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hey. my name is ashley and i started this advice colomn a long time ago but just started using it a lot now. you cna talk to me about anything. i am always giving friends my advice and usually things always work out. i hope all my advice helps everyone !!!

xOx ash-

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I was wondering if anyone can help me make a plan of when to change "supplies" during my school schedule. I'm only in middle school, so no one uses purses yet. There's also this one girl who ALWAYS searches my pencil case to find gum and whatnot so I can't use my pencil case! I go to my locker before lunch time, and in past situations I have picked up a purse in which I put a pad in. But, I hate using purses because its SO obvious that when you carry a purse to the bathroom, you have your period!! I don't know any other ways! I don't want to buy anything at school because the dispncers have the worst brands. My tampon can not last ALL day and I'm a little scared to use jumbo because im sure they're hard to insert and other stuff. If anyone wants to contradict this idea please do so! I need some ideas! (link)
put it in your pocket if you have any and if they are big enough. if not then just bring your backpack. thats what all my friends do. if your wearing one of those big sweaters put it in one of those pockets.

hope i helped ! -ash


any 1 know where i could get funny ring tnes

in russian or english

by funny its like a dude thats high says "COUZE I GOT HIGH" or somethin like that
u know... words and free... lol

any takers? (link)
if u have cingular then cingular.com or search google ..

xOx -ash


right, well my hair is naturally curly. but i straighten it every day. when i leave the house its like perfectly straight but like 2 hours later, its not. its so annoying!!! my friends recommended hairspray, but ive used some hairspraying products before, and they arent good. but they didnt cost alot. sorry 'bout how long this is but ya know. so does anyone have any tips/products that might work? TY x0x (link)
Its probably the humidity. YOu can use gel for the top of your hair. Or brush it throughout the day between classes.

xOx -ash


someone keeps stealing the sign off of our lawn that says vote for judge price! we keep getting new ones but they keep getting stolen... is there anything we can do to them if they get caught?
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video camrea ?? haha but you know one of those ones that schools and places have .. sry thats the only idea i have =/

xOx -ash


Is it just me or would it be strange to buy a camper/trailer with your wife and instead of having one bed for the two of you there are two small bunk beds?
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well if your only going camping then its fune. if it was in your home then yes it would be weird. but since its a camper/trailer i guess its fine.

xOx -ash


Well, I adore singing.. to me.. it's a way of life. I do it 24-7.

I don't really know if I could ever do it infront of anyone other than myself! I'm so affraid that I will mess up, or people will hate my voice. Personally? I love my voice... but they always say, "Sometimes, you hear what you want to hear, not what is heard by others." I don't know what to do. In a few months.. I'll be moving to Tennessee to live with my Father. He says that Nashville is a land of opertunity for me. (he and my step-mother are the only ones I've ever sang infront of) Well, my Step-Mother, is persuing her singing career. And I'm SO happy for her. She has the prettiest voice.. EVER I'm not sure what to do..

Anyone have good advice for me?
Thanks..
Confused Vocalist (link)
ask they if they honestly think you have a nice voice. if they do then you shouldnt be afraid to sing in front of people.

xOx ash-


heyy, well im going out with this guy, kevin. i really like him a lot i been going out with him for a month. theres this other kid tho, jeff. i used to like him over the summer and he liked me until one day he went out with this other girl. i liked him for a while but gave up because he was still with this other girl. i went out with kevin and i still am and i like him and everything but sometimes jeff flirts with me and i cant help but do it back and then sometimes i have feelings for him still but then theres still kevin (link)
well i think you need to think about which guy you like more. because right now your in the middle of them two. so pick which one you like more. but then again if kevin doesnt like you then dont give up on jeff if hes a really great guy.


hope i helped !! sn - x0O ASHL3Y
xOx ash-


I am on the yearbook staff this year - and need some help coming up with some superlatives. Here's my problem - I don't want things that everybody doesn't have a chance at such as "Best Dressed" Here's what we have come up with so far

Funniest
Sweetest
Best Hair
Most Creative
Most Outgoing
Most Athletic
Best Smile
Best Eyes
Most Likely To Suceed and
Most School Spirit

Any suggestions would be nice, but preferably not ones like "Most trendy" "Best dressed" and such because thats just demeaning.. (link)
Cutest couple !! thats always cutee !


xOx ash-


heyy guys.. well my best friend is taking this reallly cute guy to homecoming, but i don't think he likes her anymore. but he i think he flirts with me aloot. i mean calling everydayy, texting at 430 in the morning, texting to wake me up in the morning.. aw. yea i know he's sweet but like when i see him at school it doesn't seem like he likes me? cause i think he is such a cutie! do yall think he likes me or what? pleaaasseee help!! thxx (rate) (link)
yes!! he definatly likes you !!! now why he doesnt act like it at school im not sure. guys are confusing. but yes he definatly lieks you !!

xOx ash-


im mad b/c these two gurl at my school call me a slut and a whore and stuff like that and i dont know why b/c im really not and on top of that i dont even talk to them so i dont know how they would know anything about me i hate them like really hate them i dont know if i wanna get even with them or just get rid of them any ideas on either way would be helpful please thnx (link)
just ignore them. if they call you that they might be jealous. and if they are then your doing alright lol. but yah i say just ignore it

xOx ash-


She is not very social. She is not very "cool." She wants to be my friend but I don't like her very much. She is weird. She got off the bus crying the other day because people call her a lezbo and a homosexual. I asked her why she was crying and she said she didn't know what thoughs words mean. I am 1 year younger than her. She is a geek...HELP ME! How do I a) get her away from he and/or b) make her cooler shall I say. (link)
you can maybe take her shopping. that sometimes helps. and if you are cool/popular then if she starts hanging out wit you she will be too !

xOx ash-


Ok, so theres this boy in my class, michael. We were going out, and you kno, all that bf/gf stuff. We were really close and great together, we never fought, but of course there was a lil argument here and there. Well, one day he just broke up with me. He didnt tell me why, he just said we cant go out anymore and left. The next day, my best friend was wearing a shirt that said I love my bf. I asked her who her bf was and she said michael. She ddint even try to hide it or anything. I got really mad at her, and stopped talking to her. Now there are rumors going around that they had sex. I am really mad at my friend and i dont know what to do. I mean, i like her, but im really mad at her for stealing michael from him. What should i do??? (link)
ii think you should talk to them both. ask him why he dumped you and why she took him from you. tell her you really liked him and she wasnt a good frined for doing that. if she doesnt care then shes definatly NOT a good friend.

xOx ash-


My sweet sixteen is in 10 months, I need to get my planning on a roll. Big problem, I don't know what I want to do anyone has any ideas. Umm, I live in the suburbs and I am an african american with a lot of friends. Please help (link)
have a big bash !! like invite the whole school and rent a place and jut dance and stuff there. and if you wanna have it at ur house then do the same like invite a lot of people maybe like 30-40 and just mingle and dance and stuff !! thats always fun !!

xOx ash-


My 9th grade math teacher is so sweet! I am in 10th grade now, and my teacher for Geometry is not a good teacher, so I go to my 9th grade teacher for help! and last year she helped so much, and this year she is helping a lot too! I want to get a picture frame, and on the outside put a wooden ruler and a wooden protractor and a crayon and a pencil. She is from Texas, and proud, so I want to add something from that, but I dont know what. For the picture inside of the frame, she nominated me for student of the month in 9th grade and I won, so I will use the picture of us from that. I am also going to give her some candy and her all-time-favorite soda, Diet-Coke! Anything else?

5's and feedback! :)
-Kelsey (link)
aww that sounds soo sweet. Well maybe you can put a little magnet of texas on it but take off the magnet and jsut leave the texas thing. hope i explained it well !!

xOx ash-


is there anyway to flatten my hair?
if i straighten it, it just straightens.
and it doesn't flatten, it's still poofy.
also, it curves in at the end.
is there anything i can do about this?
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you can iron it with a regular iron. that always works !

xOx ash-


ok, my friend andy invited me to sleepover on friday night. hes having a sleepover and i really wanna go. the only thing is... im a girl... and andy is a guy so my parents will probably say no. my friend tia is going too... but i dont think that will help convince them much. im thinking about saying im sleeping over tias and then going with her to andys... but im scared my parents would find out... what should i do? please help me... (link)
just ask your parents. im sure they will understand if you really wanna go. and say youll bee sleeping in another room. that always helps =]

xOx ash-


I've been researching cell phone plans for my brother and I.
I don't want to base my decision only on price but also on service.
So my question is what cell phone company has the best service? (link)
cingular all the wayy !

xOx ash-


Okay so i hang out with these girls in school but never out of school. I want to be really good friends with them but i dont know how to. What do people like in a friend? (link)
they like them to be nice and friendly .. and funny .. and well mainly friendly then youll get lots of friends...=]


xOx ash-


I'm in the mood to read some good books. Does anybody have any recommendations (preferably from young adult or if not from there than not too boring and old lady like). Thanks! (link)
go ask alice
annies baby
km: emptry inside
the lost boy
a child called it

hope you like them !!

xOx ash-


I recently just started dating someone that I like soooo much but my friend is pissed off at me!i did tell her that if he asked me out then id say no bc of how he acts but when he asked me out i just couldnt say no!shes now saying..."how could you choose him over me?"when i never did that!shes acting like i ditched her but i would never do that!!!what do i do? (link)
tell her that you liked him and you wanted to go out with him. If she doesnt understand then shes not a true friend. Just say that you can be good friends with both

xOx ash-




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