whatever. Well, when I'm at school I literally can't even look up at people. I get so nervous. I mean it's kind of pathetic but I talk to this janitor everyday more then I talk to anyone else in the school. I literally have my head down and I wear like uberly baggy clothes as well. I feel very uncomfortable with myself. I've had a shrink since I was 8 so don't suggest that. And I already take meds which obviously isn't helping. What can I do? (link)
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Ok well start dressing in clothes that do make you feel comfortable, and if you're already wearing clothes that do make you feel comfortable, then go with that. Try to be yourself (obvious answer but if you really try it will work) and talk to people that you're kinda already comfortable with therefore, the more and more you talk to them, the more and more comfortable you'll get with them!
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How can I get guys to like me?
And does anyone have any flirting tips?
or anything to boost my confidence around guys?
Can guys answer this please? (link)
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Fearsome eye contact for just a brief moment could make a guy melt, or when your finished talking to him, toss your hair back as your turning around and walking away.
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I don't know why but I always think that everyone hates me. I used to ask my best friend about this and he always told me that it was all in my head and that people really do like me. However, when I try to hang out with friends in my mind I seem to think that they all hate me. I know people go through stages like this, and I don't think it's so serious that I should be getting help, but is there anything I can do to fix things?
-Male, 16 (link)
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You are paranoid, but it's ok because at 16 it's a normal part of development and it's temporary so don't worry about it much longer and it'll pass by quickly :)
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Okay im an african american female and i have NO BUTT!!!! I really needhelp so can ya'll tell me how to lift and create a bigger butt. Exercises foods, please help. Luv (link)
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You could start lifting weights and that would add the fatty material (I can't remember what you call it) to you "butt"
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i need help.. im 14/f and i love this guy he is amazing! A little while ago he said he liked me but i just found out he got a girlfriend like a week ago but i still like him and he's telling mme to move on. i cant seem to do that please help me thanks in advance (link)
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If he just telling you to move on he's just a big jerk. for you to move on, you just need to find somebody better than him.
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well to make the story short
i know this guy for about 2 months, we have seen each other a lot of time since he knows my parents, it is natural that he comes over to our house everyday. At first i didn't really talk to him because i feel like i do not trust him and i do not know him well, but later on i started talking to him and find out he is very nice, he talked and joke around alot. His family and ours are getting along very well, and he is nice to us. During my spring break, he asked my dad if he could take me and my sisters out since its our spring break and he doesn't want us to feel bored, he took us out that day, i felt great because this is actually my first time going out with a guy that parents know of. okay so then we just hung out and then we get closer and closer everyday. Well i told my best friend about him, and told her what he did to me, she looked at me for a while and say the weirdest thing ever, she thinks he likes me. i was like no way in earth that could happen, he is 27 while i'm only a senior in high school. There is no way he could like me, we are so different in age, but then she told me age don't matter in love, and then she said i should look for hints when he talk to me or do something for me, hints that show he likes me. I have been trying to look for those kindda hints but somehow i can't find them, i saw what he did to me and he did the same thing to other people. My friend said only the outsider can see what is going on. I don't really take that into consideration until one day my sister told me, the she thinks he likes me, again i was shocked. i don't know how they came up with that idea and i don't know what is going on. can someone tell me whether he likes me or not? (link)
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It does sound like he could be interested in you but not like a relastionship wise, at least just not yet.
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- I'd rather get guys opinions, but girls would also be greatly appreciated :]
I dated this guy for almost 2 months, but I've known him wayyy longer, like almost a year. Over the time we've hung out i started to fall for him, and he knew it :] but.. anyways.. we recently broke up because of "age difference" or whatever, but, i was out of town for about a week, and so... when i got home, he still came to see me, he says he still loves me.. and everything.. we had like a two hour long talk about it.. he said "im the best girlfriend he's ever had" and stuff.. i believe him though.. we still talk, a lot, just not as much as we did when we were dating. my questions is.. how could i get him back...? whats the best way? should i act like i dont care that we broke up? or will that drift him away.. should i just be really nice to him.. so i make him realize his mistake? i dont know.. any other suggestions?
thanksssss soo much.
summer ;]
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Well if you want to get back with him, you really only have to tell him how you really feel about him. One of the worst things you could do is pretend like you don't care.
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