-Hey world I've been on here awhile now i just wanna say being on here has been great! im not a specailist but im here for anyone that needs someone to talk to. :) feel free to ask me anything and don't feel ashamed, im not here to judge.we all have daily battles,but it doesn't mean we have to face them alone.with that being said I look forward to meeting you ;)
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I'm in the process of wanting to commit suicide as I want to be with my son, I haven't got anyone at all, my partner ignores me blames me for what our son did, he wrote me a letter blameing me and how much he hates me and he wished I was dead instead, I'm having nightmares and dreaming of being with my son so so much, iv tryd to get help and I cant get any at all, I'm on medications and it makes me feel even worse, I sit up each and every night now as iv planned my suicide to the end, as I vet left at him on my own quite alot and i know I wouldn't be found till.i am dead, I need help and I cant get it so what's the point, I wouldn't be missed at all as I'm always on my own anyway, I tryd it last year and it felt so good as it took the pain away what I was feeling, cant believe I am still here, please help me or vive me son advice to help me please, next time I'm going to go somewhere very spe ial so I has to be right I do t want to wake.yp I'm done and fed up, iv found homes for my pets tht iv raised and they don't need me now, thank you for reading (link)
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I'm sorry I'm replying late. If you are seeing this . That means that there's something within yourself that desires to live. I'm sorry for your loss and I'm sorry that you and your spouse agent on terms that you should be on. You shouldn't be blamed for the loss of your child. One talk to your doctor about changing meds. Sometimes meds can increase suicidal thoughts. Also try to get out. Of the house find hobbies to do that involves positive people. Your husband may just say the things he's getting because he's hurting too. That still doesn't make it right but for now focus on being in recovery. Focus on getting back to a place of self love. Your son would want you to be happy. Suicide isn't the answer. I hope that this helps you.
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Okay, so how it all started.
A close friend has a tendency to ignore me when he gets upset. I hate being ignored, it hurts. He always has excuses to ignore me for days!
So the last time he did it I don't know what got into me but I just decided to cut. To my surprise, it actually helps! Not the pain but the blood. I don't know but seeing the blood makes me feel way better. I feel less bad. So after that I cut every time I get angry, frustrated or when I just feel bad. Well, my life isn't exactly great, I have other better reasons for cutting besides my dumbass friend.
I do not cut deep so I do not think its any dangerous but should I still stop? I cut my thighs and hips not my wrists so no one finds out. If I have to stop how do I stop? Its really addicting. (link)
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Cutting even if your not cutting deep can be harmful. You have to find an healthier outlet. I'm sure but maybe a(n) hobby. And how do you stop ? I've never cut myself but I've been addicted to things. You just have to tell yourself its a better alternative to cutting. Maybe get active outdoors . Maybe running or riding your bike surround yourself with positive people distract yourself with positivity. I hope this helps.
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So I pretty much want to forget about my dad he hurt me a lot and I even searched the internet for help but nothing helped me My dad was abusive and he cheated on my mom a lot. He also sexually assaulted me when I was little. Pretty much my mother had me at a young age around 15. And my 'father' was fine and all as I can recall. But when my mother left to work he would bring me with him and he would pick up a woman and bring them over to our house and well you know have sex with them. What was worse is that I had to be in the room with them when they were doing that, I remember when he did that and he turned all the lights off cuz u suppose he didn't want me to see I dont know and when he did I would cry silenty. He left me when I was 5 and I never knew he was abusive towards my mother till the day he hit her in front of me and my brother and I tried defending her and when she called the police he left and I heard he is in mexico now I always try forgetting him but its hard and he pretty much affected my life. Please give me some advice...... (link)
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Take it one day at a time. There's no easy way to get rid of the bad memories. You just have to think positive and focus on your happiness. Think about how he isn't around to hurt you or your family anymore. Forgive your dad. Not for him. But for you. Carrying around hate or bitterness isn't how you move on (I'm not say you hate him but if you did) but simply just try to spend more time don't things you love with the people you love. I know it may not be the exact answer you were looking for. But I hope it helps.
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im girl 17,i told my classmate(boy) who is also my crush in the concrete i gave him a note, saying i like him..two days later, i asked him to talk about it bc he didnt give any respond and i wanted to how he feels ,during school,i asked him if we could go and talk somewhere private , he said it is nice that i told him about my feelings for him,he also told me that he know how hard it must´ve been for me to hide my feelings from him.then he said he doesnt have time for relationship bc he has activites besides school (he plays guitar, he dances)and also he told me he firstly wants to develop more spiritually..(if that makes sense) bc we go to catholic church ,and then he hugged me saying that we should continue to be friends and then i deleted him from my friends on fb during summer holidays bc i was always checking if he is online.now is new school year and he found out i removed him from my friends on fb, and he texted me why i did that, and if he did something wrong he is sorry , i told him i did it bc it hurts me and that i dont want to be friends, and he said it´s ok, i thought it would hurt less, but it hurts me more ,now i ignore him bc i dont know how to act to him..he sent me friend request on fb but i didnt accept it yet..he was good friend to me before i told him about my feelings..please help me should i be his friend again or not? if yes what should i tell him,why i suddenly accepted his friend request on fb,and also today is his birthday, should i wish him happy birthday even i removed him from my friends??..thanks for help :) (link)
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I'm sorry for the late response. Talk to him and tell him were upset. He cares about you and it's anxious that you still care. I think that you had a right to be disappointed. However , your friend was being honest he wouldn't have the time to give you the attention that you deserve at least he was honest and took into consideration that maybe it's best that you both should remain friends. Maybe in the future you both can date. I'm sorry for the late reply . I hope this helps.
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I've been going through a recent complicated break-up. The thing is I kinda rejected him because I want to get my life back together first before being in a committed relationship. I wasn't able to offer my heart back in return to this guy who loved me so purely because I got scared that the moment I say 'yes' we'd be in a really serious relationship. And the thought of being in a serious relationship scared me. I got scared and I made a stupid mistake by talking to it with another guy friend. And it almost felt like I cheated on him, he felt like I cheated. And now he's not in love with me anymore and that it's impossible for us to be together again. Which hurt so bad.
I know all of that's kinda convoluted, but long story short, I'm hurt because I hurt the one guy who's never done anything but love me so purely and see the best in me by being a stupid and weak girl. What if he's the one for me, what if I blew the chance to be with my soulmate? What if I never meet anyone who will love me as much as he did? I can't get over the pain and the loneliness no matter what I do.
I know I've made a mistake too. But I'm not aiming to get back together with him, because he's already said it's impossible. Now he just wants to be friends with me because he knows we're really close and he doesn't want to lose that and he said that I don't deserve to be abandoned completely. What should I do to get over him and forgive myself? I'm really sorry it was really long. Thank you to anyone who will help. (link)
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Talk to him. Tell he everything. He still loves you. Love can hurt but if your with the right person things get better. If you want him back let him know that. If you don't uts still good to put everything out there. Everything will work out
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Help please I dont know what to do. I'm being blackmailed. I am a 19yr old male and she said she was 20yrs. I sent a nude picture of myself with my face in it to a girl on Kik and she said if I don't pay her money she would post it on Ellen show website and try to have her show it on CNN or something like. And ruin my life. She wants me to pay her $100 and if I do she said she would delete the picture. Im scared that she will post it and ruin my life. I can't tell my family because they would be upset at me and cause more issues. Please someone help me I don't know what to do. (link)
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Well she only wants money. 1 The ellen show wouldn't allow that. Two if she was successful in posting, it would instantly be taken down. You can. Pretend that you don't care. See how she reacts. Option two is to tell her that you'll report her for identity theft wouldn't hurt to mention your dad's a cop and. Can find where she is at and could find her and arrest or make her pay a fine. Plus if you plan on taking nudes don't ever put your face in them.cover up your tattoo(if you have any) or anything that can identify you. I hop this helps
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I have to take Astronomy and English, but I don't know what other class I should take. I feel really pressured and stressed out right now so I know this is something simple but I'm having trouble making even small decisions.
Thanks.
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Think about Your course plan or degree. Look at the descriptions of the different courses that you might enjoy.Maybe talking to Your advisor could help maybe an elective? I hope you find the schedule that fits :)
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ive tried memory games but they don't help with my remembering what I just read in my books. Like its so bad that I can't even remember what the paragraph I just read was about. Well......I can but I can't remember it to the point where I can explain it. Anybody have any tips on helping me be able to explain what I read???? (link)
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Everyone learns differently. Maybe just reading it over a few times may help. Plus you may just be uninterested in what Youre reading. Re reading a sentence or writing down notes as you read may help you remember better. Hope this helps
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would you talk to me
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Sorry i answered late. I don't recieve direct alerts . again I'm sorry. What kinda of pain are you dealing with
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What is four play? (link)
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Think of it as pre-sex before you have a sex . its things you do before you have sex, to get ready for sex. it could be playing sex games, talking dirty, etc.
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I'm a white cisgender homosexual female. White racism isn't real, cisphobia isn't real, misandry isn't real, and heterophobia isn't real. Were white people enslaved and segregated for decades and still get killed in hate crimes? Nope. Do cisgenders get an increased risk of being bullied, suicidal, or killed? Nope. Did heterosexuals get burned and prevented from being married and have people insult them for holding hands in public, or people call things they don't like "straight"? Nope. Do rich people starve on the streets and have no clothes or water and need to work their ass off? Nope. Did males ever get sold into sexual slavery, rights taken away, pushed from science careers? Nope. It makes no sense to me these people who had everything handed to them on a golden platter with a silver spoon in their mouth already with a head start in life feel opressed. Why? (link)
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Honestly, idk. Some people feel the need to draw attention to themselves. They feel the need to place themselves in situations they dont understand. Its a sad situation, unfortunately there are people like that in the world.
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I have invited another woman to have sex with my husband while I watch. She and I have meet and I like her, she is just the type I wanted for this experience.
She and my husband have not meet and won't until the night of the event. She is coming to our home where we will enjoy drinks and conversation first.
I'm looking for ideas on how to make the transition between conversation and sexy time smooth and less awkward. She and I have talked about bondage and restraint being part of the evening.
Ideas? Suggestions?
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Maybe you should ask her about what she would like to do. Or maybe ask your husband. You don't have to tell him what you're doing, but in a hypothetical way.
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No one is giving me the support I want n it been so hard 2 me because I haven't tell anyone how I fell (link)
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The best thing to to do is tell someone. Your parents, guardian. Or maybe a counselor at your school. Sorry for replying late. I hope you ger the support you need.
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i am 13, and i live with my adoptive parents. my real mom had me at 16 and got me token away when i was very young. i have always said that i would not be a teen mom, that i would wait for after marriage. but yesterday i found out that i am pregnant. how do i tell my parents? and i will not get an abortion and i don't want to give my baby away. so how will i tell my mom( that is 6 months pregnant) and dad that their 13 year old daughter is pregnant and wants to keep her baby? (link)
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I feel that you should take another test with your mom and talk about it.tell them how you feel. I dont think they will want you to give your child up. Everything will work out just talk to them. Going through this alone isnt they way to go. Ihope this helps
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Hello!
As the headline says, im trying to be a better man, and being able to do some self defense is never bad idea. I heared that some martial arts are tied with some sort of philosophy and through it teaching other things for life then just "beating people" (because beating people is NOT my desire in the first place). I will be most grateful if you give me any suggestions i could follow.
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I think definitely go to your library or google things on the different types. I googled "different types of martial arts and here's a link http://www.fightingarts.com/reading/article_nc.php?id=59
And i think you should try yoga because its calming and therapeutic. I hope you'll find the happiness t youre looking for.
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I am looking for a good website that has online book clubs? (link)
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Book bub is a great email subscription to great books for free and on sale. Also one that's cool is wsttpad a place you can find books written from other users and on an occasion find best-selling authors. You can follow the writers and chat with them and other reader and even find your own
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Hey, there. I'm a 15 year old freshman in high school and I'm looking for a bit of advice. These days, college is pushed into us so early. They had me picking potential colleges and calculating the cost of rooming and food and tuition along with how to do my finances and pay off student loans when I was in 8th grade (13). They had us pick potential jobs and also gave us the average annual incomes for those jobs. As you can imagine, that all stressed me out a lot seeing as I was still in middle school. College was, and still is, a foreign concept to me. Anyway, my stress about it has gotten worse since last week I was talking to my aunt about potential careers. I told her that Id really like to go to art school and be an illustrator or learn to do the animations for cartoons but that I'm also sort of interested in pharmaceuticals so I might just settle for being a pharmacist for more money. She said definitely go with pharmacist. I'm worried about hating myself for not going to art school just so I can have more money because I know that I'll be better off in a pharmacy. And yes, yes I've heard that I can do my art "on the side" or in "my free time" but God I want to go to art school but no one will support me because they think it's not a good job and then I'll be a broke 25 year old with an art degree. (link)
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For one being you're so young, finding out prices for college seems a bit silly but down the line it will come in handy. However you're young and have your whole life ahead of you. Your family just want ugly to have a happy and secure life. But with that meeting said as you get older you'll also realize that making decisions should be based off what makes you happy. Go to art school. I once heard if you love find a job you love doing , then you'll never work a day in your life. Meaning go to art school if art is in your heart draw,paint,sketch. People who are artists don't all make money but they aren't all broke. In fact artists make good money and especially in today's world you can be anything you want to be. What's the point in being a pharmacist and your heart isn't in dying that. You want a career not a job. A job is something you do because you have to. A career is something you do because you want to. I hope this helps. Who knows maybe one day your art will be in an exhibit.
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This whole day I've been crying on and off since my boyfriend(19) is going to be leaving for college in less than a week... I'm a senior(17) in high school and I'm really looking forward to graduate... But not the in between. I cant imagine going to school without him and I feel like I'm going to be so lonely. We are still planning to date throughout this coming year and I'm planning to go to the same college...
However, on top of all of this I get really scared he will find someone more prettier or more positive than me. He says hes not but I get really scared. I just really love him.
Please do not say that its just young love since its way more than that... I've lost my virginity to him and we've been dating for a while and I love everything about him. If anyone has been through the same situation I would thoroughly enjoy some help! Even if you haven't, I really need all the help I can get. (link)
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It's ok to be worried or even scared about your boyfriend being away. I have a long distance relationship ship my boyfriend is a truck driver(23). I (20) worry too because anything can happen. But you gotta have trust in your boyfriend and you gotta believe in what you have for eachother Will over power any temptations he may face in college. Does your bf worry that you'll meet someone while he's away? Im pretty sure he's worried about losing you too. But the love that you give him, probably makes he secure to where he's not worried. Everything will turn out fine. Be loving and supportive of his move to college. Everything will ne fine just keep in touch with him..
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Weve been best friends for 3 years now and im glad i have her. But she never seems to be happy for me. No matter what i do, to her she can do it better. She always has to one up me. And copy me. Anytime i say i want a new piercing she says eww and sometimes like that wont look good on you. But then a couple days later she will tell me that she wants that piercing that she said eww to. She has to steal all of the attention. No matter where we go she always puts herself first it seems. When me and my bf broke up she didnt help me at all. I would try talking to her about it and she would ignore me like i wasnt even talking and start talking about her an her bf. Then when they broke up and i would try talking to her about me and my bf she would always change it on her and say that her bf did all the same thing and i dont know what it feels like to have that happen. She pretty much said im not hurt and if i was it wasnt even close to how bad she was. Which really pissed me off. Obviously she had no idea how hurt i was because she wouldnt take the time to listen to anything i had to say. I just got my cosmetology license and am now working at a salon. You know what she said when i: graduated from beauty school; passed my stateboard; got my license..? "Good". Then started talking about herself. I showed her my business cards i got and she ignored it. I showed her all my stuff that i bought for the salon. She ignored that too. My license just came in the mail and i showed her that. She ignored that. Like excuse me for being excited and wanting to tell my best friend about it. And im saying i think she is jealous because she copies me. Now all she has talked about is now shes going to beauty school and that she payed way more than i did for school stuff. She said it costed her 2000 dollars which i know is a lie. How do i know? because i went to beauty school too!! she doesnt like to see me making something of myself. There are people i dont even know all excited for me saying congratulations and theyre happy for me! But all my best friend says is good?? Honestly ive been telling her stuff about me working now just to see what her response will be. Its always just oh or she doesnt even respond. I mean if she was doing something like this id definitely be all excited for her!! its a big deal! but nope she acts like im not doing anyhthing. I went through hell to get where i am now. Beauty school was not all that. I was depressed,thought about killing myself, didnt talk to anybody because what i was going through at the time and having to go to school 8:30-5 monday through friday. Did she know anything about that? No because she wouldnt listen. It was always about her. And i have already tried talking to her about her not caring about anything i have to say but nothing changes. I just dont know why she would be like this. (link)
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Something has happened in her life to always want that attention. Most likely she is jealous. I have a friend exactly like that.whenever i wanna talk about anything she puts it down or ignores me. It does make you feel crappy. But a friend like that doesn't deserve you. If the only thing she brings to your friendship is negativity then she shouldn't be your friend. If you told her about what she does and how she makes you feel.And doesn't care to change move on.it hurts but you deserve a friend to be as awesome as you are. Focus on your goals. If you still can't believe that she's jealous think about is she an only child? Or her family isn't always there. There's.something in your life she wants and because you have whatever it may be she always tries to brag or put you down because that makes her feel better about whatever it is that she doesn't have. I hope this helped
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I am looking into creating a natural way to remove
Bad scents from a carpet.
So lots of sites online recommend baking soda. Heres my issue. Baking soda doesn't seem to exist in the uk. On shelves its either bicarbonate of soda or baking powder. Which one is 'baking soda' ?
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In the uk they call baking soda Bicarbonate of Soda .its funny how they say things different. -
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