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13/f


i used to have tons of friends, popular ones too. then they all ditched me. now all of my friends, even the ones who havent ditched me, are subtily avoiding me and not talking to me. i think its because i shut down after my best friend ditched me. how can i get my friends back and make new ones? because i am sick of being alone every friday night.

Okay, well, I've been in this situation, and there's really only two things you can do.

One) You can confront them. Ask them what's up. What's their problem. If they don't want to answer you, or if they give you an excuse which you know is not true- then drop them. They're obviously not your true friends and if they really cared about you and wanted to be your friend, they'd talk to you in order to fix the problem.

Two) Don't even bother with trying to fix the problem, and find new friends. With new friends you can learn what other people are like before you get too close, and decide for yourself whether or not you want to be their friend. It's not always easy, and I know that, I've been there, but it's the only thing ya can do.

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14/f
my boyfriend and i have been going out for about a month. we go to different schools, but were both friendly with each other's friends. we dont see eachother THAT often, but were really close and we talk all day and everyday. my problem with him is that his friends disrespect me and make rude comments about me. i mainly ignore it, but its starting to really piss me off. and what bothers me most about it is that sometimes my boyfriend would laugh along with their nasty jokes. i know they dont really mean anything by it, but its constantly happening. should i continue to ignore it or talk to my boyfriend..? thanks in advance!!

I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it, sweetie. If you don't, his friends are going to continue with it, and they'll listen to him [hopefully] if he tells them to stop. But then again, it depends on how soft your boyfriends heart is. If you don't talk to him about it, it'll keep happening and gradually get worse.

Hope this helps a little.
x3

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I need some hairstyles that I can use that dont invole me putting my hair down!
I have side bangs, so I would be sooo thankfull if you would tell me some good hairstyles, or send me pictures!!!!!!!

Hey!
Look I thought this hairstyle was really cute;;
http://www.lynnechapman.com/images/messybunM.jpg

&& With your side bangs it would probably look gorgeous!

Hope this helped!

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Hm okay so I have this slight problem. I'm m/15 and I have a really good friend that thinks that I like her. When in actuality I don't. I suspect two of my other friends(one of them her best friend) have been telling her I do. At first I didn't really do anything about it because I didn't think much of it. I think if it continues it will probably hurt our friendship. She is under the impression that i like her and she has been flirting non-stop with me so I think she might like me... I don't want to hurt her feelings so what should I do? I know I have to talk to her but how...?
Help would be greatly appreciated.

Ookay.Well me being a girl I might help you a little.What you cannot do is just tell her flat out because that'll break her heart.Because from what you've described, she probably does like you.

What I would do is just sit down and talk with her friends first, and ask if they've been saying anything about you liking her.And if they say that haven't said anything, then go to your friend and let her know, nicely, that you don't like her in that way.

She might just say ok, or she might break down, depends on the girl.I hope you sort it out though :]

Hope this helped.

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Does anyone know who is asking this question but me , or is the info who i am private? Thanks :D

It's private :]

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What are some shoe brands geared more towards teenage girls?

Hmm well there's
-Adios
-Vans
-Flats
-Clogs
-Adidas
-Nike
-K-Swiss
-Sketchers

It's all depended on your stylee :]

Hope this helps!

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just like any ...friends... or a romantic one..

I'm considering one.. and I need opinions..

what do YOU think of online relationships?

Online relationships..
Well I wouldn't say they're good, but they're not ALWAYS bad. Usually online relationship's turn out dangerous whether it's someone getting raped, or even killed.

Because most people aren't who they say they are. But if you've met this person, or have spoken to them on the phone, then it probably isn't that bad.

Yet, that's just my opinion. The people below have different feelings as well. It's really up to you if your considering an online relationship. Just be careful!

Hope this helped :]

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hi, i hate my teeth. they're all discoloured, like pale yellow, and dont fit together, like normal teeth, some are like vampire teeth, and they have gaps between them. back to the colour, i dont smoke, i only drink coffee sometimes, and dont drink red wine etc, because im only 15. so whats with them? and how much would those proper hite teech cost? like the celebs? thanks

Okay well to get your teeth like celebertie's takes alot of money!! So perhaps you should try whitning strips or something?

And if you don't like the way your teeth are structured, ask your parent's if there's a possibilty of getting braces? That might help a bunch.

And as for the discoloration, the coffee helps it become yellow, so maybe try and stop drinking coffee? And brush your teeth ALOT. That'll help.

Hope this helped :]

&& Don't be afraid to ask anything else :]

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i really want my myspace song to be by ac/dc. does anyone know a myspace that has any aongs by them? please no tribute bands, i really don't like them becuase i don't think they're as good as the real band. thanks!

Okay what you do is click on the Music link at the top. And then you put ACDC in the keyword box, and a whole bunch of bands will pop up, and it's usually the first one. And then after your on there, to put the song on your profile you simply click Add.
Hope this helped!

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Lol i forgot to post my pictures before but here

Here are 2 pictures of me i wanted to get caramel streaks do you think it would suit me ?
And can you tell more hair coloured streaks that would look good thanks much!

http://coookiieloove.piczo.com/?preview=y&cr=7&rfm=y

Hey!
Well since you have dark brown hair, light brown strikes would look really pretty!
Idk what you think, but I think it would!
Hope this helped!

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14 f

Does anyone have good flirting tips? what do boys like? What are some things I could do to show this boy I like him without saying it ?

Hmm well boys LOVE a confident girl, and they love when your yourself.
So that's my advice to you sweetie :]
Good luck!

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in peoples myspace surveys like 3 ppl whos ive looked thorought have had this:

7. Do you believe in love at first sight? lust


anyone know the significance to love at first sight and lust?

Okay well when it says "love" it's really not love.
They put lust because lust means when you want someone or something very very badly.
So it's not technically love you know?
Hope this helped.

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Anyone know any songs that are Hiphop or R&B about not wanting to lose a friend or like you will always be there for them ?


Thanks much

There's a song called Umbrella by Rihanna and Jay Z and it's about how she'll always be there for her friend.

Hope this helped you ^_^

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alright. so i am in love with this makeup. i can never do it like this, so can someone please explain to me step-by-step on how to do this? thanksss.

Okay hun, first off you have to buy a black eyeliner pencil.And then once you have that, go like right under your eye and start putting the eyeliner on there, like your coloring.And do it really thick and it should come out like that.
Hope I helped!

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okay so my cousin dyed my hair dark brown but like.. it turned out black. and in some spots its fading but some it wont. does anyone know how to get it out?

Hmm my only advice to you, is to re-dye it.
Sorry!

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My best friend talks to this guy online from a town near ours (she met him after she started talking to him online). In short, he's horrible for her.
Why? Well, he does drugs, for one (he has pictures of him doing drugs on his MySpace, too). Not only that, he's told my friend that doing drugs isn't harmful (she knows it IS harmful) and that she should try them. He says that he uses drugs to deal with his mother's death. He's also older, so that makes me question his intentions.
She tells me that she won't go out with him, but since another guy she talked to got a girlfriend, I think she's changed her mind. He sends her cute texts and everything, and I think that's making her blind to all of his faults.

In a nutshell, I care about my friend and I KNOW she deserves better. What should I do?
Thanks in advance to all who read this and answer.

Hmm well me and you are in the EXACT same position.. and what I'm trying to do [even though I'm not certain it's helping] is that I'm trying to talk to the guy.. and find things that she's against.. like if she doesn't like a person doing drugs, you can like find evidence that he IS doing them to show her your right so she don't get hurt. You know?
Sorry If this didn't help much.
I'm trying to go through the same thing as well.

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Okay, it seems nice and everything.. but it freezes way too much.. EVEN when i have ONE WINDOW open.

what is the problem?

whenever i put an away message up, it freezes

even when it starts.

is it a virus or what?

this problem is only happening to me

i didn't upgrade to AIM 6 on my other SN
and the old AIM kept disconnecting on me

help?

Mm yeah it's more than likely just your computer.
Because I have AIM 6 and it never freezes,
the away message never affects anything,
and I'm usually talking to 6 people at a time,
so perhaps you should ask about upgrading computers?
Sorry if this doesn't help!
Hope it did!

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im going to get my hair cut soon and i know what i want.
i want a choppy/jagged punky kinda of look. i dont want it short. i have medium length hair below my shoulders. my mom doesnt understand what i want and wants me to show her a picture. i have one picture but its small and not that great. so i need help finding a picture of a choppy haircut.

here is the picture i have.
http://i95.photobucket.com/albums/l142/ejuli/Hair/brownchoppy.jpg

Hmm is this kind of what your talking about?

http://www.sedustyles.co.uk/portals/49/sedu-hair-style.jpg

Hope this helps you!

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Hey everyone,

I've come to the realization that I should probably just get over my guy friend that I like a lot. I always thought that maybe him and his girlfriend would end, but its up to their 6th month together, and when he's on the phone with her thats the only thing he talks about. I text him a lot, and we always had been good friends since 3 years ago but since he has been going out with his girlfriend we've kinda slipped. I'd just like to know what I can do to get him out of my head, to stop looking at his myspace and texting him and basicially just torturing myself!

Any advice would be helpful.
Thanks so much

I don't mean to be unhelpful in any way!
But I don't think it's going to be that easy getting him outta your head :/
You probably already know it's going to be hard to forget about him NOW,considering how he's dating someone..and when they're not dating..your going to want to! So it's going to be hard.
Lol hope I helped you somehow or another ^_^
♥♥

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I have a very strange question to ask..but please bear with me.

Let's say a guy has a girlfriend that's really ugly. And I know I'm prettier than her. When he shares her pictures and puts her pictures up and is so proud of them...does he realize that she's ugly? or is he so glad that he has a girlfriend that he doesn't care WHAT she looks like, as long as she "belongs" to him. And in this case, he thinks she's the most beautiful girl in the world?

Because it's getting annoying. This guy makes fun of my pictures, when I know I'm SO much prettier. But when he puts up her ugly pictures, he praises them. What am I supposed to say? It annoys me that he makes fun of me, when his girlfriend is disgustingly ugly.

I know it's shallow. =/

Okay um what kind of answer are you looking for? It's his girlfriend..he's going to love and cherish her,and think everything about her is beautiful.You really shouldn't judge him and her like that..you should just leave him alone if he bugs you.I mean why still talk to him?
I don't know but this is kind of stupid to talk about..
:/

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