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my ex


Question Posted Wednesday July 2 2008, 8:44 pm

ok so I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago and I told him I just wanted to be friends. now I am going out with someone new, but anyways he is always saying how he misses me and wants me back and how he loves me. I think love is a very strong word.We were dating for like 3 weeks and he told me he loved me the 2 week. That kinda freaked me out. And he always wanted me to send naked pics and have sex with him. I never did and that is 1 reason why I broke up with him. He says since we are not together he wants to kill himself. What can I say to cheer him up and help him?

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jmilsan answered Thursday July 3 2008, 6:13 am:
I think less is best for this guy unless you plan on still dealing with him. Since you have moved on I think you should not look back because this guy is scary and I don't know if cheering him up is what he needs. He seems to be aggressive and he may be increasingly led on if you keep communicating with him. Say what you mean but first mean what you say and don't look back!:-)

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caitiebug6793 answered Thursday July 3 2008, 4:47 am:
If he was like really pressuring you to have sex then don't go back to him.


And with the whole suicide thing, he is really just doing it for attention, BUT you should help him because he really is capable of doing it. Call a crisis hotline or talk to a responsible adult who you can trust.

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