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She thinks so but no...
Hm okay so I have this slight problem. I'm m/15 and I have a really good friend that thinks that I like her. When in actuality I don't. I suspect two of my other friends(one of them her best friend) have been telling her I do. At first I didn't really do anything about it because I didn't think much of it. I think if it continues it will probably hurt our friendship. She is under the impression that i like her and she has been flirting non-stop with me so I think she might like me... I don't want to hurt her feelings so what should I do? I know I have to talk to her but how...?
Help would be greatly appreciated.
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You need to tell her the truth.
Dont say that you dont want to ruin your friendship even if it is true most girls will think your lieing and get hurt even worse.
tell her you just dont see her like that but be gentle about it.Because if shes been flirting then she must like you.
And do it soon.The longer you wait the more you will hurt her.
But right after you have the "special" chat back off for a day or two to give her some time to sort out her thoughts.
If you dont then an arguement will most likely errupt and your friendship will be ruined.
And even if she ignores you after you've talked keep making attempts to talk to her.Eventually she'll give in and everything will be normal again=]
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wow thats such a tough situation!
well you have to tell her or else she
will think you are leading her on
tell her flat out that you are not interested
and that you just want to be friends with her
she will understand and say that but dont
be too mean about it bc i ahte when guys
are jerks and it might be a little awkward
after you tell her but it has to happen
-Kylie
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Ookay.Well me being a girl I might help you a little.What you cannot do is just tell her flat out because that'll break her heart.Because from what you've described, she probably does like you.
What I would do is just sit down and talk with her friends first, and ask if they've been saying anything about you liking her.And if they say that haven't said anything, then go to your friend and let her know, nicely, that you don't like her in that way.
She might just say ok, or she might break down, depends on the girl.I hope you sort it out though :]
Hope this helped.
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