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ive blown out 120 candles;; you can do tha math.

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&& I'm takeeenn!

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so i'm at work, and all of a sudden i have sharp pains that lasted about 30 seconds. i've never felt anything like that.
its on my right side, and a little underneath my ribcage.help!

It could be your appendix. My best friend had pains like that ALOT all the time, and it would make her CRY, she says you get it alot on your right, sometiems your left, and about 4 inches under your belly button.

You mayy have to get your appendix taken out, i recommend going to the doctor. My friend's mom never believed her until her WHOLE stomach turned blueish purple and had to be rushed to the hospitall.

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i went to the movies with this guy and hed put his arm around me in such an akward uncomfortable way..my exs have never really ben like that.
how are some ways you typically sit in a movie theatre? one, i know with his arm around you but like where..

Well whennn i went to the moviess, I move the little arm things, so i can sit muchhhhhhh closer to him, and you just can lay your head on this shoulder, with his arm around you

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Alright before I tell you anything you should know that the guy I'm in love with can be beyond a complete total asshole when he wants to be. Well I broke up with him about two weeks ago because I heard he was cheating on me. Four hours after I did I realized I had made a mistake. So we have been talking about getting back together and he is coming to my house for a week. Well today a girl messaged me on myspace and asked me if we were dating. I told her no we werent but we were gonna get back together. He texted me and asked me what I had told her and then called me a cockblock. He said that since he's single he could do whatever he wanted and that he was just looking to get laid while he was single. There are two questions I have. One. What should I say to him. And two. Since he's goin to do that would it be alright for me to mess around with another guy to see how he likes it?

Number one, you should sayy BYE!! If he's just using you for sex then you shouldn't want to date him.A loving relationship has to go to ways, not just one.

Number two, trying to make a guy jealous, in my opinion is low. Well trying to make anyone jealous is really low. If you try to make him jealous, when he doesn't like you, and it works, it's just gonna make him like you out of jealously. I don't know you or this guy. But he sounds like a total jerk, and nobody deserves to be put through a bunch of games..especially cheating.

But that's just my opinion do whatever you would like, but keep that in mind..
good luck(:

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is a lumpy armpit normal?

Yes, Its probably just from shaving.


http://www.getridofthings.com/get-rid-of-razor-bumps.htm



Hope this helped(:

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umm hii umm..! i need help because me nd my ex are still talkin and we both still like eachother cause i asked him and he said he did but like are we ever going to get back together i dont know what to do anymore can you help me..! :(

Well considering you said EX, you broke up right? And there was a specific reason for that right? So give it time. Dont rush things, if you really want thing to work this time, take it slowwww.

Just keep talking, and after awhile, if things are looking good, wait for him to ask you out, or ask him out yerself(:


Good Luck!(:

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Do you know if it is true that if you wash your hair in cold water it will make it shinier?

Have YOU tried it and does cold water make your hair shiny for real?

Thank you!

I rate!

My hairdresser told me to do this:

As soon as i get in, wash my hair with shampoo, as usual. Rinse it, then put conditioner in my hair. and DONT rinse it, then finish doing whatever you need to do, Wash your body, shave your legs, etc. THEN right before you get out, change the water to as cold as you can stand it, and wash the conditioner out. It's supposed to make it shinier, and stronger. and it closes the protein and stuff from the conditioner, whereas hot water just lets it out.


Hope I helped(:

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Okay , so i like this guy and hes in grade 11 but im in grade 8 , were great friends but idunno if he likes me . he gives me signs that he does but then again im not too sure . idunno what to do . should i ask him out , or let him to it ?
but theirs another problem , he has a girlfriend, its not going to work out though . His girfriend is a total slut .. she did stuff with my other giy friends . plus shes not that pretty . She kina look like a gorilla and hes soo cute . HELP !

If he has a girlfriend you deff shouldn't be messing with him.. If he likes you then tell him to get rid of her, and If he really likes you he should have no problem with it. Alot of guys that date wayyy younger girls are just after one thing.. SEX. Im not saying all guys are. But most are.

Another thing you have to deal with is when you date a older guy, people judge you ALOT. You tend to be a slut, a whore, a skank... and wanna be whore, etc. Just because yer dating an older guy (ii know, dumbb!)

But I think that if you really like him, and you think hes a good guy, tell him to get rid of his girlfriend or you're not "talking" to him.. You deff dont wana be the girl he cheats on his gf on!!!

good Luck!

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how can you get your ex back ?!

Why would you want your ex back? There's a reason why the people in your PAST didn't make it to your FUTURE (:

But if YOU screwed up and it's something you REALLY want to take back. Then just apologize,. It's never to late to apologize. Even if they don't take you back at least you apologized for whatever you did. Then I would recommend just being FRIENDS


Good Luck(:

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i dated a guy for 15 months and i got way too close to him and so when we broke up i was really hurt. about 4 months after we broke up i met this really nice guy and i gave it a shot with him. i ended it after 2 months because i was afraid of getting too close. i'm afraid of opening up and i'm afraid of getting to close. is there anything i can do about this? i really want a healthy relationship but i can't when i'm always backing down.. :/

In a way, I'm the same. I dated a guy for a year, and he TRIED cheating on me, and then i dated this other guy who lied, acted like we weren't even dating, and played SOO many games! Now I just have this idea that ALL guys are jerks. I mean, i guess I know that there are some guys worth giving a heart to, but until one guy proves it to me, All guys are jerks. In a future relationship, I decided I wasn't even taking it seriously until that certain guy proves to me that I'm his everything. Because those two guys ruined me.

If you want to continue dating, i would suggest the same idea. Don't date somebody until you know them, be friends with them first. Dont just date a stranger and give them your heart. You will ALWAYS end up with it broken, tht way. When you do find a guy that you really like, don't give him your everything until he gives you his. if he tells you he loves you, make it prove it. If he says he'd give anything up for you, break his xbox360. (Lol that was a joke) Make him prove it. THEN you can become serious. With your next boyfriend I would explain to him about your past relationship, about how broken your heart was and about how you are afraid of going back to that.

And another approach is to just stay away from dating completely. Just hang with friends. Friends are wayyy more important than guys anyway! They're always there for you!

Good Luck(:

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should i follow my head or heart and why?

It depends.

Iff you are ttalking aboutt relationships, or love, or crushes.. Follow your heart, but use your head.

Your heart tells you want you want, don't ignore it. But you should always use your head! If your heart tells you that you thinkk "so and so" are soooooo hot.. but your head tells you there a jerkk and whut not, then you should stay awy. You use your head to tell you what's safe, and who's the right type.

(:Good luck

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first of all i am 15f and this may be long but it would be GREATLY appreciated if you would listen and respond! i neeed all the advice i can get :)
~so i have been best friends with this guy for a year. we talk EVERY DAY online and have been doing so for 6 months EVERY DAY. and he has asked me out 2 times and i have turned him down because i said i wanted our friendship to last and it was to valuable. well.... he has just recently said he has loved me, and would do anything, and always says i am beautiful, and cheers me up when i am down and he even brought me back a present from his trip to europe. well i reallllllllllly like him back but the problem is that i dont wanna tell him cause i have turned him down like 4 times and broken his heart he said but yet he still says all this stuff to me because he says i am to important. But the thing is this is online. in person we hang out and talk but not like we do online. and in person it is harder to basically do anything. he gets shy around me and barely talks in person now but online he is the SWEETEST guy their is! i have never met a nicer guy in my life! i want things to work out sooooo badly but in reality i dont think it will ever happen :( but we both want it to ..... so 1) how do i tell him i feel this way ..... 2) how can we make it work if he does wanna try? I AM LOSING MY HEAD OVER THIS PLEASE RESPOND AND GIVE YOUR THOUGHTS ON THE RELATIONSHIP .... cause right now we are like beyond best friends but not at the boyfriend and girlfriend stage.

thank you !!! :)

Friendships are important, so i understand why you said no.. But one thing you need to think about is, do you REALLY like him, or did you just start to like him because he flirts?

Andd, even though you've turned him down or broken his heart, trust me, he will be happy to hear that you want to give him a shot. What i would do, is Ask him if he remembers when he asked you out and you said no because your friendship was too valuable. When he says yes, tell him that you really like him, and you tried to just stay friends because thats what YOU told HIM. Tellh im that you think he is soo sweet, that he brings you up when you're down, tell him that he makes you feel like you are the most important girl on the earth. And tell him that if he wants to date you, that you wanna give it a try(:

Andd it sounds like he is just shyy. It's probably easier for him to tell you the things online easier than offline, because if you happen to go off on him, or say something he didn't want to hear. You wldnt see his reaction.. but in person, he has to see your reaction, and he's probably afraid it's not going to turn out how he wants it to. I think that problem will change if you start dating him.

Some random advice: Alot of guys are jerks. Sounds like you found an exception.. Hang on to him..
&& if you happen to go out, and something goes wrong and you break up, keep your friendship(:

Hope this helped, good luck!!(:

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My husband has 3 children from his previous marriage and has full-custody. We've had custody of them for 3 years now in Texas. Their mother lives in California. She has been unemployed since she moved out there 5 years ago. She makes no efforts to be a "real" part of the kids' lives. She hasn't come to visit, her cell is continuously shut off so calls are limited (once a week or every two weeks). And the children are currently 11, 8, and 6.

The other day the 8 year old asked if I knew why she didn't correct someone when they call me her mom. She then told me she didn't want them to know I was her step-mom. I asked her if she believed it was a bad thing and she told me no, she thinks I am a mom. I told her it was fine if she does that in front of people. She took it the wrong way and now wants desperately to call me mom 24/7.

My question is if both myself and the child are comfortable with mom is it alright for her to call me that? Her real mom's jealousy is not an issue because her presence is absent. Most people I ask tell me not to encourage her but she is the one asking not me.

Of course it is fine! You are more like a mother than her real mom is, so why not?

If she wants to call you mom, why would you forbid her to? If you don't mind, and she doesn't mind there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.

My mother started dating a guy about 5 months ago, hes a great guy, and my little sister LOVES him, and he cares about her deeply. She doesn't know her real father, and she calls my mom's boyfriend daddy. ALL the time. And she really thinks of him as her dad now.

In my opinion theres nothing wrong with it, unless you were making the child call you mom. If You are comfortable with it, then go for it(:

Hope that helped!

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I live with my grandparents. My friend and I have been friends since kindergarten. Well I promised her that I would go to summer school. But Then my grandpa died. My friend is like a part of the family my whole family knows her so it affected her too. Well when summer school came she asked me if I was going but I told her that I'm not going to summer school because then my grandma would be alone. She was like " But you promised!" Then she hung up. This was like a couple days ago. We just got over a fight too. Now every time I call she won't pick up and I leave messages but she still wont call. How do I get her to at least talk to me?

Like sally91 said, "EVeryone has a diffrnt way of dealing with things"

She's probably just a little upset that she's going to be going to summer school without you, maybe a little nervous? She's also upset over your grandpa passing away.. She just doesn't know how to deal with it.

Just give her time, leave her alone, let her know that you are there to talk when she's ready to talk to you..Things will get better in time.

hope i helped(:

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So i finally get over this chick i was into for about 8 months or so...We didnt even go out i was just hooked, i know thats sad, but then i found a new chick turns out im having the same problem! 2girls in a row!second time but im still attracted to both of them and i dunno how to move on from it because we are still friends. i dont want to hurt their feeling because my emotions got too deep to soon. Please help

Maybe you just feel lonely, sometimes when people feel lonely they just start to like anyone for any reason.

And, do either of the girls like you back? Why don't you get to know them really well, find out if they like you, try flirting with them a little, and maybe date one. But before you do that, figure out which ONE you like.. You shouldn't be a player trying to get two chickks at once. That'll end up bad.

And if you just want to get over them, just try not talking to them as much, don't think about how you like them. Do you actually like them? Or do you just think they're "Beautiful, Hot, Sexy, Pretty...etc." ??

Hope that helps(:

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15\m
Ok so I've been going through the year with no issues so far...except for one little annoyance. There's a girl who's in five of my classes this year, an ex-girlfriend to be exact (and oh lucky me, the one one I've ever had a bitter break up with on her end, not mine). We dated in the beginning of last year-for a month-and were friends at the beginning of this year and were over the summer as well.
I'm confused though. She'll try to provoke arguments with me for no apparent reason just out of the blue in the middle of class. I'd always just ignored it all this year pretty much and let her be a drama queen, but recently I wanted to just shut her up, so I responded to her for the first time telling her that if she really hated me so much (her big thing is that she claims to hate me and lies about things when she's in that mood and when she tells me to leave her alone-though I'd never responded to her until this point-she approaches me the next day as if nothing happened), that she'd stop telling me about it and just leave ME alone instead of obsessing over me so much and trying to get my attention. She broke down after going silent for a minute or two, though there was no venom in my voice and I said near those exact words, keeping it as brief as possible.
I don't feel guilty, but I'm wondering now if I have to do this every time she provokes me to just get her to stay quiet and cut the obsession crap. What can I do to get her to get off me and if possible be friends with her? I've already attempted everything I can think of, including just trying to figure out why she "hates" me by asking her in a serious conversation. I don't care which way it goes, but it'd be nice if we could remain friends out of convenience.
Any suggestions? And did I do the right thing?
Thanks,
-Xehanort

Woww. I've had an obsessive boyfriend before.. He kept telling me to get over him after I broke up with HIM. Like really?. Haha

But, she obviously still likes you, and is really hurt. By saying she hates you she's trying to make you care, and say something back like, I still care about you, blah blah blah. In that situation, I would tell her that you were sorry if you hurt her, or for anything you have done, and let her know that you're truly over her, That she doesn't have a chance.. So If she wants to be friends... Fine. If not.. Fine.

Takee it from there.

hope that helps(:

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Is their any websites or something that can help me with spanish? I know some spanish, but not very much. Or if you want to help me and you can speak fluently that would be great! If you want to do that just answer this question saying so and I'll comment you back with my e-mail adress! I do have friends that speak spanish and can help me with pronounciation, but they told me to go learn more spanish before they will help me. So, I am not worried about pronounciation at the moment. I do know how to sound the words and read and write in spanish so thats not a problem. If you want to help me then do as I said email me and I will email you back what I know.

Just search spanish learing games, or how to speak spanish or learn spanish, or type in english to spanish translator(:

Adios Haha(:

Hope that helps!

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so i hve this friend who i like and were friends and i love when we hang out but theres a problem. she has this friend. lets call her "Pillow" and pillow is really annoying and all of my friends cant stand to be around her. so whenever i make plans with my friend..lets call her "blanket" she always at the lastminute is like "ohh btw pillows comming too" and i cant say no. so then all other people who also find pillow annoying get mad at me and it causes this whoe problem. how to do keep blanket as a friend without having to be with pillow?

I've been in this situation before.

First you should tell "Blanket" about how you don't like "Pillow". tell her why you don't like her, and tell her that you just want to hang out with her, not "Pillow".
She should understand, and if not, then she's not a good friend in the first place. Also I would recommend trying to get along with "Pillow", you might actually end up liiking her when you get to know her.

Hope this helps(:

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I need quotes on losing friendships or friends and missing old friends PLEASE HELP

http://www.friendship.com.au/quotes/quoneg.html

http://www.buzzle.com/articles/broken-friendship-quotes.html

http://www.friendship-poems.com/broken_friendship_quotes.html

Try those. Or type in broken friendship quotes in google

Good luck(:

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I really love dancing or working out to imma be by the black eyed peas because its really fast paced and has a good beat and everything. Does anyone else know any similar songs? Oh and I already tried making a genius play list on itunes and didnt come up with anything too good because i dont really have many songs like that so please dont suggest that.

i love that song(:
Uhm.. Try checking this out :

http://www.billboard.com/charts/dance-club-play-songs#/charts/dance-club-play-songs

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So, I found a kitten super early monday morning outside my apartment and he ran right up to me and started meowing and purring and I brought him upstairs and fed him (he was really hungry) and he was also really dirty. I have since taken him to the vet and had all his vaccines done and am planing on getting him neutered on the 20th. I already love him and I am one of those people who considers animals to be like humans.

Today, I am walking around the neighborhood and there are flyers everywhere with the kitten I found on them. I don't know what to do. I don't think I can give him up (it would be like giving away a human baby) and my other cat already has bonded with him.

Should I ignore the flyers and not do anything and just keep him? Should I email these people and say that I found him and Im not giving him back, or should I give him back :'(

I need some advice. . .

Ohkayy.
Well you should think of what you would want in this situation. From the beginning it sounded like the kitten was being mistreated, but if the flyers were put up everywhere, obviously somebody wants him back, and cares.

There could be many possible reasons that the kitten showed up at your house hungry and dirty, he couldve ran away and not found his way back, or the family couldve went on vacation and didnt leave enough food behind. Whatever the reason may be, you shouldn't be selfish about the cat. It seem as if the family really loves their cat, and wants it back. I understand that you have bonded with the kitten, as if it was your baby, but.. it wasnt yours to begin with.

And if i lost my cat...i would be worried and want it back too.

Hope i helpeedd(:

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